You've No Mates Because of Her (Meghan Markle)

[Music] this wedding was an assignment for my religion 2 class in Catholic school this one's wife you've got no mates because of her hello I'm HG Tuda narcissists interfere with your life when the narcissist first comes along and you're a Target to become the intimate partner primary source many of you will have been subjected to love bombing this is where the narcissist monopolizes your time sends you lots of messages buys you gifts takes you to interesting places tells you how wonderful you are possibly has a lot of sex with you dependent on the counter of narcissists that they are you think you've met somebody wonderful they like the things that you like like they talk about having children with you getting married to you moving in together start to make plans to move in together perhaps do move in together with undue haste plan holidays want to meet your friends and family want to introduce you to their friends and family But as time goes on you'll find that as this individual who you don't realiz as a narcissist draws you into their world your links with your friends and family start to become all the more uous this is because the narcissist wants you all of the time because you're the One-Stop shop for the prime Asim by having mainly one person to control life becomes a lot easier for the narcissist it enables The Narcissist to get all of their fuel more or less in one place DET to character traits and residual benefits yes there are others in the fuel Matrix and if you'd like to understand how different narcissists have their fuel matrixes constituted I'd encourage you to read my book pipelines for a greater understanding of the varying proportions and emphasis of the narcissist has upon those in the fuel Matrix but for most unaware narcissists being lesser and mid-range the intimate part of the primary source is is the main provider of the Prime Aimes therefore this means that the narcissist wants that individual spending a lot of time with them and therefore it follows that individual is not going to to have as much time available to continue Pursuits with friends and family now of course when you start a romantic relationship over time you do spend more time with that person and perhaps less time with family and friends that is quite natural but when it comes to the narcissist it happens far faster with friends and family being elbowed out of the way at an early juncture this is done as I mentioned so that the narcissist can gorge if you will on the prime aims but also is to ensure that friends and family don't get in the way of the ensnarement of the intimate partner primary source by perhaps querying the speed of which the relationship is being moved along in the way that William did when he warned Harry about it going too fast even where it's well intentioned the suggestion that perhaps things ought to be slowed down that you perhaps take your time with this new person that has come along and entered your life is a threat to the control of the narcissist meaning The Narcissist needs to do something about it furthermore as that individual becomes more and more ens snared by The Narcissist they may well then engage in behaviors which others can see are problematic for the primary victim they try and speak out but unfortunately they're met with resistance by the victim who is subsumed within their own emotional thinking and of course that then makes them an enemy of the narcissist because they've said something adverse about that narcissist to the primary victim which then means that the narcissist doubles down on the efforts to keep that friend away from the primary victim often smearing that friend telling the primary victim that they've perhaps hit on them or that they've said awful things Etc in order to drive a wedge between them and Harry who finds himself in the sustained devaluation is in precisely that position as Jessica Gibb writes in the mirror Prince Harry's lonely UK visit as old Pals won't see hippie that hates preis one's wife's life Prince Harry will likely spend a great deal of his time in the United Kingdom alone as his army and school friends have become distant a royal expert has claimed the Duke of Sussex 39 will travel to London to Mark 10 years of his highly successful inv Victor's games the ceremony will be held at St Paul's Cathedral on May the 8th it has been claimed Harry will check into a hotel room alone in London during his trip instead of staying at a royal residence or visiting friends pausing there that in itself is a clear indicator of where Harry finds himself he can't stay at a royal residence because family are displeased with his conduct friends don't offer him someone to stay because he's not maintained those friendships he hasn't maintained those friendships because it's become more difficult with him living in another country across the sea but in these days of Technology telephone calls Skype calls Zoom calls Etc should allow the maintenance of those relationships but this one's wife has stopped him from doing so she stopped him from doing so because she doesn't want Harry having a connection with friends and family because it gets in the way of her control of him Royal author and expert Tom quim claims that it's possible that he will not meet any of his old friends from school in the military since they part of the old pre this one's wife's world that Harry hates to revisit during an exclusive chat with the mirror the experts said the Duke's Army friends felt betrayed by the way that he wrote about military service in his Memoir spare and now they feel like they have nothing in common with him this of course is fairly common in relation to how the victim's behavior is impacted upon by a narcissist resulting in those friends thinking why bother with him he never calls us he actually dis does he's not the person that we once knew Mr quinna explained Harry has a few friends from the Army and from his days at school but they are part of the old pre this one's wife's world that Harry hates to revisit so he'll indeed spend a great deal of his time in the UK alone his military friends feel he's betrayed them by writing about his military service in such an unmilitary way and his old aonian friends don't like the whole new woke Harry conservative with both the small and big seed they see the new Harry as a tree hugger with whom they have nothing in common he also claimed that many of Harry's old friends don't like this one's wife and blame the Duchess of trans of of Sussex for transforming the Duke into what one of them called Harry the hippie the expert added that one or two old clubbing friends have suggested meeting up with Harry but he is said to be reluctant as he is aware of how much he has changed or rather he's reluctant that he'll get a smack bottom when he returns to Monty show if his Handler finds out that he's been hanging out with those horrible horrible friends Mr Quinn went on to say the truth is that Harry has reinvented himself in a way that just doesn't work for his family or for friends from the past when he was a very different character so he will spend most of his time in the United Kingdom alone in a hotel but constantly on the phone to this one's wife naturally this one's wife will be hoovering him to ensure that he's kept under control that isn't meeting up with somebody that she doesn't approve of and that he's not sat there wanking like a chimp the author did not mention which friends Harry might meet or avoid meeting while in the United Kingdom but last year Royal expert and correspondent Rebecca English said some people in the Duke's Friendship Circle are genuinely disgusted that he dished on his family thus Harry finds himself in a lonely position friends no longer wanting to bother with him as a consequence of the change that has been affected upon him by his wife the behaviors that he has engaged in meeting with disapproval as a consequence of what he was encouraged to do by his controlling wife ostracized from his family as a consequence of his conduct which he engaged in as encouraged by his controlling wife he has lost family he has lost friends and this will be all to apparent to him when he does return to the United Kingdom and finds himself sat in a hotel room thinking should I crack one off after all I have nothing else to do I have nobody to go to bonker's night spot with I can't slip out for a kebab with old red trousers to ABRA Cabra those days are lost and it might just cause him to reflect upon what he has lost and possibly to realize who has caused that to happen as it is he hasn't got any mates none that is going to bother with him and it's all because of his Handler his wife The Narcissist I'm HD Tuda thank you for listening

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Length: 10min 8sec (608 seconds)

Published: Mon May 06 2024