90 Day Fiancé Tell-All: Shaeeda and Bilal’s Ex-Wife FACE OFF!

when discussing the prenup it's a need for you guys to have a marriage contract or a prenup in the laws of america that's a necessity especially when you're coming into a marriage and you have no she didn't have to say it like that who coming into a marriage without no assets you don't know me you don't throw my life back home tensions rise between shaida and bilal's ex-wife shahida during part one of the tell-all an opinion is like a news everybody has one and on top of all that shade throwing blousex reveals a reason why she divorced him and y'all her answer is very similar to chada's complaints i felt like i was receiving more of an email or a father figure when i was wanting to hear from my husband why did you catch shada's reaction yes it was somewhat of a lecture patrick and thyese are all of us right now well they say you keep repeating the same lesson until you get it right we'll get into how bilal takes it all plus y'all ain't gonna work out and i would say the same about you guys but no it ain't gonna work out for y'all jabrie was the star of the tell-all and if you know anything about previous 90-day fiance tell-alls you know that is never a compliment you don't think aryan benny's relationship is gonna work out y'all fake y'all ain't gonna work out damn some might see it as him just expressing himself but in my opinion it was unnecessarily mean but you know what he met his match with patrick's brother john you happy you don't have a happy family you won't okay sparkles and your sparkles are blinding me though bro man you know i'm trying to i don't know if i can focus something shining off your head boy you can see that yeah not the double take of john's head though let's get into it okay spackles hey money day fans fam it's melisia before we get into part one of the season nine tell all which was interesting to say the least i chatted with emily and luckily kobe got off work early yes he's working so he was able to join the chat and we talked about it all what's your response to viewers who feel as if you take advantage of your dad's kindness um well now you only see one side kay wants to know why did you think it was more important to spend money on a ring and a wedding ceremony instead of saving so you and kobe can get your own place as a family i at first wanted to get married in our home and just have like 10 people like i wanted to keep it fairly small to hear the rest of our conversation where we talk about emily working their new baby scarlet plus more make sure you subscribe to entertainment tonight's youtube channel so you don't miss the interview by the way let me just say this now i had a minor mic issue my first time filming at home in a while and i am no technician but it's not that bad you'll get the answers to your burning questions just wanted to let you know partially because of the perfectionist in me i always want to make sure i give you the best experience all right okay on to the tell-all two folks are pregnant in baby news dais and patrick are expecting as well as kyra and guillermo congrats y'all and oh yeah they had commentators for the tell-all og 90-day cast members tim and kenny i just need like a whole segment with just jabri and ari it was like the tell-all and pillow talk mashed together which i honestly could have done without but cute idea when i came here it was a complete shock all right let's get into what goes down between bilal and shaida before his ex comes out blah went through it during the tell-all he cannot catch a break with the show i kind of bagged him basically to be on it with me i bet he will not be signing up for it again if i were him i wouldn't what was the biggest shock for you so many the prank first kobe tells balau his thoughts on the prank he pulled on shaida the prank was the worst prank ever for me because like you place her in a position where everybody will feel like no this is a gold digger about the woman you intend to spend the rest of your life with that's a good point because i sure did think shadow was a gold digger when she first got here next blouse takes another hit when ari calls him out for having an answer to everything it's not a test it's just it's just words of confirmation like we always talk about the same thing we want to build an empire together you know are we yeah i just want to say well you always have an answer for everything and i think that's suspicious i feel like you know you always want to like oh no no but it's not like this it's like this even with her like you're always like you know and then you're telling no you don't feel like this you feel like this i know a lot of y'all feel the same way they transition into talking about shy to slapping bilal upside the head and mostly everyone agrees that he overreacted by pulling over to the side of the road on the highway and that is when i realized when he pull us out of the road i say you know what this man kind of take a jog and say you're the auditioner but you can't take you know where's that one okay okay i feel like uh i get where you're trying to go with this miona but jabrie and bilal are two totally different type of men not trying to be shady or anything but because they are two different type of men in my opinion you can't compare their reactions again hindsight something i should have did um apologize as well to overreacting billau goes on to take responsibility for doing the most in the car that day which leads to this moment the only moment someone starts to show him love on the set i want to say something i want to be like you whenever i grow up just the way you talk and you always say sorry that's like one of the most important things because we get accept but patrick came in and shut that down real quick he's a salesman i mean that's he is an amazing salesman that is what that is what we are all witnessing right now no one can really get their point across and if they do it's twisted and insane manipulation and being a salesman i'm i'm i'm watching it off i'm not sure if i fully agree with patrick on that i know it may seem as if i make excuses for below's actions from time to time and that's definitely not the case i just want to make sure we aren't allowing the parts we may not favor about him to get in the way of us looking at the full picture it's cool not to like him but we also have to be fair yeah i'm a salesman but you're a salesman you're something like we're all like we all sell sure below might have allowed his work as a real estate agent selling homes to trickle into his personal relationships he might also need to work on accepting that it's okay to be wrong and he might have some manipulative ways to sum it up he can have a ton of flaws but i think it's only fair to consider that he's also an educated man who for the most part is well spoken so in this case i'm only talking about the tell-all here i don't agree with how hard specifically patrick was on him because now he's in a place where if he talks he's wrong and if he doesn't talk he's wrong all because this picture has been painted that he is solely this manipulator as if he doesn't have any positive qualities it's almost like i'm dang if i do dang if i don't okay patrick what do you say they'll never stop like you can always control the conversation wait pause benny is off daydreaming he's not even blinking [Music] he was not invested in this tell-all at all i noticed that from the beginning okay back to the serious talk it'll never stop like you can always control the conversation in a way because you know what to say when to say you know how when you say something how that person's gonna react you know how to drop your tone you know how to get people engaged it's a habit now and how do you think that manifests itself in their relationship when she's saying something he's like okay i understand what you're saying but this is how i see it and then he goes into his point yeah like i do the pot calling the kettle black and once again this is not me making excuses for below's behavior he has some work to do which we're clearly about to see but i'm all about being fair i feel like you like a sales person you have to say back something because it always have to be you have to always have to win that conversation so is that what you just saw overcoming objections you know everything well like okay if if if the comment is about your behavior do you automatically say well but what about your behavior as opposed to just concentrating on fixing the behavior no not really yes sean not really classic socks the eggs yes okay now we're getting passive aggressive now okay you just said okay yeah like kind of like shutting it down no i'm whatever she says if you would have said something other than just okay okay it still would have been an issue tell me how you see it because i don't even see how he can talk without there being a problem now and the same man that called him out for acting like a salesman does it in his own relationship goes to his point yeah like i do yet no one is questioning him when he talks i don't get it bilal is still very close with his ex-wife shahida she has agreed to join us today and we're very excited to have her everyone please welcome shahidah all right the drama continues we learned earlier in the season that blouse ex shahida is stern i didn't come here to play games today and she comes to take care of business honey i came to tell all today to state my peace there was a breakdown in the communication with chida and i and that caused a breakdown with palau and i when the truth is revealed he'll owe me an apology she will too and we can move forward in a positive space from there i'm not sure what she expects shaida to apologize for in my eyes chada handled it pretty well when shahida confronted her about signing bilal's prenup i don't know how well you know below or how long you've known him but i know it isn't 10 years or 15 years of putting in you know the work that you see that he has produced and so you know the kids have been here i have been here so i'm coming from that point of view where he needs to protect himself and for the children's sake yeah well i think that's a composition building and i definitely need to have and i think we haven't reached an agreement when it comes to that okay yeah i don't remember her stepping out of line in any type of way if anything shahida crossed some lines her approach was intense shahida blau says that after 10 years of marriage one of you fell out of love is that how you would describe what happened to your relationship sean gets into the nitty-gritty real quick this was a question i've always wanted to know so i'm glad she asked um we had had some issues for some time and we tried to figure things out for the sake of the kids shahida goes on to reveal that she's the one who filed for divorce from bilal and shawn asked why and her answer pause stop me in my tracks i wanted a best friend i wanted a partner and i felt like i was receiving more of an eman or a father figure when i was wanting to hear from my husband so lecturing you um yes it was somewhat of a lecture you know what i would love to hear below's mom a 90-day mvp honoree shout out to y'all i would love to hear her reaction to two women now that we know of having the same complaint about her son that would be interesting and oh shahida starts to talk about bilal being a neat freak which was something that also played a role in them separating i told y'all below could not catch a break this episode they say relationships mirror you they will put right in front of your face the things you need to work on is very particular about how he wants the house and so when you have two small kids too that becomes a problem with how the house could be in disarray so that that makes you feel uneasy side of controlling meet freak lecturing does it give you any reason to be concerned that obviously that same behavior is still there i'm seeing a pattern i'll be fair well in shaheeda's case you're still young but as a woman who's 37 i still want to work and help him i want to work on us i'm not going to give up on my relationships well shahida did have one message for shaida during the premiere episode i wish some luck this whole conversation really puts those words into perspective now okay what i have noticed since shahida first came out here if you have not looked at her shaida okay is i it's am i seeing what is actually happening yeah okay shada says she feels disrespected that's why she's avoiding looking at shahidah i still didn't like how she came at me at my home in my kitchen she said my home my kitchen that subtle shade butt facts it still hurts when i first came here i was hoping for us to have a sisterhood i was hoping for she and i to have a friendly relationship but when once you show me who you are that's when i will withdraw back so if i can just unpack it she's saying that when i came to her home my tone which is still very intense my delivery um was that of in disrespect but what i will say is when discussing the prenup it's a need for you guys to have a marriage contract or prenup in the laws of america that's a necessity especially when you're coming into a marriage and you have no assets damn who coming into a marriage without no assets you don't know me you don't want my life back home that was that was shay shahidah shadow must have meditated that morning because that was a very calm and impressive reaction plus i'm not sure where all this animosity is coming from the prenup has been signed so what's the problem now okay when i say no assets you don't have a car here in america you don't have a home in trinidad you live with your parents i can see through all this y'all really hurt y'all need y'all need to really sit down and talk about it it's symbol and y'all ain't talking about it she really trying to open up and express to you but y'all just sitting there well maybe jabrie's mom is a therapist i guess this is his way of mediating i can cut the tension in the room you know what i mean like she y'all hurt we're about to get to him in a minute but first two more things when it comes to shaida and bilal after his wife and his ex discuss the issues they have with each other and have had or have with him sean asks bilal how he's feeling um you know it doesn't doesn't feel good you know like when you hear like lecturing you know those are probably things that i've probably done you know are neat freak for sure you know but we live in an oppressive word environment and words make people sahitha is looking like uh here comes another lecture like words could you know give you life or it could cause destruction i'm a loving you know husband a dedicated father you know do i have my faults yeah but i'm trying to look internally you know and to uh prove self i got to go to the two shed and and get to work the tool shed and get to work lots to do in the tool shed you know when i spoke to shada and bilal earlier this season after he started getting tons of backlash i asked him what do you think all of this is teaching you here's what he had to say yeah i've gotten phone calls i've gotten like emails i've gotten uh the like the the stuff that people say is like wow and for me like i've been a person who has really i guess pretty much all my life to try to stay a certain way and being you know disrespectful towards people to get some of the back there's like i've never experienced that before in my life sometimes you know things get to you and you'll be like hey like you remember pray for this you know and the reality is that we didn't we we decided not to we decided to move forward because we felt that god was answering the prayers for us to align us this way like we wouldn't have even done this and we felt anything different so i just had to keep that perspective like you know that this is it's just a test you know and you know i always say for every level there's another devil so at the end of the day you know you just got to keep moving forward it's so wild how life god the universe whatever you want to call it test us on things we could never expect just when you think you have it all together or you pass certain lessons it will pop back up like hey did you grow let's see the good news though is that everything is always working for our good if we keep our mind open to that perspective i hope a loud doesn't wallow in the negativity but he actually uses it to develop also before we move on to jabrie gibrisi me and these nicknames shawn asked shahida how she felt about chada's reaction to bilal's family's home and she says she was hurt for bilal i lived in that house for two years that was his family's home i was grateful to have a home to come to so for her to show that that display i was taken back i was hurt i respect her opinion because at the end of the day an opinion is like a news everybody has one so shots fired requesting backup i don't know what's going to happen between those two in the words of shahidah good luck jabrie first of all thank you for dressing up for us moving on cassie says they left all the drama for the tell-all she says the rating of this season is going from a six to a ten very quick girl jabrie was the one to take it there and i have a feeling that that was his intention your family and friends had many concerns about your marriage to niona how is everybody getting along now they see i'm happy they see that i'm really just pushing forward and i'm doing well and it's a lot of jealousy that's what i feel like so it's been it's been rough jabrie what do you think your family and friends are jealous of great question sean we look good together we shine now i was expecting a more complex answer than that what is this high school we shine so when you shine people try to dim your light wait a minute your mama and your daddy who love you are mad because you and your wife look good together i don't know jabrie that seems to be what you prioritize if there's a problem with a mother-in-law then it's kind of on the sun a lot of time because the sun maybe is not not giving the attention or maybe miona sort of came off as being a little bit defensive like you know in the beginning when she met your family so maybe they felt like oh like what so you think my mom is jealous [Applause] you're the most jealous person on this whole cast so how are you gonna say that my mom well if i'm jealous can i recognize jealousy right obviously he wants to be because you're jealous of everything wait didn't he say his family was jealous jabri what do you think your family and friends are jealous of we look good together we shine the only family we've seen have an issue with his relationship is his mom and his dad things turn up even more when the spotlight transitions to ari and benny's storyline and the topic of ari getting jealous over binyam training with the girl mma fighter comes up because what happens when he does win this fight and gets he's getting a million dollars a fight you know how many girls are going to be chasing you and you are gonna be losing your mind y'all ain't gonna work out and i would say the same about you guys but no it ain't gonna work out for y'all you don't think arya benny's relationship is gonna work out y'all fake y'all ain't gonna work out perfect ari said oh jabrie why do you think they're not going to work out i know they're not going to work out nothing i don't think she's too jealous she's too jealous that's you're holding him back she's holding you back bro you a star it's funny because jabrie is telling binium what people including his best friend have told him about miona he's one of the most talented people i've ever met when he's motivated and he has a goal you can't stop jabri that's why i'm so confused where how he doesn't see this because that fire just deteriorated that fire is just gone miona she holds him back isn't that something she's holding you back she's not a star she's dimming your light i'm just being real with you shots fired shots fired why isn't binium saying anything once again people are coming at his woman and he is tight-lipped all right last but not least because some stuff is going to go down next week let's take a look at jabrie's sparkle argument with patrick's brother john and for context for those of you who may not know john has a very unique personality it's just who he is but he loves his brother that was like three weeks ago as john was chatting with thais about their issues jabri budson you drunk right now jeffrey drunk yeah how many beers you drank this morning bro okay man i had six last night damn well you've had the 12-pack this morning oh man your sparkles are blinding me though bro you know what i'm saying i'm trying to i don't know if i can focus something shining off your head boy you can see that yeah put that i've never been a good joner some people are good with comebacks clearly do you think your brother is whipped yeah yeah 100 yeah without a doubt i love you though love you but you definitely wept you went you happy you don't have a happy family you won't okay spackles okay experience no never you were joking i was just having a conversation with him but then you opened your mouth no you were joking and then i have to respond i apologize you need to stop third-wheeling bro third-wheeling yeah you all in a business like this your brother how's your family doing on your father it's not your brother brother he's still living there and then you're still living at home you're talking about come on sparkles you're talking about girl right now come on and the sparkle beef continues next week as those two threatened to get physical are you crying nah i'm crying it sounds like you're crying i don't want you i don't want it to escalate to that point you know what i mean oh if you're going to bring it bro you got to take it yes you know what i'm saying you giving you're going to be the one taking a lot okay sparkles i'm going to knock him out if you bring him up no you're not no you're not that's not how that story ends who do you think will win between jabrie and john i'm just saying don't answer that but on a serious note jabrie has been spewing negativity all day i'm not surprised that he's finally met his match we'll see what happens all right 90 day fans fam make sure you stick with et because we are covering it all i will see you next time [Music]

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Length: 26min 6sec (1566 seconds)

Published: Mon Aug 15 2022