Altruism | Matthieu Ricard | Talks at Google

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[MUSIC PLAYING] MENG: Good morning, my friends. Thank you all for coming. For those who do not know me, my name is Meng. For those who know me, my name is still Meng. The reason I told this joke is about, I don't know, many years ago-- MATTHIEU RICARD: Yes. MENG: In 2007 or something, back when even I was young, yeah, we did this together. I told this joke. Yeah, I told this joke. He still remembers. So, which is why, I told this joke again. Yeah, we are very funny together. I think the last joke we told each other was just now. So we talk about changing the world. And he says, yeah, because of you, the north and south are switched. And I said, no, North and South Pole are still the same, East and West Pole, different. MATTHIEU RICARD: A very good one. MENG: Good one. Anyway, you all know Matthieu as the happiest man in the world. But every time you say that, Matthieu gets embarrassed. So please don't say that. Please do not say Matthieu Ricard is the happiest man in the world. I repeat, do not say, Matthiew Ricard is the happiest man in the world. MATTHIEU RICARD: Don't think of a white bear. MENG: Don't think of the white bear. Jokes aside, I'm so happy to have you, my dear friend. Matthieu is, in my opinion, a true gem in this world. MATTHIEU RICARD: It is getting worse and worse. MENG: It's getting worse, right. AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] MENG: By the way, in the email I sent them out, I call you a saint. MATTHIEU RICARD: Now it's time to retire. MENG: He's a gem for many reasons. I think one of the big reasons is because he is the best person who is bridging East and West, the best of ancient wisdom, Eastern wisdom with the best of Western science. Because he has a PhD in molecular genetics under a Nobel Laureate from [INAUDIBLE]. Yes, [INAUDIBLE], yes. I almost got it. And after his PhD, he decided to become a monk. MATTHIEU RICARD: Not immediately, right? MENG: Not immediately, yeah. He said, when I grow up, I'm going to be a monk and then he did. And then, he was under the tutelage of at least two Tibetan masters-- two great masters, Kangyur Rinpoche and Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche, yes? And he has 60,000 hours of meditation training right now, thereabouts, give or take 10,000. AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] MENG: Yeah, what's 10,000 hours between friends, right? And when I met you, I think you were the first person with 10,000 of meditation able to be in an fMRI machine. You could be the person to have spent the longest time in an fMRI machine. MATTHIEU RICARD: That's possible. MENG: Yes, contributed greatly to science. And because he speaks the language of East and West, he speaks French, he speaks English, he speaks science, and he speaks Tibetan, and he speaks wisdom. He's everything. And, on top of that, Matthieu is a humanitarian leader, tireless, working for the world, trying to feed hungry people, teach the illiterate. And, on top of that, in person, if you ever have an unrealistic expectation about what a holy man should be like, unrealistic, unreasonable, he meets those expectations. He's spoiling the market for everybody else. So it's wonderful to have you in this world-- MATTHIEU RICARD: Thank you. MENG: --and in Google. And my friends, please welcome Matthieu Ricard. MATTHIEU RICARD: Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much to everyone here at Google. I'm so happy to be here, back for the first-- third time. And since Meng likes to make the same jokes, at 10 years interval, I recall also that last time, he said that since Google didn't exist in 1967 when I first went to India, so besides entering Google, the next best thing I could do is to spend 45 years in the Himalayas. So I'm really happy to be back. Last time was a talk on happiness. I find happiness pretty boring, and especially, because the risk is that we will try to look for selfish happiness, which is not only boring, but which is a recipe for failure. And I want to say why. Because there are people, smart philosophers, who make big statements. We, as sentient beings, our main goal is to live the full span of our life. I mean, for those who find taste in life. It's OK. Good. And therefore, during this life, we are entitled to look for well-being, and flourishing of happiness. Oh, great. That sounds OK, so far. Therefore we should be selfish-- big, logical, and experiential mistake. The idea that, well, if you really want to survive, really want to be happy, everyone for themselves, and we have a good chance to achieve that. Why is that fundamentally flawed? First of all, on the purely experiential aspect, if you think someone who's thinking me, me, me, all day long, there's a very miserable situation, because you feel so vulnerable. Anything that will be said in terms of praise or blame, of gain or loss, the whole world becomes either a potential threat or some kind of instrument that you hope to use to maximize that selfish happiness. So then it's a completely unbalanced situation. The world is not a mail order catalog for your desires, your fancies, your hopes and fears. Plus, on top of that, within the bubble of self-centeredness, it's pretty stuffy to live in that bubble. And everything takes huge proportions. It's like a storm in a glass of water, and everything that happens unsettles you. If you put a handful of salt in this glass, it's undrinkable. Put it in a big lake, no big deal. Put it in the ocean, you won't even notice the difference. So a very narrow mind of me, me, me is not very pleasant. And, of course, you will be a pain to almost everyone that's around you. But the other reason is why it doesn't work is even, I would say, deeper. It's basically because it puts you at odds with reality. You would assume, maybe I don't have anything against others, but it's not my job. So let's try to build my happiness in that little bubble. It's easier if it's only about my happiness, not about everyone's happiness. How can I think of that? So I have nothing against others being happy, but it's not my job. So that supposes that we could function as an independent bubble. And we would be some kind of separate entity from the rest of the world of reality. But if you look at the white sheet of paper, the first thing you could write on it is others, others, others, others, others others. I have a friend who teaches at Harvard, Greg Norris. He studies how many things are implicated and produced in a white sheet of paper? 30 nations. A white sheet of paper in France, white one. There's wood that comes from Finland. There's starch of potato comes from Czechoslovakia. And then, of course, the guy in Finland and the whole history with his grandparents and everything. So suddenly, the whole thing-- others, others, others are present in everything. So our happiness, our suffering are so intimately intermingled to this interdependence, to the idea that we could function as a separate entity is bound to misfunction. Now if you look experientially at the state of mind that is full of warmheartedness, benevolence, kindness, consideration, care, empathy, altruistic love, wishing everyone happiness, compassion. That means the wish that they may cease to suffer when they suffer. So these are the most fulfilling states of mind. We need to remember, a particularly filling time in our life is really a time of unconditional love for a child or for someone. Even the founders of positive psychology, like Barbara Frederickson, called love in the sense of positive resonance with others the supreme emotion. Because among all positive emotions, it's the one that broadens more your perspective, your way of seeing others. So first, it feels good. And, of course, if you are warm, people usually like it. Even dogs would like to stand next to you. They will sort of sense that you are a good, nice person to be with. And then it's also functional. Why? Because then it is attuned to the interdependence. If you realize that when you wake up in the morning, I don't want to suffer the whole day, and if possible, my whole life. And then it's not very difficult to put yourself in someone's mind. And so even if the person is confused, doing exactly the opposite what that person should do to find well-being. But still, basically do not want to suffer. So then that common humanity, that common sentience, I would say, with other sentient beings, like animals, creates this feeling of interdependence, of the common wish to escape suffering and find flourishing, and therefore, if you value your own wish for happiness, how can you not value, and therefore, be concerned? At least not neglect, or disregard, or use an instrument in a way that wish of others to escape suffering and be happy. So on the individual level, I think the pursuit of selfishness, if it doesn't work, the other one is bound to succeed. But now, if we take the little bit global picture to see why this notion of altruism is something more than the kind of noble utopia, some kind of luxury that we could afford when everything goes well. And people say, at times of catastrophe-- and actually, we could see in Nepal, in every major catastrophe of any kind, how the first thing that happened after the initial shock of whatever might be-- a bomb or, in that case, an earthquake-- how people got calm, organized, incredible solidarity, helping each other, bringing people to hospital. Most of the work is done by local populations. The rescuers, they come, and they help with dogs, and stuff like that. But 95% of all that work is not about looting, is not about doing terrible things. This is always, again and again, the same pattern that occurs. So there's a hope that we have that within our self, and we can enhance that. So why in the global picture is it so important? So if you think of the situation of the world, we are often, in the old days, kind of being on the edge. And we could be in our own life. We have to deal with our mind, to begin with, from morning till evening. And that mind can be your best friend or your worst enemy. I mean, when people suffer terribly within themselves, even they are living in a little paradise, it's the product, the working of the mind. Those ruminations, hopes, and fears that lead to depression, to despair is mind-made. And then, you can see people who keep their joy of leaving even in the face of seemingly very adverse circumstances. So the power of the mind-- it's not that we should neglect our outer condition. And the last one who would say that, because I try to dedicate at least a good part of my life to-- we helped 41,000 people over last month in the earthquake area of 160 villages, so the idea of remaining to poverty, to whatever we could do to improve others' conditions, that's for granted. But, at the same time, we tend to neglect the inner condition for flourishing. And I'm fundamentally convinced that altruistic love is one of the main contributors of that cluster of human quality that leads to well-being and flourishing. But there is challenges. There are challenges in society. There are plenty of people who live in poverty in the midst of plenty. And then, so we have all these challenges in our lives. But if we look at those challenges, basically, one of the most serious ones in our times is the difficulty we have to reconcile three times scales. There is the short term of the economy. Of course, the economy says we are making 10 years, 20 years plan. But nobody will buy bonds that will mature in 100 years. And basically, if it's not one day to the other, coming and going up at the stock market, it's the end of the month, the end of the year balance sheet. That's what matters. If you turn to economies, you should be altruistic. That's great, but that's not what the economy is about. So there is this question of the short term. And people say, if the economy flourishes, everything else will go along as a sort of byproduct. But the fact is, you could be in the most powerful and richest nation and still, if people feel miserable, what's the point? So the idea that happiness will come out of GDP has been already shown to be just a fallacy. It doesn't work like that. Then we have the midterm in terms of time frame. That is what? That is your life. That is a career, a family, a generation, your lifetime. So how do you measure that satisfaction, or that sense of fulfillment, or accomplishment? First of all is what is the quality of life moment after moment? How do you experience at the working place, when you study, when you engage with others, what do you see deep within? Sadness? Despair? Or joy to do what you do? And then, if you look at 10 years, how rewarding was that? How fulfilling was that? I remember when I was doing the book on happiness, meeting someone in Hong Kong. We said, 20 years ago, I wanted to get $1 million. Now I've got $10 million, and I wasted 20 years of my life, It's not that just the pursuit of that, per se, is wasting your life. But he found that it has no meaning for him. So we need to get some kind of satisfaction in our life. That's obvious. Otherwise, what's the point going on? But then there's a new challenge. And, of course, you guessed what. It's the long term. And that new challenge is our impact on the future generation. And that's new why? 10,000 years ago, there was one to five million people on earth. They could not do much damage. I mean, whether they were doing, the earth's resilience will repair that instantly. And then when came the Industrial Revolution, scientific technological revolution, giving us a thousandfold more power to influence our environment, nobody decided to ransack the planet. Therefore, we don't feel individually responsible. Plus it's a certain timespan. Plus it's not really visible day after day. It's visible on the longer term. And we are equipped emotionally by evolution to react to images of danger. If I said, there's a rhinoceros coming full-speed from this door, everybody runs. If I said, there will be a rhinoceros in 30 years, everyone says, so what? So in the '60s, '70s, when the first data about global warming came out, those scientists went to the White House and they told the advisors, in 50 years, it's going to be a real mess. So they went, all right, come back in 49 years. We'll see. But that's not the way to proceed, because 49 years will be much too late. The tipping points will have occurred, and then we don't see that happen. A friend of mine, who is a great environmentalist says, if CO2 could be pink, and we saw the sky becoming pinker every day, we'd worry a little bit more. So it's hard to feel it in one's flesh. But yet, it is absolutely true that no matter how complex scientifically, politically, economically, the question of the environment is, it is a matter of selfishness versus altruism. I'm a Marxist. Not worry, not the Karl tendency, the Groucho tendency. So Groucho said, why should I care for future generations? What did they do for me? AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] But unfortunately, I heard a serious version of it by a US billionaire saying on Fox News-- and maybe you heard of that, Fox-- he says, about the rising of the oceans, which is happening three millimeters every year, no matter what. He says, I find absurd to change my behavior now for something that will happen in 100 years. So after me, never mind. So we won't be there in 100 years. Maybe some of you, if you live 120, or something. But, of course, there will be billions and billions of people who will say, you knew, and yet, you did nothing. So it's not a trivial matter. And people say, well, we'll adapt. Yes, of course, 200 million climate refugees, the wars because of that, terrible devastation, two, four, six degree increase, a complete upheaval on the planet. We might adapt, but at the cost of how much suffering? So that's for, again, question of altruism versus selfishness. So now, you'll get, environmentally speaking with economists, this schizophrenic dialogue. They don't speak the same language, because someone said in 50 years, you're going to get all that. And they say, no, I'm interested in the balance sheet at the end of the year. So we need a common concept, at least of a platform of discussion. Over the last 10 years, I've been going around meeting all kinds of wonderful people, psychologists, environmentalists, social workers, spiritual men and women of wisdom and compassion. I was seven times a day at the World Economic Forum, all kinds of weird places for Buddhist monks. And yet, the common thing, the only concept that emerged through that, and which I spent five or six years researching for this book, is a simple one-- having more consideration for others. It's no rocket science. If you have more consideration for others, which is the definition of altruism, an intentional motivation to benefit others, full stop-- of course, we have other thoughts from time to time. There's no question about that. Selfishness does exist, but we do have moments where we do think in the altruistic way. So if you have more consideration for others, for sure, you will have a more caring economics. That can be made into two things that homo economicus, maximizing their personal preference cannot do, poverty in the midst of plenty. The homo economicus would never resolve that question. And the common goods, quality of the air, of the atmosphere, of democracy, of all these things that we can have in common, but you could easily be a free rider, do nothing for that, and still benefit. But you need to step out of maximizing personal interest to take care of the environment. So we need caring economies. Then we need to work on gross national happiness. I mean, provide better conditions at the working place, in education, in transport, everything that makes a life that can be fulfilled. And then we need to care for our future generations. So that concept at least allows people to come together, have a common platform for a better world. So to illustrate that, we have this idea of this limit here. And, of course, if you say, well, let's go on using all the resources we have. At the current rate of increasing of using resources, by 2050, we'll need three planets. We don't have them? It's, again, no rocket science. Still, people say, let's go on, let's go on, let's go on. So let's go on is like this president, who about 10 years ago, speaking about his country, he said, five years ago, we were at the edge of the precipice. Now we made a big step forward. So you see what happens if this guy makes a big step forward. So that's called illimited material quantitative growth. It cannot work forever. So what does that line correspond to in terms of science? So here we go to what some scientists have defined as the planetary boundaries. Well, we were in the Holocene, a period of exceptional climate stability for 12,000 years. It more or less ended in the 1950s, entering the Anthropocene, the age of where human beings have the major impact on the planet. So in 1900s, we were well within the limit of safety. And safety means we could actually continue to prosper for another 50,000 years, most likely without big upheavals, if we were to keep those factors within the limits of safety. And you can see them. That's what the main most important-- they are quite related. If you increase CO2, you will increase the acidity of the ocean, and so forth. Now 1950 comes, so-called the Great Acceleration. Some of those factors are looming now to be more looking like dangerous. Now, hold your breath, not too long. But imagine the next slide. And here we are. We have vastly overgone some of the limits of safety. To give you one idea, a very clear picture of the loss of biodiversity, at the current rate, today, of losing species forever-- it's not just diminishing, or something-- losing them. In 2050, we will have lost 30% of all species on the earth. And it will go on, of course, over 2050. That would be the sixth major extinction since the apparition of life on earth, the fifth one being that of dinosaurs and many other species. So that's not a small thing. And everyone will be deeply affected, of course. So that's something that we cannot ignore. It's coming very soon. This will be your children, your grandchildren, and so forth. So what can we do about that? Well, we could sit like that, as I do, in front of the Himalayas, waiting for the glaciers to melt. I have seen them melting over the last 45 years, before we had never heard of global warming. Tibetans and Nepalese say that, that they cannot only go for one month over the ice in the winter with their yaks, where they used to go for three months. So it's, again, very clear. Why? Because of this Great Acceleration. Here's the loss of biodiversity, of water use. And an interesting one is methane. You say, why, methane? Methane now come mostly from livestock. The use of livestock for meat production has become now the second major factor of greenhouse gas effect. That may seem strange, but that's the case. According to IPCC and [INAUDIBLE] report, after the habitations and before transportation, before the cows, the planes, the sheep, it is the whole chain of production from meat production. That may seem strange, but it is the case, 14% or 15% of that. And that's used mostly to maintain emission besides deforestations and the other things. So methane is 20 times more active than CO2 for greenhouse gas effect. And that shows because of this extreme level of consumption, 120 kilos of meat in USA, 80 in Europe, only 3 in India, per head, per habitant, per year. It's about 7 in Africa. Luxembourg has the world record, 137 kilos. We don't know exactly why. That, of course, comes at a price, an ethical price. there's about 65 billion land animals killed every year. 1,000 billion-- that's 1 trillion sea animals for our consumption. Ethical problem, but not only that. I mean, we do that in all kinds of ways. And is it because we are so selfish? Because man is a wolf or man? Well, of course some-- and first of all, wolves are quite nice, sociable animals. They're very sweet social life, and the best friend of man, dog, comes actually, as you know, from wolves. So it's not a very good comparison. But say, of course, there are people who manifest terrible cruelty. But the idea that we're all like that, that's the big mistake. Is it true? Look at this nice kid. It doesn't seem that is that much of cruelty, at least, potentially. And then we could also think that we are psychologically wired like that. Like Freud, we're to think that we're all "rascals." So if that was the case, that's a good start in life, isn't it? But is it really this case? I know this guy for quite some time. He doesn't look too bad, to me, at least. And then if you look at people, what is the greatest joy than to cooperate? Where I live in Bhutan and Nepal, like here in this Amish community in the United States, when time comes to build a house, everybody comes. And not only you build a house, but it's [INAUDIBLE] celebrating, of making a feast, of being together. And it's well-known that hunter-gatherers, the main factor of social life was an equalitarian cooperative community. And that's the great joy of doing that. And not only human beings do that. And someone said, please tell them there's no photoshopping. That is the real thing. So then, also, we know what is the struggle for life? The survival of the fittest. AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] MATTHIEU RICARD: But, yes, that is true. But if you read Darwin, first of all, the survival of the fittest is not Darwin's formula. It's Herbert Spencer, the bulldog of Darwin. And that led rise to social Darwinism, like Enron type of competitions. But Darwin spoke so much more about cooperation. He even considered the possibility of extending benevolence to others and your kin and even to other species. That's very clearly expressed in Darwin. And I was really inspired by discovering all that in Darwin's writing. In addition to that, the most recent trend in evolution, like works of Martin Nowak at Harvard, or the book "SuperCooperators," of [INAUDIBLE], that completely changed his views about that, is that yes, there is competition. Of course, we know that. I mean, there's no need to write a book in defense of selfishness, or hurrah competition. But to show that-- and that's what they have shown-- that even though competition doubtlessly exists, that cooperation has been much more creative throughout evolution to go from one step of complexity to another, from monocellular to multicellular, to different kinds of symbiosis between animals, up to social animals. So it is quite the case. And there was a survey from the OECD in the 36 or so developed countries proposing 10 factors that would contribute to well-being and asking people what they thought about it. Income comes around rank number six. So what's the matter about the income? Number one was quality of human relationships. That's what people said. This makes the biggest difference to the quality of their life in the family, at work, in the social place. Do we feel trust? Do we feel safe, and so forth? So again, this is not only reserved to human beings, because we got that through millions of years of evolution. If we have some quality, they didn't come out of the blue. And if you look at the hotspots for centenerians in the world, like there's one in Japan, they all tell you, the reason we feel we live long is because from birth throughout life and up to that, we're always together. No one is left abandoned somewhere in a corner. Now, yeah, I was surprised when doing the research on the book to find out that there are quite more people than I thought who thought, well, basically, whatever you do, scratch at the surface an altruist, and the selfish will bleed. If you're very smart. cynical enough, and you really look, you will find a selfish explanation for any seemingly altruistic behavior. So it's quite true that there are hypocritical behavior or just that you do something calculating what you're going to get in return. And you might make a big smile, make a present to someone to cheat them. Or even not that bad, but you could do just to boost your self-image, or whatever, or just to relieve you empathic distress. You see someone suffering. You have no way out. It's not that much that you care about that wounded person. But since you have no way out, you help because you can't stand looking at that. I see with animals, if you show terrible movies about animals, people say, oh, I love animals. I can't see that. Well, if you love animals, look at it, and do something. So the idea of you do something to relieve your distress is not fundamentally altruistic because you think of relieving your sort of tension. Yes, this being said, everyone who tried to find a selfish explanation for every human behavior has failed. This is armchair science. There's not one single scientific study supporting the universal selfishness hypothesis. Rather, the opposite, people like Daniel Batson spent 20 years devising skillful experiments in the lab in very nice, controlled situations to put people in very specific situations to see the outcome of a choice. And there's always the significant people-- even if they have an easy escape-- who choose the altruistic, or what you call empathic concern solution. So his conclusion is after 20 years of research, we cannot prove 100% the altruistic hypothesis. But at least, there's no support for the universal selfishness explanation. It's just simply ideology or just imagination. Now, but just to tell you some of the arguments, now they hear about someone who did a very beautiful act of generosity making a donation to save 10 children anonymously so nobody is there to praise him. He's not going to get his name in the newspaper, and so forth. But then he confides to a friend, I felt so good doing that. And then you see when people are working now in humanitarian activities, they spend one month with us. And at the end, here's what they say. Oh, I got more than I gave them. So those smart psychologists, those who defend universal selfishness, they come and say, look, you did that for the warm glow. You say you need all that, and you feel so good. And that's the thing that you take out of it. So you just did that to feel good. So is it true all the time? So let's look at this short movie. OK, so you think this guy is saying, the one who jumped on the rail track, I'm going to feel so good when that's over. AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] MATTHIEU RICARD: But that's not finished. because then you interview those guys, and they say, of course, I had to do that. I had no choice. This guy was going to die. I jumped and took it off. And then those smart guys, they come again and say, hey, hey, you had no choice, automatic behavior, instinctive behavior. This is neither altruistic nor selfish. You just did it like that. What does that mean? Everyone I talk with wishes it's going to be serious about that question, like Daniel Batson said, of course there's a choice. But that choice doesn't take long to deliberate. No, it's like, it comes with what you are, but it's not that you are behaving like a robot. And look at this guy, is he going to think for half and hour, should I stretch my hand or not? Maybe if I break his little finger, the insurance company will sue me, or something like that. So there is a choice, but that choice takes a fraction of a second. So you may say, I had no choice because it was too obvious. And by the way, this guy had a choice, clear choice. Sorry, I don't have the next slide. I don't know what happened next. Now, people had choice. In the Second World War, in every persecution, genocide, there were people who took immense risk for themselves, for their family, over a long time. They were certainly not looking how to feel good and have the warm glow. There was terrible danger. This is Pastor Andre Trocme and his wife in the village of Chambon-sur-Lignon in Haute-Loire, near the Swiss border in France. Over the years, they saved 3,500 Jewish persons. They never closed their door to anyone who sought help and refuge. They had then to go through Switzerland. They were over constant threat of deportation from the Gestapo, Even the Vichy French government was threatening them. They never made a concession. The whole village did that. And they certainly had the choice, and they did it. So rather than say, well, those are saints. Well, this was a whole village. They are not born as saints. There's no saint gene or something like that. They just say that is the most natural way to do. So instead of saying, oh, those are incredibly exceptional people, it's better to try to find that potential within our self, because we do have that potential. We do have the potential for care, as this Chinese person, who lost his two legs, and all his life has been helping sick people. And look, with the kind of joy. So when you see someone with empathy, like this woman with born TB that we helped in Tibet, of course, when you see that, or even worse, when you see the extreme form of deprivation, of starvation, and so forth, you feel a strong emotional resonance or you try to imagine yourself in the place of that, and that's called empathy. But empathy alone is not enough, because what happens? Imagine you are a nurse, or a doctor, or social workers. I know of someone working with the homeless in San Francisco. If you, day after day after day, resonate with the suffering of others, well, neuroscience shows that you do suffer. This is real suffering in the brain. There's no question. So it may be too much, asking to suffer for 20 years-- morning, afternoon, and all the time, so you lead to burnout. And by the way, 60% of all medical personnel in the United States have or will suffer or burnout for their life. So is there a remedy to that? So we studied that with Tania Singer-- and of course, there is this burnout happening-- who is a neuroscientist, one of the world's specialists of empathy, and she asked me to come in the MRI, one of the 120 hours that I spent in an MRI machine. And she said, well, just do your meditation, and we'll see what happens. So it was a special MRI called real-time fMRI. You can see immediately what's happened. You don't have to wait for weeks. And then after 10 minutes, she said through the mic, what are you doing? This is nothing we see normally for empathy. I said, well, I'm meditating on compassion and loving-kindness. She says, well, basically, come out. We have to talk. It's not the same areas of the brain. AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] MATTHIEU RICARD: So we talked, and she was a bit annoyed, because it was so different. And she said, couldn't you do just empathy? And so I thought of, well, I said, OK, I can try, push away your compassion. AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] MATTHIEU RICARD: So when we split after the Dalai Lama, he says, how is it possible? You see all these terrible things and don't have compassion. I said, well, we just tried to focus on suffering and suffering only. So I had seen a documentary on the BBC the day before on Romanian orphans. It was so dramatic. And all those type of movies, like when I was in London recently, I saw a photo exhibit on the Vietnam War, I mean, it's just if you look at that for half an hour, you will fall quickly in empathy and distress. So I tried for one hour, doing that. And in the MRI, you have to alternate to measure properly. So you do rest, and then the state, and then rest like 50 times. And after, well, I was totally burned out. I mean, only resonating with the distress, I was feeling powerless, almost like disgust. I didn't know how to deal with those terrible suffering. It's all negative violence. And then at the end, it was about 11:30 in the morning. Tania said through the mic, would you like to take a break for lunch? Or would you like to move to your compassion meditation? I said, please, let me do the compassion meditation. I can't stand it anymore. So when I did that, it was like breaking open a dam. I mean I felt that outpour of affection, embracing, like every atom of suffering was filled with an atom of love. I felt much stronger actually in contrast with this empathic distress. And it was completely different, like day and night. And in the brain, of course, it was so different that we pursued the study with other subjects and eventually published a paper showing that that completely different network of the brain for empathy, empathic distress, and for loving-kindness and compassion is a more positive sort of network of affiliation, maternal love, sense of wholesomeness and reward, positive affect applied to suffering in a constructive way. And now, Tania has been doing a one-year program. We turned to the volunteers to distinguish those. She studied mindfulness for three months, perspective taking for three months, meta, which is loving-kindness for three months in different orders. And premier results show that mindfulness is great to reduce stress, but it doesn't increase your prosocial behavior. Hence, we need caring mindfulness. You get two for the price of one. Because to be caring, you need to be mindful, but you may not be necessarily caring by just being mindful. Imagine a mindful sniper, very mindful. He's always on the task, never distracted, no emotions, always non-judgmental in the present moment. AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] MATTHIEU RICARD: A mindful psychopath, same thing. But you can't have a caring sniper and a caring psychopath. So therefore, please add those 6 letters to any mindfulness meditation, caring mindfulness, and that would work out nicely. So anyway, the idea that it is loving-kindness mediation that really increases prosocial behavior, and it is the antidote to burnout. Because that very positive mental state applied to suffering, this is basically altruism applied to suffering, compassion. That's kind of a balm, a much bigger sort of thing that's just empathy. Stand-alone empathy is like an electric pump. Without water, it burns. But if you add this very warmhearted feeling, it is actually the antidote to burnout. So that's why when you see very warmhearted doctors on this, naturally, people feel it so good. And that can be trained. And that's the whole point of what we do. That certainly comes from my tender paternal love. But we can use that to enhance it, to extend it to others. So now, very quickly, let's assume that altruism does exist. If you look at the [INAUDIBLE], I think it's pretty strong evidence. But you say, so what? You look at our world, the strong narcissistic epidemic, the individualistic trends, and the world's not going so, so well. Can we do something using that potential? So can we change individually, and can society change? So first, individually, this is Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche, one of the Dalai Lama's teachers. I was fortunate to spend 13 years with him. My friend Vivian was here, so I spent many years. My first teacher, Kangyur Rinpoche. And His Holiness, the Dalai Lama. here with Richard Davidson, the neuroscientist from Madison-- I think he came here-- who is very interested in encouraging these collaborations. So now then you've got those who went to the lab and were studying with EEG. And here's Mingyur Rinpoche in the fMRI. And he characterized fMRI as being four characteristics. It is narrow. It is dark. It is noisy. And it is, what else? It is cold, so not a very good place to meditate. But nevertheless, you can try. And then recently, I was in the lab at Coma Lab in Liege in Belgium. This world specialist on coma, he wanted to study different degrees of lucidity. So then they put me with an EEG, and there was something they call transmagnetic cranial stimulation that was bom, bom, bom, for five hours. And then you have to meditate on pure awareness free from thoughts. And then at some point, because I could not hear, because on top of, they put you a white noise. And white noise is just this white-like noise like, shhhh all the time. And then so I can't hear any instruction, so they came with a board, don't blink your eyes. So I went like this, and then another board came. Relax your facial muscles. AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] MATTHIEU RICARD: Meditate. And then they said, could you self-induce a state of topor? OK. I went really stupid. And then with all this and bing, bing, bing. And then they said, could you fall asleep? No. After five hours, I managed to fall asleep, so anyway. So here I come out of the MRI after two and a half hours at Richard Davidson's. And then what the results were with people with long-term meditation, there was huge differences. On the bottom, you see novice, not untrained people, knowing with the EEG, trying to practice compassion meditation. The pink line is when they rest. Nothing much happened. The blue line is when we meditate. Nothing much happened either. On top, the yellow line is the meditators at rest. In the rest, they rest. But when they're engaged in compassion meditation, you see this huge peak, in the gamma rays of brain frequency that is so big that it was never observed before in neuroscience. And since I was the first guinea pig, that crazy idea of the happiest person in the world came from a journalist who'd never thought of a better idea, but it has nothing to do with happiness. And there are seven billion beings. And by the way, all the 20 others long-term meditators did exactly the same, even better than me. So forget about that. So now if you look at brain imaging, and you see on the left side, the meditator is at rest and the B shows meditators engaging in compassion meditations. Many areas of the brain are strongly activated. Those are areas with a sense of affiliation, empathy, what I mentioned before, positive affect. On the right side, C is the novice is at rest. Nothing happened. D is novices in meditation. Nothing happened either. That's normal. They didn't train. You might say, well, great for you, 60,000 hours of meditation. What about us? Hence the 10-second meditation of my dear friend Meng. Now, who can say they don't have 10 seconds every hour? So stop everything. Don't hug people. You might get a little bit in trouble. But just think for 10 seconds, may they be happy. May they flourish in life. And so, if you do that, it sort of sets up a stream. Actually, if you do not necessarily 10 seconds, but 20 minutes a day for four weeks of mindfulness meditation, and now I think I'm sure you'd get even better with caring mindfulness, you can see a structural change in the brain, in the hippocampus, which is an area of the brain that assimilates novelty when you're training to something new, whether it's playing chess, or juggling, or mindfulness, or altruisitc love, your brain does change. It also changes your prosocial behavior. That's two weeks of compassion meditation. And you see the prosocial behavior, the blue stack, is much higher than any other psychological intervention. And, at the same time, those who are with this increased prosocial behavior, they also found a decrease in the size, after two weeks, of the amygdala, this area of the brain brain related to fear and anger. So that's quite remarkable. So don't be discouraged, not only 10 seconds, but 20 minutes a day does make a difference very fast. You could even do that with preschoolers, four or five years old. And you do some kind of mindful breathing, you see with a little stone. But it's a 10-week program that Richard Davidson did also in Madison, 40 minutes, three times a week. Very simple intervention about gratitude, emotional intelligence, empathy, feeling what the other feels, and all kinds of cooperative learning. I mean, I cannot describe in detail. There's a nice manual about that. But the fact is that even this simple intervention with four or five years old leads to a significant increase in prosocial behavior. That's the blue line compared to a control group. But then comes the ultimate scientific test, the stickers test. And that's unforgiving. So what you do, you determine before the intervention for each child in the class who is their best friend. And then that's the first photo you see on the left and then the child they cannot stand. And then you have two other envelopes with an image of an unknown child and the sick child. And before the intervention, you give them a bunch of stickers and say, please give it to anyone you want. So what happens? They give to their best friend almost everything. Now 10 weeks later, you will say, well, this is four or five years old. It's kind of a playful intervention, no big deal. They get a good time. But how can it change? This in-group, out-group sort of discrimination. Well, it changed in a big way. It levels down. They give practically as much stickers as their best friend and their least [INAUDIBLE] child. So if you think of the deleterious effect in society of discrimination, whether it's racist, ethnic, religious, social class, if you could level these in a simple way with young children, what a service to society. So we do that in India. We have 25,000 kids in the school that we built with Carona Ascension. So we introduced yoga class, meditation class. And one thing, for sure, it increased the attendance to school. Now, here's the other good news that the possibility of societal ways. So we always speak about violence everywhere. In Marseilles, in South of France, you can buy a Kalashnikov for 800 euros almost everywhere. I mean, and here, of course, is much easier than in France. But still, what happens to violence of other centuries? So if you look at the book of Steven Pinker, there is a significant decrease in violence, no matter what violence is still there and was what you see on TV. In Oxford, in 1350, there was 100 homicides per year per 100,000 habitants. Now it's 0.6. Now, in Europe, it went down 5200 times. In Australia, as soon as they banned personal arms, it went down 10 times. It's only Sicily that's about 12. We don't know why. I think this is a good study. It should be done there. In any case, basically, homicides have been going down steadily over the century. That's what the data said, if you look at abolition of torture. And if you look at the average number of casualty per conflict all over the world, there are two that are banks, one in the United States, one in Uppsala, in Sweden. If you look at all the countries, of course there are terrible things happening-- ISIS, South Sudan, the Iraq-Iran war, a million people died. But if you take all of the countries worldwide, divide by the number of victims, it went from 50,000 average to 1,000. So there's always something somewhere terribly dramatic, but globally, it has gone down. Domestic violence is still the main cause of violence in the world, because it's 1 to 1. But the abuse and violence, like in children in the United States, that goes down by half in 20 years. So there is hope. Why is there hope? And how you could find the articulation point between individual change and societal change. Another great discovery I made while studying research for the book is the notion of evolution of cultures. But to get an altruistic gene in every human being might take 50,000 years. It's too late for the environment. So evolution of culture is a Darwinian process that is faster than genes. There's actually a book called that, "Faster Than Genes," which is a very good one. And the evolution of culture can happen over a generation-- attitudes towards war, attitudes towards women, homophobia, environment, name it. Cultures are changing quite fast. The slavery was abolished in England in the 18th century. First of all, there were 10 people who said, slavery is an abomination. Everybody laughed. The Parliament said, there's no way. The British Empire will economically collapse without slavery. We can't afford that. 10 years later, it was abolished. Today, if you say, I'm against slavery, people would say, so what? And people who would say, how can you dare to say, no, it was not too bad. No, economically, it makes sense. Shall we put back slavery on? Shall we deny voting rights to women? Of course, we cannot go back on those cultural changes-- fortunately. So we made big progress of civilization. So that's why this was 10 people who decided to start that company, 10 people who have decided to promote the universal declaration of human rights, and they succeeded. So there can be tipping points, a critical mass of individual new ideas. And after a while, ethically, you can't feel comfortable if you steal go against women and men having the same sort of gender issue, having the same potential and possibilities, and so forth. So that's why I think those two individual changes, societal changes, the cumulative of our generation, we don't have to learn again that slavery is totally bad. We're born in that sort of ideas and culture. So they'll fashion each other like two knives sharpening each other. So there is a possibility. So what can we do? I can go back to my hermitage. That's a very nice time. That's what I see in the morning. But we need to promote also caring economics. As I mentioned, that's the only way to remedy to poverty in the midst of plenty and take care of common goods, especially the environment. We need to enhance cooperation within the enterprise. It has been shown again and again that a company, a community, and with this unconditional cooperation, transparency of information, of sharing, less hierarchy that is not waterproof is a company where it's better to work-- I think Google is probably a good example of that-- and therefore, so more prosperous. It has been shown again and again, that a company where it's nice to work, also do better. And we need more cooperative learning instead of competitive one. There's many areas where we would boost our level of cooperation. We need no more sustainable development of growth. It's a bit suspicious. You always think of quantitative growth. We need qualitative growth. So instead of speaking of growth, why not speak of harmony? For now, sustainable harmony means reducing inequalities. There are still 1.5 billion people under the poverty line. That's not going to work well if you keep that. Inequalities are growing in all the OECD countries last 30 years. This is very unhealthy. Less trust is not harmonious. And then harmony for the future is to remain in harmony within the planetary boundaries so that we can continue to prosper, bringing harmony with environment instead of disrupting this equilibrium. So sustainable harmony, I think, is a powerful concept, and we should use it. We need local commitment. We need to do things ourselves. And global responsibility, we have the WHO, which takes care of epidemics, and so forth. No country can say, there's a plague epidemic, I'm not part of that. We have to be part of all things. Same thing for the environment. There should be global governance for the environment. There's no question. We need to be extending our altruism to 1.3 million species. We can't say they are just there for our use, to distract us, or to entertain us. They are our [INAUDIBLE] in this world. They have a life. They are subject of a life. They don't want to suffer. That needs to be respected. The natural equilibrium needs to be respected. We are not the owner of 1.3 other billion species. We live with them in a very vast interdependent system. And we need daring it. We need to dare altruism. We need to dare that it does exist. We have a potential for it. We can teach it at school, because there's a potential for that. Individually, we can change. Society can become more cooperative. We don't need to be afraid that it's a lightweight concept. This is the core most pragmatic answer to our times' different challenges. So in terms of animals, we can say, as then I'm sure that "Animals are my friends. And I don't eat my friends." That is quite a good, nice way to explain why you don't want to eat fish in a restaurant. If they say, oh, you are vegetarian, so you each fish. I say, well, look, everything that swims, everything that runs, everything that flies, they're all my friends. So then you can also do, say like Martin Luther King, everyone must decide, a man or woman, of course, whether he or she will "walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness. It's up to us. Someone like the Dalai Lama shows us the part. We tried to implement that and even turned activities. Now, we have now developed 140 projects. This is one of our clinics. And we treat about 120,000 patients a year in Nepal, India, and Tibet. This is the clinic that we built in [INAUDIBLE] with the help of the Googlers here some years ago. That was a wonderful initiative. We built a school with bamboos in Nepal, with a social entrepreneur, 2,000 kids in the school that we can be build for a $150,000 is a good return on investment. All made with bamboo, so when there's an earthquake, it just moves a little bit. In Tibet, we build a number of dispensaries. Obviously, we need a bridge here. That's our car. There's a road, and there is river. Nobody says, knows what. So the drivers reciting his mantra very fast. And so we built 18 bridges, including one on the Yangtze tree on the Mekong. They all come from Tibet, by the way. We take care of the elderly. Here is finally the happiest man in the world. We've got him. And the happiest woman is there as well. So we've built a number of schools there. And we're trying to favor especially education of girls. And we intervene in earthquake areas, first in Tibet in 2010. There was 10,000 people who died there. So we brought a lot of goods. And this year, from April, we started building an earthquake resistant school at 12,000 feet in Tibet. It's a boarding school for children. In Nepal, as you know, the recent tragedy so since we are in the place with a clinic 50 people strong and a monastery with 500 disciplined monks, we could have teams going to the villages. And now, as I said, we helped 40,000 people in 160 villages with food, with shelter, and basic medical necessity. And then we're going to move next, when the emergency is over, to community projects, rebuilding school, rebuilding dispensary, wherever it's needed. This is our mascot, the Corona girl, I photographed her 12 years ago. I'm not the [INAUDIBLE] of "Gone Girl," so I thought I should find her again. And so I found her. And I learned her name, and she's called Beautiful Ocean of Turquoise. So this is our website. It's very easy to see what we do and help us. And we are very grateful to Google to host me again and also to have helped us in the past. And I know you'll continue to help us, of course. So thank you so much. And this was a few ideas. We still have, I think, 10 minutes or so to have question and answer before we break for the so-called meditation. AUDIENCE: Hi. Thank you for your wonderful talk. I'm wondering if you can talk a little bit about enlightenment and if that's even a goal worth pursuing or if that's a selfish goal. Can you tell us a little bit more, please? MATTHIEU RICARD: Well, that question often is put to us. Well, yeah, while in your hermitage, practicing compassion or mindfulness, whatever, ha, ha, ha, is it not selfish to be in this nice place facing the Himalayas, not you have to think about paying taxes and things like that? Well, I thought of it. As far as my teachers and the tradition which I've been following for 45 years, one of the main goals is to get rid of selfishness while doing this practice. So you cannot accuse someone of being selfish if the goal of what he's doing now is to get rid of selfishness. It's like saying to someone who's building a big hospital, what are you doing now with all this construction work, plumbery, electricity. It doesn't help anyone. Go and do surgery in the street. But, of course, when the hospital is ready, it's so much more powerful. So I think mindfulness is not the ultimate sense of Buddhism. It's a tool. The essence of Buddhism is wisdom and compassion. Now, to achieve that, if you're not mindful, you're just distracted. So therefore, you need whatever you do, whether it's activity in your workplace-- multitasking has been shown to be a very deficient way to do anything. They don't do anything better in cognitive tasks, including the speed of switching tasks, which would be the quintessence of multitasking. You just get a messy mind. So the idea of being concentrated, even if you do many things in the morning, each time, fully on what you do, is kind of the essence of mindfulness. Now, on a personal level, it also helps you to have a mind that is a bit more clear, a little bit more stable, a little bit more calm. And that's also a better tool to then cultivate qualities like altruistic love and others and also to deal with your hopes and fears and ruminations. So it's basically a much more optimal healthy state of mind than a confused, ruminating, torn apart, divided, conflicted mind, obviously. So I think it's a very beautiful and powerful tool. But again, since it's something that has become more and more and more popular, I think, and I've mentioned that many times to my good friend, Jon Kabat-Zinn, please know, very explicitly include the caring aspect of it, otherwise, it could be misused because any tool can be use to harm or do good. And again, we don't want mindful snipers. They are mindful, by the way, but they are not caring. So caring, I think, it just simply dispels all possible deviation. But otherwise, it's a very wonderful and powerful tool. This is secular, so nobody can argue that it's something that is not for us. MENG: The book is "Altruism," available where books are sold. And my friend 's Matthieu Ricard. AUDIENCE: [LAUGHTER] MATTHIEU RICARD: Thank you. MENG: Thank you. [MUSIC PLAYING]
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