What Wives Really Want (A FaithFull Family Series) | Pastor Roger Jimenez

amen all right well we're there in the book of Genesis Genesis chapter number 29 and today we're continuing our series on the subject of the family if you remember six weeks ago we started this series and we started with the focus on children we started the series talking about breaking generational curses and establishing generational blessings and then we talked about how to raise children that no one loved the Lord talked about how to properly discipline your children and if you remember not last week but the week before that because last week we took a break from the series we talked about principles for a good marriage we talked about what good marriages do in order to have a good marriage today we're going to continue the focus on on marriage and I want to talk to you and I want to teach you or preach to you on the subject of what husbands and wives really want what husbands and wives actually want and this morning's sermon it's going to probably be more what wives want today you may feel like we get halfway through a sermon and then we stop that's because that's kind of what we're gonna do we're gonna just get through about halfway of this thought or this idea and then we're gonna pick it up again next week so just you know kind of stick with me with that and understand that and hopefully it'll make sense but we want to answer this question what do wives really want and I want to ask the men you know in the room those that are better married what does your wife really want this is the question that I think is haunted men for centuries right what what is it exactly that my wife wants because men sometimes seem clueless to this idea but here in Genesis 29 we find a story that I believe sheds a little bit of light on this subject look at verse number 15 Genesis 29 verse 15 we'll start in verse 15 just to get a little bit of the context the Bible says in Laban said unto Jacob now Jacob has been living with Laban for about a month now if you remember Jacob ran away from home he ran away from home he's running from his father Isaac's running from his brother Esau because of the fact that he deceived Isaac and he deceived Esau and took the blessing and now he has been living with Laban for a month and Bible says Laban said unto Jacob because thou art my brother should as thou therefore serve me for not tell me what shall thy wages be and Laban had two daughters the name of the elder was Leah and the name of the younger was Rachel leah was tender eyed but Rachel was beautiful and well favored and Jacob I want you to notice the emphases that has put on these wives in Scripture Jacob loved Rachel and said I will serve thee seven years for Rachel that younger daughter Laban said it is better that I give her to thee then that I should give her to another man abide with me and Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seemed unto him but few days notice the emphasis for the love he talked about Jacob had to her Rachel in the story we find that Jacob goes to Laban who says I will work for you for seven years if I can marry your daughter he's basically working working so that he can marry her and the Bible says he loves her so much that the seven years seemed like nothing to him look at verse 21 and Jacob said unto Laban give me my wife for my days are fulfilled that I may go in unto her and Laban gathered together all the men of the place and made a feast and it came to pass in the evening that he this is Laban took Leah his daughter this is the older daughter and brought her Bravo Leah to him - who - Jacob and he Jacob went in unto her Leah Laban gave unto his daughter Leah Zopa here's made for an handmaid and it came to pass and in the morning behold it was Leah and he said to Laban what is this and how thou has done unto me did not I serve thee for Rachel wherefore then has thou big dialed word beguiled means you tricked me you deceived me he says I worked for Rachel and you gave me Leah he said you tricked me and you beguile then remember that again we see in the story Jacob is simply just reaping what he sowed because the fact he recalled his father and he deceived his father and he stole and lied and did those things that is now coming back to him notice verse 26 and Laban said it was not be so done in our country to give the younger before the firstborn for over weeks and we will give thee this also for this service which thou shalt serve with me yet seven other years and Jacob did so and fulfilled her week and he Laban gave him Jacob Rachel his daughter - wife also and Laban gave to Rachel his daughter Bilhah his handmaid to be her maid so basically now he has two wives now let me just say this and I'm not preaching on this this morning but let me read for you from mark chapter 10 and verse 7 Jesus said this for this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and they twain shall be one flesh so then they are no more Twain but one flesh I just want you to understand that the Bible teaches the Word of God teaches God and the Lord Jesus Christ all taught against the idea of polygamy jesus said twain shall become one all right so the Bible is very clear that you should only have one wife and in the Bible you'll see men that practice polygamy here like Jacob having two wives by the time of story is said and done you'll have four wives and just because people did that doesn't make it right it's just God is telling us what they did he's giving us an account of their actions but I want you to understand this is not something that God desired but the story is there and it sheds some light and this story kind of acts as a magnifying glass and it sheds some light as to the desires of a wife NORs verse 30 and he liked my Jacob went and also unto Rachel notice the emphasis in the story and he loved also Rachel more than Leah it's probably a good idea why you shouldn't have multiple wives and serve with him yet seven other years and when the Lord saw that leah was notice the emphases of the story when the Lord saw that leah was hated what's the opposite of hey look she wasn't loved she was hated Rachel was loved Leo was hated he opened her womb but Rachel was barren and Leah conceived and bare a son and she called his name Reuben for she said surely the Lord have looked upon my affliction I want you to notice a statement that Leah makes this statement that God in His Word in this weird account of a relationship as we get to sit in the living room or sit in the house of a marriage that is practicing polygamy we get to hear from the heart of a wife and she kind of expresses to us in a wrong way the desire that Leah had but it's really the desire that every wife has and notice what she says she says no therefore my husband will love me so that kind of break her heart here you have a wife who's saying maybe if I can give him a child maybe if I can meet his expectation maybe if I can do more than then then my competitor and her competitor in this story is another woman her competitor is another white because the fact that they're polygamy but I would submit to you this morning that there are some wives that may feel like they are in competition with the affection and love of their husband maybe to their career or to sports or to a or to a hobby and here we kind of get to see into the mind and the heart of a wife and we see what wise really want and it's simply this that her husband will love her now therefore my husband will love me notice how God continues to emphasize this verse 33 and she conceived again and bare a son and said because the Lord has heard that I was what that I was what hated again the idea I'm not loved I'm the one that's not luck III hope he will love me I hope he will accept me but because the Lord heard that I was hated he had therefore given me the son also and she called his name Simeon verse 34 and she conceived again and bare a son and said now this time will my husband be joined unto me because I have borne him three sons therefore his name was called Leah and she conceived again and bare a son and she said now will I praise the Lord therefore she called his name Judah and left bearing skip down to chapter 30 verse 17 notice again she begins to have children I just want you to notice the emphasis on the side of Leah verse 17 and God hearkened unto Leah and she conceived the mare Jacob a fifth son and Leah said God have given me my hire because I've given my maiden to my husband and she called his name it's a car and Leah conceived again and bare Jacob a sixth son and Leah said verse twenty and Leah said God has endued me with a good dowry now well my husband dwell with me because I've borne him six times and she called his name to Zebulon and afterward she bare a daughter and called her name Dinah see when you asked the question what do wives really want from their husbands what is it that a wife wants it seems simple but the answer is this love they want love they want affection they want to feel and perceive that they are loved by their husbands keep your place sir in actually I'm sorry don't keep your place their go-to book of Ephesians you can lose your we're gonna come back to Genesis but it should be easy to find go to Ephesians chapter number five Ephesians 5 is the quintessential you know chapter on marriage in scripture Ephesians chapter 5 and your New Testament you got Matthew Mark Luke John acts Romans 1st 2nd Corinthians Galatians Ephesians Ephesians chapter 5 now do me a favor when you get the Ephesians put a ribbon or a bookmark or something there because we're gonna leave it and we're gonna come back to it Ephesians chapter 5 in verse number 21 we saw there the story of leah and we see that a woman there whose heart yearns for love she wants her husband to love her she wants her husband to dwell with her she wants her husband to be with her she wants to be the first choice of her husband she wants to be the only choice of her husband when you ask the question what is it that wives really want from their husbands the answer is this love and that shouldn't be too surprising because the overwhelming command that God gives to husbands is to LA their wives Ephesians 5:21 notice what the Bible says this is the the the main passage about marriage in the New Testament please keep your place so we're gonna leave it in we're gonna come back to it Ephesians 5:21 the Bible says this submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God wives submit yourselves unto your own husband's as unto the Lord for the husband as the what a head of the wife even as Christ at the head of the church and he is the same for the body therefore as the church is subject unto Christ so let the wives be to their own husbands and everything we're gonna come back to that later on alright look in verse 25 husbands love your wives husbands love your wives even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word that he might present it to himself a glorious church not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing but that it should be holy and without blemish notice verse 28 so ah man to what love their wives as their own bodies he that loveth his own his wife loveth himself for no man ever yet hated his own flesh but nourisheth and cherisheth it even as the Lord the church for we are members of his body of his flesh and of his bones for this cause shall a man leave father and mother and shall be joined unto his wife and they too shall be one flesh this is a great mystery but I speak concerning Christ and the church now this is the there's other passages to talk about marriage and lots of other places we can learn about marriage but like I said he feels five is the number one passage on biblical marriage Christian marriage what a Christian man should look at it should look like and he gives us these ideals and we're going to come back to them this week and next week but I want you to notice in verse 33 and verse reason he's kind of wrapping it all together he's putting it all together and he says this Ephesians 5:33 nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself but I want you knows what's interesting he says this to the wise and we're gonna get to this next week and the wife see that she loved her husband is that what it says and the wife see that she reverence her husband why is it that God tells husbands and wives to do two different things he tells husbands to love their but he tells wives to reverence their husbands he tells husbands to love their wives but he tells wives to submit to their husbands you say well what's what's that about and here's what you need to understand men and women to see the world differently men and women value different things men and women respond to different things and when it comes to the marriage relationship God looks at a husband and he says the number one need the number one desire the number one thing that your wife is looking for from you is summed up in this one word love and then he looks at a wife and you would think he would say the number one need the number one thing your husband needs from you is love but he doesn't say love he says reverence he says submission he says honor you say why is that in the reason for that is this men and women respond to different things men and women see the world different ways and I'm not trying to hurt your feelings and I'm not saying that men don't need love and we'll see that next week men do need love but you see the world by and large men look at the world through the eyes of respect reverence you know that a man would rather be respected than love a man would rather feel respected than love but women women desire to be loved now keep your place there any features go to go to first Peter first Peter you got Ephesians Philippians Colossians 1st 2nd Thessalonians for a second to me Titus volume in Hebrew James first Peter now let me say this let me say this because I don't want you to take me out of context here that's not to say that women don't need respect and that's not to say that men don't need love man needs to be loved as much as women need to be loved women need to be respected as much as men need to be respected in fact the Bible says that 1st Peter chapter 3 look at verse 7 knows what the Bible says 1st Peter chapter 3 verse 7 first Peter 3:7 says this likewise ye husband dwell with them according to knowledge giving notices word honors their word honor their giving honor on the wife the word honor means to give value to them to treat them as they are valuable to that that they are worth something to you that they were a great price he says giving honor unto the wife as unto the weaker vessel as being heirs together of the grace of life and that your prayers be not hindered so please let me sunder sent me I'm not getting up here this morning and say all your wife needs is love you don't need to respect her know you should honor her but the primary need that your wife is looking for from you husband's is one word love and wise we'll deal with this next week your husbands need to be loved but the primary need the primary desire they're looking for does not necessarily love it's reverence now they both need love they both need reverence but when God speaks to the spouses he tells the husband overwhelmingly emphasizes the idea of love what because that is what women are primarily looking for and he looks at the wives and he emphasizes the idea of submission and reference and coming under the subjection of your husband husbands need love but that is a primary need desire they are looking for it go back to Ephesians chapter 5 now here's a problem what men consider love and what women consider love are two different things and by the way we'll deal with it next week what men consider reverence and women consider reverence are two different things see a man thinks he's loving because he perceives it by what He desires what does a man desire reverence so he gives what to his wife reverence and he thinks that's what a wife will give to her husband love she says well I love them don't come into my office for counseling I love him I tell members oh but the problem with this marriage is not that you don't love him is that you don't respect him because see a woman desires love so what does she think she's supposed to give to her husband love that's not what God said a man desires reverence think he needs to give to her wife reverence but that's not what God necessarily said the primary thing is see her husband will walk into my office and say why don't understand why she doesn't think I love her I mean I pay the bills I go to work every day I do this I do that I make sure she has a car that works I make sure that the air conditioners working and they perceive love as respect they say well I honor her and I value her and I take care of her financial needs and a woman will come in and say what honor is that why my husband doesn't he's Oh sobs hey you know I tried to sweat all this time with him and cuddle with him and talk to him all this time and bah blah blah but you're critical of him but you talk down to him but you're kind of saying he do and they say well yeah but I love it but see here's what he's looking for is not necessarily love right now now he needs love but its primary language is respect and a woman needs respect she needs to be honored she needs to be valued but what she's looking for in a relationship in a marriage is look you say what I love her but you got to love her the way she wants to be loved you've got to do it the way she wants it you say well what does that mean well you know it's interesting good God brings it down for us if he's just fine isn't it funny how God give us all the answers Ephesians 5:25 Ephesians 5:25 Ephesians 5:25 says husband's love your wives he said okay I got it my God knows men aren't very smart so he said let me explain to you what that means and he's not really explain to you what it means he's explained to you what your wife perceives it to me you say what does your wife what does my wife perceive love as and it's characterized by two words number one sacrifice knows what he says husband loves your wives okay even at or in the same way that Christ also loved the church well what did Christ do for the church he gave himself for it he sacrificed see you just want to know how women perceived love here's not women perceive love now that you take care of their needs but that you're willing to sacrifice yours now that you take care of their their their requirements but that you would be willing to lay down your life for theirs see they perceive love through the eyes of sacrifice not only that look verse 28 so ought men to love their wives even as their own bodies so he that loveth his wife loveth himself for no man yet ever hated his own flesh but nourisheth and cherisheth it even as the Lord the church nevertheless let every one of you in particular so lovers 3:3 excuse me nevertheless to everyone in particular so love his wife notice these words even as himself you won't know how women perceive love two words sacrifice selflessness you know the number-one thing that you hear women often say about their husbands when they're having problems you know the number one thing that's often said about men he's inconsiderate now you'd have to raise your hand men but I'm sure you've probably heard your wife at some boys that you are so inconsiderate you're only thinking of yourself you don't think of me here you don't think of the children you don't think what you said well what's the Brunson problem here's the problem women perceive love as selflessness as sacrifice when they look at someone who says he's willing to sacrifice he's willing to put my needs over his if if someone has to suffer if a decision has to be made if someone has to come out you know winning he's willing to esteem me better than himself now when you preach this guy's get mad at you you know why because they'll say pastor I showed up to the sermon because I thought you're gonna tell wives to submit to their husbands we'll get to that next week here's what you gotta ask does this hurt my leadership does this selfless sacrificial love when there is a decision that needs to be made when my wife and myself come to ODS and I'm the leader and I get to make that choice I choose as a leader to hurt myself to make sure she wins to put her first to put the children first to love her like I would love my to nurture and share is her the way that I would do my own body does that put my leadership in trouble because isn't there leadership within the home does it God teach that look at verse 23 if he's just 5 23 for the husband is the head of the wife that's not talking about value that's talking about a position of leadership and oftentimes people think you preach they say are you saying that men are better than then women now here's what's interesting about that the Bible says that the husband is the head of the wife but you know what's interesting about that is that first Corinthians teachers that God the Father is the head of Christ does that make Christ inferior to God the Father does that make Christ of lesser value then God the Father because last I checked they were equal last I check it was the Trinity last I checked God the Father wasn't any more God then God the Son is God so is that a value issue it's not an issue of well he's better than I am or I'm better than no no it's just an authority see there has to be authoritative reak is that true I mean if you're born with two heads what are you you're a freak of nature and if you're born with no heads what are you dad and you know what in marriage when people say oh it's a 50-50 there's no authority there's no hand there's no one in charge your marriage is dead and you said well we both run this show we both have uh you know we're both in charge you're using a freak of nature you're not gonna survive does it hurt my leadership in the home to be expected to love my wife sacrificially and selflessly well let's look at the greatest leader the world has ever known go to John chapter number 13 John chapter 13 Matthew Mark Luke John John chapter number 13 Matthew Mark look John John chapter 13 look at verse number three John chapter number 13 in verse three and I know what I'm preaching right now is not popular in our society people don't want to teach that the husbands should be the spirit the leaders in the home they should lead spiritually and financially and all of those things and and that though wives should submit to the husband I get that people don't want to hear that but let me explain something to you that's what the Bible says that's what the Word of God says we don't apologize for the Bible we don't water down what it says but what we're asking is this if husbands are to love their wives softly and sacrificially meaning that my goal in life is that if someone's got a win and someone's got to lose she will win and I will lose if someone's got to hurt I will sacrifice and I will be selfless I'm not telling you I do that I'm just telling you that's what God expects of all of us so that's what we should all be attempting to do and I will lead her and I will love her in such a way that is a sacrificial that she can identify that my husband is willing to lay down his life in the same way that Christ was willing to lay down his life for the church you say does that hurt my authority in the home John 13 look verse 3 Jesus knowing Jesus knowing that the father had given all things into his hands what is that isn't that authority he's in charge Jesus was running the show Jesus knowing that his father had given all things into his hands and that he was come from God and went to God notice verse 4 he rises from supper and laid aside his garment and took a towel and girded himself after that he poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples feet I don't know about you but if there was a volunteer signup sheet for the Church of you know that Jesus was running here the last thing I'd want to do is wash a bunch of grown man's feet right I mean here you got 12 men and these aren't Americans living in 2017 these are men living in Bible times where sandals walking everywhere they go and he laid aside his garments and took a towel and girded himself and after that he poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples feet and to wipe them with a towel wherewith he was girded notice verse 12 we'll skip some of this for sake of time with verse 12 so after he had washed their feet and had taken his garment and was sat down again he said unto them know ye what I have done to you you call me master and Lord isn't that titles over aren't those titles of authority he said you you call me master and Lord and you say well he said it's right for you to call me that wife or so I am he says I'm your master I'm your Lord I'm your authority I'm your boss I'm in charge verse 14 if I then your Lord and Master if I then your authority if I then your head your boss the one that makes the rules ones that you're supposed to submit to and follow if I then your Lord and Master have washed your feet what's the idea there what's he saying I have humbled myself to serve you I have humbled myself keep in mind this was right before the Lord Jesus Christ is getting ready to lay down his life for these men and for the church that he's going to establish if I then your Lord and Master have washed your feet have served you knows what he says ye also ought to wash one another's feet now we're not starting a feet washing ministry all right don't worry about that but here's what he's saying if I being your boss have served you then ye should serve each other verse 15 for I've given you an example that you should do as I have done to you so when men do so when men asked the question well then I don't know about this pastor this whole sacrificial selfless love thing isn't it gonna hurt my authority in my home and isn't gonna hurt my leadership that it hurt the leadership of Christ because he the Bible actually teaches this concept of servant leadership now servant leadership doesn't mean that you do the dishes okay look if a man works all day long he shouldn't have to come home and do if wife's at home all day now look if you're sending your wife off to work then split the dishes but you know I don't I don't think it's right for these women you know guys been working 12 hours comes home his wife super pyjamas he's got to make dinner do the dishes what is that but I also don't think it's right for these guys who well my wife goes to work 40 hours a week I go to work 40 hours a week cuz we got to go on our cruise and we got to have our big house and we got to do this we gotta do that I know that's what the Bible says what we gotta do and then you expect her to do the dishes and do the laundry that's not right either well isn't she supposed to take keepers at home yeah so keep her at home you want her to take care of home then let her stay home then go get two jobs and do what you got to do get up early and do a paper right I don't know what you gotta do we'll talk about that tonight financially getting yourself out of financial problems but here's what I'm telling you the bible does net the Bible never teaches his idea of leaders lording over those who they that follow them but it always teaches this idea that as leaders it is our job to esteem others better than ourselves it is our job to look to the needs of those that follow us it is our job not necessarily to do their job but it is our job to make sure that they succeed and you will be a good leader when your sole intention is that my followers succeed my desire is that my wife is successful in her position that God has given her why because if I can do if I can make sure she succeeds I succeed my goal as a father my wife's goal as a mother is that our children are set up for success spiritually educationally financially why because if they can do better than we've done we succeeded Mike my goal as a pastor my goal as a pastor's to serve you and to help you look if I just wanted to be such a successful pastor I wouldn't spend all the hours that I spend every week studying the Bible teaching you things from the Bible that you don't even like you know what I do I'd go rent out some rock concert hall I go get some you know some country-western they couldn't make it in professionally pay them eight bucks an hour to come sing songs here on Sunday morning I'd go golfing Monday Tuesday and Wednesday like most pastors do and then I get up and preach a five minute sermon on how God loves you everything's great you're awesome let's take the offering again the Holy Spirit's leading me let's just take it let's take it three times it's time you're so awesome you know that's what I would do I want to preach and say things and teach you things that you don't like you say well why do you do that why do you teach these why do you try to because here's my goal if you can succeed then I'll be able to stand before God and give a count with joy now sometimes people don't like me sometimes they are bothered by me sometimes they well I pastor said this pastor that you don't have to like me just make sure you know the truth and you're following it I don't I don't need a million friends on Facebook I just need to make sure I just make sure my wife likes me and God likes me and we're good and not necessarily in that order either see your wife is looking from you to perceive love through sacrifice and selflessness and that doesn't diminish your leadership it enhances it it actually is what leadership is now let me just give you a little bit of a motivator go back to Genesis Genesis chapter number three I'm often asked by not often I shouldn't say that I have been asked by men over the last seven years sometimes having trouble in their marriages and they'll ask me this question they'll say how do I get my wife to submit she won't submit how do I get my wife to submit and I you know I don't know should have married a better wife I don't know I you know I used to think my soul like I don't know what to tell you you know I mean good night because a lot of it is their own desire they have to choose to submit you said so so how do you answer that question how do you how do you get a wife to submit and you know I think I found me answer that question it's this are you doing Genesis lookie chapter 30 looking for sexy those reasons Genesis 3:16 unto the woman he said unto the woman he said I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception and sorrow thou shalt bring forth children notice this phrase and I and I now listen to me this is God speaking so God is right and everyone else is wrong because sometimes you teach this and women over that's not true here's what I believe if anybody's lying it's you if I got to choose between is God lying or Hillary Clinton its Hillary if I got a value choose between is it gold line or the feminist movement lying is the feminist movement line because I just believe that God doesn't lie I just believe that everything in the Bible is true I just believe that everything God says is true and when God tells you this is how women think this is what they want this is what they desire then you just go along with it in my faith you just follow what God tells you to do and watch it work out and it's interesting how as you watch marriages that are good marriages you will see that they leverage the biblical principles for their advantage there's a 360 until the woman he said I will greatly multiply that I desire I will greatly multiply thy sorrow excuse me my conception in sorrow that's what bring forth children notice the phrase and thy desire shall be to thy husband you know that God says that whether they want to admit it to you or not women secretly desire a husband that will lead them lovingly you say how do you know that's true you know how I know that's true because little boys you know what little boys play they played they pretend to be astronauts generals police officers superheroes I wonder why they do that maybe because they want to be honored and admired and reverenced and respected you little girls play getting married house mom one of things we have to break up in our house from time to time is she got to be mom last time I get to be mom this time why do they play that you know why because deep down there's a desire that God put there for a husband see the odds men are stacked in your favor she may not say it she may lie about it she may be mad and angry and trying to hurt your feelings because you're not that great of a husband but God says thy desire shall be to thy husband notice the last part of verse 16 and he shall rule over thee he said how do you get your wife to submit to reverence to respect you how do you get your wife to give you what you want here's here's here's here's the whole the whole sermon here he goes okay don't miss us when you give them what they want they will give you what you want I'm not talking about what some of you guys are thinking about all right when you give them sacrificial selfless love when they know they are the priority they're not in competition with your hobby they're not in competition with your old college buddies they're not in competition with your career they're not in competition with some other woman when they know there is a man who is leading me and loving me and if I have to if he has to lose so that I can win he will even sacrifice his love he always puts me first he nourishes and cherishes me as if I were his own body she will willingly submit to that type of love so how do you get women to submit well you got to give them what they want and when you give them what they want they will give you what you want go back to Ephesians Ephesians 5:28 Ephesians 5:28 pastor why can't I get my wife to submit to me because you keep yelling at her and tell her to submit and that's not perceived as love well you need to respect that's how I treat my employees she's not your employee that's how I treat my boys she's not your boy and when you give them what they want they will give you what you want if you just my 28 knows what God says so ought men to love their wives even as their own as their own bodies notice what he said don't miss this don't miss this he that loveth his wife don't miss this love with himself hey what's that about well because you're wonderful here's what he's saying here's what he's saying it's in your best interest it's in your best friend interests to love your wife as your own bodies and he see the guy that can figure that out he that loveth his wife really really you guys you need a selfish motive really lover themselves you know why cuz it's in your best interest it's in your best interest so what do women what do wives really want here's what they really want love took me thirty nine minutes to explain that women wives wha love how do they perceive it sacrifice the selflessness sacrifice and selflessness now next week next week we're gonna come back and talk about well what the husbands really want and we'll look at some stories of Scripture that'll highlight for that and magnify that for us and we'll learn how to leverage those things together and then we're gonna we're gonna talk about we're gonna end next week this idea love and reverence with how this truly works and how it can work without one taken advantage of the other alright ladies so don't go getting sick next week and I can't you I can't come to church you know I was sermon pastor but next week we're gonna be out of town let's bow our heads together Heavenly Father

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