Babysitters, What Are Early Signs of Spoiled Brats?

babysitters of reddit what screams well this kid is fricked when they grow up i was a casual babysitter but when i lived in l.a eye babysat for a family that lived in a giant house on a hill and they refused to say no to their kid and i wasn't allowed to either she wanted to do something dangerous and i wouldn't let her and she told me her parents let her do it i said well i'm responsible for your safety right now so i can't let you do that when her parents got home they scolded me for saying no that was the last time i babysat for them knew a kid whose parents thought it was funny to tell him the wrong names for things socks were called turtles put your turtles on crap like this wondered why he had screaming meltdowns and daycare then kindergarten etc until he was finally able to read by himself in grade 4 because spelling turtle sock doesn't give you any head starts jfc his parents just delayed his education and development drastically all for shoots and giggles wtf a 12 year old with no physical or developmental disability still needing his mother to take him into the family restroom my nephew i used to work at a daycare and this one kid kept trying to stick his finger in the electrical sockets the sockets were taped off so he couldn't and would fall from pretty high places and hit his head i have no clue how he's still alive but i now believe he is immortal you babysat keith richards smooth time i babysat a six-year-old and his parents has a few strange rules but smooth time was by far the worst my first day while walking through the routine i was told every evening after bath time i was to cover this kid head to toe in petroleum jelly to prevent cracks in his skin aka dry skin it happened every morning as well but the mom or dad did it then i really don't think it was anything malicious the other rules were similarly overly cautious like the kid had to wear shoes at all times to prevent him hurting his feet but that kid is gonna have a hard time at his first sleepover i'm not a babysitter but a relative of mine was for a short period of time she said this four or five year old kid would tell her about how he wanted to cut into his pets to see how they work the creepy behavior continued she brought it up to the mother who didn't seem to care one day she arrived and the kid brought her a handful of various teeth that weren't human still bloody but that was the last time she babysat jeffrey dahmer too kind of a different this kid will be fricked up and more this kid is will be in butthole i babysat for a family for years with two sons two years apart the younger boy was always sweet loved animals active and much more social he had a lot of issues with school but in general a likable kid the elder boy selfish callous constantly complained and made it clear he didn't care about anyone's feelings he would bully his younger brother and purposely hurt him past normal sibling rivalry or conflict i've never seen him show anyone any real affection and i've known this kid from age age 17 and for years this was every day and again he has had special contempt for his younger brother he only ever had one true friend who he ended up alienating around age 10 because he was such a jerk i doubt he's got any other close friends now and i doubt he'd be able to get a girlfriend with how selfish and obnoxious he is his parents are great people and his brother is a great kid the parents struggle to see his true colors but his brother sure knows i think they'll be truly shocked when they see their sons basically want nothing to do with each other when they're adults grew up with a kid just like this my mom told me years later that the biggest lie she has ever told was when she told the kid's mom that she was sure he'd grow out of it one day my erstwhile best friend married a woman he shouldn't have she was always treated a second class growing up while her brother was a golden child who could do no wrong the brother grew up to be a crack addict and my friend's wife wanted to adopt their two crack babies since she couldn't seem to get pregnant herself the younger one was a little slow but an okay kid the older one was off from infancy and nothing but trouble growing up the kind of kid with zero empathy regard for others or careful rules norms or values of any kind whatsoever my friend was a pushover to his wife's weird our positional defined personality all decisions raising the boy were basically the opposite of whatever the husband thought was best her adopted son was now the golden child and he was relegated to the inferior sibling role every time i talked to him it was long stories about the trouble jay had gotten into and the futile efforts that had been made to correct or improve the behavior and conflicts with his wife over literally every aspect of raising him eventually they got pregnant and had a daughter of their own my blood ran cold last time i ever heard from him he mentioned jay would no longer be living with him because something really bad happened he was around 13 by then i'm very hooked on this i need to know what jade did had a kid who doused his mother's bed with her and her current pump in it with lighter fluid and was sitting in the floor trying to light matches he was just shy of five this kid committed arson yeah he may have came from the wrong place i've worked in several kindergartens for me most of the kids i thought that about well it wasn't their fault they had just been dealt a really bad hand in life and i knew it would take so much work for them to get ahead one kid he was five his mother was diagnosed with schizophrenia and this kid lived with a foster family who did the best they could do this mother had basically babied him resulting in this poor five-year-old having no social skills at all he would get into conflicts with other kids because he didn't understand their games and would interrupt them and they would as a result tell him to go away he would then be sad and took his sadness out on the kids by hitting them he also had very bad verbal skills when i first met him i barely understood what he was saying his tantrums reminded me of a much younger child he also loved his mother since she had raised him by herself she was his whole world the most heartbreaking situation was one day when his mother came to visit him this was after he had been moved to his foster family and the mother was only allowed to see him with supervision we had an agreement that she could come visit him in kindergarten for a few hours every week so she showed up and he ran into her arms two hours later we had to physically pry him off her he wanted to go home with his mom and he could not let go of that he didn't stop screaming until two hours later when he tired himself out and fell asleep i thought to myself that day this kid is not growing up to be a functioning adult it broke my heart he was a really sweet kid funny curious inquisitive i still send him a thought once in a while i hope he's doing okay my son is five and he and i are all so close cuz you know he's five i have bipolar disorder and i can't imagine how it would break my heart to lose him and vice versa he's the reason i take my mental health so seriously my kids don't deserve a crazy mom or a childhood defined by my issues not a babysitter but had a classmate that had parents that's knowingly taught him the wrong things to avoid him getting confused and eventually pulled him out of school after only a few years of him being in our school they said for example that negative numbers don't actually exist decimal points are just full stops for big numbers and so on and so forth parents also gave him worry too much free reign i live in an area of london that isn't the best for crime that is you shouldn't really be letting children go to school by themselves until at least age 14 15 and if so at least with a few friends by age 8 his parents allowed him to go to school by himself he lived about 15 minutes away he was also extremely clumsy and could be very rude tl dr had a classmate whose parents were too lazy to teach him the right things told him his education was full of lies and eventually homeschooled him they let him go to school by himself aged eight and he was clumsy and kinda rude i was a preschool teacher for two years i worked with some children who were not meeting developmental milestones such as speech delays extreme lack of social skills or feeding themselves the parents didn't know and or care about the missed milestones because they didn't care enough about their child the teachers would tell the parents about their child not meeting developmental milestones the parents refused to change anything in the home environment my mom ran a two-year-old room a few times over the years and she talked about how every kid in her class was potty trained at daycare fast and at home use diapers babysat a kid that kid is eight all she does all day is watch youtube videos her parents don't care that youtube is just taking her down wormholes so she now believes that the world is flat and she's obsessed with watching people open these weird dolls that have a gazillion plastic parts her parents buy them for her and she opens them and discards them she is aids and still has temper tantrums cause her parents reward them and her parents who don't really like each other much neither of them provide any discipline whatsoever baby sat once once was enough cause i said no to her and she hit me cause her parents have never said no and she has never had consequences for her behavior kid don't have any real friends cause her parents gave her no instructions in how to be a real human being it's a shame crappy parent that doesn't care i once babysat a little boy from the time he was 1-3 his mom was busy going on vacation and partying i remember as he grew he had less and less clothes because he outgrown the ones he had i remember he only had one pair of socks because his mom would lose every freaking sock i felt ashamed delivering him to the daycare with two different socks all the time it may not seem like a big deal but look at it from a different puff if you can't take care of a pair of socks how are you gonna take care of a baby matching socks is overrated but i understand your point had a friend's five-year-old little boy kill his kitten while i was making lunch because he didn't want to play with it anymore called the friend right away and told her and said i was gonna bury it in the backyard and that when she got home we needed to sit down and explain why what he did was wrong that evening we did just that but he failed to see how killing a living thing was different from throwing away a puzzle or book he didn't want anymore needless to say i told her i could not continue watching him and that he needs some help she understood and did try therapy although she said that did not go well and he wasn't allowed back i moved out of that state a year later and she moved back to her home state but i always wonder how he turned out or if he will be the next ted bundy or what not as he would just be about 22 now worked in a daycare kid has no chance honestly mom is a raging alcoholic and mentally ill they have transient housing occasional homelessness and this kid is angry he stomped a baby bird on the playground enjoyed kicking the teacher and strangled two puppies by carrying them around by their necks he kicked the teacher hard enough to leave bruises and laughed this was a prick he was five he moved away and is now around eight i won't be surprised at all to see his name in newspapers in a decade that he's killed a bunch of women or something over the summer i was a nanny for a pretty wealthy family they were great and super down to earth and the kids were awesome and polite however they had a family visit for a few days the family was from l.a and the dad was a hollywood agent i don't really care for celebrities pop culture or brands but it's all this family would talk about they had two children and the older girl who was around six said screamed the following things to me over the few days get me conditioner because my hair is important after throwing a goddamn fit when i told her there was no conditioner for her bathroom because it was in the room where the baby was sleeping nanny get me food literally snapped her finger above her head build me a fort or i'm telling them that you should be fired after being so incredibly mean to the other children and constantly complaining how bored she was in a house full of toys art and swimming pool outside i shut this crap down so fast and told her to never ever speak to me or another adult like that i told her parents and they acted mortified but never doled out consequences or an apology she put on a full face of makeup every day and wore heels not a babysitter but a paraprofessional at an elementary school first grade teacher goes around the classroom asking the kids what they want to be when they grow up one of the boys says i want to go to prison like my dad my lungs just stopped working on mayo when i was around 12 i'd babysit this family with four kids usually for around nine hours at a time the older two were manipulative but holes who would convince the younger two twins to do what they wanted knowing that the twins would be the only ones punished i caught on pretty fast partially because i got the chance to babysit the twins alone and they were angels the oldest especially scared the heck out of me she was a monster i'd regularly call my mom crying and begging for help because she stopped bothering to try to seem like a good kid after i started punishing all four of them when the older two got the twins into trouble and she knew i saw through her she was regularly on the front of the town paper for doing nice things and went to church etc so everybody who didn't know her well loved her she is a teenager now and is still a manipulative person who tries to ruin people's lives if she doesn't get her way another kid i worry about is a total sweetheart but he seems to have a very addictive personality and is incredibly competitive his gaming time has to be very carefully regulated or it will completely take over his life and he'll start getting anger issues he can't stand losing games to the point where he kicked the ball over and stormed off crying when we played snakes and ladders because i landed on a ladder despite still only being half as far along the board as him the middle brother of three boys i sat for when i was 15 had then undiagnosed mental problems and while i was in the kitchen fixing snacks he took a belt out of the laundry basket i had been folding and started beating his little brother's bare back and chest while the older one tried to pull him off i came in and found the older one holding the middle one in an improvised choke hold while the middle one lash of him with the belt over his legs i grabbed the little one and hit him in the master bedroom and ran back slapped the middle one as hard as i could across the face and got the older one and myself locked in the master bedroom with the phone the middle one was still lamped up and grabbed a knife out of the kitchen and started stabbing the bedroom door this was a dinky little trailer with those really simple wood doors that are hollow inside he made a decent hole in the door our mothers were in the movies and didn't see my 12 calls and frantic texts eventually he calmed down but i kept him away from the other boys and never babysat for them again middleboy was finally diagnosed and now lives in a facility he is whatever the middle child's name is i work at a preschool we had a kid whose mom was convicted of raping and sodomizing two kids the kid's dad was abusive and abandoned him to social services so they put him back with his rapist mother and she now has custody of him i worry about him frequently honestly parents who don't care about the kids education for whatever reason probably the parent didn't graduate high school in the first place and doesn't place a whole lot of value in education many of those kids source former teacher end up working at mcdonald's or struggling to find some other work they don't even get into trades because you have to go to some kind of school for those and school just isn't something they can do this happened with my step-daughter who is an absolutely wonderful person but her mom never cared how she did in school or even if she went hence are trying to make a living now at 25 by working in daycares which does not pay very well she wants to do other things but they'd all require school and she just says i hate school i work as a tee and there's a little four years old boy in my class who keeps masturbating you heard me masturbating and his mom didn't seem to care at first he's just rarely touching his pants so i thought he must have the need to use the bathroom or has an itch but then it gradually appears more frequent to the point he did it during class in front of everyone for the whole lesson i spoke him out on why he shouldn't do it told him to sit nicely and took away his toy he always brings one or two when he comes to school what i received was i can do whatever i want give me back my toy or my mom gonna yell at you and make you fired i talked with co-teachers and they were also concerned so we spoke with his mom at the wanking issue and guess what i believe i.t is just things kids do for fun and it will soon be gone they're easily to forget things you know it's okay come on i was tough on him since then so whenever he's at doing it he will check if i'm watching besides that he's a mama boy with all of that he is basically f head up it is pretty normal for young kids to do that but the parents need to teach them boundaries what's appropriate to do in public versus privately i was a tutor to four kids their dad was a tiger parent x100 after i left he was a dong by not paying me my last check and i couldn't handle his rules all of them had depression two tried suicide and one succeeded he was only in first grade they all tried running away until he got covered and died cps was crappy not a babysitter but i think my cousin might be a good example in this situation he moves around so much that he literally lives in a boat he has done school virtual schooling his entire life so his only friends are his cousins and his mother is both a cubby denier and an anti-vaxxer i feel bad for the poor kid probably not freaked up but when i taught skiing we taught lesson that met every week and here was this one girl maybe 10 who absolutely hated boys and every snack time she would go around and try punching all the boys in this instance it was when i was a preschool teacher but still applies a boy joins the school aged three years with his almost five-year-old brother three-year-old boy let's call him billy has been enrolled and expelled from three other preschools in a year billy beats other kids and teachers no hits beats them i saw him grab a girl by the hair and start punching her repeatedly in the face because she wouldn't share her toy here's the rub though billy obviously has issues but the brother is making such a fussed appearance and other adults billy is never without being corrected billy once threw a ball to his brother and it hit the brother in the face by accident the older brother said nothing until he realizes i saw it happen the brother immediately falls to his knees and fake cries about billy hurting him again just like always the parents inform us that at home the brothers are not allowed near each other and since billy is a handful they put billy in his area of the house and that is where he eats and plays separate from mum dad and brother so billy is absolutely fricked when he grows up he already has some underlying issues but he will never get the chance to work through them because he's locked in his room away from his family and has no one who loves him even though he punched me in the face i feel sorry for him babysat my younger brother my mom and stepdad don't give a freak my mom does she'll help him with homework and stuff make sure his school is good but other than that if you want to eat chips and play video games all day go ahead stepdad is deadbeat who smokes and drinks when he's not working he doesn't really have any morals and now that i don't live there i can't help him as much a local gymnastics academy we'd place for parents to spend a lot on kids to take gymnastics classes definitely not a place where children develop gymnastics careers had an attached preschool that was operated independently by a woman who ran it well gymnastics academy owner is an older eastern european who has two problems one for some reason a lot of his coaches are single moms who need daycare to teach and two he is obviously banging one of them so enter his genius plan to open an unlicensed daycare that i operate early twenties kid he finds off craigslist mom he is clearly banging is about as sharp as a box of rocks and routinely drops her two daughters off with no food the concerning thing about one of these girls particularly is she is somehow rather sharp but with no real healthy life or outlets this just means she is crazy manipulative i mean we are talking a seven-year-old that is about to be able to totally run circles around her own mother i can't imagine this girl ended up within any healthy relationships she was learning that relationships were transactional and about power dynamics by watching her mother and that she could manipulate anyone in her life to get what she wanted with no concept of long-term consequences babysat this kid while i was in high school he was like eight i was 17. he got thrown out of mainstream school for flipping a desk on his teacher i think the biggest this kid is going to be screwed up when he's older was either when he showed me his collection of knives he stole from the kitchen or when he took me to see his dad's pee collection yeah didn't work there too long i tutor kids one kid's dad would scream horrible things at him whenever he got a bad grade in school and tell him that he would never amount to anything the kid was 10 at the time and a little misbehaved but find me a ten-year-old boy who isn't i tried to mitigate things but there's only so much you can do when the parents are your employers it just broke my heart when i lived in canada and worked as a nanny i used to do casual babysitting on the side for a number of local families one of them well the parents were cool people with basically good hearts but they should never have been parents their youngest son had the video of the original michael keaton jack nicholson batman screamed at his fourth birthday party then army of darkness at his fifth the fifth birthday party was attended by the than four year old that i was nanny too and i had to play dumb and tell my employers that i had no idea why their son was running round the garden with a super soaker shouting this is my boomstick the parents were also ex hippies who hauled their son and his two older sisters round in a bus following the grateful dead and they bought their son a can you find stoned waldo t-shirt at one of the shows when the kid wore this shirt to school before he turned six he was made to take it off and turn it inside out before putting it back on and when asked if he knew why he'd been told to do this replied cause there's illegal activity on it but my dad says it's not illegal if you're sick listen i am completely 420 friendly and i love my horror movies but a child that young does not need to be exposed to things like this i'm not a babysitter though i've cared for children who aren't mine if the kid not only knows how to swear at a young age under 10 but uses the right context like there is this one kid in my life who pointed to charlie sheen on screen and said that's the w master another completely unrelated kid will tell you i'm not your n when you ask them to do something we are talking inward harder at the end by someone who wasn't even in preschool my brother at three would call his teacher the b word in fairness she was but it was literally the only thing he said clearly we got him a month before he turned three if you are new to the channel you can subscribe i publish new videos every day until then check another video [Music] bye for now

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Length: 25min 7sec (1507 seconds)

Published: Fri Sep 24 2021