Body Language Tricks Men Should Know

look 70 of your communication is non-verbal meaning how you move says a lot more than what you use with your mouth this is why as a man these seven body language tricks every guy should know for example how you enter the room let me show you so many guys this is this is the room right you got you got a crowd imagine there's a lot of people here they'll walk in immediately go to a corner where they feel comfortable they put their back against the wall shoot you can't even see me because that's what most of you dudes do your back's against the wall that's you that's you nah bro now absolutely not we're gonna do it again right when you walk in head high shoulders back you're looking you're smiling hello hello you're making contact you don't have to do the arm thing what I'm saying is you're making eye contact with people in the room you're smiling and you go into the heat of it all I'm talking dead center right you're making that eye contact you can go up and start greeting people it's if it's a if it's a networking event you can introduce yourself who you are what you do blah blah blah blah if it's a friend of a friend group you can introduce yourself especially like weddings this happens a lot oh whose side are you on and then you start to talk about what you guys do look the point is when you go into a room you walk with confidence it takes you to number two how you sit and how you stand you can tell a lot about a man when it comes to this so many guys go find a chair and they'll cramp themselves up they'll do the same thing when they stand super tight nah absolutely not take the space you need your power stance is shoulder width apart we know this in weightlifting right every major lift you're usually shoulder width apart because that's where your strongest that's where you're planted right you got that good base nobody's gonna push you over visually that's what you want to see you look powerful you look dominant so always keep your feet shoulder width apart sit the same way if you need to man spread a little bit it's okay to man spread and claim the space that you need obviously do keep in mind if it's a crowded room you know be conscious but for the most part you have the room you can take it eye contact number three powerful powerful and every conversation male or female I don't care you keep that eye contact A good rule of thumb because I know some of you are thinking man it's so awkward just staring yeah it is awkward if I just hold my eyes here you gotta be fluid with it see like you're moving around I'm gonna do it about 80 of the time I do it when I'm talking to you with videos I gotta look to the side I think a little bit usually horizontally right I'll never look down and then back to you you can do this with conversation as well and if you're just getting you so I just did it there without me even thinking about it because most of the time you're not going to be locked in 100 of the time that's just creepy you're going to want to be fluid with it right you're comfortable but you're looking the person in the eye and a good trick to do put on the sunglasses I've told you time and time again you put on a physical blocker and it acts it acts like a shield don't ask me why you feel it immediately I I'm already feeling a little bit more attractive that confidence boost it's felt right but the physical blocker itself gives you more confidence to be able to connect with people so you don't feel as awkward you know this is is why glasses it's a powerful accessory that if you do not have you're missing out they make you look more attractive they make you look more stylish and it is a body language hack especially if they're Shades if they're Shades you're adding a an air of mystery to your aesthetic which bro that is desirable so you know what I'm gonna hook it up for you if you guys go to Jade black which is our brand our stuff uses Italian handmade acid some of the best materials in the world if you go to Jade black right 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what they could potentially behind it yo that happened to me I I've talked about this before a guy actually pulled out a gun on me he was wearing a hoodie and lo and behold he came with his hands in his pocket like this and out of there he pulled a Glock the point is you never know what people are hiding that's why we feel so insecure when we see Hands being hidden and their men are approaching us that's why you need to do the opposite when I'm talking to you use your hands as you speak you can add more Charisma as you talk you can add more value to your to your conversation on top of when you're exposing your palms or using open hand language you're adding trustworthiness and that that makes you more likeable fine pause literally in the middle of conversation it doesn't matter what you're doing pause Hey kid bro this works at any time romantically with for a comedic effect for a dramatic effect use the pause but what the pause does is it puts you in the driver's seat of the conversation you are now in control and you look more confident it also allows you to think see if let's say you were throwing a difficult question you need to think a little bit see now that now they're doubting why they threw that difficult question at you now they are insecure even though they asked you the question but all you're doing is not only one breaking them down you're thinking of a good ass response you're adding dramatic effect and you're looking confident you can do this anywhere six avoid fidgeting see fidgeting is usually a sign of insecurity and anxiety it almost never looks good and this is coming dude I have ADD so I'm always fidgeting playing around touching things that's just what I do I'm always distracted right but you need to understand how body language is perceived and in social interactions when your leg is shaking right when when you can't stop moving it's usually that you're nervous it's usually that you're anxious and the best thing you could do especially if you are feeling anxious is go back to a feeling of something good a moment where you felt good warm inside I don't know maybe your mom making your hot chocolate on Christmas Eve whatever the memory is think of that it relaxes your nerves a little bit and it helps you control your body mechanics ultimately rolls us to number seven raise your chin up expose your left side this is key see what this does is scientifically proven shows off the best facial side of that you have but it also makes you look more confident too many guys walk with their chin down or tucked in you need to be up here right Chin's almost pointing outwards this is where you're at almost all the time you look taller you look more dominant you look more confident and it gives you that jawline definition which is going to make you look better

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Length: 7min 8sec (428 seconds)

Published: Thu Sep 15 2022