that means the couple
is in<i> Niddah.</i> - Some of the guys are
going to go out tonight. - We're supposed to work
through it together. He can't just pick up
and leave. This is setting the tone
for our marriage. - Why aren't we starting
our family sooner? - We're going to be
old parents, and we don't want
to do that. Let's start trying and let's
just see what happens. - Really? I am ecstatic. I can't even talk.
[ laughs ] - We are getting rid
of your clothes. He's gonna have to
understand I'm the boss. - You're a man,
you're not a child, and I think you really
need to talk to her. - Taylor accepted this position
as a flight attendant. She didn't consult me. Where's this equal partnership
on this marriage? - Texas women can be stubborn, but Texas men
are stubborner. - More stubborn.
First of all, more stubborn. Not stubborner. - Okay. They can be
more stubborn. Most men, they'll usually,
"Okay, honey." - You know why men are not
more stubborn than women? Because when push
comes to shove, men need sex
more than women do. - [ laughs ]
- We can hold out longer. Sooner or later, he's gonna cave
to whatever a woman wants 'cause he wants to get laid.
Period, The end. - I recently applied for a job
as a flight attendant, and I accepted the position. But there's still
quite some time left until I leave for training, and in the meantime, I am stuck
in this tiny little camper doing absolutely nothing
every day, and I'm slowly starting
to go insane. David?
- What's up? - You look so dumb. - Scoot your toot.
- [ laughs ] - Why you always commenting
on my shoes? You're not even
wearing shoes. - Well, I've got
nothing else to do. - 'Cause you're a bum. Every time I come home after
a long day's hard work, she's complaining she's bored
out of her mind in the camper, and it's frustrating because Taylor's
at home doing nothing and I'm busy busting
my butt all day, trying to bring something
to this marriage. - I'm bored. - I think tired beats bored
every day of the week. - I'm bored
every day of the week. - I don't know what to do
about your boredom, all right? You need
to go find something to put your skills
and talents to use. - I did. It's the new job
that I'll be taking. - Yes, but you're
not doing anything until that time, all right? I'm upset with Taylor for taking this job
without consulting me first. In a marriage,
you, you know, talk to your person you're with, but I think she doesn't feel
like she needs to abide by that, that I'm the only one that needs
to consult her for things. You know, I'm sick of it. I mean, she could be
working right now, and she's not. - Well, what else do you
expect me to do all day? - I don't know. I'm not
gonna hold your hands. That what I tell my kids. I mean, have you thought
about finding a waitress job? You can't just sit
on your butt all day and expect things to happen. - I think I was expecting
a little more compassion from David
whenever he came home. It's a little disheartening
to hear David go on and on about how I'm being
a lazy bum. - You got to find something
to do, all right? You don't need to be
just sitting here and doing nothing all day. That's not cool. - There's a certain level
of things that challenge you when you're together
in a relationship, but there's a whole other
layer of things that challenge you when you're trying
to make a household run. - Ben is going
to have to learn that you can't reason
your way out of every problem. You have to learn how
to have a good fight, you know. - [ laughs ] Yeah. - Vicki's not afraid
of him, and I'm sure
that sparks will fly. It'll be great. - Milady.
- Thank you. - All right.
what'll it be this time? - Hi. Can I have
a vanilla latte, please? - One thing that stays the same
is your coffee order. At least I have something
I can count on. Now that we're married,
Vicki and I are getting ready to set up
our joint bank account. We as newlyweds without jobs--
we're students-- we need to pool
our resources together. Vicki and I have
some money saved from before we were married, and that's where
our money comes from. I'm gonna sit down. Before we got married,
we sort of agreed that I would be the one who handles the nitty-gritty
of the finances. And we don't have
endless money, so there's got to be a line,
you know, that we can't cross. I need to draw that line. We got a lot
to take care of today. We got to set up
our joint bank account. Right?
- Right. - We're gonna be pooling both of
our savings accounts together. But just because there's
a lot of money in the account, I mean,
that's all of our money. - I don't know
if you noticed, but I cut back a lot
on my spending lately, so... I tried to save money
before I got married. I was not very good at it. I love to spend money, and I'm not really
used to having someone sort of telling me
how to do that. - Moving forward, we got to be
careful not to spend too much. And, you know,
like these lattes, I mean, that wasn't cheap. There's a term in Judaism
called<i> L'Shmah.</i> <i>L'Shmah</i> means that I do it for the inherent substance
of the thing, you know, for the thing itself. I save money<i> L'Shmah.</i> I don't do it
because I have to. I do it because I like to. It makes me feel alive,
you know. It's a<i> M'chaya</i>
for me to save money. - You're being
really dramatic. - I do--I feel strongly
about this. How many vanillas lattes
do you drink a day, you think? - Two or three,
four sometimes. - Four? Like I feel like
there's something you can do to like maybe wean off them a
little bit maybe, a little bit? - It really bothers me how much Ben picks on me
for drinking coffee, because Ben this car
that is constantly breaking down and it happens very frequently and it's always
very expensive to continue to repair
this thing. But we just can't afford to keep pouring money
into this car. - You know, if you're
sort of trusting me to keep track of all these
lattes and everything, then you also need
to be able to trust me, you know,
when I say something like we don't have endless money,
you know. - Yeah, I know.
I do. I'll trust you. - Because we need to be able
to have that conversation. - But I think you can be
a little stingy about stuff. - We don't need
to talk about this now. First, let's work on getting
the account set up so that we're not
all over the place. - Okay. - Maybe we'll learn
how to make ouown vanilla lattes
in the future. - ♪ Oh-oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ ♪ Oh-oh,
here comes the good life ♪ - In America, Indian parents want their children to be
very successful financially. They want them to study, and they really want them
to be very successful. - It's become more like
showing your wealth. - It is a big race for who's
going to be how successful. - Well, this is nice. We get
to go and have some breakfast and start our day off
the right way with something healthy,
right? - Yeah. - Do you want to turn the audio
off on that maybe? - I don't know. Mayur's
been super busy lately. And I understand he is the CEO
of a huge brokerage and he's super focused
on making money. I mean, it's rare to have
a morning with Mayur to myself. But at the same time,
it's really critical right now to spend time together, especially if I'm trying
to get pregnant. It takes time and effort. It's not going to happen
on autopilot. - You hungry?
- Yeah. - Being successful is very
important to the Indian culture. You're almost-- You know, you're looked down on
if you're not ultra successful. Growing up, if we got a B
on our report card, we were punished until we got
a new report card with all As. And if we made a mistake,
we would pay for it 10 times more
than any other kid would. So it's just something that
is a normal in our family. You have to be
ultra successful. So we got our numbers
for last month, and we were number one
in the number of agents that we brought in and kept. So we're starting off the start
of the year like really well. - Wow.
- Once we hit a certain plateau, then they're going
to give me the opportunity to hopefully run an office as an OP,
which is the owner. - Yeah. That's awesome. - You know, years ago our family
went through some ups and downs, and for many years,
we had to struggle and work very hard
to just survive. So I know what it's like
to not have money, and that's why
I want to make sure that I'm super successful. - Aren't you happy I've been
cooking for you lately? - Yeah. - Yesterday
you ate without me. - I mean, I was gone
from 7 A.M. to 7 P.M. I was pretty hungry
to get home and eat. - Obviously, I want us to be
this great power couple, but I think he needs to
time block some time for us so that
we don't spiral down, you know, the road
of not being in love. That's what eventually
can lead to divorce. - Let's get going. - Taylor taking this job,
I think, is kind of a bad deal for our
relationship and our marriage. It's really bothering me. I don't think it's something that she should have
jumped into right away without talking to me
first about it. And she needs to know
that I'm not okay with her just packing
her bags and leaving. I'm just kind of terrified
that all this time apart is going to just make us
drift apart. She needs to get a damn job
while she's here in Texas. And you know what? Maybe she'll like a job
out here and she won't leave. - You actually want me to
walk around without makeup on? - You don't need to cover up
your natural beauty. You don't. - You know what? Let's talk
about your spending. - We're fighting
all the time. - I'm trying
to just talk to you. - I'm not in the mood
to talk right now. I'm sorry. It doesn't feel like Taylor's
taking me seriously. That doesn't seem
like a team. It doesn't seem
like a marriage. - Anytime you live with someone
for the first time, there's adjustments
that will need to be made. Different parts
of your personality and living habits come out. I know my daughter
likes to buy things and spend money.
[ chuckles ] I've gotten gray hairs over budgeting
with my daughter, so... I already told Ben,
you know: It's your turn. - I love this.
It's so pretty. - It is pretty.
How much is it? - Nice and simple. 280. - [ laughs ] - Vick, you know
we don't have the budget for that kind of stuff. Right now, we're at
a Jewish merchandise store to get mezuzahs
for our new apartment. Whenever an Orthodox Jew
purchases a new place, there's a commitment
to affix a mezuzah to every single doorway
of that house. A mezuzah
is a little scroll which contains passages
from the Torah, and it's put in a little
housing called the<i> bayit</i> and then it functions
as a reminder to be cognizant of God. - Wow, I love these
challah cutting boards. - They're also $210. - Ooh, this is nice. - $65 for a washing cup? - Kiddush cups. - We already have
a nice kiddush cup. - We don't have a short one. - Vick, between rent,
school and bills, we only have $150 left
to spend this month. Are we gonna find
the mezuzah or-- - Fine. Shopping with Ben
is very frustrating. I like to have
a lot of nice things, and Ben just wants to have
stuff that we need. There's so many. - $110. What? If you're spending $110
on every single-- - But people notice these.
They're decorative. - When I walk through a door, I don't go, oh,
how expensive looking is that? - Not expensive.
Nice, pretty. Don't you love this one? - Oh.
- Look at the price. - It's $170. All we need
is a plastic case to put the scroll in
and we're good. - I feel like you feel that way
about everything we own, though. - I'm realizing that Vicki and I
don't see eye to eye when it comes to money
at all. Not at all. Plastic. - Whatever. Just pick
whichever one you want. I don't care. - How about this one?
- It's fine. - We definitely
need to be realistic about what we can afford. I mean,
that's just common sense. If you care about nice things,
we'll have nice things one day. - Okay, but one day
I'm expecting you to buy me
a really, really nice mezuzah. - One day we will. - And washing cup
and kiddush cup and car and clothes
and diamonds. - Fine.
- Deal? - Deal. I feel like if
you keep touching things, there's more things
you're gonna want to buy. - I'm gonna touch
everything. - At least it's nice today.
I'm glad you could come downtown.
- Yeah. - It's been a long time
since I've been store-fronting. How is David? Haven't seen him
in like a week. - He's driving me nuts. I asked my mom to come
and hang out with me today because David's really been
getting on my nerves lately. I was told to
start looking for a job till my training starts. It's ridiculous. He started whining
and complaining. - Uh-huh. - Because I'm not working
right now. I told him--
I was just like, well, what do you
expect me to do? I mean, he was like,
"Go get a job." I was like,
"I already have one. I'm going to go
to training." But he's just--he was like,
"You need to go do something. Quit sitting around
the trailer all day." So we're just like-- - Okay, let's think
about this a minute. Y'all have been together
practically the entire year. The whole time you were
planning the wedding, you haven't been separated. You're, you know,
jumping into a new job and you're gonna be gone
for, what, a month? - Yeah, roughly. - So it's like
a deployment. It's your first
30 days away. You got to put yourself
in that situation and think,
"What's David thinking?" - I tell him to suck it up,
buttercup. - It's like a KD trip. David is not a suck it up,
buttercup, kind of person. He's gonna stay
on the offensive if you get the suck it up
kind of mode going. You know I'm right. You need to find a nice polite
way to tell him to back off. You know, you got
to stroke his ego. Don't you bat your eyes at me.
You're married. That's a Texas man
kind of thing. You just got to stroke
that ego a little bit. You know, it's kind of like
rubbing that back of that horse. Gotta do whatever it takes
to make them happy, and I know you know that. So maybe he's right. If you're just sitting around
454 square feet of nothing, get off your butt
and go do something. - [ groans ] - Go to a food bank.
Go to the food bank. I'm going to the food bank. - Having to be forced
into situations that I completely
disagree with irritates the absolute hell
out of me, but at least
this is something that's going to make me
feel good about my time, and it should get David
off my back harping about spending
all my days at home. - It'll get you
out of the house. It'll get you out of his hair. - Oh, all right. - Mayur comes home from work
late quite often, and we're just
newly married, so it's tough to be alone
as much as I am. I just want us
to be on the same pages. Yeah, giving each other love
and affection and time. - Hi, babe.
- Hi. - What are you up to?
- Laundry. - Yes, there's lots left. What time did you get home? - I just got home
like not too long ago. I didn't have much time
to cook, so I brought
something to go. - I'm gonna change and then I
got to work on some stuff, so-- - You do?
- Yeah. - Mayur and I have grown up
really differently. His parents went through
a divorce when he was younger, and so he saw struggle,
and I saw a lot of love. When my dad comes home,
he shuts off the business and he's like
all about my mom. But Mayur is completely
the opposite. He keeps choosing work
over me, and that's not good. - So what's for dinner,
babe? - Fried chicken for you. - Nice. I'm gonna sit
on the couch. Just eat over there
if you don't mind. - Babe...
- Got a lot of stuff to do. Give me
some hot sauce, too. - Sure.
- Thank you. - I'm gonna go change. - We have a saying
at my work which says, "The purpose of business
is to fund the perfect life." The perfect life to me is having multiple homes
around the world. $20, $30, $40, $50
million mansions. I want to have
an unlimited budget to travel wherever I want. I want a Lamborghini,
a Ferrari, you know, a Range Rover, Sea-doos, motorcycles. I would love to open up
a hospital in India. You know,
I want a real estate empire, and it takes money
to do that. - What are you working on? - Lots of stuff I have to do
to answer everything. - Didn't you work on it
at work? - Yeah,
but I don't have time. What's going on with you? - Eating my salad by myself. Did you even hear
what I said? - Yeah.
- What'd I say? - You said that
you're very happy in love and that you love the taste
of your salad. - Did you hear any of what
I just said right now? What is so important
right now that we cannot talk about
our day together? - This is what helps
pay our bills, babe. We have a rule
in Keller Williams that's called
"what you focus on expands." It's a concept that we learn:
Things that you talk about, you start focusing on, and they start,
you know, to become real. And I choose to focus
on success. - You want to watch a movie
or something? - Babe, I'm tired. - You're always tired.
How old are you? - Babe, I didn't even
take a break today like the entire day, so I think
I'm gonna just get ready to go to bed soon, babe. - I can't even tell you
how upset I am. I can't get through to him, and I have to figure out
what to do. Jeez. - We should do
a little window shopping while we're here,
don't you think? We could find something
for our side table, a little decorative piece. - I don't know if we need
to be decorating right now. - I'm pretty frustrated that our house isn't the way
I like it to be. It actually came furnished, so none of it
is how I put it together. I want our home
to feel like a home. I don't want it to just be
a place with some furniture. These are so cute. I really like the candles. - It's also $62. - Smell it. - You'd burn $62? That's like half
our spending budget. I don't know.
Doesn't make sense to me. - I need this. - Oh, my gosh.
- I really like it. - You literally
just walked in here. - Ben, you don't have to be
so like stingy all the time. I'll just buy it. - You just buy it with
our new joint bank account? - With my part of our new
joint bank account. - [ laughs ] That's not
how it works, my darling. - I don't think you get
to decide how it works. - Keep looking, huh? - I was extremely
disappointed. Ben really isn't giving up,
so I sort of just let it go and he picks out
the $20 one. My goal here is to make
our apartment look pretty, and he just needs to realize that not everything
is going to be cheap. Sometimes you just need
to suck it up and pour some money
into things. It's called investing. Ben: Okay. - Okay, I'm gonna figure out where the best place
for this guy is. - I'm gonna go grab
my laptop. Okay, so--
Ooh, nice! That looks really good. - I don't know. I mean,
it's just one candle. It doesn't really,
you know, add a lot-- - I think it does add a lot. - I think it says
I spent very little money trying to decorate
this apartment. Ben's careful about
how he spends his money, but sometimes he really
just takes it too far. He needs to realize
that he's a husband, he's a married man, and we're building
our lives together and it's time to kind of,
you know, start acting like it. - Hey, Vick, maybe we should get
a candle in here, you know. I think
it would set the mood. - Right. - In Texas,
God is of utmost importance. The Bible says that wives
submit to their husbands just as the church
submits to their Lord, and so it's the husband
that should make the decisions on the direction
that the family goes. - I think so, too.
- Yes. [ video game plays ] Taylor:
So what did you do today? David? When David comes home from work,
he needs a half hour to just kind of decompress
from the day. But this is not normal. I thought I was just trying to bring up some casual
kind of conversation with him, and instead, he's blowing me off
for video games. I talked to my mom. - About what? - I think she wanted to go
to the food bank with me. We're gonna go volunteer. - Volunteer?
So you're not gonna work? - No. Who's gonna hire me? - It just seems like
an excuse, T. - You did a career move,
and guess what? It was incredibly
beneficial for you. Why can't you see I'm doing
the exact same thing? - So you didn't even try
is what I'm getting at. - I'm incredibly frustrated because I was expecting him
to understand about volunteering
at the food bank. But instead, I got
the complete opposite reaction. There's no reason
anyone should be upset by volunteering,
especially David. David?
- What? - Can you turn that off
and talk to me? - It's right there. [ turns off video game ] Fine. - Seriously,
put your phone away. - What?
- I just asked you to turn off one electronic--
- Can you not nag about every little thing? - Can you actually be decent and talk to me?
- What? - What has got you
in such a pissy mood? - I'm just exhausted. It feels like we're fighting
all the time and-- - No one is fighting
right now. I'm trying
to just talk to you. - I'm not in the mood to
talk right now. I'm sorry. I'm not happy. She does not
want to go out there and actually get a job,
and it doesn't feel like Taylor's
taking me seriously, and it's really not
what I signed up for. I've worked all day and I see you here
doing nothing. - I am going to go out
and volunteer. I am doing something
that is for the better. The least you could do is
pretend to be excited for me. I am leaving in a few weeks. - Two weeks.
I'm so happy for you. - You're such an ass.
I don't want to talk to you. It really sucks right now. We're here
in the physical sense, but we're not here for one
another emotionally right now. It doesn't feel like this
arrangement's going well. - Taking on the responsibility
of dealing with finances is turning out to be a lot. I'm starting to feel
like I'm in over my head. What? I don't remember this. Vicki and I don't see
eye to eye about money, but we need to find a good
compromise, because if not, I'm afraid we're looking at
a lifetime of problems. So I need to talk
to my dad about this. Hey, Dad. I can't see you. - That's funny. Well-- - Press the camera button. - I can fix that.
Oh, yeah. - Hey. - Hey. So how you doing? - Good. I'm just trying
to figure out all the bills and expenses
we have. I'm trying to like
balance all of it. - You having problems
with it? - Well, Vicki
has bad spending habits, and I hope that it all
cools off a little bit. - You and Vicki
have worked out a budget for yourselves,
haven't you? - No. I mean...
[ laughs ] - Are you scared
to talk to her? - I don't know if scared
is the right word. I just felt like
it was something that was going to be
like a stressful topic. I thought
that maybe we like we didn't even need
to talk about it really. - Well, you guys
are married. You can't make
these decisions yourself. You got to sit down and write down
here's what we got. Here's what our rent is. Here's what
our school expenses are. Are we going out to dinner
or are we cooking in? - Yeah.
- Ben, it sounds like you're gonna have problems
sooner and not later. Your money is in common
and so are your debts. - I feel like our security
as a married couple is being threatened
right now. Money is really
one of the biggest hurdles that we have to overcome
right now. It's gonna require a lot
of adapting to each other, and it's something
we're not even used to having to deal with. - You've got to have
this conversation with Vicki right away. You can't put it off. - [ sighs ] - Hey, babe.
- Hello. - What are you doing here? I have an appointment
right now with an agent. - I'm that agent. This is the only way I could get in here
to talk to you. - Are you serious?
- Yeah. I'm gonna have
a discussion with Mayur about blocking
some time for us. Because Mayur and I used
to go on dates all the time, and we don't do that
right now. But I want a relationship, because I'm going
to be with this man for the rest of my life. And, you know,
if this keeps happening, it's just never gonna stop. You're always so busy. - Okay, well,
you got 30 minutes. What's going on? - We just got married, and you have to give your wife
more time and attention. - You want to have
a kid soon, and you want him to have
a great life. I want to make sure
that I can provide all this great stuff
for you guys. I don't want us
to be hustling like, you know,
when we're 60 years old. It really involves
putting in the hours now. - Mayur is great
at negotiating, so, you know,
I have to figure out how to talk like a CEO
in order to get through to him. I think it's important that we kind of chalk out
some time together. You know, a time block.
- Okay. Good idea.
You're learning. So like
what do you want to do? - I was thinking
we could go to dinner. - When?
- Today? - I have appointments
like all day, and then
we still have to like work on a bunch of stuff
for next week. We're doing really good
this month, so if I can do
a little bit better, like we'll shine
on all of our reports as being
the number one office. - But we have to be number one
in each other's lives. - [ laughs ]
That's true as well. - You know, whatever
you focus on expands, and that means
you need to focus on us and that we will
get stronger, too, as a relationship
and a couple, and then we can have children
and be good parents. It's a domino effect. - Okay, babe. You know what?
You're right. You're right. How about we make reservations
to a really nice restaurant and go tomorrow after work? - Sounds good. - Maneka wanting more romance,
and she's right. I need to spend more time being romantic with Maneka,
definitely. - There's also a condition.
- What? - We can't talk about work. - I don't really like
conditions being put on me. - Well, get used to it. - Okay, fine.
Romantic date night. You're a pretty good
negotiator, babe. [ both laugh ] - Ready pas-ghetti?
- I'm ready. Before I leave for training, my mom and I are volunteering
at a local food bank, which ticked David off because he had been asking me
to go find a job. But the Bible tells us
that it's far more blessed that we give
than we receive, so I feel like
this is just something for me to be able
to give back to those who are
in my own community. - You know, sometimes
it's just hard to imagine that there's homeless veterans
out there that served
your country and-- I mean, the awareness
is kind of more out there than what it used to be. - It's picking up, but
it's not where it should be. - Still not doing
what we should be doing. - Okay,
I think that's kind of full. Oh, this is awesome. David's been on my derriere
about going out and doing something while
I wait for training to start. - Don't get me started. - He's still definitely trying to be
like man of the house, and it's really annoying. But I think my biggest fear is that it's going to become
a control issue, and I don't do well
with control. - For you and David, you've
got to be able to establish a solid foundation of what
your marriage is based on and your, you know,
your give and take, and that's gonna be huge. Because if you don't, you will end up,
you know, divorced. Starting now, y'all don't
have very many things to worry about financially. I mean, hell, y'all are gonna
need two cars before long. - Definitely. - And he's gonna want
his Hummer. - He's not allowed to do
the Hummer. He knows that. - But, see, yet you
just made that decision. See, that's you being
too dominant. - And that's his problem. - No, it's not.
It's y'all's problem. There are no more his problem
and her problem. I'm right, Taylor. I don't know.
Sometimes, Taylor, I think you're more
of a problem than David. You can't make a decision and then turn around
in the next heartbeat and say, I want us
to come to a mutual whatever. You have to change as a person
when you get married, and sometimes Taylor needs to
find a better way to say things or to expel the criticisms
of David. 'Cause otherwise
she could lose her man. You're gonna ruin
a relationship. You will end up
running him off. - ♪ Money, money, money ♪ ♪ Money makes
the world go round ♪ ♪ Money makes a lovely sound ♪ - Hey, babe.
- Hi. What are you doing? - Oh, I'm just doing
some future planning. My dad's advice was
a real wakeup call for me. There's got to be areas where we
can cut down on these expenses. What are you up to? - I just got us
some takeout. - I'm just trying
to figure out how I'm gonna
bring this up to her, 'cause it's really important
that she responds well 'cause this is such
an important conversation. Mmm. It's good, but takeout
does get expensive. I just was thinking that we
should try not to...overspend. - Are you accusing me
of overspending, because-- - No, I'm not accusing you
of anything. I just want to have
a conversation. - Okay,
so let's talk about it. - Listen, I've gone over
the bills, and right now, we're
going through a lot of cash that we just don't have
each month, and we really
have to cut back. So how many lattes would you say
you consume a week? - Two a day...like 10. - 10, and is that an area where you feel like
you'd be able to cut down
a little bit maybe? - No, not really. Ben starts accusing me
of overspending, but I'm not sure
if drinking less lattes is gonna make a huge difference
in terms of our bank account. I think Ben has a few things
that he could also give up. - How about makeup? I mean, I know your makeup
is extremely expensive. - The makeup I use
is all very, you know, years of trial and error
with different products, and I'm not giving them up. - And I totally--I think
that if you found the products that work
for you, that's great. I'm just saying I think you
could easily cut down on it. - You actually want me to
walk around without makeup on? I'm just calling B.S.
on that. That's not true. - You don't need to cover up
your natural beauty. You don't. - Yeah, I do.
- Okay. - You know what? Let's talk
about your spending. - You actually want me to
walk around without makeup on? I'm just calling B.S. on that.
That's not true. - You don't need to cover up
your natural beauty. You don't. - Yeah, I do.
- Okay. - You know what? Let's talk
about your spending. I pack you a lunch every single
day when you go to school. - And I really
appreciate it. - And you never finish it. And you are spending money
at the cafeteria. Why do you have to buy
10 rolls of sushi and five slices of pizza? - Okay, okay.
You know what? - So it's okay
when you do it, but it's like horribly wrong
when I do it. If Ben is asking me
to reduce my spending habits, he needs to take a look
at his own spending habits and maybe make
some compromises also. And I would love to talk
about your car for a minute, because I think that's tearing
into our savings account. - Wait, wait. These are all
important conversations, but getting a new car would be like
another added expense when right now we have
a fully functional car. - That's where you're wrong. It doesn't work.
It's a black hole. Literally, I feel like
all of our money is going towards the car. - Okay. I don't really--
I wasn't trying to have a conversation
necessarily about the car. - Oh, my God. You keep pouring money
and money and money and money into all these
random repairs until finally it's not
gonna be repairable anymore. - And when that happens,
then we'll-- - We're not gonna have
a car! - I say we'll handle
that situation when it comes. That wasn't the point
of this conversation. - Right. The point
of this conversation was to point out
what I'm doing wrong, not what you're doing wrong. I'll just
put your food away. - Thank you. You do look beautiful
even without makeup. - I really don't want
to hear it. - So Maneka obviously,
you know, wants to spend more time
with me and have more attention,
and she's right. From time to time,
I need to slow down and enjoy time with Maneka. - Thanks.
- You're welcome. Nice romantic table for two. I'm very empathetic
to Maneka's feelings, and I want to, you know,
give her what she wants. - Cheers to our date night.
Yeah. We should do this
more often. - We do do it often. We go to restaurants a lot. - Really? [ scoffs ] I could tell Mayur's
having a hard time. He's not used to relaxing
and taking his mind off work, so I guess
that was a reality check. So, babe, I was thinking
about when we eat dinner or whenever we're
like together, we should put
our phones away. - Babe, why? - I have an emergency
or you have an emergency. - Really? We're gonna have
an emergency at 8:00? Can you just
put the phone away? We don't need our phones. - Fine. You're more
attached to yours than you are attached to me. - Do you see it here? - These guys
have a really good menu. Maybe we should open up
a restaurant. What do you think? - Really? - It could be like
our place to go to after work. - You want to talk
about business again? - No. You said you wanted
to go on more date nights. I thought it'd be romantic if we own a place so
we could just go on a date whenever we want and get
everything the way we want. - It's not a date night when
you own your own restaurant. - It is-- - No talking
about business, babe. - In Judaism,
we observe the Sabbath, but that means that
from sundown on Friday until sundown on Saturday,
we come to rest. We don't drive,
we don't use electricity, we don't work on our jobs. You're interacting
with other people. - It's not about
what you don't do, but it's what
you give yourself the time to do
and to experience. - Turn left here. Still not enough-- - Just go. there's not ever
gonna be enough room. - Okay. So what are we
gonna do when we get home? - Cooking, cleaning. - I got to do some homework. [ rattling ]
- What's that noise? - Um, I'm... - Car feels really weird. - So Vicki and I
are rushing back home so that we can start
getting ready for Shabbos, and all of a sudden, the car starts doing
something very strange. - Oh, my God. Ben.
What the hell? - Uh... - I asked Ben
what's going on. He's not telling me. But I know that his car
is just breaking down right before Shabbat
on a Friday afternoon. I'm getting nauseous. Ben, there's obviously
something wrong. Can you just pull over
somewhere? I'm not feeling really good.
Oh, my God. - Making it home before
shabbos is very important because you can't
really travel so much. You know, you can't use
electronics. You can't drive.
It's a time-bound commandment. - Okay, just stop.
Stop. Just stop. I can't believe
this is happening again. I'm sick and tired
of this car. - I know, I know,
I know, I know. - I'm so frustrated because
I've been telling Ben we need a new car,
and I don't know if Ben really doesn't see that
or if he's just being stubborn. - I just see this as a car which should continue
to be used until it is rendered
useless. - I just don't understand
why that's so much to ask for. I really don't.
I really don't. Call a tow truck. so I was wondering if you guys
could give me a tow. Yeah, do you know how long
that would be? Great. I'll see you then.
Bye-bye. Okay, they said they can
be here in like 20 minutes. - 20 minutes. Oh, my God. - We'll have
to wait for them. - If we don't get home
before night, we'll have to walk home. This whole situation
isn't just annoying. It's dangerous. - You guys have
anyplace to go? - Yeah. Are you able
to take us somewhere? - Yeah, that's no problem. I'll just make a call
and that's it. - Sure. Great. Thanks.
- Hop in. - I really hope
the situation helps Ben to see
my side of things. Ben loves to save money
anywhere that he can, but I'm not sure he gets it. Sometimes trying to spend the
least amount of money possible can actually end up
costing a lot more money. - Mom and I are always
on the same page, so for her to say
I'm being too hard on David is a bit of a wakeup call
for me. I'm leaving soon and he's not happy
about that, so maybe I'll just try
and be nicer, be a little bit sweeter
to him, and maybe I'll start
seeing a change. - Hey, nice trailer park. - Are we at home?
- Get in here. - Tonight we really need
to just go out, have a drink, and I need
to cut some slack to David. - Corn hole. - You wanna play? - Yeah.
- Okay. - I'm having a hard time communicating my feelings
to Taylor about her taking
this flight attendant job. I'm still trying to process how to just even bring
any of this up to Taylor. - Come on, let me beat you. Oh, look, you hit it. Almost. [ laughs ]
That never happens! Did you see?
- Nope. - No? You just have to suck
the fun out of my moment. - This just isn't fun
anymore. - Is it because I'm winning? - No. It's just not fun. - Fine. Let's sit.
- Okay. - The whole purpose of David
and I coming out tonight was to have fun
and hang out together, but he's not being
any amount of fun at all. So what's up? - It's just one thing
after another. Like I thought we got through
all the drama with my families and stuff,
and now you're leaving, so it's just
a little overwhelming. - How am I supposed
to know these things if you're not talking to me? - Maybe I'm not
the whole problem. Maybe you're a little bit
too headstrong. Maybe you're too dominant
in this relationship. Maybe you need
to take a step back. - Maybe you're too much
of a pushover. - All right.
I'm telling you right now, I'm not happy with you
going to flight school and you taking it without
consulting with me. I can't support something
that I don't totally believe in. With you running away
from all the problems, nothing's getting resolved. We never had a honeymoon stage.
It's just totally-- - Can you look at me
while you're talking? - I'm telling you
not to leave. - What? When David told me that, I can honestly say
I was really surprised. I thought we were
already through this. I feel like it could take
a sharp hit in our marriage if I don't have his support. - I was thinking of starting up
boot camp again. - No. Bad idea. - Mayur is super protective. - If you're a true man,
you protect your wife. - It's a very typical
Indian male mentality. - Women that are naive are the ones that get
taken advantage of. - I was talking about cars. Now all of a sudden we're
talking about having kids? Are we thinking about
starting a family now? - We need to start today. - What we're doing right now
is not working. Probably need to go talk
to someone. - I'm really hoping that he can
get to the root of the issue. - Your communication is the key
to a successful marriage. So what hurts you, David?
