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You may be seated. Good morning, Your Honor. Good morning. This is the case of<i> Baylor v. Childs.</i> Thank you, Jerome. Good day, everyone. AUDIENCE: Good day. Ms. Allen, you say that after a brief affair with Mr. Childs you discovered you were pregnant with your daughter Ms. Baylor. You say Mr. Childs acknowledged paternity until his wife convinced him otherwise. You intend to prove that Mr. Childs is in fact your daughter's father. Is that correct? Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: Mr. Childs, you admit to the affair with Ms. Allen but say she was involved with several other people around the time of conception. You and your wife contend that you are not Ms. Baylor's father. Is that correct? Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Allen, why is Mr. Childs denying your daughter? Um... His petty wife. She's been doing that for years. CHILDS: Excuse me, Your Honor. (AUDIENCE GASPS) She wasn't there when we were sleeping together. Or nothing. So... I don't think she have anything to do with it. So you're basically blaming his wife? ALLEN: Yes. CHILDS: She should blame herself, Your Honor. ALLEN: What? Why did it take you 20 years to figure out that you should get a DNA test? Because I didn't need I didn't need... When I asked... to go through the drama. ...you from the beginning. I didn't need... I came to you... JUDGE LAKE: All right. Let's talk one at a time, 'cause I do wanna understand this. How did you all even get together? CHILDS: She was friends with cousins of mine. And, we got together like that. We end up messing around or whatever. Nothing serious. JUDGE LAKE: So you all get together. You have mutual friends. You start having sex. Well, obviously unprotected. ALLEN: Actually, it started like this. We had a friend that got killed. And me and him, you know... You know, I would call and check on him and things like that. Then one day I'd just came through after a football game and he wanted to ride with me. And so, we went on and had a drink so whatever. And then, that's when we started having... We had sex. Is this the night you believe you conceived? Yes. After the football game and the drinks? Yes. Was this the only time you were intimate with Mr. Childs? We just did it like maybe... Couple of times after that. Okay, so this didn't extend for a long time. This is just a few encounters? CHILDS: No. Then you say, you got pregnant? ALLEN: Mmm-hmm. And once you got pregnant did you tell Mr. Childs, "I'm pregnant and I think it could be yours"? Actually, it was rumors. So he came to me. CHILDS: You spread the rumors. CHILDS: People come to me... Okay, if I have... If I have family... If I have family and I'm pregnant or whatever... CHILDS: Why don't you tell them the truth you didn't know who the father was? You knew that from day one! You were telling... You knew that from day one! That's not what you were saying though. You knew that from day one! The rumor that you... JUDGE LAKE: Hold on. I'm gonna give both of you a chance to respond to the other but I wanna understand. Ms. Allen, what is your contention? I told him. I said, "She may be your child." JUDGE LAKE: You told him directly? ALLEN: Yes. I told him, I said it's a possibility that she may... JUDGE LAKE: So you said it is a possibility it... That she may not be yours? ALLEN: Exactly. So you acknowledged this doubt? Yeah. And... And... Okay. So, Mr. Childs... CHILDS: Yes, ma'am. How did the story go in your assessment? CHILDS: You Honor, listen. Wasn't no, "Hey, listen, I'm trying to get at you" or anything like that. No. Never that. It just a moment that happened. So I even asked her, you know, once I found out, I heard she was pregnant. "Hey, are you... You're supposed to be pregnant by me?" "Oh, I don't know. I don't know if it's yours or not." So I'm like, "Okay. I'll tell you what. "If you're pregnant and it's mine, let's get a DNA test. "We can go and get this out of the way." I have no problem with taking care of her, 'cause she would have been my first. I don't see her again for months. Probably longer than that, Your Honor. So, Ms. Allen, when Ms. Baylor was born you didn't invite him to the birth? No. JUDGE LAKE: Did you invite any other man? No. Did you inform the other possibility or the other possibilities that they may be the father as well? Yes. You did? Yes. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. If you say, he might be the father, why are you in court today saying that he is the father? Because I was messing with him first. How do you know? ALLEN: From... What do you mean how do I know that? I had to go through the drama with Ms. Johnson. Oh, up and down the road she followed me. How can she remember me chasing her up and down the street, but she can't remember who fathered her child? Why am I living... Why am I living in her head rent free, but she can't remember who fathered her child? Furthermore, You Honor, he's always been there for my children... JUDGE LAKE: Girl, please. So this little song and dance she doing... I'm telling the truth. Look like she's lying... Why... She... I think it's important to know too. Whatever... When we met her daughter... The daughter told us that she had tested someone else. Why didn't you test him first? So, Ms. Allen, there has been testimony which indicates that you also tested another man? JOHNSON: Yes, she did that. Is that true? Okay, that is true. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. That is true. Tell the court about that. That is true. But, that's... I wasn't even messing with him. This was something that... JUDGE LAKE: Why would you test someone you aren't messing with? (ALL TALKING) He came on... He came on asking me. Then he said, "You know, I was messing with your Mom around the time. "I wanted... I wanted to get a DNA test with you." Okay. Someone reached out to you, Ms. Baylor... BAYLOR: Yes. And said, "I think I may be your father "and I wanna have a test." Yeah, I wanna have a test... JUDGE LAKE: But, Ms. Allen, you say this person was never a consideration. ALLEN: No. I told him that but he was insisting on it. I was like, that is not... I wasn't even messing with you back then. JUDGE LAKE: So the bottom line is... She don't know. That's the bottom line. Ms. Allen, you have not had a DNA test with any of the other true potential fathers? Right. Right. Okay, so, Shynesha, Ms. Baylor, were you always told Mr. Childs was your biological father? To be honest, You Honor, I was about 14 when I first found out, um, my sister's dad wasn't my dad. Just hearing rumors just going over to my grandmother's house in Bowling Green. And, uh, that's where, basically, he is from. And everybody would come to me like, "You're my cousin. TJ's your dad." I'm like, "I don't know who TJ is. Who is TJ?" And I went about it myself. I found him on Facebook. Hit him up. And I said, "Look, I don't know what's going on but I do "actually wanna know." And did I ever once deny you? BAYLOR: No, you never did. Never once. Never once. A child looking for her father, Your Honor, and I stand a chance of being it. I will be there. I will be there. You can ask her. (AUDIENCE APPLAUSE) We conversated. We talked everything. JUDGE LAKE: So, Ms. Baylor, first you believed until you were 14 years old that your sibling's father was your biological father. ALLEN: Her stepfather. JUDGE LAKE: Then people were murmuring. And you were told by whom that that was not your biological father? Well, basically my stepdad was telling me stories and he said when he met my mom then she was already pregnant with me. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. So your stepfather told you the truth? BAYLOR: Yes. So I actually... I don't know if he meant to, but when he told me I was just like, I just started asking questions. I just wanted to know. Right. BAYLOR: And wanted to get to the bottom of it. And so... Yes. She knew I told her, sit down, I told her the whole story. Yes, she told me after. She didn't, like, tell me before. But she told me after the fact when my stepdad did say that. Okay. Your Honor... She said... When I brung it to her attention like, I don't know what's going on. I'm confused. I know, honey. CHILDS: I'm confused too. And that's why I'm trying to understand this, because at the end of the day you have a right to understand what happened. CHILDS: Exactly. Your Honor, in 2006, I got in touch with Ms. Baylor. And I told her that I wanted to meet Shy. JUDGE LAKE: Eleven years ago you would have been nine. CHILDS: Yes, ma'am. So you made an attempt to meet Ms. Baylor CHILDS: Yes, ma'am. at nine years old. Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: But you weren't informed... She was... I met her. ...of any of this till you were 14. No, ma'am. I met her. I sat down and talked to her at Ms. Allen's house. ALLEN: I've never denied that... Then why wouldn't you tell her? Why wouldn't you tell her? I felt like I never saw this man in my life. Like, when people were telling me when I was 14, I'm like, I don't know nobody named TJ. I don't remember him or none of this. JUDGE LAKE: I mean, you were only nine. You don't remember him at all? I don't remember nothing. JUDGE LAKE: And let me ask you this, Mr. Childs, it seems as if you were making earnest attempts to find out. Is it that you still had a question in your mind so you were just trying to see it through? I just wanted to see it through, Your Honor. I'm saying like this. If it was such a struggle for her to raise her by herself, and you know where I am, if I'm such a bad person, go get child support. When we went to child... For child support, I would have got a DNA test. And this would have been taken care of years ago. I've been going on years, Your Honor, with people saying, "Oh, you know Shy's your daughter." "Oh, you know Shy's your daughter." I don't want people looking at me like, "Oh, you're a deadbeat dad." No. I do what I have to do to take care of my family. JUDGE LAKE: So, wait, I wanna ask Ms. Allen, if this was the man you truly believed was your child's father, why didn't you ever pursue child support? ALLEN: I basically was working, and just taking care of her on my own. JUDGE LAKE: Or was it that you just really knew that you didn't know for sure if it was him? Well, it didn't even matter because I just did without the drama. CHILDS: It mattered to you. It mattered to you. You can't say that. So, I went on with my life. I took care of her by myself. So, Ms. Allen, you never in the court system pursued a DNA test... Nothing? No. JUDGE LAKE: All right. CHILDS: Your Honor, she just made feels like she wanted me to be the father by name so if someone asked her who Shy's father was she could say me. (ALLEN SCOFFS) You know. Your Honor, I'm not being funny or anything, but, okay, I was a good catch. I'm not gonna lie. I was a good catch. So... So I can understand, you know, where she was coming from then. I would have made sure she was fine. I would have made sure the child was fine. All that would have been good. What I'm saying is there was no way to keep up with her. You know, when she had the baby, Your Honor, she brought the baby to my mom's house one time. And I told her right then and there, "Look, Niecy, we can get this straightened out "so we don't have any problems in the future." She disappeared. And you say he didn't say that, Ms. Allen? ALLEN: No. Mr. Childs was doing other things and... CHILDS: I'm not saying... And I wasn't the only... I wasn't even the only... Only one he was messing with. He was messing with my cousins and all that stuff. So, that's why I just went on about my business. Again. What does that have to do with the child at hand, Your Honor? It doesn't. Exactly! But at the same time... That's what I'm saying I've been going through, Your Honor. She's not concerned about her. She's concerned about her. See, I'm concerned about her too. You run my name the mud for years, Niecy. How do I bring your name through the mud? You've been telling people she's my baby but won't take a DNA test. How's that not running my name through the mud? Okay. People looking at me like I don't take care of a child. You crazy? Okay. Okay. Okay. It funny of you? It's not funny to me. I'm not... Do what you gotta do. Of course... All I'm saying is, be here for her. JOHNSON: Listen. Listen. Your Honor, can I say... Mr. Childs, you have other children? CHILDS: Yes, ma'am. Well taken care of. She knows I would have took great care of this girl. Great care. So... Mr. Childs and Ms. Johnson, do you have any additional doubts? Oh, yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: You do? Okay. I have some evidence right here, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: Let me see the evidence. Jerome. Will you describe what this evidence is, sir? First evidence is... Uh, with my children. All my children have six fingers, Your Honor. Both of my kids are very tall. And look just like me. All my kids look just like me. You know, I'm not saying that, you know, that doesn't mean she's not my child. It's just that... I feel I have strong genes. So, you know... JUDGE LAKE: So you're saying, all of your children, all of your other children, have been born with a sixth finger? CHILDS: Yes, ma'am. Just like myself. JUDGE LAKE: And... That's a physical characteristic you share with them? CHILDS: Yes, ma'am. JOHNSON: Right. And when we were pregnant with the 7-year-old, we had an ultrasound done and at that point, as soon as he hit my stomach, she lift her hand up and there it was dangling... Another finger. That sixth finger. Another digit is what they called it. So we asked them about it and they say it will be hereditary who got it. Mr. Childs, are there other members of your family with this sixth finger? No, ma'am. Ms. Johnson, on your side? I don't have it, but I found out later on my dad has six fingers. But none of us, like, my brother or sister, nothing. And so the gene could have come from your side. JOHNSON: It could have. But it was just interesting none of us... JUDGE LAKE: So... Interesting. Yup. They don't have... JUDGE LAKE: So, Ms. Allen, are you still convinced that Mr. Childs is her biological father? Yes. JUDGE LAKE: You do believe? I... I really do. After today's results, what are you hoping? I mean, if... If he is, you know, the father, I want them to have a relationship. And, I mean, I'm out of it, because she's 20. So at the same time if he's not, then we move on. That's fine with me. I... I... I just have to say, on your behalf, and I don't mean to speak for you, Ms. Baylor, but, this is something she has not moved on. Mmm-hmm. JUDGE LAKE: She deserves an answer. (AUDIENCE APPLAUSE) JUDGE LAKE: And I don't know, Shynesha, it's been a lot talk about the past, and what people do and what they did. But I want you to know you matter. You are all that matters in this moment. What are your hopes? Basically, I'm just hoping that I can just close this, this chapter that I do have open in my life. You know, if it's not closed then I'm, uh, I'm a keep trying to close the chapter. It's nothing that I can be mad about, because my mom had taken care of me since, you know? JUDGE LAKE: Exactly. And I want... And I hope, as the adults here in this situation, you all can understand that I think it is so amazing that you can stand in this courtroom today and say, I'm not mad about it. But I do want you to understand, that it is perfectly okay for you to be hurt about it. And that's okay to admit. This is a lot to have to process. And every girl and every boy, you need your dad. CHILDS: Yeah. JUDGE LAKE: And even though you've had a wonderful experience being raised by your mother, it sounds like you had a nice stepfather as well. At 14 years old, to get that kind of news and then from that point on for six more years beyond... Beyond that to have questions and confusion, you can be strong, and still acknowledge that you're hurt. Family, are we ready for the results? CHILDS: Yes, Judge. Let's do it. Jerome. These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics and they read as follows. JUDGE LAKE: In the case of<i> Baylor v. Childs...</i> When it comes to 20-year-old Shynesha Baylor, it has been determined by this court, Mr. Childs, you... Are not the father. ALLEN: (WHISPERS) It's okay, all right? JUDGE LAKE: I'm very sorry, Ms. Baylor. It's okay, Your Honor. You know at the same time... JUDGE LAKE: It's okay, honey. It's okay. (AUDIENCE APPLAUSE) Now, I'd like to apologize to the both of you... JOHNSON: Okay. ...for that. And we could move on. JOHNSON: That's fine. (AUDIENCE APPLAUSE) Thank you. It's all right. I really want to give you the closure you need and deserve, Ms. Baylor, and I'm sorry this was not the answer. But I just want you to understand this is just one step. This now takes this particular question out of the picture and now we move forward, right? Yes, ma'am. I hope you will continue to answer her questions no matter how difficult, Ms. Allen. Mmm-hmm. And do whatever is necessary to help her identify and find her biological father, all right? Yes, ma'am. Don't ever feel like this is your fault, don't ever feel like you are to blame, and I want you to know how much you are worth it. You are a strong girl. But it's okay in life to say, "Mom, this really hurts me. "I need you to help me." Okay? Yes, Your Honor. All right. I have counseling and resources for you all. Thank you, Your Honor. Wish you the very best of luck. Thank you. Court is adjourned.
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Length: 16min 32sec (992 seconds)
Published: Fri Jul 06 2018
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