Catfish // Access Denied

today y'all we're gonna talk about we we're in the second week of catfish if y'all love that online i church we love y'all so much i love you my eye church i love you everybody that is tuning in right now all over social media it's our biggest church and i'm thankful so i got a little i'm gonna start off with a joke because we're talking about catfished and today my sermon title is called access denied that's my sermon series for today uh the the message title there was a wife and she says look at that drunk guy the husband says who is he the wife says ten years back he proposed to me and i rejected him the husband said oh my god he's still celebrating [Music] he says he's still celebrating my mama leaned over at me she said looks like yours are still celebrating too i said mimi my mama always pulling me back you know what i'm saying he is a drunk by choice [Laughter] so listen i gotta tell you today that i have told myself in this season listen i tell myself in this season all the time now listen i need permission to pursue how many of us are in the position we're in right now because we are moving without permission because when god doesn't come through on time all of a sudden we move and settle and then we try to get god to change the diagram or the dir or the storyline right so stop allowing critics to talk you out of your future stop allowing the people that you have invited into your world that had nothing to do with god's permission you never ask him that's why some of the relationships haven't worked in your life because you never ever ask him and all of a sudden now you're praying god get him get him lord god get her and he's saying you never asked me one time for permission if that was the one you you married her boobs you married her thighs you may what you should have went to kfc but it said you over here look i you never ask me right and so what ends up happening is the enemy knows that relationships are what causes us is my mic messing us up today is it is it good we are allowing ourselves to allow these counterfeits to come in our lives and then all of a sudden what happens is they begin to be the downfall to our future so this series is all about waking up and taking inventory what does this even mean an act of waking up is an act or moment of becoming suddenly aware of something and changing it anybody in here that feel like every season of your life looks the same but with different faces different scenarios right you keep leaving a church because they ain't giving you the word every preacher you all you left every church because they ain't giving you the word they all ain't giving you the word every time you go to a new job that all the gossips end up at your table you're the first one if we need to know about t we're going to come to you right because you're the prayer warrior that loves to tell everybody's business so y'all can pray gossip see so often what we don't realize is we're the common denominator right when you find yourself in the same situations then what ends up happening is you are the common denominator and i want to talk about that today because the greatest thing you think about yourself is still lower than the floor of what god thinks about you the greatest thing the greatest thing on your vision board the greatest idea man i don't know when i start losing weight y'all can't tell me y'all know i got selfies out there i ain't never put selfies up in my life why because i just dropped 40 pounds why because the greatest version of me when i put my strength with god's strength they're still just the floor of what god wants to do in my life and so he's over here telling you today i need you to take inventory and do your part because god ain't gonna take the ho ho out of your mouth god's not gonna take you off of the same dating app that's gotten you catfished 15 times right why because you lied all in the profile eharmony can allow you to take the this this projective uh uh diagram of who you are but if you don't even like who you are you will lie on the diagram and then you wonder how come you've been married five times or you can't keep no friends if you died ain't nobody coming to your funeral right they ain't gonna even put a facebook memorial page up when you die because we wonder how come we're in this place of feeling so defeated but it's because we've allowed the counterfeits in our lives to become talk speak to us and tell us who we are and then what's happening is our floor is the limit because of the people that we've allowed in our lives and so some of y'all need to go through your phones today some of y'all need to go through my my mic is really disturbing me so i'm gonna take it off cause y'all know i'm adhd with a lot of h and every time i say something it's going boom boom boom so i'm going to need you to come take this off i'm sorry y'all we just do everything in front of everybody because i i need this word to get out thank you so much you hear it boom hear it boom y'all hear it boom i hear it thank you thank you valerie i'm adhd with a lot of h and i will hear the boom some of us need to go through our phones some of us need to go through our computers some of us need to go through some things in our lives and delete some people in our lives that are causing us to conform it says in romans 12 2 this is one of my scriptures this morning it says do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of what i can't hear you it says be transformed by the renewing of your mind that means you got to take inventory you got the last few months of this year you got to ask yourself what behaviors have you picked up on because of the people that you are associated with because of the people that you've allowed i am not going to be conformed are any of your relationships unhealthy ask yourself this are any of your relationships unhealthy bible-based advice for how to tell and how to cut them off you ready for this who's slowing you down who's slowing you down who every time you get in their presence you feel like a turtle sucking peanut butter or you feel like you got to go take a shower right how many relationships are we in that we got in because we got tired of waiting on god and invited these counterfeits and when you started it god didn't look at abraham and sarah they allowed hagar hagar sometimes whenever you allow yourself to become god in your life in relationships you invite people in your world because and god didn't tell you to and those people are around forever why because you become baby mamas and baby daddies and then what ends up happening like hey bar she was in this situation forever when god had plans to bless her with even more bless her down the road because a lot of times when you're waiting god is preparing you for where he's taking you but then when you get in the way of god then you've got to spend the rest of your life trying to navigate through the counterfeit now the good thing about god i ain't trying to devastate y'all cause some of y'all like oh dear jesus i got five baby daddy it's okay if you learn how to love who god created you to be you can navigate i'm gonna show you how to do it listen come here mama come here mama come here carla come here mama come see me this is why it's important who you get in your life come on up come on up now i want y'all to stand flat-footed like this i want you to stand like this and meet me i want you to stand right here step put your arm in i need you to work with me put it smile yeah okay put your put your arm like this all right now now pastor car my mama is solid my mom is solid as a rock my mama gets up she prays every day she is powerful she's pleading the blood of jesus over this car she's a boss right pastor carla is sorta pastor carla is still struggling in some areas of her life pastor carla is one day up one day down one day she's blaming her daddy for things in her life and one day she's not so what we see is they come and they link arms now mimi's mimi's growing in her walk with god but pastor carla is in one day and she wants a full-time guy on a part-time relationship so what ends up happening mama you stay flat-footed stay flat-footed like you do in exercise class now pastor carla is like this now see me me me mimi's got it right mimi is powerful but because pastor carla is still unstable in her walk because she's still linked over here with pastor carla pastor carla is causing her disruption in her life that she ain't got to be disrupted in so mimi can be flat-footed all she wants but if she still stayed linked with people that's in her past that ain't willing to sell out for god then she is gonna drag me me it don't matter how flat-footed you are what you are what you lit yeah see you don't change the devil the devil changes you this is why some of you that was perfect i did not tell them even what i was going to do see what happens is when you begin to grow and then you keep holding on to people that ain't growing with you then all of a sudden you're trying to be jesus in certain people's lives and wondering how come you ain't got no peace but it's because you are allowing people to suck the life out of you that ain't even your assignment everybody is not your assignment that's why you're tired um illegitimate issues in our lives due to getting connected to the wrong people allowing things in our lives i love proverbs 4 23 i say it all the time proverbs 4 23-27 it says guard your heart above all else for it determines the course of your life listen to me you understand when you start getting walls anybody feel like you've got some walls erected you don't trust nobody you ain't got to raise your hand but you don't trust nobody you ain't got no friends let me tell you why because you allowed illegitimate relationships in your life that broke you down in such a way when god created you he created you for relationships when god created you he created some churches with some holy ghost fire preachers to push you to break through and not break down god created relationship to move you into your destiny he created relationship to push you to your breakthrough and not your breakdown but the problem is you are allowing the illegitimate relationships in your life from your past the toxic relationships that you picked up in your brokenness to stop you from being able to get connected in a church or at your job or anywhere because you're comparing your future in your past they broke me so i'll never trust nobody else you want a big old burly man so bad to be married to but you won't because you you married an illegitimate one over here before and he broke your heart but when god is in it come on god will bring double for your trouble hebrew brings brand new things for your ashes guard your heart because out of it flows the issues of life avoid all perverse talk you know you're in illegitimate relationships when every time you gotta leave them you feel like you yo you gotta take a shower you ain't talking about well i don't know how to tell them to stop talking about people tell them if they got nerve to talk about people to you you are bold enough to tell them to hush their mouth people come talk to me try to talk to me about people i say hold on let me get them on the phone because i think you need to tell them this because they can't fix it if you don't tell them right it says don't don't allow perverse conversation stay away from corrupt speech look straight ahead stop looking at your rear view mirror fix your eyes on what lies before you that's why some of your relationships ain't working in friendships or your marriage because you're making somebody pay for something they didn't even do this dude ain't got a cheating bone in his body but because your ex did it you never healed from them now you're making somebody pay for something they didn't do you gotta stop looking back they're not your daddy stop putting them in a position where they got to pay it says mark out a straight path for your feet stay on the safe path well how do i know get plugged in at limitless get in the connect groups that we've got for you all you lonely people that ever so often have to get online to try to find you a boo thing to fix an urge we got a connect group for you every single day to fill the void of needing to go nay-nay to help you pray pray get to a church that can remind you there's something about accountability when i want to get in my feelings i remember i got a whole million people or so that is expecting kimberly to stay focused i can't allow myself to be hanging with people with bad reputations i can't be hanging with people that are messy and not anointed i can't afford myself to be taking selfies with people that have bad reputations why because birds of a feather flock together and if i'm in a picture with you people think i'm just like you and you are not my assignment to make your character get spotless that's yours but you ain't bringing me down in the process of your messiness your character no no no we we're not going there why because i worked too hard to find my way i've worked too hard to fix my mess i was a trailer i was i'm y'all i was jacked up do you hear me i was such a mess and when i got out of the mess and began to walk forward let me just tell you something all the people that didn't grow with me got left behind and i could not feel bad for the people that didn't grow when they had a chance to grow people get mad at you for cutting you off when they handed you the scissors that ain't being nasty i'm saying a good heart it says guard your heart guard your heart means i ain't letting you do this to me again you ain't doing this to me again well what would jesus do he would let them be someone else's headache i'm not it you don't respect me you don't honor me and so therefore you got to go to somebody that you do and it ain't with me because i'm walking into 2022 strong this church is proof that god can do something in six months that would normally take 40 years what we have done in the last six months i thought it was gonna take us out i looked at some things that were going on behind the scenes and i said god we ain't never gonna make it he said trust me even when you can't trace me i am cleaning house i am moving uh-uh i am moving some things i am speaking to some people that ain't even in your vicinity yet what god is doing he's got your name being mentioned in rooms that ain't even seen your face yet wow it's in the room your name is already being discussed in circles they gonna see you in a dream they're gonna come across you on facebook they're gonna say oh this is my next season i have learned something about god that he don't need your family he don't need your bff he don't need people to support what he has put his hands on when god is on your life he will bring complete strangers to support the call of god on your life here's my question to you today what are you waiting on here here here here i gotta hurry i gotta hurry how do you know how do you know listen the wrong person will kill your dreams you hear me the wrong person will kill your dreams if you date a bomb you're going to be a bum facts the only time you're gonna ever change a human being is in their diaper having his baby ain't gonna change him buying her a bigger diamond ain't go i wouldn't marry a woman that says if i don't get a 10 carat dominate marrying you by girl cause we're gonna build together i'm gonna need you to build with me because if we build together we both respect it you ain't my trophy you are my companion we are fighting this thing together it ain't about your 401k you ain't my financial plan we are in this journey together and if we start together we will fight together [Music] i'm telling you something how do you know that you need to part ways thank you for asking i got five minutes there's constant strife and division constant strife and division you're asking people for constructive criticism that ain't constructed nada you're asking people how to swim that are drowning i need to see your fruit i am a fruit checker well what does that look like i'm going to go all the way back in your timeline now you're going to be hiding some of your timeline i'm going back and i want to see how far you've come in the last two years you might have been ratchet in this season and now you're righteous i need to see that your growth plan has been consistent i need to see who's liking your post i need to see who's on your friend list i need to see why because i need to make sure that we're going in the same direction we ain't playing in this next season why because if i hang out with broke people i'm gonna be broke hey girl you got any more money on your food stamp credit card can i borrow some huh i'm gonna need some friends they can say hey i got a new recipe for those roll my noodles because this is just a season not a sentence oh girl yeah have you wrote in your journey journal today i need some people that are gonna remind me of where i'm going and not where i've been i need some people that pick up the phone in the morning and say i just feel like i need to prophesy to you where you're going it's not even close to the vicinity of what i'm about to do in your life i hear the lo here here here not not girl not today oh yeah today because today is your day to walk through that door that you've been staring at in fear i need you to blow your faith up constant stride constant division first there will be constant strife and division amos 3 3 ask us can two walk together unless they are agreed a healthy relationship is one in which there is oneness of goals purpose values and beliefs that's why you can't get nobody unequally yoked in friendships as well you can't why because they need nan over here on friday night you of you're saying come on get my connect group oh i can if i get back from the bar quick enough they ain't getting back from the bar you got to get people that want it you got to get people that are going somewhere and i ain't talking about religious spirit i'm talking about you becoming so contagious of god that when you walk into a room you ain't even got to open your mouth your presence shifts an atmosphere at your job that meanie that you keep complaining about every day you've been in the healing line trying to get that woman because she is ratchet if you start putting some some war some oil on it and you begin to prophesy when you walk into that room and you begin to smile you will change an atmosphere equally yolked well i'm praying you know kim he's the best man ever you know i'm 50. i've been waiting forever the problem is you ain't been waiting you've been dating you wasted 40 years on a joker come along mayor common law marriage is not marriage you got all these babies with that man and you ain't got his last name but they do you carried the kid you birthed the baby you got the stretch marks you got the c-section scar your body ain't never gonna be on fleek like it was before but you ain't worthy of having his last name [Music] boy bye bye that's the same thing with your friends the only time they call you is when they need food because they know you're going to pay they got you on a whole layaway plan making you feel less than and if somebody calls at the last minute they put you out again oh no bye listen to me here's your homework i want you to go on your social media pages and i want to see who's amen and you the loudest messy malory i'm so proud of who i've become because this church is an example of me if your pastor's messy your church is messy it's not uh i kept saying i'm gonna smile more in my sermons cause i always look me what you are is what your social media looks like i had to take an inventory a couple of months a few months back i said no this is not who i am it was who i used to be but until i can shake up some things and let some things go that scared me to death and walk on water be a faith walker i had to go look if you were gossip your page is full of gossipers this council culture go look at them they're all connected to the same meanies they can't stand their lives so they try to tear other people down that got what they want judging you off the color of your skin if you're a man hater you got a whole bunch of men hating women on your post and guess what when you get to heaven guess who's got to stand before god on that you oh but i ain't no preacher oh but you are an evangelist and all these posts you putting up bleeding on people speaking out of blood bloody bath hatred unforgiveness all the people that you're leading to make them hate men too that offense that you keep walking around with that you keep putting unfair offense on people because they didn't validate you the way you think they should every other second man i got my feelings hurt but that ain't nobody's fault but yours you gotta get yourself healed man when i look at my inner circle it is the most loving thousands of the most loving people on the planet there ain't no trauma why because i'll cut it off in a minute because the enemy comes to steal kill and destroy i don't let my eyeballs read ugly comments i don't let my eyeballs read and watch tv things that i shouldn't be watching and and do when i let my spirit get vexed well that's a boring life that's my life and honey i'm living the best freaking life ever [Applause] god i love my life why because i've got myself with jesus greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world i could do all things through christ who strengthens me chaos and confusion is not of god delight yourself in me and i will give you the desires of your heart maybe the reason he hasn't given you the desires of your heart is because you're not ready for that place you're praying for stand on your feet delight yourself and me i'm talking to some people today that needed the nudge because beyond the open door there's a new and fresh anointing anything that keeps you up at night is not of god anything that gives you panic attacks is not of god anything that makes you up and down is not of god talking to that woman that ain't your wife is not of god talking to that man that is not your husband is not of god you should never be given information or counsel to people that are not your spouse it ain't none of their business what's going on in your marriage it ain't your mama's business what your husband's doing it ain't your mama's business what your wife is doing what happens is yours stop asking people for opinions that ain't living in your shoes you can't tell me how to tie my laces if you ain't walked in my shoes what does that mean i gotta get around people that are where i wanna go so you're gonna go home and you're gonna search your phone who's that person that every single time you get a breakthrough they call you or they text you loser there are people that literally get google phones just to send you nasty texts they do it to me i'll talk spanish back to them don't know who you is who you try i believe i will then i'll block you blocking is a blessing it don't mean i hate you it means i'm guarding my heart because it hurt me because i really loved you so what do you need to do today that gets you out of the catfish relationships so that you can walk in the abundance that god has for your life y'all one year ago i was not where i am i i threw off soul ties brokenness anger i was over here waiting on god to do things in my life and he was waiting on me to let go of the things that i needed to let go of so today that's what you're going to do beyond the open door that's where you're walking this week blessing upon blessing upon blessing you're not gonna be able to keep up are y'all ready for that are you ready for it are you ready for it are you ready for faith to be a faith walker are you ready to be a game changer at your work are you ready to be a hell shaker you are a hell shaker you were created in your family to be the generational curse breaker you are the one in your family yes it may run in your family but when it hit you and you walked into limitless church now you realize that my children don't got to walk through what i've walked through because i'm the generational curse breaker so on the count of three what i want you to do wait first i want to give i'll give you permission i'll give you a second to give your heart to jesus if there's anybody in this place today and you say man i've wondered i've left god you got to know who jesus is because the same power that raised jesus from the dead lives right here you got the power to lay hands on somebody and they walk but you can't have faith in fear your heart's got to be right you can block your blessings y'all by walking in unforgiveness who do you need to let go of today when you forgive you ain't got to welcome them back in your heart in their in your life you just forgive them why ain't forgiving them kim i hope they die i've been praying for god to kill him with the train every night he ain't done yet he's not they're his kids too your time's over with them that's all so if you're in this room and you need to know who jesus is just lift your hand up as high as you can if you know who jesus is come on i want you just to repeat this thing after me say father everybody online drop a one if you're giving your heart to jesus right now we had 49 people give their hearts to jesus last week y'all 49 dropped a one [Applause] we're immediately getting them plugged into connect group say father forgive me of all my sins forgive me for thinking that i was unworthy of your forgiveness of your love of your wholeness in my life fill me from the top of my head to the soles of my feet with electrifying holy ghost jesus juice now god make me a vessel i say yes to you in jesus name now on the count of three i want you to scare your neighbor are you ready are you ready i want you to let out the biggest roar that is your praise and just say yes you ready for this one two three [Applause] that was your that was your that was your practice that's your practice because this is going if there's anything anything's still left there it's gonna fall off right now you're ready one two three [Music] yes you're gonna be game changers go show limitless love this week get in the connect group and i'm so honored that i got to be with you today i love you all so much you

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Length: 33min 30sec (2010 seconds)

Published: Wed Aug 18 2021