What's Your Favorite Sex Hack / Tip? (Reddit - r/AskReddit)

what is your favorite sex hack you have learned over the years regardless of gender up your head game nothing wrong with getting ahead put a pillow under her lower back as the guy I don't notice anything different but my girl loves it this is too true it's all about that angle no two people are alike in what feels good to them so the best advice I have to offer is to pay attention if the person reacts well to something keep doing that thing if they ask you to move a bit to the left or kiss softer or whatever do that thing communication is 90% of great sex and body instinct the other 10% you know I mean I'm pretty sure there are a couple of people that are alike because I don't think fetish would work then use incognito so I don't have to delete browser history finally some practical advice if you make them orgasm first better yet make them orgasm a few times first then have sex with them it doesn't matter how long you last how big your caucus or how you measure up against their exs because they will have already been satisfied and more amenable to your insecurities all lovemaking issue / quirks it can also make them more sensitive in general so the actual act feels better double-whammy they're already satisfied and then they get a better experience as a bonus as a woman please start out soft on us build up pressure / movement please soft is the key word for me too many times I've heard men painfully squeezed my boobs act like they want to eat me while kissing and rub my [ __ ] as if the heart of the press the more gold will come shooting out of my ass started sleeping with women and damn that's so much more fun just paying attention her body language doesn't lie in the heat of the moment play around figure out what she likes and roll with it know one thing works for every woman act like you've gotten laid before and just have fun for women tell them parts of their body you like tell them they smell good tell them via cute and sexy don't rush to jamie-lynn Tizen with foreplay ask them if they like slow or fast hands or mouth mix it up always good to smell good yourself try and go more than once first time is experimental to loosen up make them giggle find out their erogenous zones like usually neck works is inner thigh ask them what they want you to do keep them in a frenzy your hands and tongue should always be busy not always fast but always busy back of the knees and feet are erogenous zones too plus inner arms thighs neck entire back stomach around the bellybutton butt cheeks chest they can all make you feel butterflies if you touch it gently you can also just touch yourself anywhere like this to find out which spots you enjoy and just tell them what you like it's more about finding someone who will take the time to caress you all over long enough to get you excited I'm totally cool communicating where to touch me but I like to be caressed longer than five minutes more like an hour also put your balls in all five of them well not necessarily I would say at least to pee after not my favorite just good practice this is for the ladies not so much for the guys guys should wait a bit so as not to coagulate the leftover protein in their urethra which can be very unpleasant the clock starts before penetration the time you put in with your tongue fingers and toys counts [ __ ] a I'm not a five-minute man look at this stallion lasting five minutes if you get her comfortable and turned on you're both going to have a better time than if you're just gone or expect to roll-on and roll-off also pillow behind the headboard works dreams don't be afraid to stop do something else either and come back to it if you stay cool and are attentive you don't need to freak out that the moment is lost that kind of stress is kryptonite for good fun losing your boner she seems kind of distant all of a sudden get some water put on a record find your best blanket and cuddle on the couch just do something else to slow down communicate and you won't regret it use the underside of your tongue to the men make her comfortable first woo her a little kiss her tease her and actually get her into it for a while before sex and be patient some of you literally pull your dick out before we are even wet and you just start shoving not enjoyable and I'm personally turned off right away men don't understand that there a difference between men and women in the time it takes to get turned on men are like microwaves being able to be turned on ready to go immediately women were like ovens you've got a preheat before putting it in foreplay is important except their fetish and use it to your advantage if they are in defeat get a two-hour foot rub if they are into hair let them wash your hair if they are into heels you'll never have to buy shoes again if they are into diapers pick someone else long-term it is to exercise your imagination roleplay dress differently go different places start and finish with different activities you sahem path inelia for me the most valid use of shall we say erotica is as a source of new ideas the best sex I've had has always been when my partner made me feel the most desired if I don't feel pretty or wanted there's no point in engaging with someone on an intimate level like that no one wants to feel like a pump and dump so to that end please shower your partner in compliments and make them feel special don't just grab their ass and think that they'll be horny enough to [ __ ] you sometimes it works but it won't be nearly as memorable or special as when you really put the timer to admire and cherish your partner communicate leave your echo in the pile of hastily discarded clothing on the floor you can't prematurely ejaculate if you don't have sex in the first place if you're having a hard time keeping it up long enough to put a condom on and/or penetrate wrap your legs around one of her upper thighs and grind your penis against her leg while rubbing your thigh against her vagina while this is happening just keep kissing soon enough you'll be hard and she'll be moist and you'll both be ready for penetrative intercourse she comes first if you make her [ __ ] first and you spend time doing foreplay swx will be amazing for both of you idk if this works with every girl but when it does it's a lifesaver don't go in and out like a porn star go all the way in and rhythmically apply pressure this drives my current GF crazy and because my dick is not getting rubbed as much I can go for ages idk why it's better for her whether I'm hitting her [ __ ] or g-spot more or what I should probably ask her I cannot stress this enough don't learn from porn this seems simple enough as we all know that these are actors being paid to fake arousal and orgasms for money but there's way more damage done than a lot of people think how many times has your sex become formulaic because it transitions from foreplay to oral to penetration with little variation how many times has the mute been killed because you tried an athletic position that's great for camera angles but actually horribly uncomfortable for actual sex have you ever tried to make someone squirt or expected them to because you did that thing it doesn't work like that unfortunately my most important sex hackers communication get to learn the person you're [ __ ] by asking questions either in a suggestive way in the moment or afterwards being not a nerd about what they like and what brings them pleasure it'll pay off for you in the end okay well no sex in ten years but ten years ago I learned cowgirl position is effective also keeps things more interesting I guess yeah let's take advice from the no sex in ten years guy cowgirl is amazing though why not most people universally like it beats mission-oriented A+ don't guys say the girl should try harder in bed when you're eating her out and get hair on your tongue lick the side of her thigh to get it off and not [ __ ] up the mood while doing oral let the earth loan from your breathing hit the vagina this causes a hot / cold stream which does wonders did you get this from Cosmo I thought you said Costco there every girl has a kink most keep it a secret you can get this out of them with conversation once you figure it out they will go wild and feel amazing being able to completely open up securely trigger warning seems a lot of girls I've dated were really into being overpowered aggressive sex choking hair pulling biting great fantasy kinks if a woman has a clitoral hood barbell piercing there is a way to lift the lower ball so the top ball flips down and pushes out the [ __ ] for instant easy stimulation and access this was the single best sex hack I have discovered hands down repeat body shaking squirting orgasms very easy and often

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Length: 10min 11sec (611 seconds)

Published: Sun May 10 2020