- And a lot of the coaching that I do, there'll be these group coaching calls. And often a question comes
up about feminine energy and a woman will be asking, how do I amplify my feminine energy? I work so much with my
masculine, in my day job, or I'm an entrepreneur,
or I run my own business, and I really want to create
a beautiful relationship with a masculine man. But she knows that if she's embodying more of her masculine energy, that that doesn't work to
attract masculine energy. Because as you know,
masculine and feminine are polar energies. They work with each other. They attract each other,
but they also repel. So masculine repels masculine. And what's great about
this, as you probably know if you've been studying
my channel for a while, that you know that masculine
and feminine energy is not tied to a particular gender. That you're not 100%
masculine or 100% feminine. If anyone ever tries to tell you that, they're trying to manipulate you, because we are way too
complex of human beings to have it be 100% one
way or 100% the other way. Instead, we've got both energies. One energy is gonna feel
more authentic for you, more home-based for you, especially in a romantic relationship. Where you're gonna want to
be more in your feminine or want to be more in your masculine, depending on what feels more
authentic and more home. The challenge is that we often
will learn a particular way of being that gets results in our career or gets results in one area of life, but doesn't work in our love life. So today I thought I'd
share with you some simple, beautiful practices
that if you are the one, where you wanna amplify
your feminine energy in relationships, what are
some practices you could do that drop you right into
that beautiful, powerful, feminine energy so that you
can either attract the man that you want or deepen
the connection you have with that masculine partner that you have already in your life. One of the first things that
you can do to really amplify and go deep with your feminine energy is to savor the present moment. And what I mean by savoring
the present moment. Remember, feminine energy
is receptive energy. Where savoring and experiencing is where you're taking in the experience of what's happening. Where it might be slowing down when you eat and really tasting
the juice and the sweetness and this flavor of that
fruit that you're eating or the salad that you're
eating or the meal. And really, instead of just eating it fast and getting back to
work, really savoring it, being in that present moment. When you walk outside, you pause, you take a deep breath, you
let the sun kiss your face, and you just receive it in. That pausing and savoring
the present moment is really powerful for two reasons. Is you're receiving, but also present energy
is feminine energy, where masculine energy is
often what's happening next, you're surveying the scene, you're anticipating what's coming at you, and you're creating, you're visioning, you're moving forward. Again, men, women, we
both have those capacities to either be forward
facing, vision driven, or in the present moment. But if you want to ignite
the masculine in your man and you want to create that attraction, let him experience you
in your full feminine and draw him into these
present moments with you. It's this beautiful swing of drawing him into the present moment. He gets to savor this moment with you or experience the moment through you, through witnessing you
really loving the meal that you're having or
really taking in the sunset, or really experiencing
the breeze on your face, whatever that might be. Just those moments take
you out of the masculine, into the feminine, and your masculine man will
really appreciate that. The second practice that you can engage in is practicing soft, gentle touch, right? That's very feminine
versus a masculine energy is more strong touch, more
holding with strength, that protective energy. This soft, gentle touch
like caressing your own skin when you're taking a bath. Take a moment and really
caress your own skin. Really put love on yourself. When you're with your man, caress his face, gently
stroke the back of his neck or his hair with your
fingertips, your nails, or crest the side of his face and hold him in this
beautiful, soft, gentle touch, this beautiful feminine energy. The third attribute that
really ignites the feminine is nurturing energy. The feminine wants to take
care of those around them. They want to make sure
that everyone is heard and seen and feels good. This is why you know, in a
conversation environment, the feminine will notice
the person who's not talking and bring them in. So for amplifying your feminine energy, notice in your leadership, often some of the greatest leaders are really beautifully balanced between masculine and feminine energy. So instead of the masculine
really sharing the vision and driving it forward and operating with this sort of directive energy, instead, feminine is
more evocative energy. So you're listening to the team, you're inviting ideas forward, you're noticing who's the
quiet one in the room. Often they have the best ideas and inviting them into the space. So how that plays out in relationships is noticing what's around you and nurturing those around you. Contributing to those around
you, bringing them in. My wife does a great job of this. I remember her asking me one time, "Hey, how'd your dad's
doctor's appointment go today?" And I said, "He had a
doctor's appointment today?" And she was like, "Yeah, we
were talking to him last week. He said that Thursday he
had a doctor's appointment." And I went, "Oh my
gosh, I gotta call him." And I go, "I love that about
you", that you remember that, that you're taking care of. So if you're wanting to
amplify feminine energy, notice, hmm, how could I contribute and make me nurture those around me? But big warning on this one,
do not do this at the detriment to your own energy, to the
detriment of your own tank. If you are depleted
and your tank is empty, make sure to fill up your tank first before you start really
pouring into other people. Number four, to amplify feminine energy, think about how can you express your needs and receive those needs being met. You see, there's this myth that exists that says the feminine can't be proactive. No, the feminine can
absolutely be proactive and be strong and be powerful, but it's in how you're being proactive. Where the masculine is proactive
in its directive energy, the feminine is proactive
in it's requesting energy. So instead of you saying like,
maybe you're feeling the need to get outside and go for
a hike and get outside or do something new, something like that. Instead of saying, "Hey, I found this great
hike. Let's go on Saturday." You turn to your partner and you say, "Hey, I really have
this need to get outside and go for a hike. Would you be willing to find a hike for us and take us on Saturday?" It's a request. Very nuanced, very subtle, but one is moving with masculine energy, the other's moving with feminine energy. One requires a bit more trust and empowers the other person to serve. That's a beautiful,
powerful feminine move. So as you do that, you'll
notice that you'll amplify that feminine energy, which in turn amplifies
his masculine energy and creates a stronger
polarized bond between you. Number five, in amplifying
feminine energy in something that the masculine energy craves, I would say it's addicted to, is the feminine that is
so secure in herself, the woman who's so grounded that she can encourage
the growth of her man. So when you're able to
acknowledge him and celebrate him and champion him, just
as he is acknowledging and celebrating and championing you, that bond, because the two of
you are celebrating each other and fostering that
growth, is just beautiful. Because in any relationship, we feel better when we're progressing rather than regressing. And to have someone who can honor that is really, really special. The sixth practice, this
really amplifies the feminine and masculine energy. It loves this. Which is
this up for anything spirit. Now, the feminine, again,
is receptive, right? So when the masculine says,
"Hey, let's go do this." "Let's go to this art show."
"Let's go to this car show." "Let's go to this movie."
"Let's go on this hike." "Let's go on this trip." Is you entering into that feminine energy receiving those ideas
saying, "Yeah, I'm game." "Let's go do this." "Let's
have fun with this." That is phenomenal energy. As I speak to a lot of men and I ask them, "What is it that you love
most about your wife?" "What do you love most
about your partner?" One of the things that
they will talk about is how she is up for
whatever, like she's up for... Let's go for a hike.
Let's go to the movies. Let's go to this show. Let's
go check out this adventure. Let's go do that. Because men and the masculine loves what? Loves to adventure, loves to create new
experiences, it thrive, that masculine energy rises up. So as you're on that journey
with him, alongside him, sharing that as his feminine
counterpart to that, that is a beautiful thing. And number seven, a simple
way to amplify feminine energy is to focus on beautification. Beauty and creativity, well up from the feminine
side of our own nature. And so as you look at your space and you're like, hey, I
would love to make this more beautiful and maybe add
some plants or some artwork or some candles or some
decorative pillows, or whatever it may be, what are the ways which
you can beautify your space and allow your space to help nurture and fill your feminine energy? My question for you is,
what are the things for you that if you really want to
step into your feminine energy, what practices really work for you? Go ahead and post those in
the comment section below. This is an amazing community of women who are contributing to the comments. I'm so inspired by what you write because it's all positive and uplifting and all in service of
expanding our capacity to give and receive love. And so I appreciate you. Thanks so much for watching. I look forward to seeing you soon. (upbeat instrumental music)
