12 Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think

hello and welcome in this video we will discover 12 signs you're more attractive than you think occasionally all people are prone to doubts about their attractiveness at these moments they start to search for flaws in themselves sometimes it can be useful because it leads to self-development but very often constructive self-criticism can grow into a destructive self-approach that might disturb leading a happy and full life all of us are beautiful in our own unique ways i mean sure you are flawed but we all are have you noticed that when you walk by someone people kind of look up at you that's called presence and you have it you turn heads because you're attractive just by being who you are because we underestimate our abilities or put ourselves down humans have a poor record when it comes to self-assessment some studies suggest people are not capable of assessing themselves especially when considering attractiveness most people have something they don't like about themselves which is nothing new but you have to start somewhere when thinking about who you are and what you have to offer believe you are enough believe what you have to offer and things you like about yourself are more valuable than insecurities attractiveness isn't measured just by physical attributes many insist they want a person that is more than just a pretty face learn to accept yourself and be comfortable in your skin our imperfections are what makes us different and to others an unknown element of attraction we all have our share of imperfections and blemishes we all stumble occasionally yes we all have our ugly moments but you should always be optimistic and think positive stop looking down on yourself stop thinking that you don't look good enough to be liked or loved you have to stop succumbing to the mindset that you aren't physically attractive you are you have to stop believing that you are never going to find a person who is going to want to fall in love with you because you're ugly you're not ugly you are beautiful here are 12 subtle signs you are more attractive than you think but just before make sure you subscribe to the channel and don't forget to download your free book to change your life by clicking on the link in the description below the video number one you don't get a lot of compliments can you remember a time when you wore a really nice outfit or dolled yourself up in hopes of receiving lots of compliments only for all your efforts to go unnoticed don't let yourself doubt get you just yet while it's easy to assume that this happens because you simply don't look as good as you thought you did the opposite might in fact be true you might be much better looking than you give yourself credit for and because everyone already knows it they don't feel the need to keep reminding you about it by paying you a lot of compliments feeling attractive and understanding how to accept yourself as beauty comes from within it requires self-reflection by assessing yourself and where you are in your life it may also require what you want to achieve when it comes to relationships here are a few suggestions on how you can feel more attractive avoid comparing yourself to what society says is beautiful from magazines to social media countless images are being tossed in our face about what is acceptable when considering people's looks individuals who think looks are everything are likely busy comparing themselves to others think about your relationship and how your partner views you when you're fond of each other and accept one another it brings a level of attractiveness that impacts you the person you're in a relationship with should help you see yourself in the best light think about if your partner had anything to do with steering your thoughts if you feel unattractive try not to focus so much on yourself you'll be more self-critical encourage yourself to approach others to improve your social skills it will help reduce feelings of insecurity while encouraging you to be comfortable with yourself it presents an authentic form of attraction when you take the lead that brings people together think about your body and what it has accomplished men and women have different views on what they consider attractive when it comes to body type you can transform and shape your body guided by your actions consider your accomplishments and what you want to achieve thinking about your body in this way shifts focus to yourself in a positive way instead of how others evaluate or observe it 2. when they do give you compliments it feels insincere the few compliments you do receive from others are usually casual and offhanded people tend to remark about your appearance in a passing manner that you might find insincere but the truth is it's probably because most of them think you look great no matter what think of your most attractive friend do you constantly gush about their appearance no right you'd probably just bring it up when you notice they wore something new or changed up their look somehow we often hate things about ourselves that make us stick out but that's often what makes us attractive so people don't understand when we're insecure about it i hate my eyes they're too big can seem like the oddest statement for someone who hasn't been called frog eyes for their entire childhood 3. strangers stare at you it's easy to feel self-conscious when strangers stare at you in public but if you notice that it happens a lot you might be more attractive than you realize when an attractive person walks into the room a lot of us can't help but look up and turn our gaze towards them they're effortless head turners with a kind of presence that demands your attention and there's nothing more attractive than that if a person keeps looking at you for a while even after you've noticed it and the person continues looking even when you turn away their look then it is an obvious sign that they have a strong interest in you they are just trying to be tactful to hold themselves back from staring or gazing at you 4. people gravitate towards you aside from captivating the attention of strangers you might notice that a lot of people easily warm up to you and try to get closer to you when you first get to know them this could be because they find you attractive and admire the way you carry yourself after all it's always fun to flirt with a cute stranger or try to get your crush to like you back which brings us to our next point six others may act differently around you do you think you make other people nervous has anyone ever seemed dazed and confused when you first approached them attractiveness can be intimidating and it can be hard to keep our cool around someone we like when you notice other people acting strange around you it could be because they find you attractive and don't quite know how to talk to you six people are surprised by your insecurities we find it hard to believe that the people we admire have insecurities too we think that because they are so gorgeous they don't have anything to feel insecure about but everyone struggles with low self-esteem sometimes this might be why most people are so surprised when they find out that there are certain things about your appearance you're not too happy with it means that they would love to look the way you do and probably don't even notice the flaws you see in yourself 7. others tend to have strong feelings about you when you're attractive people may display positive or negative attitudes towards you they might be overly friendly and warm when you first meet them or mean and harsh for seemingly no reason either way the reason why most people react so strongly about you is likely because they find you attractive they act petty because they're jealous of your good looks and feel threatened by you others may come up to you a lot and make excuses just to talk to you or spend time with you 8. you have a lot of dating prospects it might take some time before you meet someone you actually like but you certainly don't have to look far to find a guy or girl who'd be interested in you you don't stay single for long and whenever you do you always have a lot of dating prospects several people have confessed their feelings for you and some have even tried to court you though you might argue that it's because you're likable friendly or popular anyone else would tell you that these are all definite signs that you are attractive society puts a lot of pressure on us to be beautiful and being attractive can certainly go a long way when it comes to dating and relationships it plays a critical role in shaping our self-concept and in turn our self-confidence and feelings of self-worth look beyond your insecurities and try to understand what other people value in you you might be surprised to find you're actually much more attractive than you first thought 9. people are either too polite or extremely unfriendly toward you whether you encounter open rudeness or an unexpectedly warm attitude it signals that you are not indifferent to other people a self-confident person who doesn't have complexes and considers themselves attractive and successful appreciates the same qualities in other people that's why if a person who you consider to be a good guy treats you with a polite and friendly attitude it means that they see an equal personality in you on the other hand all nice people sometimes encounter other people's negative emotions and very often those emotions are unreasonable the main thing is to not take them personally and not get upset about them just keep in mind that these people are unhappy lack self-confidence and behave in this manner because of envy and impaired self-esteem 10. you don't usually get told about how pretty you are the reason people just usually assume that you already know how pretty you are or maybe they already think that you get told that you're pretty way too often that they think you might be tired of hearing it don't be discouraged if people aren't telling you you're beautiful first of all your sense of validation should only come from yourself and second just because people don't tell you that you're beautiful to your face doesn't mean that they think that way doubting your attractiveness is possible when dealing with previous insecurities you may focus too much on what you think are flaws maybe there are things you wish you could change others are stuck in the past when they were teenagers being teased about their appearance looking back at what others taunted your looks about may leave a negative effect on how you view yourself currently noticing what makes you different may help you see the natural beauty you possess that catches the attention of others 11. people are usually surprised to hear about how insecure you are whenever you open up about your insecurities concerning your looks and your self-worth people really get surprised people just naturally assume that you would be so confident and self-assured because of how you look in fact people would even be annoyed at the fact that someone like you would still have insecurities they would just automatically think that you're so happy with the life that you've been given society puts pressure on people's looks because in some situations such as dating and relationships it matters few think they have a picture-perfect look featured in magazines and social media on a personal level it is common to be curious about what others think of your appearance the element of attraction can play a significant role in confidence how others view you and how you see yourself when considering if you are attractive you'll need to be honest about yourself including how you look and how you view your physical features 12. you have had multiple occasions where a guy just obsesses over you whether it be during one night in particular or for a long stretch of time you have had a few guys just obsess over you consider the scenario where you were out at a bar with your friends and one guy in particular just stuck to you like glue for the whole night or maybe there's this one guy who keeps texting you every day even though you have expressed your disinterest in him this is proof that men find you physically attractive being objective to how you look isn't easy but understanding what others like about you may help you focus on specific personal attributes we criticize ourselves often from how our skin looks to how our clothes fit many of us are used to being hard on ourselves it seems like a joke to believe anyone would find us attractive a personal opinion of yourself outweighs an opinion from another assessing your attractiveness is a great way to achieve self-awareness while learning the type of people you're attracting it is common to wonder what other people think when it comes to looks and personality sometimes insecurities get in the way leading to self-consciousness of things that don't matter to someone else we put ourselves down often by thinking we're not pretty smart or interesting enough therefore underestimating leads to undermining qualities that we do have that catches the attention of another you may not realize you are attractive but there are personal attributes others may find unique admirable and even sexy just because someone hasn't mentioned it doesn't mean you're not attractive forms of attraction are not just physical features people who are comfortable in their skin doing what they want in life is something many find attractive but the concept itself may not be something you think about when considering what makes you beautiful living the life you want and accomplishing your goals shows you know how to act and you're willing to take risks looking beyond your insecurities not only encourages you to learn more about yourself but may help you focus on personal attributes you didn't know were valuable in others understanding the ways you are attractive involves learning more about yourself and what others value in you talk about your feelings and why you feel unattractive with someone you can trust such as a close friend or counselor specializing in couples therapy to get to the bottom of your thoughts so you can see and feel the natural beauty you possess knowing you're attractive includes believing you are and assessing what makes you appealing to others spend time learning more about your thoughts and perceptions creating unpleasant feelings you experience be proactive in building your self-image so you can be happy and accepting of who you are from the inside out hey if you enjoyed this video please like share comment and especially subscribe to the channel you are also free to receive the new book 7 secrets to change your life now by clicking on the link in the description below the video you

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Length: 17min 13sec (1033 seconds)

Published: Wed Sep 23 2020