We're Married to Other People, But Is The Baby His? | KARAMO

how is this issue with Quinton affecting your marriage it's affecting it a lot because I wasn't even going to really tell my husband because we were separated so when did you have to finally tell your husband that this might not be his baby when he kept coming to my house popping up yelling outside banging on the Windows kept calling just screaming out he's the dad outside and my husband's like who is that and so then I had to tell them when we wasn't together I did have a fair and sleep with someone else how do so let's go back to this affair how did you and Quinton first start hooking up um i' known him a while when we were younger but we met at a a family gathering okay um and we kind of just was talking for a little bit and then started messing around and then I kind of wanted to end things and get back with my husband and I ended up finding out I was pregnant when I came back from Africa and stuff so okay yeah and had Quinton mentioned that he wanted to have a baby with you he did and I said no cuz I wasn't really trying to have like an entanglement thing cuz I wasn't trying to leave my husband yeah yeah of course I told him no I didn't want kids with him and so when I ended up pregnant that's when were you still having sex with your husband around this time yeah okay then yeah when did you and your husband go to Africa uh last year in November last year November and how soon after you got back did you find out that you were pregnant probably about two weeks after about two weeks yeah um so it was fast yeah cuz I started getting sick and then I was like it probably was for me coming out of the country but then it just kept going and it was morning sickness and I have other kids so got I kind of knew did the doctor tell you when the baby was conceived yeah they told me I got pregnant around the end of November and that's when I was in Africa so I didn't end up coming back till the beginning of December got it so the doctors say that your pregnancy started while you were with your husband yeah okay then so that's why and did you tell Quinton you were pregnant no cuz my doctor told me it happened around when I was in Africa and I was with my husband then so then how did Quinton find out and when he did find out how did he react he saw me in public one day and I was pregnant and that's when he just started going crazy popping up talking about as his baby why I didn't tell him I was pregnant wow yeah it was just it's been crazy since he saw me pregnant but now the thing is quinton's also married exactly and did his wife contact you about all this yes she called me assuming that I was saying he was the dad but like I told her when she called I never said he was the dad so you're like you're like I told my hus I didn't even tell him it's him that's a pursuing it she believe you I told her it was my husband's baby and she said Oher you're married too yeah and I don't want to be with your husband and it's not his kid and she kind of left it alone after that but he didn't got it he was he still till today how old is your baby today she's five months she's five months so this is like a recent thing like all of this with your husband with his wife this is all recent yeah five month old okay wow there's probably so much emotion that is happening in your house yeah it's a lot yeah has Quinton met the baby no has not no so he saw the picture he saw the picture just like off social media and stuff like that got it do you think Quinton is claiming to be the father because he wants to be in a relationship with you yeah do you want Quinton to be the father of this baby no I I want to stay with my husband and work things out it's just it happened when we was on a break so I want to be with my husband well um I appreciate you telling me your side of the story but I'm interested in hearing what Quinton has to say about all this as well so everyone please welcome Quinton to the show how you doing qu how you doing thank you for being here sir um so how do you feel about what was just said feel like some of it's some truth a lot of it's not what was the parts for you that wasn't the truth that I haven't seen my child that you haven't yeah you have seen yeah okay so you're claiming this is your child right even right here okay so you're saying you have seen the baby when did you see the baby baby uh a couple times last week oh wow on the video it wasn't like in person or nothing okay but You' never met it in person so why do you why do you so wholeheartedly believe this is your baby when she was with her husband when they were on a trip together I feel like you know what I mean it's my child because for the simple fact if if it's somebody else baby she a cold piece man cuz uh we was together every day every single day but isn't there a possibility it could be her husband's child no no see he no he thinks I wasn't sleeping with my husband too oh cuz you don't think she was sleeping with her husband no I don't know did she tell you that she was being intimate with her husband yes no oh you did okay so in your mind while y'all two were sleeping together she was also telling you that she wasn't intimate with her husband how did it make you feel knowing now that she was lying about that that she saying that she was intimate with her husband I mean kind of hurt me you know what I mean makes sense yeah I understand St to jump I kind of kept it real about you know I mean me getting my divorce and everything and trying to move on and I wanted to have kids she never told me no um told you I was getting a divorce though we never uh we never uh use protection either so not one time so hold on so so if he if girl if a man is saying to you I want to have a baby with you I want to have Behavior with you and you don't want to have a baby I told him no cuz I'm married and I'm not planning on leaving my husband and I already had three other children so did you check to make sure the condom was on no I didn't okay I mean I this is this is no judgment this is just like you know somebody else at home if a man is with you that's saying he wants a baby and you don't want a baby check to make sure there's a condom on like you know because in your mind in all fairness in your mind you're thinking we're talked about our relationships that we both want to leave our partners I was thinking Plan B okay but in your mind you're hearing I don't know I feel like she made it she uh act like she don't know my motive it was never to trap anyone you know what I mean my motive was I never was able to be in my other kids' life got it and my producers are telling me right now that your wife just had a baby by you this week yeah a couple days ago ex a couple days ago so that's why I'm confused why he want to claim my kid and not that one oh my gosh okay so that's why he need to probably claim her baby and not mine cuz that's his wife and we just was having a little entanglement that needed the end do you want to be with her still yeah you do yeah you do do you want this baby to be yours to be the father you know it's yours okay just for sure I mean what are you going to do if this baby is not yours you you now man the baby got my forehead my eyes my head shape you know what I mean everything okay do you look like my husband got it it looks like we have a ping leche from your husband your husband's name is Cojo yes all right let's listen what your husband has to say I just want him to be out out of our life you know and I hope with this DNA text he will understand you know because that kid my daughter is not his kid that kid is my kid I don't have any doubts about I'm sure the T would Pro that's my baby man you know that so your husband is saying that he has no doubts that this is his child so your husband is claiming your child yeah yeah he believes that and I do as well but you're telling him you're telling him 100% you like no this is not his child I know for a fact okay tell him to bet some money on it uhhuh cuz y we we we asked your husband to be here today and he said he doesn't need to be here today because he knows it's his child and he went to the doctor the doctor told me when I conceived so that's why I'm for sure cuz the doctor wouldn't just November 17th is when you got pregnant and we went and you was pregnant before you went to Africa bro he keeps saying this but I wasn't he was pregnant before you went to Africa November 17th is when you can see I was not pregnant I don't know why you keep saying to Africa Thanksgiving bro you seem so sure it's like I mean it's so interesting to me because it's like you you know you're telling me it's like normally my mindset is like the doctor said this is what it is but for some your Clarity is just like I'm just like okay well so she told you before she went to Africa that she test and it was negative okay and he didn't know how to read the pregnancy test not negative man two lines that mean it's positive right it didn't have two why do you keep saying that what will happen if this is quinton's baby do your relationship I'm just going to still be with my husband we just if it is we just have to figure out a co-parent if this ends up not being his baby will your husband accept the child will it put a strain on your relationship it shouldn't it should cuz we wasn't together when it happened yeah if if it is this kid I got pregnant but I'm for sure it's not anyway so got it all right well well listen I think it's time we get to the truth of this matter I mean in in this envelope is the DNA truth this is your truth to open so if you could please open it and read the results I don't need to read it Zariah is your biological daughter told [Applause] you already know it what what are what are you thinking what are you feeling you happy you happy you got [Applause] confirmation wow I saw your face you shocked you shocked but how do you feel about the fact that now this is your child's father I just got to deal with a problem I guess okay what's the problem he's married well funny you said you didn't want to entanglement but now you two are forever entangled oh god um Quinton how do you feel about this I'm just pretty excited you know I mean I just always wanted a daughter you know and I want to figure out how it's going to go in the future with you know I mean I do love Le you know I mean I want to be with her you know what I mean but like I said she she want to be with her husand I'm he's saying that he loves you is there any part of your heart that still loves him a little yeah but I'm married so yeah we need to just leave that alone okay all right I'm I'm G leave it alone I I I do I'm going to leave it alone because out of respect for I want there to be good co-parenting and I know if I dig down that path right now without your husband and being here to to to negotiate that conversation all between all three of y'all it could cause issues you need to tell your husband what is going on um and so I know that's going to be a difficult conversation for you right what I want to do is that once we're done here I'm going to take you backstage and we can call your husband I want to be there to support you to have that conversation okay um all right well uh um I wish you all the best of luck congratulations thank you the hard part begins now but the hard part doesn't last forever all right thank you yeah you're welcome all right everyone listen thank you for being with us make sure to come back next time friends so we can keep talking we can keep growing I love you all BR how you doing let me have a hug yes I was saying you know he's still love with did he told you yesterday yes he did he did and what are your thoughts cuz he he would love to be back in relationship with you I know that but I don't really want to I wasn't trying to leave my husband he just had some problems and that ended up happening and then this going to happen it's all right I mean you're going to have to deliver it I'm here all day if you need support if he says something because if you want to be with him I want to be here to help him navigate the emotions of it if you need to talk to him for you you need me to support you I got you all right okay sounds good wish you the best of luck girl give you a hug I got [Music] [Music] you

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Length: 12min 22sec (742 seconds)

Published: Wed Feb 07 2024