Why We're Waiting Until Marriage to Kiss

[Music] hey guys it's Bethany and Christopher multiply ministries and today we are going to be talking about why I saved my first kiss for marriage now I'm saving my first kiss till marriage as well yeah I am saving it for marriage it's not can't find anyone right so place the parking man all right I like some welcome back to a nother video I hope that you guys are doing well I stumbled across the best video in my recommended called why I did until marriage to kiss and I wasn't sure if YouTube were just trying to roast me just poke at me a bit you know is there a need to kind of mock me it's really not cool guys I just want to start off with the description because it is interesting waiting until marriage to kiss isn't something you'll hear much about from pop culture yeah cuz pop culture is all about [Music] although saving stakes kissing or any other intimate acts for marriage is a rarity but it can be done impossible challenge I saved myself till marriage it's a new YouTube challenge you know one that I'm struggling to go pee at because people are just frying themselves at me they are it can be done well that's cool nice to know that I'm achieving something let's watch this video so actually as y'all are watching this video right now I will be on my honeymoon Donna well she's excited I can't help but think that maybe a bit too excited - I'm getting married SiC epic wait getting married trying to be like one of the happiest moments in your life but this is an interesting form of ways to express it I'm not very married I will be Bethany Biel yes I'm so excited so when you watch this I will be doing all sorts of kissing and I'm not too sure - that excited - shame shame shame shame oh sure glad you know I'm a mom I'm not ashamed I will kiss him now if you don't know go to find our - question goes to make youtube videos and their videos really weirdly innocent where it kind of says a lot about the way they've grown up by the fact that normally it would be shameful to kiss someone shameful to kiss somebody not being married now the people who are telling then that do you reckon they also saved their first kiss till marriage do you reckon they dip that I actually yes I have not kissed Dave we are saving our first kiss for when we are husband and wife and that may be so weird to some of you all you might be like I have never heard of that I'll tell you all Big Ups Dave man honestly Big Ups Dave for being able to pull this off cuz that is that is one hell of a challenge but it's actually been a really cool thing and I'm actually really excited about it and I'm excited now to kiss Dave but when you watch this all you decided that I had with him anyways it's just so weird watching like grown adults obsess over kissing a bloke at what like mid-20s like that's something that but you were doing when you were like 12 is this she liked watching 12 year olds talking about getting a boyfriend for the first time but they're adults and they're getting married just so you guys know I'm a married now so I you want to come and kiss me Iver have achieved the challenge ignore the fact that this is a replica Lord of the Rings ring as much as this is a weird thing for me I do think that it's a great way to test whether you do actually love each other because if the other person hasn't cheated at some point and could part with this for as long as they have to have to marry you and they're definitely a keeper so this idea came about like it wasn't something that I just always knew I remember when I was a teenager I think both of us yeah I remember as these books by some Christian authors and they were sharing about how they you know did not grow up in a Christian home and they had all sorts of boyfriends and girlfriends and did all sorts of stuff that they did not you know like about they they kind of regretted it and which they had in him when they kind of became Christians and got more serious they met each other and they were like what if we did something so radical what if we waited until we were husband and wife well that's not the most radical thing you could do in a religion that's just crazy isn't it that's just insane that these people who are what apparently you know apparently pulling mad [ __ ] and then they just decided oh no we're just waiting until marriage and they wrote this in a book did they these Christian offers maybe they were lying over there making it all up maybe they didn't even ever get married in the end it just seems like such an unnecessary thing to do you know I can't respect it you know it shows a lot of I suppose well we've got a will to be able to prevent themselves from doing it and I suppose it's a show that they really do like each other at the end of the day but you know doesn't it kind of make the relationship really odd that you're on purposely holding stuff back until marriage for some weird reason that doesn't really make any sense I was just so ashamed you know I had so many boyfriends and girlfriends you know so many it was so shameful just I was just with somebody else every other night you know they were just so good lucky as well they're all ten out hands I'm so ashamed I'm sorry I just kept on getting loads of women oh man hang on that's against my religion say I wouldn't be that and for some reason that just like really I remember yeah you remember it - we were both you were a little bit older but we both read it and you're the same time and I remember in that moment thinking wow I wonder if I could do something like that because I know God says that we should save sex for marriage and that intimacy ultimately is reserved for marriage but what about kissing oh gosh you bugs come run that down again there's anything else you want me to save until marriage you know showering eating yeah any of the luxuries that you've given us I'll just stop doing them I just I just do nothing until I'm married talking so you have a person you know we'll just have to decide that we're gonna get married based off our telekinetic powers and if we don't link up it wasn't the one it wasn't the one you shall not kiss until you get married but I just thought how inspiring I did not expect this road to last as long as they arise yes but holy SH I feel like you're regressing for 30 years by the sounds of that you know not regretting the fact that you won't just like getting with a bunch of people having a good time it sounds like you regret the fact that this lasted for 30 whole years so when I decided like hey that would be a cool idea and then you're like yeah this is a cool idea right you know I don't know ever telling to be happy but I can see so much pain in that right oh yeah it's right yeah I'm not ashamed of it I'm up for 30 years I'm never gonna get that but I'm excited I'm really excited about it and so having decided that and really having walked it out now it's been really awesome just to see like wow I'm so excited to experience this bit of intimacy kissing with my husband you should just be excited to marry him I always feel like this may have kind of turned the tables on what marriage even is because it seems like she's more interested in kissing this bloke getting married to kiss him then actually mining in what's today then it's got to this point where it's like oh um can we just get married now so I could finally do this thing that I've spent two years to the point where you've almost put such a high bargain on it my even cloud your judgement on our wedding day like it's gonna be so amazing so no matter what you take from this video we hope that you'll just be inspired to think about just those smaller aspects I guess of Romeo's yeah full about I'm not gonna do it in kind of a newer way it's instead of thinking like oh like yeah of course everyone just kiss I was like maybe take a step back and think about it a little bit differently yeah everybody goes outside anymore I'm not gonna do that anyway everybody does that and everybody wears clothes [ __ ] that I don't want to do that anymore that's a luxury that I cannot afford which can all wait until marriage you know if they can't bear to see me in my natural way then they shouldn't be with me in my natural way anyway it just seems like they're encouraging people to do stuff that dramatically change their life based on God's Word things that aren't necessary at all to be able to follow your religion and it doesn't seem like they really even fully support it I want to be a good Christian I want to be a good question you know I won't wait I won't do anything I'll just wait until I have the ring on my finger I want to be a good Christian a little bit differently I think it's really cool that you were devar doing that and you do it a lot of questions about that and I know I got a lot of questions about it because Zack and I did the same thing and now we've been married for seven years and so we have literally been enjoying kissing and having so much fun intimacy wise kissing I'm having so much fun intimacy wise what what so much fun you know what goes beyond kissing I only know about kissing it's all I ever do people just kiss them it's just like more you don't telling us about you have to do when you're married we're gonna kiss are we not gonna kiss it as we talk through it it really came down to this heart of wanting to preserve all forms of intimacy like physical intimacy her boyfriend was just like please please can we stop doing this I'm begging honestly okay I could take it much longer marry me now please I've got the ring marry me now marry me right now God's heart for purity and calling us to walk in a way that's pure and to really honor the other person in our interactions and not act in ways that would be tempting or provocative towards the other we really just stepped back and said you know what if God has marriage for us one day we're gonna get an inch away all of this just like you add a nice insane that's crazy they just what were just ignoring each other for all that time and then said if God wants us to [ __ ] some good bullet subbu god you're a scary man fear me for I will smite thee down whoa please take your buck I'll marry someone future times they just so crazily shouted weird and hyper you know it's like watching people grow up who haven't been able to experience what normal people grow up and and this is what you get at the end of it because they've been following this crazy rule book that it's just kind of molded them to forever stay like 13 14 year old girls you know and apparently what they're 30 they're like 30 years old now but because they've been jumping for all these mad hates you know they're just forever stuck an age a learning age because they haven't been able to experience 99% of what people experience but this is an extreme you know being religious it's totally cool with that you know you should believe in what you want to believe in but this is quite clearly altered a lot of the ways that they see things and it's just really odd and so we were like wow if we're gonna get married and got half marriage for us how cool would it be to preserve these things honor each other and I'll really focus on purity and then on that wedding day and beyond like just have at it how about it calm down they're just having at it shame shame especially what if it's been 30 years you would just have at it and I'm struggling to wonder like does he actually value me as a woman as a person does he want more than just sex and having a guy in a relationship before marriage with Zach who was so honoring who wanted to pursue purity who wanted to preserve intimacy for marriage and his self-control yeah I get that you know I do I do get that but it shouldn't be such a taboo thing really you know like it's part of what being in a relationship really is so you know the idea that you just want a best friend really in it as I all issues want a best friend I suppose that's what we just learned this Haitians I really wanted to get to know me and my personality on Who I am not eating your body not just my body why don't you keep Christ at the center it just always goes back it's a religion at the end of it you know is it really about ye or is it about this religion that you're following you know cuz it always seems like you want it to be like I want him to value me Brandis idea but actually I just wanted to value God I can't be you of a sinner it seems like they don't actually want this but they've been told this is what they want so they're trying to kind of like thick what they assume is asked of them that's what this video is to me so I encourage all girls like you know what once you get married you can have at it but beforehand like be cautious be careful think means what should I not when I regret once I'm married she encourages Oh coax get rid of your boyfriend's fry now no more kitchen any more for you guys and you've heard it here first and I'm just gonna quickly check the news population the world is ending [Music] gosh well judging that everything's going to end now I'm going to go and kiss a bunch of people whilst I'm not being married if you enjoyed this video don't forget to subscribe turn notifications on and leave a like on this video that'd be greatly appreciated and I will see all of you guys people [Music] you

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Length: 16min 30sec (990 seconds)

Published: Sat Oct 20 2018