Brainy Dose Presents: 13 Reasons Introverts Are So Attractive Introverts. We all know one; maybe you even are one. Either way, everyone has an opinion: some
say they’re too shy to hold a conversation, while others see them as cold outsiders. Of course, anyone who knows an introvert,
knows this isn’t the case. While introverts might be more comfortable
enjoying their own company, they seem to have this magnetism, that’s almost a super-power. Whether they’re keeping to themselves or
hanging out with friends, introverts seem to always catch people’s eyes and their
attention, drawing others to them without so much as lifting a finger. What’s their secret? Well, this ability to attract others isn’t
down to one specific thing, but a whole host of reasons. Whether you’re an introvert or just want
to learn more about them, check out the reasons why introverts are so attractive! Number 1 - They Are Dreamers Daydreaming isn’t just for kids. Having an open and active imagination and
being able to see what others may not, is a beautiful ability - one that introverts
are blessed with. They spend a lot of time in reflexive thought
- working things over in their minds. Or just enjoying letting their minds wander,
wherever it may lead. Introverts think about anything and everything,
from what they had at breakfast to deep subjects like life and the universe. They are certainly not just passive observers
on their journey through the world, and they like to reflect on life as it unfolds around
them. They are close to modern-day philosophers,
and as their minds run free, they take on a far-away, inquisitive look, lending them
an attractive air, that others pick up on. Number 2 - They Know Themselves Introverts often turn their ‘deep-thinking’
minds to themselves - getting a chance to boost their self-awareness, which creates
a fuller idea of their own identities. They know themselves well. They know the types of things and people they
like - helping them befriend someone with a compatible personality or similar interests. They also know what is important to them,
and hold strong to their values. Introverts won’t talk around an issue. This isn’t to say that they’re blunt,
and of course, introverts are not known for being rude, but they will be honest with you,
letting their intentions known. Having such a solid idea of oneself, and the
sureness that comes with it, means that introverts give off a vibe of confidence, which helps
others see them as attractive. Number 3 - They’re Easy To Be Around Introverts have no interest in fanfare or
getting their names shouted from rooftops. The pressure to try and be the center of attention
is simply useless to them. They are much too easy-going when it comes
to hanging out. After all, when you spend time with an introvert,
their attention will be ON YOU. Rather than trying to crack the funniest joke
or have all eyes on them, they will stick close to their friends - making your time
together feel more sincere and special, as you have honest and introspective chats. It doesn’t always have to get so deep though;
Introverts are happy to spend time with their friends and support them. So if you become the center of attention,
know that they will be quietly cheering you on. Number 4 - They Think Before They Speak Let’s be honest, at one time or another,
we’ve all probably said something embarrassing. Whether we were speaking out of turn or telling
a bad joke, chances are, we all have that memory that makes us cringe to this day. Introverts have a bit of an advantage here. They are known to settle on the edges of conversations,
speaking when spoken to or when they see it as necessary. They reflect on and follow the flow of conversation,
planning their response, and giving smooth answers instead of tripping over words. When they speak, introverts give you just
a taste of what’s on their minds, pulling you in as they catch your interest. Number 5 - They’re Great Listeners What makes introverts such good conversationalists,
is that they take the time to listen and reflect on what they hear. In fact, introverts are great listeners - and
they are sure to listen to every word you say - even if you just want to chat about
whatever comes to mind. When you tell them about a problem, they will
think through your issue - and instead of brushing it off by saying something like “Maybe
it wasn’t meant to be” or “Oh well, such is life,” they’ll take the time to
try and give you sincere advice. Having someone in your life who listens when
you need them to, is a truly amazing thing, which is another reason why introverts are
so attractive to others. Number 6 - They Are Mysterious In a crowded room, when it’s hard to hear
everyone talking over each other, an introvert will hang back just out of reach - safe from
the noise and yet still a part of it, with an air of mystery following their steps. This isn’t to say that they make a habit
of avoiding others. Actually, one of the introvert’s special
skills is their ability to seem to be almost everywhere at a party or event. Always on the move, they’ll make their way
through the crowds, paying full attention to their friends and people they know, giving
everyone an idea of their presence - as they move on to the next person. This mysterious energy isn’t pride, but
self-control. They take the time to truly ‘talk to’
and be with people - even if only for a few minutes - and this sincerity leaves a strong
impression. This ability makes an introvert stand out,
granting them an almost magnetic ability to attract people. Number 7 - They Are A Challenge Introverts don’t wear their hearts on their
sleeves, as they value their privacy. Of course, they will still share things about
themselves, but they do it on their terms, and when they’re ready. They know that sharing information about themselves
will catch people’s attention, and so, sometimes they will let bits of information slip to
someone they’re interested in. In fact, introverts tend to use the ‘sharing
of information’ as a kind of test. They want to make sure the person they are
interested in, is ready to make the effort to form a sincere relationship. Creating this challenge makes an introvert
that much more alluring! Number 8 - They Are Kind And Generous For the same reasons that they are great listeners,
introverts are caring friends too. They will offer you genuine help when you
need it; whether it’s running an errand on your behalf or just getting you a glass
of water. They are generous in nature and offer their
help, out of true concern for others. Being so giving and caring - looking after
people without having a hidden agenda - makes introverts truly beautiful people, inside
and out. Number 9 - They Are Intrinsically Motivated Typically, introverts aren’t motivated by
reward or recognition, and their goals and aspirations aren’t dependent on other people’s
approval. Instead, they know what they want out of life,
and they have the commitment to follow their passion - even if it’s not always an easy
task. Introverts have the ability to work on their
goals with true drive and commitment - and the energy that comes with pursuing their
passion is certainly an attractive one. Number 10 - They Are Observant Introverts pay attention when others do not. During conversations, they observe carefully,
picking up things that others miss. They have the ability to learn about people,
without needing to constantly ask personal questions. Introverts bring their keen focus to everyday
life, so even a casual conversation is listened to fully. They don’t just brush off a conversation,
but think over and remember it, so nothing falls through the cracks. This gives introverts the ability to always
seem to be able to anticipate what you want - without you having to ask and remind them
- making them seem a bit like mind readers, which is rather endearing. Number 11 - They Are Out Of The Box Thinkers Being an introvert is actually a positive
when it comes to creative thinking - with studies confirming that some of the most creative
thinkers in their fields are introverts. This is thanks to the fact that solitude and
creative thinking complement each other. Introverts view solitude as an opportunity
to focus on their work without interruption. They turn their mind inward, getting attuned
to their inner thoughts; and thus, they are able to make strides in creative thinking. The ability to think and act with such deep
focus and clarity, and the way in which introverts view and solve problems, makes them remarkably
attractive. Number 12 - They Are Studious And Smart By nature, introverts have inquisitive minds
that are always eager for new information and viewpoints. They are sure to know about a wide range of
topics, thanks to their reflexive identities and their ongoing interest in learning. They also like ‘talking about’ and ‘sharing’
new information that they have picked up - not so they can brag about it, but so they can
have truly engaging conversations. Watching an introvert as they talk about something
that they’re passionate about or have a lot of knowledge in, can be a beautiful thing;
seeing an introvert’s eyes light up as they share their opinion, makes them all the more
attractive. Number 13 - They Are Loyal Introverts don’t spend their time with just
anyone. They see relationships as a commitment of
their time and energy - avoiding small talk or superficial relationships, which only consist
of talking about the weather or sports scores. They aren’t ‘players’ who will tactically
befriend someone, just for their own gain. The connections they look for, aren’t to
be exploited; their goal in a relationship is to find someone they can trust and someone
who will trust them. Introverts will be by your side through the
good and bad. Whether you’re facing stress at home, school
or work, if you’re friends with an introvert, they’ll be with you through it all. They chose to be your friend for a reason,
and the trust they place in you is strong enough to face whatever comes your way. Introverts may prefer to spend their time
out of the spotlight, but their mysterious air and powerful presence leave a deep impression
on everyone they meet. They are honest and sincere, with an inquisitive
mind and a deep respect for others. These traits, along with the ones outlined
in this list, shine through their character - which is what makes them so attractive. So, what do you think? Share your thoughts and comments below! If you enjoyed this video, give it a thumbs
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