12 Reasons why she never texts first but responds when you do

i know you want to yell at her and ask her why she behaves like that i know you're feeling lost and frustrated because she never texts you first and yet will respond when you do and you have every right to feel that way to be honest you have every right to wonder whether it's just a game or this person is probably just uninterested in stringing you along i mean does she like you or is she just trying to be polite now if you have a lot of these questions on your mind in today's video i'm happy to share 12 reasons why she never texts you first and yet responds whenever you text keep watching [Music] welcome back my name is jessica i'm a broadcaster who lives in accra ghana and of course a proud african youtuber thank you very much for coming to my channel now if this is the first time you're watching my channel you are most welcome we're a big family here don't forget to smash the subscribe button if you like this video and of course um turn on all notifications so you get a notification every single time i post plus if you like the video please give it a thumbs up as it helps with the algorithm all right so now that we're here we'll jump right in 12 reasons why she never is the one to text first and yet responds whenever you text here we go number one you like her but so do other guys alright so she has a lot of attention coming in from so many men and so sometimes it's really hard for her to like keep track and catch up with everybody and indeed she has many unread messages on her phone simply because she can't seem to keep up with all the attention she constantly gets from guys number two so she's not quite sure how she feels about you and the truth is you haven't really won her heart just yet and so texting you is an extra effort that she may not want to put in at all or it might feel lazy to do if you find yourself in such a situation make sure you quickly try to define what it is that both of you have so you can always be on the same page number three now don't forget that she may have a really terrible past with relationships with guys and so she's sort of taking her time to just you know mull over how she's feeling and whether these feelings are real this time and will result in something that will benefit her number three maybe she just doesn't like the texts but she likes you there are people like that i am the other way around though i prefer text messages as opposed to phone calls and sometimes the people in my life don't get that you know but once you understand how i work and why i tend to you know gravitate more towards text messages as opposed to phone calls um our relationship can be a little more smoother now typically my day is really really busy i feel like phone calls give me the sense of urgency like i absolutely must talk now whereas if i receive a whatsapp message or an imessage whatever you guys use um i could actually take my time and get back to it when i'm ready to respond and for me it's as basic as that so perhaps she doesn't like sms's and she'd rather prefer a phone call or maybe you should ask her what would you rather prefer how would you like me to reach out to you and that will solve half of your problems number four maybe she has other priorities going on with her at the time now not every woman likes to share what she may be going through at any point in time it could do with her job her family her friends etc and so you know she may be going through quite a bit and other things may be taking her attention may need her urgent attention and texting you at the moment may not be number one on her list and you must understand that if you're going to have her attention perhaps in the future so don't be too quick to judge her you know she simply has other priorities going for her that are taking her attention at the moment number five she may be too busy to think of texting you first now i don't know the kind of woman that's in your life but i think you need to really pay attention to her schedules now if she's someone who is really busy a go-getter is constantly occupied about you know work in her life and trying to catch up with deadlines she may not always have the time to send you a quick message and it doesn't mean necessarily that she doesn't care it could mean that you know she just needs to get stuff out of the way so she can finally and eventually have time for you and they're genuine people like that um however at this point take note that you may have to really be able to discern to find out what it actually is is it a matter of her just being really busy saying with work or maybe she has a death in the family and they're they're making funeral arrangements or you know it could be anything just try to ascertain whether her busyness is genuine so that you don't waste time with her if for instance you find out that she's just stringing you along and is really uninterested in any kind of relationship with you she plays inaccessible now there are some women who do that they do not want to be too accessible to the men in their lives because it makes them feel cheap it's like whenever you say jump she says how high and when do you want me back i mean a lot of women just do not want to be at your every beck and call and so they deliberately make themselves inaccessible and so you know in some weird way you probably end up craving their presence their attention and their time and so figure out the kind of woman that you're actually with to see if you know she's one of those people who are just playing inaccessible or there's something else taking her time number seven she doesn't text you first because she knows that you will so if from the beginning of your friendship and or relationship you've always been the one to text then naturally she's falling into this cycle where she expects you to text first and she knows that if she doesn't you definitely will and she will hear from you what i would recommend is don't text her for a period and see if she texts you back if she texts you back she may be interested in continuing the relationship or friendship and if she doesn't then my guy that is a clear indication right there and maybe an opportunity for you to actually move on and on to someone else who may be genuinely interested number eight she may be afraid to commit yeah there are some women like that believe it or not not every woman is needy looking for a man wants a relationship there are some women out there who just couldn't care less and yet again there's also a whole category of women who are just afraid to commit because of what they've been through in the past they've had some really nasty experiences with the opposite sex and it's just like alarm bells going off whenever someone draws closer to her or tries to get her attention or her love number nine another reason may be she may not actually be good at texting because her writing or english sucks right um she may not be good at writing english and so she wouldn't want you to you know she wouldn't want to make mistakes when she sends you a text message and so she would rather just sort of wait it out and see if you would you know ask how she's doing and if you do she's probably answering with simple responses that are safe and she wouldn't have to sort of expose herself with such a woman when you see her in person she's really talkative she's really engaging but however she seems really distant via text that could be a hidden reason why number 10 maybe she just wants to play casual and you know playing casual is slightly different from being inaccessible because when you're inaccessible you're just inaccessible you do not want this person to have access to you as and when they want whereas playing it casual is more i don't want anything more than what currently is and so i will just continue to respond to you to be polite but if i don't hear from you again i really could not care less i mean if you figure out that this is the kind of category your woman falls in or your friend or someone you really like falls in then you may not want to continue this relationship at all because it'll turn out to be a waste of your time you're looking to make her your girlfriend and inadvertently perhaps your wife in the future and she just wants to keep it casual because she's really not that into you it's not that deep when you find that out walk away number eleven she may not like you [Music] you're waiting for me to say something else hey she may not like you last but not least she may be introverted you know introverted people find it really difficult to open up to others right so that might be a good reason why [Music] so at this point my microphone goes off and i do not notice and this is me just rambling on without sound anyway because i'm editing this video a couple of days later after shooting it i'm gonna have to just wing the final point i was talking about introversion being one of the reasons why a woman may never text you you know introverted people would rather stick to themselves you know just mind their own business and they're happy with their own company so i guess it doesn't naturally come to them to be the one to reach out first hey they're having too much fun with themselves now if you find out that your partner has this innate personality you might want to win them over by letting them know that they can trust you and then they'll begin to open up and give you the kind of love and attention that you need in return i guess at this point i was telling you about how i was grateful for watching the video and if you liked the video don't forget to subscribe turn on the notification bell so you get notified every single time i post and also well don't forget to like the video as it helps with the algorithm my name is jessica thank you so much for watching bye for now

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Length: 10min 44sec (644 seconds)

Published: Wed Sep 01 2021