Becoming a 3% Man | Special Interview with Coach Corey Wayne | 21 Live

and howdy folks I'm Anthony dream Johnson your favorite president of the manosphere Gary today of the special interview for 21 live with Bruce Wayne's third cousin coach Cory Wayne YouTube's top coach Cory welcome to showman thanks man thanks for having me absolutely man it's been good meeting you we met about a week ago now yep and I got to be interviewed by you at Wayne Towers as I call them downtown Orlando that was a good time man thanks man one for like three hours so it was a front that was impressed yeah my neck was pretty jacked up cuz I'd spent about three hours before interview and dr. Dominic Deanne and just sit there the whole time like this looking at him and so I was about six hours straight when he worked on me the next day my neck was all jacked up and cranked over cool so we got a lot of good footage show so for those of you don't know coach Cory Wayne he's a big youtuber up and coming and he's getting for an individual youtuber he's huge he's about to break 400,000 subscribers I think any day now he's big an Instagram but mostly YouTube is where you'll find them and I've been following his content for years but personally a little bit and then my friends that keep recommending his videos to me a lot of fans too been requesting him as a speaker the 21 convention we'll see if that happens he's also an author self-published how to be a three-percent man this is his first book second edition and you have another book as well mastering yourself yep master yourself came out in 2018 it's more of a figuring out your purpose in life quality of life things I going to health go through my whole life story there's a lot of business stuff in there marketing stuff because these are all things that I get into with with my clients and by having all that stuff done in book format yeah you know that way they can read it and learn that stuff ahead of time and then we can be more efficient the phone let's back up a second or so you've been on YouTube since 2012 11 he was 2011 I did my first video and I've been blogging for several years before that writing and on your website understanding relationships Tom yeah so but you weren't always doing this obviously I've you know without 2011 you started YouTube and blogging the mid before that before all that you were in real estate and again for that you've been a lifelong entrepreneur yeah well my parents were entrepreneurs they were in that coin laundry business you know my dad even to this day still has to coin laundries that do very well he started out doing like I was a kid in middle school we were doing a lot of hotel accounts what we're doing sheets and towels from like you know we had two big hotels and this is all in Florida you grew up in yep yeah South Florida Pompano Beach area of Nashville area and the West Coast got myself Paul Meyers for misery they called for misery kid kid coma one of my high school buddies was from there and he actually lived with in your senior year with one of my other friends that I went to high school with because obviously he liked it over in pop no Fort Lauderdale a lot better yeah but you know my background is I'm on the Builder I'm an engineer I went to school for construction management so I'm an engineering background and I used to work in the construction industry I work for three different companies before I started my own the last one was a company called syntax Rooney and the 90s they were part of syntax construction group okay which at the time they were the largest builder in the world and we worked at the Coronado resort of Disney World which is like 2,000 rooms 300,000 square footage pretty amazing project if you're ever at Disney it's beautiful place to stay it's got a replica of a Mayan pyramid with waterfalls going down the stairs and stem and smoke and stuff coming off I think I said there was a kid yeah pretty cool place nice so I did that and then I you know my I started on that path when I was 18 because I have my whole goal was I just want to buy fixing sell single-family homes for a profit so to be clear here you've been an entrepreneur your entire adult life yep nice I could say the same as well and that's unusual that's rare so that was the path I didn't start my first company till 96 your early 20s yeah so it would have been 26 years old at the time close enough yeah so I figured at the time I had enough experience in the business and I was you know I was tired I wanted to get out of the corporate world yeah and they were getting ready to ship me off to another job anyways cuz most of the stuff I was in charge of was mostly done and coordinated and I really didn't want to move anywhere and it just you know I had that internal eh inside that was telling me that it's time to move on and do what I the whole reason why I got in to construction management and the industry is learn how to build because when I start flipping houses I can do a great job fixing a mob that kind of thing well it sounds like giving from building houses to building relationships well it really started out as a hobby to help myself when I was in you know I think the first quote that I memorize when I was in sixth grade well and I could even I remember it to this day one of my my buddies and I was in sixth grade with he had a quote in the back of his folder and it said there is a point in which you can only see so far when you reach that point you can see further live one day at a time and make it a masterpiece come and so I that kind of started a lifelong fascination with self how personal growth you know studying biographies of famous successful people yeah before we went live you told me that you were into you know were listening Tony Robbins his personal power tapes and things like that interviews back in like the early 90s yeah well late 80s early 90s they said you couldn't turn on a TV without seeing a Tony Robbins commercial and the flow be and some of those other things it was like a vacuum cleaner attachment that you just kind of vacuum the hair and the suction of the vacuum would cause these blades to spin so when your hair got sucked into the thing it would chop it off and make it the right length then Tony Robbins was was on and I remember was up late one night and I was I think in my fifth year at college mmm and I was thinking me and I all my buddies were graduating coming home in here I I still had at least another two years to go of school because I'm dropping classes that were hard and and it wasn't until I went through Tony Robbins work that I realized how I was mentally sabotaging myself because I was afraid to find out if I was smart enough to pass calculus yeah and some of the physics and some of the other classes that I had to take and you ended up getting a degree in engineering yeah well I structure management was in the college of engineering design so I had to have a lot of engineering classes together if you're building a skyscraper you got to understand how the moment and inertia and you know the strength of concrete and the tensile strength of rebar and weight are the stuff is yeah because you got to figure this stuff out because if your columns aren't big enough the billing I'll collapse one of our speakers as I mentioned is a civil architect you know Socrates and I hear a lot about this I know a couple engineers two guys my age on to school with and stuff so tough stuff man yeah so that you know I just started saying self up because I wanted to be successful I went to my parents the best thing that they ever did for me was they sent me to a Catholic High School Cardinal block high school Fort Lauderdale and well you know I'm just a blue-collar middle class type type LT huh yeah exactly so I'm going to school with all these rich kids are driving Porsches and stuff to school and you know I'm driving a ten-year-old Toyota and hanging out with these guys and what what struck me was that they're just regular you know I didn't feel inferior when I would hang out with them or their parents I I recognize that they're just regular people yeah there had to be something different they were doing that enabled them to be way more financially successful than the average person and so I just started studying self felt more especially to figure out what was why was it I kept dropping all these classes and I couldn't get over the hump yeah and after going through Tony Robbins personal power tapes what I realized that I was so afraid of failing and that my because my mother's way of trying to motivate me was you know you're never gonna amount to anything you're gonna turn out just like your aunt Mary and she long her sisters and and so as a negativity basically yeah that was her way of trying to motivate me and ice in back my mind I'm thinking what if she's right Todd and I don't get my degree in all his time I spent college is absolutely supposed to say this is not productive for you being successful in this kind of parenting well you could say turned out okay cuz part of the attitude because masculine energy grows through challenge and a part of it was like fuck you mom I'm gonna prove I'm gonna prove you Yeah right I'm gonna prove me wrong and and I was determined to figure it out you know cuz you're you know I was like 22 at the time and so I'm like I'm literally having the thoughts of myself that I'm gonna be a fucking loser the rest of my life and never never do what I want to do and have to settle for mediocrity or I'm gonna find a way and succeed and what clicked when I was going through Tony stuff was the my fear of failure and because people do more to avoid pain than they do to gain pleasure and so what I was doing was that when it came time to sit down and do calculus homework or physics or in the other classes I was dropping I would I didn't want to do it it didn't feel good because in the back of my mind I'm scared I'm not smart enough and so I would just kept putting off and put it off and you know two and a half weeks in the new semester you've got your first test and so like all right now I got a I got to stay home and cram this weekend and when you you're two and a half weeks behind in calculus and try to cram in a day it's not gonna work I go in there and I fail a first test because I wouldn't I'd see these problems I wouldn't recognize any of it and didn't understand it and what I what really clicked with me and I recognize when I was doing I was sabotaging my own success I kept putting things off and then it would just build up to this big mountain they know I'd try to cram and it would it just wouldn't work and then so I didn't up droppin a test or two and you know back then usually the professors would allow you to drop your worst test score so I would be the excuse I'd be coming up to the drop date or you can drop it and not get an F just a withdrawal basically yeah and I would just withdraw from the class and then figure I'll take it next semester and so I would take other classes that I enjoyed and I could pass no problem but at the end of the day if I stood in pass calculus I didn't get my degree gonna be able to get my general contractor's license that wouldn't be able to have a life I wanted so I learned to kind of reverse the psychology on myself instead of going oh wow friends is on tonight I'll watch that and then this weekend I'll study or Seinfeld those buzzers so you're 50 51 52 turn 50 okay nice Congrats halfway to 100 yeah thanks man fifty is a third of the way to 150 exactly do 50 is the new 30 for men I think you're fine yeah Michael Tamila is to live I'd like to live to be 150 just did okay you imagine how much change you'd be able to see a lot what would happen and who knows men with modern tech and if you have civilization doesn't fall apart like it's possible sure yeah so but it's as interesting as you're from such a different generation I mean you're 20 years ahead of me I'm 31 myself so hearing you you know watch friends and Tony Robbins tapes in the 80s I was in the you know I was born in 88 so this here has a year I graduated high school yeah wait I think we use a beer is good sex is great we're the class of 88 yeah yeah you saw the whole room no so let's there's a lot I want to get into with you with the limited time we have we got about another hour to go before we get into some political things I want to get into Trump stuff and other other issues tell me about the book how to be a 3% man what is a 3% man why is that important so what should I care the reason I well the book covers they pick up dating and a relationship it's like transitioning through all three phases because it's a different skill set for each you know if you're just picking up girls and taking them home and banging on it's you really only needed though basic seduction stuff yeah but if you meet a girl you actually want to date and enjoy hanging out with and listening to so you know if you don't get that transition right you're gonna fumble the football and she's got a friendzone you or blow you off or Seattle feeling or some of the disaster or disaster will happen yeah so I I wrote the book because it's basically based on my life story because I had to figure all this stuff out I certainly didn't learn anything from my parents as far as relationship goes cuz my mother was a psychotic schizophrenic I mean she literally flipped out I had a nervous breakdown when I was I was 19 I was in college and she was never the same again and my parents never hugged us they never said I love you they argued a lot my dad just sent from the TV and kind of drank beer and spaced out and zoned out and so like when it came to the dating world it's I had no skills I didn't know what to do and I didn't feel that you were in a culture that enabled you to otherwise learn about women and relationships is that about right I just well the just the idea was that there's something wrong with you if you can't get a date and you're just a broken human being and what kind of like friends man just friends and everybody's friends and all works out dude yeah yeah be friends first yeah friendly exactly for instance yeah yeah yeah so I knew that something was wrong and I got I got married in the mid-90s to a girl was my wife was awesome she was a great wife came from a really good family had a good relationship with her parents and her dad she was really into me and it could no we didn't have kids really married a year but it's like I like really loved her and I cared about her but I wasn't in love I didn't feel like a spiritual connection I didn't feel like the universe had destined us to be together I should have dated her for a few years and then when I move to Orlando you know we should have split up but I didn't know any better I mean you know where I'm gonna get information my parents or my grandparents or you know there's just nothing but dysfunctional relationships and in my family from my perception and guys that I knew they were really good with women they just knew what to do and they couldn't explain would just say things like just be a dick never you know that's kind of not helpful you know well it's better than being a nice guy yeah exactly but yeah it's pretty sure even the day that's that's not gonna get you very far just just being in being a dick about yeah yeah so I knew there were things I needed to learn and I always believed that we're spiritual beings having a human experience and there are no accidents in life I believe like we're talking bout the other day I believe in reincarnation yeah if I'm not surprised I wasn't wearing the soul I believe the soul is not gender-specific I believe in one life you might be a man the next life you might be a woman and race and all that other stuff it's it's kind of irrelevant it's really just the spiritual fleshy avatar if you will that our spirits inhabit as we're going through life it's like when you meet somebody and you feel like you've known them forever whether it's a guy you become friends with a customer or a woman that you date you know that is the universe's way the Divine's way of kind of it's like you recognize each other yeah all my my closest friends girls I've dated that were really good high-quality relationships and some of the women I've been friends lifelong friends with like my assistant who I've known for like 25 years do you identify with any organized religion today Buddhas yeah I was raised Catholic I study Catholicism I studied Islam I studied read the Koran the bhagavad-gita the what's the one that was honest into you know what I'm talking about the Jewish faith the Kabbalah rhythm Kabbalah and I just didn't I didn't resonate with that you know I would ask you know because we went to a Catholic High School so there were priests and nuns teaches and I would asking about things okay so what happens when a six-month-old baby dies does that baby go to hell or like well we don't really know it's like they just didn't have answers things that one of the answers to get a lot of questions yeah and I just didn't I didn't drive it he sound like a troublemaker Cory yeah well it just seemed like a lot of dogma to me and you know I'm a seeker I wanted I wanted an answer you know I was like that kid was always like but why yeah I'm not satisfied with what we don't know we just trust it's process quite an and why why is that yeah so huh I set out to figure it out and and part of that was studying you know these please traditional religious books yeah and you get a little bit from each one you start to see commonalities and that might have my own experiences and like I said I I wanted to have a spiritual connection with a woman where I felt like it was a soul mate type of thing but you know I don't believe that you still have one soul mate I believe you have multiple you can have multiple soul mates were likes it when you meet him you feel like you know him already and you talk and it's effortless I put this on my tinder profile all right let's one of the but one of the biggest things you say I think on your everything you do website you could channel everything you say life and correct me from wrong you say life is relationships that's it that's a big statement it's a philosophic statement talk to me about that why isn't life suffering why I learned that from one of my teachers is these gurus out in India Sri Amma Bhagavan okay he was the first one that it said that and as you have some competition people like Ron Petersen say a life is suffering and people say life is maybe the pursuit of happiness because a lot of competing ideas out there so I wanted to bring it up to ya so I look at life is relationships I mean everything is relationships with other human beings whether it's a woman you're trying to date and have a relationship with or your friends or your parents or your customers and at the end of the day it's all about influencing other people to help them give you what it is that you want and also you helping them get what it is that they want and so you know the reason I chose understanding relationships calm is because I my goal when I started this was not just to do dating and relationship stuff yeah is that that was just gonna be the first book in a series of books but it took so long to figure out where the right spot was to because if you go to the average guy I got a book it's gonna help you understand women yeah they're gonna look at you like you're nuts and yeah I don't have time for that I got to go to the gym or I got to work I get this I get that but as soon as the girl that they think is gonna be the next wife their love of their life friendzone zimmer goes now there's no chemistry there's no spark I just kind of think he was a friend yeah or the wife serves him with divorce papers or like where the hell was that guy's name in that book it was like dead bedroom and stuff like that what's that a dead bedroom if you heard of that now I have a dead bedroom marriage or long-term relationship or the sex dies so the bedroom is dead you know guys good if I heard of clients like yeah well someone's and years of that sucks all of the guys that I talked to they're married or in long-term relationships I'd say probably 90 95 percent of them are in counseling and therapy well and the therapist is pleading with the wife or the girlfriend please have sex with your husband or your boyfriend you got a call I'm gonna put out basically and actually have a book that's it it says first kill all the marriage counselors you might enjoy it well I mean it has its place for communication but they just they don't have the skillset they don't understand attraction they don't understand how to teach it and I'll do one phone session with a guy and it's just getting him to act masculine and be the leader again and start dating and courting his wife or his girlfriend properly and I mean the sex comes back like that whether it's a heterosexual couple or a gay couple or you know I coach a lot of lesbians as well because the the let most of the lesbians I talk to tend to be more masculine and they like feminine women they have the same exact problem that heterosexual guys have when their loyal friends don't want to sleep with him so I basically just teach him to act like the guy would act and I'll get an email after the phone session like we just had the best sex we've had in two years and they had sex in a year you know just because she started acting like the leader in the masculine so every relationship there's got to be a good strong sexual polarity between the masculine energy and feminine energy when they're too much alike it's it's like platonic it's friendship this is why we talked about feminism in the day in your interview you did with me and I believe that feminism is like a philosophy of zero they want is zero everything out they want is zero out masculinity the one is zero out femininity and the result is everything's that depolarized you know flatline kind of mess and it results in destroying relationships dead bedrooms all those dysfunctional crap fix you know so yeah well get in that later maybe here's another question I had because you you've done a really good you know after four years in the manosphere operating as a conference organizer and media publisher you know speeches and all that that we do early on I was a guy who would actually inject some level of political discussion even at a philosophic level I wasn't around Paul for example and the founder is the founding fathers and back in 2011-2012 I started talking about that and in the manosphere let's take a lot of people off because they try to keep it like a political and no politics at all but I fundamentally disagree with that and it wasn't just that I like these ideas I saw them as important now today we see the council culture and that has a big problem or a big conflict with like free speech freedom of speech right you know right that you have yeah it's like the you what you have is you have collectivism wrestling with individualism yeah the collectivist want everybody to be the same they were everything to be fair that's why I don't like billionaires because the reality is most people most average human beings don't want responsibility for their own lives they want they want to be mommy didn't babied and there's so much propaganda there's so many people in the news and the media that believe in communism and collectivism yeah that it sounds good it all I won't have to struggle I mean you probably remember during when Obama was running for his first term there was this woman who was on TV and they were interviewing her and she was saying you know I figured uh you know he's gonna be he's gonna pay my mortgage he's gonna put gas in my car he's gonna help me out so I figured I'll help him out and that's why I voted for him and she literally believed that if she voted for Barack Obama that all her problems are gonna be solved and she's gonna get a nice steady paycheck so he's like hey I'll just vote for this guy and then they went back to her during the next election and she's basically he didn't do shit for me nothing nothing change well color me surprised yeah so you know our whole country is built upon the individual and building up the individual and that's why I'm supporting between personal rights and personal responsibility absolutely we're all divine beings having a human experience and it doesn't you can be an atheist and not believe in God or not but at the end of the day the firt that's the second line of the Declaration of Independence says it's assumed that all men are endowed with certain inalienable rights that are on a inalienable rights that means it can't be separated from you they come from the Creator yeah so it doesn't matter if you don't believe in a deity the whole country the whole Republic the whole Constitution is based upon that premise I've always would create or it could be anything that you believe created you and that could be a simplistic as your parents or the Creator the simulation if you believe what a lot musk and his brother a think that movies is all computers in nature like something created you God nature minimum your parents your parents met they fucked and they made you at minimum know who created them and on back you know whatever yeah I've always took a dive only I'm a secular atheist Objectivist myself so yeah but what most fascinates me though is that you actually you're like me you have a large online platform and it's not dedicated to politics and social you know criticizing socialism things like that but you take time out of your business and out of your life and it even can cost you times like it has me have you stand up for what you believe in what cost me a shit ton of money talking about it I'm sure a lot of followers a lot of people who wants fuck you I'm gonna follow it's like I don't care you know everything I teach it's like the quotes on the back of the book and letting the people generally in tyranny and oppression the body and mind will vanish like evil spirits at the dawn of day it's if you understand that quote then you shouldn't be surprised that I talk about politics and individualism and gun rights and you know individual Affairs either the balls it takes and the audacity to stand up and integrate these different ideas but a lot of people would not see connection between your drawing connections basically between self-improvement self-help relationships personal responsibility individual rights and I firmly believe in doing that but most people don't most entrepreneurs are not going to do that that they think they should I recently for example Elliott Hulse is a big youtuber is you know couple million followers and he went full hardcore Trump MOG all that probably about I don't know two years ago not even and he lost a lot of fans pissed off a lot of people but he's all about it and he's like he's kinda like it get-get fuck it cost me money and cost me followers but he's doing what he believes in yeah and he's masculinity that's what a man does a man does what he must despite the consequences and you're like I don't think you're a dick about these issues you believe what you believe and you talk about it and they can either you know exit the video or watch it yours gonna keep fucking doing it so I love it man and so I think a lot more entrepreneurs should do that especially ones that have a media platform like you know obviously you don't really like a piece of shop it's not like you're putting like fucking you know twenty Trump's it's twenty Trump's times in your pizza story but you have an online business and a media put a medium machine you build and it's admiring to see that men I think the marriage could be a lot better place if more of entrepreneurs did that more of them are little by little it's like guys like us you know the yeah you know at the end of the day you're looking at about 60% of population they were herd mentality they're just gonna do what everybody else does and like we're talking about before we started filming only about three percent of the colonists were the ones that actually fought and support it won the American Revolution so we don't need everybody cuz most of people were just gonna do what everybody else a lot of people don't understand that like growing up I didn't that a little bit I learned in school about the American Revolution I didn't understand it was such a small minority such a small percent that actually fought and got that done mmm-hmm they were supportive a little bit you know by water culture to a degree but in that opposition to their the people who were the the remainders I guess we call now with Briggs hit the first brexit amazing they finally got that done but I think it was uh yeah I know when Stacy Winston Churchill or maybe was Thatcher said it sometimes you have to win battles more than once that's right you have to win the fight more than once so they brexit passed yeah but then the politicians who were all leftist and communists fought it and prevented it from happening and the you know like even Piers Morgan even though he was supportive of he was he was a remainer he was like we voted for this we law our sight loss you need to follow the will of the people yeah and I like the fact that he stood up for that because otherwise we don't have a democracy yeah a fucking dictators I did as interview I did interview with him obviously recently that me all people have seen and people think I don't like Piers Morgan even on the on the show his co-host Susanna was saying how to like them and I still like them I will have mixed views of him he's gone he's like a communist I don't like that yeah some of the views I don't agree with but yeah I mean you know as flippy-floppy as he can be sometimes I think he still has a pair of balls and he uses them mm-hmm the challenge feminism woke Nisour even common sense stuff like my country voted overwhelmingly Early's majority for leave and they need to respect that yeah yeah and this is so easy I think he has a degree of intellectual honesty that a lot of people don't see or they don't want to see and even my interview with him when he was coming at me and stuff I knew a lot of it was kind of like devil's advocate he's just bullshitting or not bullshitting but playing up the drama and playing like you know like the kind of angle yeah moving on you mentioned your big fan of Donald Trump you're 50 years old so you have a much I think higher altitude perspective on this phenomenon yeah we grew up when like in the early 80s there was a movie called the day after and there was another one at the UK made it was about nuclear war and how that like so we grew up like I think in elementary school we you know did drills where you have to get under your desk and kind of thing to protect yourself in case the Russians attacked us yeah and you know with the Red Menace I mean I grew up when Ronald Reagan was president yeah and you know we'd the way I looked at it and my generation looked at and I got a friend of mine that's from Berlin and it's like they were all glad when the wall came down and that communism collapsed because again there was collectivism socialism for the world destroyed every we don't you don't like communism you know I burn your bread do you absolutely not get free shit did different ecology could free whatever you want yeah and if they don't like you they just take you out into a field and put a 762 round in the backyard like do like these drugs were not that bad man the Bernie gulags are gonna be nice yeah I heard one of those Bernie supporters saying that the gulags weren't that bad if he wasn't as a supporter he wouldn't need to read was a staffer Alexander's son each end yes Holton each a project Veritas you could see that yeah yeah he wasn't as a supporter he works for the Bernie campaign you know some sort of staffer organization thing but you can tell cuz you wonder it's like how did so many people get killed in communism it's like all you gotta do is watch those Bernie bros talk about it and anybody that doesn't think like them if you can't be registered you should be killed they really believe that and anybody it's a collectivist socialist this you know because this you know the documentary that we did on socialism it's called socialism and capitalism whether you know socialism and capitalism with a question mark so let's go back to the 1800s where it actually started in the United States that colony called New Harmony Wow okay so it's so your YouTube channel you actually have even even more videos and we do we have about sixteen hundred on YouTube which is a lot you have over two thousand on your channel a little over 2,300 now I think yes point that's on a bunch of documentaries so we've done so far well yeah so most of your videos that were not documentaries they're mostly video coaching newsletters I think you call them right yeah video coaching newsletters and most some answering somebody's email yeah I'd say the majority of stuff is dating relationship pickup kind of questions guys are in Scituate situations with women they're just trying to figure out I'm able to read it and see their mindset what they're doing right what they're doing wrong pointing back to the book or you know where they're thinking is flawed tell them what to do differently and so that guy learns from it and everybody watch and that learns from it and you know I've got people that have been watch me for years I've learned my stuff and they started their own YouTube channels and done really what they told me the stories of the day during the interview that you had a guy subscribe your channel for five years I think and then you finally went out and bought your book yeah he told you you know thankful it's pretty common people follow follow me for years and years I think I had somebody tell me ever for me for eight years and just while at the damn book so yeah there's that somewhere to me at this point but hey here we are you know if here we are better late the number exactly be at your channel it's interesting is that you do mostly like we do mostly speeches and then we mix in like a podcast and interview sometimes you're mostly these video blogs are coaching newsletters then you mix in these pretty elaborate documentaries I think you have one right now in the Second Amendment on guns it's like a three-part documentary okay yeah the third part comes out Monday it's called the Second Amendment the gun solution where we look at countries like Switzerland where they have a really great you know there's only the top three countries in the world that have the most firearms in the population number one is the United States I think number is Sweden I mean Switzerland and the third one is Yemen Wow and Mahad is by far Switzerland is you know they don't have the problem with mass shootings and stuff that we do here in America because they started a young age it's because they're you know they were they're a small population in the government's goal because you know they've dealt with invasions throughout their history if everybody armed everybody trained people take their guns on their you know the kids when they're young start training with guns and people have mental issues and criminals are not allowed to own them yeah and you know it's very effective so we could look at some of the things that they're doing over there it's and part of what I'm doing with some of the you know the guys that I know like John and Manny Mania Palm Beach tactical and john of kinetic consulting is that I want to help get out into the culture that not only is it fun to shoot but it's your sacred duty it's the founding fathers intended that every single person had a weapon and be armed the militia that's what I call it the militia Jefferson has been quoted for that too I think that every young man should be and I believe that too that if you don't if you don't have a firing with you most of the time if not all the time it's irresponsible you need to take responsibility if you're on safety in your own life and you do that with a firearm yeah the police are 10 15 minutes away on a good day no matter where you are if somebody's kicked in your door three big guys with knives have kicked in your door and your wife is home or your girlfriend's home with your three hot teenage daughters and they and you've decided well we're anti-gun we don't believe in it and three you know big dudes with knives kicking your door it's you know the police also he's gonna come and clean up the mess they're not gonna be they're not gonna get there in time they have a house do you know did you protect you either according to the Supreme Court they had a ruling back in 2000 something and even if they even if they get the call even if they haul ass it doesn't matter they have in terms of legality they have no duty to protect you you would think they do but they don't they have a duty to enforce the law but that doesn't mean they have to like get there in the moment and protect you that's your responsibility yeah you know now people don't even understand this they want me to do the convention that we do obviously 21 convention they want to miss to do it in New York and California and shit and we've never done that we do in Florida and we did it in Texas once - and therefore that we do it Orlando Miami Tampa sometimes but I'll never do it in a state in America where I can't carry a gun in Europe and Australia I kind of compromise on that it's very limited obviously in your upbringing carry gun Switzerland even that it can be a little bit difficult if you're not Swiss but in America I'm like not we're gonna do it in Texas we're gonna do it in Florida because I want to fucking carry a gun you know cuz I'm personal I'm responsible for my safety as well as safety if they're going around me I want to make sure that the attendees and the speakers can carry if they want lawfully and I don't want to go to a state like California where that's basically impossible like you know I'm not gonna what the fuck is the point yeah so I want to say good examples where you can pick you know to do the event yeah but leader leads by example not by forces sons you said that's right fuck yeah so rise of Donald Trump you've had some perspective on this I mean you've got to experience the Reagan years you know firsthand as a teenager young teenager I'm assuming you know did you see this coming like what is it and for me this is the first time in American history or my personal history that I've had a president that I'm proud of my whole life it's been in Clinton it's been Bush it's been Obama it's been nothing that I was proud of I was deeply concerned about that was a Ron Paul guy back in 2012 for example I was not in any way supportive of Mitt Romney and these fake apologies I flip flop and fucking beta male yeah he's rubber for spine I saw no meaningful difference between him and Obama same thing in 2008 these are the same people yeah the same people different different window dressing so what's it been like as an entrepreneur and as a man who's you know 50 years old now seeing all this go down like what has this been like for you well maybe you know when I was growing up everybody was proud of America was you know Americans were the good guys you know we were taught Americans were the ones that helped win World War two we were the arsenal of democracy you know the Russians took the I think they lost something somewhere around 30 million people in the war and you know we were supplying with with the weapons and stuff before we had entered the war and then even after the war we all worked together at a feet Nazism and so you know Mike both my grandfather's fought World War two my my mom's dad he was shot in the hip he literally walked he was I think a sergeant in the army and he walked across Europe helped liberate it and got shot and wounded in the head and always walked with a cane and it's shorten his life and he died when I was six so I never really got to know him and so I was where work - directly impacted me because my my grand fly basically died and I never got to know him yeah my dad's father he was in the Navy during war - he was in six different invasions and so he and he loved history and so even after the war he studied it and well every weekend when we hung out with him he was always telling war stories about his experiences and things he went through fighting the Japanese fighting the Italians fighting the Germans well and I was fascinating yeah and then you know what when you look at especially if you watch any of the videos from Yuri basmanov the KGB defector who defected in the I think was the early 1980s yeah he's worth YouTube yeah yeah you can see all the videos of interviews of him I think was uh was named Griffin Robert Griffin because we have part of that footage in our socialism documentary and he talked about ideological subversion and I mean when you look at like what was his name McCarthy did in the 40s and the 50s with going after the people in Hollywood because Hollywood is full of communists and sort of collectivists and Iran even what in front of Congress author a philosopher for that specific issue she was part of the guilt and anti-communist Gildea in Hollywood it was her and a couple other directors and stuff that were fiercely anti-communist because they were worried they do it's being infiltrated by communists of course today there's no communists now they wouldn't no way right you know they're democratic socialists at the end of the day it's still the same ideology and the American pride issue though that's interesting because Bernie Sanders recently no running for president on a debate not too long ago a couple years ago he said just some pub Nina right on the debate stage that America is a I think he said a racist society top top to bottom or something like that yeah it's all identity politics which again is all right out of the Ministry of propaganda of the Communist listen the bez mean off I mean he talks about that yeah the idea was first to infiltrate Hollywood because they're the ones making all the movies that all the Americans are gonna see and then also to get into the school system because when I was in school the Communists controlled Hollywood and had a pretty good hold on the media and then they mostly controlled you know we're active in the Universities because if you look at like the 60s the counter cultural movement that was all a result of communist propaganda and Oakland infiltration and then you know by the time that I think the 90s came around they had complete control of the collegiate system they had mostly control of or starting to gain almost all control of the high schools and then since them in the last 15-20 years they now they control K through 12 and the universities they control the media and every you know in Hollywood know so every if you Holle gonna do is turn on the news and listen listen to these guys you listen to Bloomberg ya talk he says glowing things about the Chinese and a guy like him he perceives himself as what he calls the intellij stuff lemare Bernie Sanders a communist last night though which I found pretty amusing yeah we're like eating each other is what's going on apart the way these people think these elite like they love to refer to themselves is they look at the rest of humanity like we're too fucking stupid to know what's good for us that's why he did things with passing a law where sodas can only be a certain size because his idea is if we force you to only be able to buy smaller cokes therefore you'll drink less coca-cola and sugary drinks you'll be less obese you'll have a happier life and you know at the end of the day I know what's best for you because I'm a billionaire and you're not and guys like me should be making all decisions it's kind of like the same mentality that you know the Rockefellers had you know cuz they all inherited the money from their grandfather and great-grandfather and they never had a struggle for anything they grew into a family that was basically richest family in the world at the time silver spoon yeah him and Brzezinski and all those guys you know said about to they believed that people like them should be controlling everything and that's what led to the European Union it's amazing because when you say this out loud it's like this strikes me as like highly dysfunctional aggressive narcissism exactly I know it's best you and you're gonna fucking do it cuz if you're born with everything if you pan hurt and you know their family was fucked up anyways you know they believed it was only thing cuz you know human beings have five human needs certainly variety significance loving connection and certainty and you know these guys it gives them a feeling of significance because they're important if they're changing the world to their vision they feel like they actually matter and they're important and all we've done is you know fuck up a lot of things in the West and now the people or kind of we're all collectively clawing it back yeah it's like what I think what really started we started to see in 2016 with Trump was that things would get reported in the media and then or actually things would get reported on Twitter and eventually would filtered down to the media the media on nine times out of ten would broadcast something out and say this is what happened in a week or two later after the media has moved on it would call the facts would come out that they were completely wrong it was all bullshit and there's no retractions no and so everybody heard the lie but they didn't hear the retraction was Facebook and Twitter and the rest of social media and YouTube you're actually able to see what really happened I wrote about that you know all the shootings with the black lives matter movement and all these you know the was his name Michael Brown the hands up don't shoot what it's like it happened that way and us a most of the country believes that that's what happened and it's just simply not true that Trayvon Martin thing same thing it's most people's perception of you know 99% of those events was they heard the lie and the inaccurate reporting yeah they didn't hear the facts after the there's almost like a like a first first sound off bias like whoever gets like this the story out first whatever way they presented is assumed to be true and then correcting it later it takes time and a fruit it's like with Denzel Washington there was I got a one of his quotes on my Instagram where he was berating a reporter because he's like you guys your your effort to be first and everything you end up reporting stuff that's not even true and then you don't ever come to hey we were wrong about this they just kind of brushed it under the rug maybe they put a retraction on page 15 and some little blurb that nobody's gonna see oh we made a mistake and this was wrong I think everybody remembers a lot Trump kept saying open up the libel laws I'm up the libel laws what he meant is I think is attacking organizations and corporations that do this crap yeah they you know put a retraction out or not weeks later and nobody even fucking pays attention the damage is done you know it reminds me to Winston Churchill's quote from quote incorrectly that lies spread fast and truth spreads spread slowly takes time but the Internet you know like you're saying I they could starting to change that and maybe Trump is like the first time we've ever seen that at that scale you know I mean it's you know billionaire and our president you know I get to say whatever he wants constantly I love it people keep bitching about his Twitter I'm like you don't get it his Twitter is the most powerful thing that he has well what he understands about the media is that they emotionally overreact to everything and so he says things that are polarizing because at the end of the day what's that gonna do that's gonna give them the mic yep tribes attention to and if people are you know at the end of the day if what you observe you participate in and so if he's got the mic cuz immediately he's constantly shove it in his face it's like he's putting the message out and he's he's no longer having to go through the filter of the media that people can actually go online and watch his rallies and listen to what he actually says I mean if you sit there and watch him and erect a rally and then soon as he's done all the CNN commentators come on and tell you what they just talked about yeah and it's like they were walking like Scott Adams says two different movies it's like they they say things that are the exact opposite of what he actually said it's our well applied yeah because they're trying to propagandize people and get them to see the world they're away I think what signalled ease enabled him to do is with the news or whatever the fact or whatever the idea he wants to get out is he's not just first and doing it he beats the media it's instant I mean he just goes on his phone and typed something or speaks at a rally and it's like boom done you can't beat that it's literally a constant aeneas it's awesome and I hate when his supporters say they want him to tone down his Twitter and all this stuff it's like you don't get it you need to like let him be support him in being who he's gonna be which is fuckin Donald Trump that's that's one of the best things about being president is he's like he's the exact same guy he was five years ago it's the same fucking guy he didn't change mm-hmm and he's fallen through I think to the best of his ability on what he promised he's doing pretty damn good yeah I'll be with with what he's doing he's got more done than anybody I've seen in years you know we're talking about other presidents it's like I love Reagan growing up I'm I was a little kid when he was growing up and then obviously when he left office I was leaving you know I was finishing high school yeah I felt safe around him and the people that he was involved with and I was you know originally supportive of Bush senior when he got elected and then I had a bunch of my friends that went to high school with they were all in the second Marine Division from the first Gulf War it was interesting when they came back they were all like fuck him I'm voting for Clinton Wow as they you know being deployed and being over there and seeing what they saw they they wanted nothing to do with that and read my lips no new taxes man yeah it's you know and then you you recognize like especially now I look back and then when his son you know George Bush W got elected I was excited about Colin Powell and all his people I was like this is gonna be a great presidency and after the thing with the Iraq workers I've had a lot of friends over there I got friends got blown up over there friends have been wounded clients a bit wounded over there and so I get a different perspective of what's going on and it's like no George Bush sucked ass you have shitty president yeah he was one of the worst presidents we've had in a long time they're all part of the same you know establishment too it's why it's same shit over and over and over again I am amazed that Trump was able to pull it off Ron Paul tried doing this and he was not able to do it didn't have the skillset the wealth the relationships whatever you want to say I think a lot of the ideas but he lacked the other the other factors and mechanisms to pull it off mm-hmm to infiltrate the Republican Party and would just win out beat the competition like Trump did and Trump was peanut for years Roger stone and putting pushing him to run it for a presidency independent Reform Party whatever but Ron was smart enough to wait be patient timing and then go through the main party system and then take over the whole party and now on top of that the Democrat party's collapsing all in it it's imploding all on its own he's a Zygon it along but it's really happening it's wonderful to see every day these people fight with each other it's just like that's just falling apart at the seams one of the quotes I was sharing you with the other day when you owned one of my teachers his name is panache decides one of these kind of spirit Indian spiritual guru type guys and he said a lot of enlightening things and one things he said about ten years maybe was about eight years ago he said everything that no longer serves humanity is dissolving describing like you know the time that we're in and if you look what's happen with the Republican Party and now what the Democrats are going through and how them you know the media and Hollywood and it's all it doesn't serve humanity anymore it does you know people are tuning them out it's I saw a study I know about a month or two ago about it's something like 73 74 percent of all Americans that's Democrats Republicans independent all believe that most of what's in the mainstream media is bullshit it's wrong it's inaccurate pouring or outright propaganda and so the majority of the population is awake now and so when they hear something in the media was you know five 10 years ago we just assumed it was accurate now everybody's going yeah I'm gonna kind of wait and hear all the facts because where I make it about it yeah exactly and people go you know I got followed people all over the world that are actually good reporters and the report accurate information that's where I get my info from whatever topic you're in do you can find experts in that you know somewhere in the globe and you can follow them and if you see something it's constantly published and bullshit it turns out to be wrong yeah you just click on follow and they're gone from your feed forever and you tune em out and that's why you're seeing like in the UK with the BBC and people are you know bitching that you know the government needs to prop that up and give them money and yeah the lies yeah yeah exactly it's the same thing with you got what's his name Brian Steckler on CNN is like you know we're important and we should be funded and people should be forced to pay for us and whoa these guys suck yeah they're terrible propagandists it's like when you actually listen to these guys they sound like shitty actors from some B or C rate movie I mean they're horrible and it all looks fake they're just reading a teleprompter there there was a clip a couple years ago that came out and it was like a montage of this I figured what this it was just some story that you hear in the evening news every night and there was about 30 different anchors from all over the country reading the same script I've seen it and so when you look at the Associated Press you associated Free Press it's like local story gets written pumped into there and all these news outlets all over the world that pay to be a part of that just take it throw in the teleprompter and there they call it in their talent their news casters just just read what's in front of them do it without any thinking they just make women great again I saw some of that too a lot of it at the beginning was a couple original articles and after that especially once it hit like Fox News in Orlando it kind of got does regurgitate it like this phone game everyone was just kind of stay in the same shit they were stealing each other's articles and just rebranding it and very little newbie attitude or nothing and occasionally to get something decent there'd be an interview or you know a longer piece on it but mostly was just the same bullshit over and over again and yeah seeing that media cycle go through ads is gross there's no originality to it there's no creativity there's no independent thinking it says you know vomit whatever's on teleprompter or whatever's on whatever you're told to read or whatever right yeah we've been getting a lot of interview not just interview requests but a lot of media requests to attend the event to from all these fake news organizations vice news BuzzFeed all this bullshit yeah and they're not gonna write anything favorable even if they enjoy it because you know controversy sells at the end of the day if there's an argument or there's if you just look at Twitter if there is a video of kids fighting or whatever or peaking adults fighting it goes viral people go nuts over that shit and it's all bloodsport it's an agenda and even if we even if they end up liking it like because the event is really good everything that we do the events is like super Pro even if they end up liking it their editor was still forced on the right piece on it so we've been so far been turning them down but also now I'm like well what we're gonna do now looks like we might want to protect the privacy of the attendees so no filming no photography from anyone with us because any blow out the faces what I'm doing now is I'm offering on the fake news Press Pass and several thousand dollars actually it's got a fake news logo on it they have to buy it and I sold our first one the other day to BuzzFeed oh shit yeah Oh it'll be interesting to see what they actually write I already told him like we don't expect you you're getting your your I told him they're eligible for a fake news press pass based on their treatment of you know the Trump and Magan all this stuff like I don't expect you to write anything positive about us and I'll be surprised if you do I expect you to write a negative hit piece that's unfair and biased and I'm okay with that if you want to pay us several thousand dollars so they're kind of at first they're kind of just aghast they expected to come in for free and I'm like no why would I want you to come in for free give us money pay your pay your fake news tax so it's pretty enjoyable to do that actually because initially I was gonna tell them to fuck off like always you know no one you're owned yeah when I get media requests I just ignore him yes they because when I've done them in the past years ago when I first started it's okay now I could do a YouTube video and get way more book sales questions and appreciating that versus you know having to get up at 5:00 in the morning so I can do some 6:00 a.m. you know warning new show or whatever I'm not gonna get any business out of it anyway yes and you know I don't have to deal with assholes you know being dicks or whatever I mean I'm 50 years old I want to join my life I want to hang out with like-minded people and yeah yeah they're dinosaurs they're dying and all you know like Scott out himself yeah they're just gonna slowly fade away it's funny because I'm at interview with Piers Morgan the feminists called me a dinosaur for my views or something which I felt that's uh Piers Morgan said anyway he said it on the on the show itself I think they called me a dinosaur well I'll take that I appreciate it but the reality is that there that's the opposite you know they're the dinosaurs their thing their organisations are falling apart the viewership all that stuff yeah it's good now let's move on a little bit here sure we you commented the other day as something that heard from other guys your age other speakers psychologists and coaches and things like that from the convention 21 convention and basically you said that it's getting harder and harder at an alarming rate from paraphrasing you correctly for young men today define young women who have any good degree of quality in terms of like how to good upbringing good parents make good decisions things like that so that's different than the one you went through in 1985 I think it'd be a lot different you know it is now in 2020 yeah we didn't have cell phones or pagers were just kind of coming out and the cell phones are like these big giant bricks if you ever saw a really Wall Street with Charlie Sheen oh yeah I've seen it I had one of those in the early nineties when after Hurricane Andrew hit and I was working down in the Delta Ridge area and was big giant phones and you know my phone bill would be like three or four hundred bucks a month Wow yeah back that's a lot of money - yeah because I was expensive yeah there's the old analog and you get out of range of the tower in New York yeah you hear the static but talk to me about that from like the perspective of people like what have you seen change for like men have changed to overtime you know I think for the worst in a lot of ways but the man is fair things doing a good job at reversing that pushing back against that teach you man how to be masculine again I created make women great again then 22 convention because I don't see that happening for women they have kind of like well they get raised you know probably not good conditions not good parenting and all that but also in wider culture they have nothing positive nothing not a mainstream not even alternative really there's a few you know channels and books but it's like really sparse I have a few of them here the surrendered wife and things like that but talk to me about what you've seen change as it you know you're 50 years old now what have you seen change and woman well really if you look back at the older movies and I use this a lot and in my videos and what I'm doing phone sessions with people if you look at the old old videos going back to the 50s 60s okay maybe the early 70s the men were always masculine very stoic they're focused on their mission purpose like it's a wonderful life that one with Jimmy Stewart da-a-ate I mean he's like um you know as soon as my brother finished his college I'm shaking the dust off my shoes of this crappy town and I'm gonna go see the world and I'm gonna slay the Dragons and I'm gonna conquer and Donna Reed's character is this beautiful younger woman that he grew up with in a neighbor I think she was on six eight years younger or whatever and they run into each other and she's just like George Bailey he's gonna be my husband someday it's and so she schemes and plots with all the women the neighborhood to arrange meetings between the two of them where you know he can see her curves and her figure and her charming voice and become enchanted with her and because she wants to settle down nest and have babies and this whole beat up house it's at the end of the road and he's like I want nothing to do with this I'm getting out of here and he's a real dick to her at one point in the movie and she starts bawling and then he grabs her kisses her and you know they live happily ever after if you look at movies like with Cary Grant charade with him and Audrey Hepburn that was one of the best movies as far as like that playful sexual tension between a man and a woman were he's playfully kind of being a jerk a little arrogant but he's not really being serious and you can tell there's a lot of points when they're interacting where she looks at him and it's kind of taking it back and she can't tell if he's fucking with her good or he's being totally serious and she loves it and there was a there's a part in the movie where at the end after all the bad guys have been defeated and she's kind of you know getting the blood off you know sewing up his wounds and stuff and she just moves in and she kisses him and he stood makes out for a little bit he pushes her way and he just cut it out and she looks at him like what just happened and then you know she's kind of sitting there and he's like what are you doing she's like well you told me to cut it out he says I'm not done complaining yet and she smiles him they start making out and that was like the end of the meal that to me everything you just said speaks of positive gender relations yeah and in my opinion that's a way I conceptualize what's been happening and it sucks so you don't see that anymore what you see now is you see and I noticed that especially into the 80s and especially now it's like all you I mean Bill Cosby you know he had a great television program and he presented a pretty good healthy archetype you know even though he turned out to be a fucking sexual deviant it was you know dropping drugs and girls drinks I was shocked to find that out do you think this is he's the man but acting is still acting yeah exactly kind of that was a healthy archetype of a family and that playfulness and at the other day a man's gonna do what he fuck it wants and eventually the wife will but grudgingly go along with it because he's the man he's the head of the house and that's what she signed up for it sounds like toxic masculinity yeah exactly so that all it just changed I mean you saw these you start to see these supplicating I think though what's his name John Cusack say anything the one where he's he's holding the boom box you know way above his head and you know when this girl's front lawn that he's you know over pursuing and of course you know that kind of shit works in the movies but so you see this archetype that's constantly presented in the media and movies that the guys the bumbling idiot and the woman's the stoic strong silent type in other words the women act like men and the men act like basically insecure little girls and that's supposed to be normal and you're supposed to be extra nice to women and women don't want a pussy they already have one you know that's a good way to put it yeah so things have continued to get that way and then you got kids that grew up in a family where mom and dad aren't around or you know they're latchkey kids as we were it's like you see that from the time that same theme over and over from time your little boy till you grow up you think that's normal that's how a man is supposed to interact with a woman you go do that in the real world and you can be her gay male girlfriend you can be the guy that fixes her toilet and changes the tires in a car replaces her bad or it was she's fucking you know the bad boy in the motorcycle yeah and he's sinking eventually I'm gonna get my shot and she always DC's jerks and you know eventually she'll see what an awesome guy am and want to marry me and we'll live happily ever after and that's the narrative guys tell themselves oh yeah it doesn't work in the real world and so it's like you know the fast-forwarded today there's a lot of broken families a lot of families were you got single moms and you know the good thing is I have a lot of single moms that follow me and read my book to teach their son how to be a man yeah I've had several women that are principals of schools of high schools that are teaching their sons how to date how to be men because the man's not you know the father is not around and so to you know ID like when I do phone session with the guys you know the majority I'm that are having problems it's because they made a bad choice but they don't know what to look for and so the reality is is that women that come if you're looking for a long-term relationship whether it's a girlfriend that you live together with and have kids or maybe your traditional and you want to get married and you know have a traditional type of marriage the best candidates for that kind of a loyal monogamous faithful family type of relationship are gonna be women that grew up in that kind of environment that's where the parents are together the girl loves her mom loves her dad especially she says things like my dad is my rock and I've had a problem I call my dad and because those kind of women they learned how to trust men they learned how to act like women they learned to be respectful they watched their parents work their differences out through communication and they grew up in a culture of it basically a family culture exactly and so those girls are gonna be more level-headed easygoing easy to get along with and it doesn't mean that were somebody's woman they're hard they're hard to find there's not was gonna say polling they still have a lot of this yeah it was fascinating I spent about a month or last year a few trips and just to see even superficially as a tourist there or not a terrorist but working or whatever just just going around the city and seeing these positive experiences and relationships was fascinating like I had never seen anything like in America was like if I like being in a movie like an Audrey Hepburn movie or some shit I was like like a black-and-white movie like part of real life yes I'm we're talking with the other day they grew up a communism they all knew all about collectivism and they all everybody's got families and grandparents that were murdered by the Communists and they have an oh fuck that's why they look at us and they're like you guys are fuckin nuts over there we already win throw us but yeah kind of the way I look at it is it socialism started in the United States and then he's a fuckin die here yeah good all right fuck yeah yeah I love the you you come across in your demeanor and the persona is like you know you are very calm I think I guess so socialism needs to fuckin die that's great kills mil hundreds of millions of people man it's president fucking misery if you look what the Chinese are going through with a corona virus right now I've seen tons of video people being dragged out of their houses and off the quarantine and the people are going kicking and screaming yeah because they know typically when the police come to take you away you're never seen or heard from again and you know you can't fight back everybody's completely disarmed yeah and that's just yoga Hong Kong I mean all the protests and stuff going on at least they work for the coronavirus yeah that's great that they're doing that but they don't have the firearms to back it up yeah and if push comes to shove China can its march in there and fucking do whatever they want pretty much yeah well see what happens winding down we gotta in a few minutes here left we got a couple minutes I want to get one more dating question and kind of a few steps back and then we'll wrap up I was going through your book today and just some of the chapter subchapters I think actually we're pretty fascinating I liked them let's see so let's just go this one in your book here you know how to be a 3% man he said why not you have all chapter on why you should not get advice from women why should not get advice from women about women well typically yeah a woman doesn't understand attraction and how it works and what affects them so it's you can ask him after women I mean they must know right well go ahead and try it go try the advice that your your girlfriends or your sister gives you and cuz you understand women are nurturing they love you they care about you they want to see you do well but they don't want to hurt your feelings that's why a girl you know women break up with a guy and they go it's not you it's me well there's the guy goes they tend to be conflict avoidant oh okay so she's okay I'm a great guy and everything I'm doing is awesome she's just a little messed up maybe if I just give her more time what she's really sing she doesn't want to say I'm dumping you because you turned me off and you lured my attraction and I don't I'm not turned on by you my i pussy's dryer in a bucket of sand right now and I want anything to do with you she's not gonna say that most women are that the harsh they figure they'll just or they friendzone you I'm not ready for a relationship and the guy goes oh I've just wait her out and when she is ready I'll be there and I'll get my shot because they don't want to hurt your feelings meanwhile she's getting banged up I tried and left and right exactly yeah so that's you know that's part of the problem is there us guys we tend to me more blunt and brutally honest and say now dude you're acting like a pussy or that girl don't like you know and you know if you talk to I because I remember this I went through this with when I got engaged to my wife cuz it after I remember went and buying the ring and sitting in my bed over that week and I was looking at how am i doing I she's great but I don't feel like I want to get married and you know I would all the girls I worked with you know there's a lot of women I worked with and they you know they were in the office there I was like I was taught home it's like does something feel right say something the inside feels like it's missing Oh Cory you just have cold feet it'll get better behind they don't go away she's really great don't you let her get away no she's don't don't mess that up you win you guys getting married you know that kind of thing you know the reality is is that I wasn't feeling it and I was unsure of myself and I basically not I talked myself into it and all the women are around me talk to me and do it and well I went along with it's like one of my one of my closest friends I was funny we were talking about this a few years ago and he's like yeah I knew it wasn't gonna work out it was like why didn't you say something he says you probably wouldn't listen to me anyways I was like you I would have probably listened to but yeah I probably would've done it anyways there's some truth to that yeah when guys are in that I see you know I'm 31 now so a lot of guys from high school are going there getting roped into these relationships it made me and my close friends can see it on Facebook like oh I like I got engaged I was gonna get married and it's gonna blow up this happens really consistently like these these marriages last these days my Millennials the last six months or a year or something and it fucking blows up in their face because we can look at we can you know maybe we won't talk to a guy for a couple years but we take one look at the photos on Facebook we see his body language we see how he's writing about her or in the relationship and it's a fucking shit show they don't understand anything about it and they're just kind of walking into it or getting coaxed into it and it sucks and not all the tricks are crazy it's just a lot of times it's just a bad fit bad match and on top of that the guy doesn't understand women more generally yeah one woman publicly that I think is good and knows what she's talking about was dr. Taylor Burroughs I think you're gonna interview said she's great she knows she knows what she's talking about so that her she's one of the women out there you're a guy and you want advice that's you'd want to listen she'll be at the 22 convention don't press pass oh cool a reel of real news press pass we have the real ones for the real independent journalists basically our independent media creators occur and then the fake news press passes for the fake news people the buzz feeds and the vice news and New York Times I'm sure like that yeah she's great there are a few women out there to get it I'm not even just with dating advice but even one of my favorites lately is Professor Janice via mango if you know her mm-hmm yeah great Canadian professor basically she's an advocate of men and of men's rights and culture and she does a really good job super savage holds nothing back and is absolutely in favor or supports and sees the way that men are being treated today divorce court Family Court and in wider culture with stuff like me too yeah it's you got to find the Taylor bros and the Janis FEMA cos there's not that many of them there's a few guys not that money and I agree with you hundred percent I was just kind of fascinated with the title of it don't trust me I could dunk good advice from women about women yeah they don't want to hurt your feelings they they just hope that you'll figure it out later on that's what yeah they want you to get it anyway it's a lot more on a one-to-one basis women are a lot more aroused by that they're counting on you to get it they want you to get it it's as exciting to them they love it and they pay if they have to tell you it's like the the observer effect they hate it mmm isn't it just it loses all the magic in the in the sparkle to it means you don't get it you might get it later but not with them in the moment yeah see what your time we got left we got a wrap-up cool so it's been good having you on last question you are 50 now at some point you were either at some point you're gonna die you're gonna retire I'm they're gonna retire I'm gonna work til never I drop dead you got a deuce cuz you know I've I've had the one thing I've always done is been able to set my life up so I can have time to think yeah because I'm a thinker and a contemplate ER and I figure things out and you know I I've spent plenty of time laying on the beach doing nothing for days and weeks I you know I lived on South Beach for a couple years the nicest most luxurious place that they have down there and it was amazing but you know you can only sway in the hammock for so long or sit on your porch and listen to the trees blow and as a you got to get out there and experience some kind of friction in the world and you get a mess because I have some kind of purpose that gets you up early and keep Shep late at night you're 50 now between 50 and 70 20 years is gonna pass so by what do you hope to accomplish is coach Cory Wayne over the next 20 years I want to keep obviously making the documentaries and having a positive impact and I'd love to see this all this media edifice die and you know I do coach a lot of people in Hollywood that are actors that are directors that people that work behind the scenes and you know some of the movies I know that they work on I do see some positive archetypes yeah some positive archetypes on that's showing up yeah in the movies and so that's good yeah and you know because the reality is a lot of the movies people just aren't going to them because they're garbage because they're presenting a falsehood and on some level we all know it's kind of bullshit the feminist crêpes particularly but it's like super cringe yeah that's what I talked about everything in no longer serves humanity is dissolving it's it's dysfunctional it's not truthful and people are rejecting it yeah you know it's like why would you watch CNN when you can just go to youtube and you can watch somebody like Tim Poole yeah who's just trying to present as down the middle type here's the facts years of reporting like the old school Walter Cronkite was you mean news or Tim Russert even this day I don't know Tim Russert was liberal or he was Republican her what he was same thing what Walter I think we're good I think are we talking about is called news yeah and I used to do see you should just be called news now we have to classify it because there's so much bullshit well it's been good having young men I appreciate it big time wise thanks for having me man fuck yeah appreciate it up Tavi the 21 convention some day our fans have been bugging me about that for a while you know it's up to you you let me know door and the opportunity remains open for whenever you want to speak I appreciate that man yeah man everyone else appreciate tune in to the interview please hit like subscribe share comment I appreciate it make sure you check out his website in his channel his website is understanding relationships calm you can get his book on Amazon where I got it how to be a three percent man he has more books beyond that and they also have audible versions to that he narrated if you go to under seeing relationships calm both my books are free you know even if you think I'm full of shit and I don't know what I'm talking about if you go to understand relationships calm put your name in your email and the SUBSCRIBE box soon as you get some it's gonna take you right to the members area where you can read it and then once you can just apply it and once you see that it works for you then go buy an audiobook or a paperback less thing how do they find your channel other than link in the description all rights on YouTube forward slash coach Cory Wayne okay sounds good Cory thank you very much thanks of everyone else I'll see you in the next interview peace

Channel: 21 Studios

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Keywords: 21 convention, 21 university, 21 radio, 21 studios, 21 report, anthony dream johnson, coach corey wayne, 3% man, orlando, florida, miami, mwga, make women great again, bill clinton, iraq, ronald regan, obama, socialism, communism, capitalism, freedom, thomas jefferson

Id: 0MZjP2VW8RA

Length: 70min 40sec (4240 seconds)

Published: Mon Mar 16 2020