Why 31-Year-Old Who Is Supported By Parents Says They Should Be Doing More For Him

my parents are basically undermining my life instead of trying to help they derail it or do stuff out of spite they're not help me get on my feet and don't care if my life Fallsburg my parents take care of the basic necessities but they wants my soul back in return they want only shelter food and clothing is something that should be provided for her child whenever my parents loan me money they expect to be paid interest they should let me save my money instead of constantly trying to take it right now I do not have a car because well I was locked up my father sold my vehicle I need a car to be able to support myself but he won't even cosign for a car my father is basically crippling me that's my bedroom this is uh one of those places I'm confined to my parents act like I'm some sort of deranged aggressive psychopath and home they treat me like an unwanted guest they have been gone through great lengths to try to get me out of house one time my mother made up a story that doesn't attack with a hammer I was right here and she was aware and I was talking like this me yelling and screaming I talked to my hands so as I was talking I was shaking the hammer his situation was insane no I never it's a chrome and a hammer another time my mother was taking me to go give blood for cash on the way home we got an argument she was calling me a worthless piece that she should have had an abortion the only thing that I did was hit the dashboard I was the one being assaulted not her my parents have cried wolf to the cops so many times that they actually feel bad for me all I want to be treated is like a son or me treated like a member of the family not like an outsider all right Carl good to meet you nice to meet you I've been talking to your parents before you got out here actually I've been talking to them about you I've been talking to them about them you're 31 right yes sir why are you living at home it's it's been a throughout my life there's been a lot of Sep step forwards and setbacks you know taking setbacks I had a nursing license in Florida and yes I was put on a like a probationary period for that but at the time they wanted to move to Tennessee I told my parents said it at the current time I had to finish out my probation which was like six months to a year left on pilled we 24 right and it that was a theory problem while I was living with them at the time but you're an adult at 24 you're an adult what's that got to do was where they move well if your son is asking for you know six more months to stay in the state to complete out of probation then to move I mean wouldn't you help your son or would you uproot them and say you don't know what you're talking about take them to Tennessee hire a lawyer have the lawyer tell you the same thing that your son was telling you well I wouldn't hire a lawyer I didn't get in the trouble you got it no what would you do to get in the trouble the trouble was actually that it was multiple multitude of things one was failure to report a charge DUI yeah an arrest that this thing called the Sunshine State law where you have to report any kind of arrest at that time I told them I should report this arrest and I was told that I didn't have to under the advisement of the lawyer that we're going through but he didn't give you the license okay and I was the Nursing Board gave you the license yes sir and I was told to follow his advice we didn't give you the license okay but Nursing Board gave you a license and you accepted the license with the rules and regulations associated with the license and they said if you have problems with law you have to report it because if you become an impaired professional then we have the right to suspend your license yes sir and you didn't do that don't care what he said your deal was with the licensing board yes sir what's that got to do with you at the time I was living with him and with my father because of the issue that had more that I wasn't able to work as a nurse so when you got your license suspended for misconduct you moved in with your parents yes I did okay so the reason you moved in with your parents is your responsibility not theirs yes sir

Channel: Dr. Phil

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Length: 4min 31sec (271 seconds)

Published: Mon Mar 12 2018