Unleash the Hulk (Full Episode) | Cesar Millan: Better Human Better Dog

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CESAR: When I started my journey and people started calling me the Dog Whisperer, the only thing I wanted to do is to teach people there is no such a thing as a bad dog. WOMAN: Oh, my gosh. CESAR: Give me the leash. She's safer with me. Today, I'm still doing what I love, but the world has changed. (overlapping chatter) CESAR: Record dog adoptions have made many packs complete. But now more than ever, people and dogs still... Tsch. Need... Tsch. Help. WOMAN: We can't live like this. MAN: Yeah. WOMAN: The problem is me. MAN: What do I do? CESAR: More pooches, more problems, right? He needs rehab like ASAP. So many things you can fix already. Tsch! MARLON: Sorry, I'm sorry. CESAR: Ignore the excitement. MEGAN: I just don't want you to get bit. CESAR: Do you know who I am? MEGAN: Yes. CESAR: Together with my superhero pack, our mission is to teach the world to honor the pack code, honesty, integrity, and loyalty. Once you get this, you're going to have everything else. ALL: Yay! CESAR: And that's how we create better humans and better dogs one pack at a time. When a dog bite his own human, one bite is too many. But when a dog makes a habit of attacking his own people, that makes it a red zone behavior. Today, I'm going to Anaheim to meet this French Bulldog whose territorial aggression can get so bad that the family sometimes have to hide from him. It's like being prisoners in their own home. PRISCILLA: I am Priscilla Serrano. My dog's name is Jax. He's two years old. And he is a French Bulldog. I was just going Christmas shopping one day, I saw him, and I literally fell in love. I was like, "Ooh, this is my dog, like I feel the connection. I'm taking him home." You're so cute. DANIEL: I'm Daniel. I'm Priscilla's boyfriend. So I guess that makes me Jax's stepfather. He's a very sweet, loving dog. PRISCILLA: Whenever he's with me, he cuddles up next to me and he kisses my face and shakes his little tail. He gets excited, like, you can see that there's love there, that he has love in his heart for each and every person in this home. It's just he has unpredictable behavior. (growling) Hey, down. (barking) DANIEL: He does have outbursts and they're scary. (barking) Jax has bitten me four times, in the knee, hand, and again. PRISCILLA: I am grateful to be still living with my parents and he's actually attacked my mom multiple times. He nipped her underneath her chin pretty bad. My grandmother unfortunately one time tried playing with him, grabbed a toy, and he got at her hand. ISAIAH: Seeing him bite my grandma, my mom, and, like, I'm in my room hearing them scream and stuff about it, like, that's where I'm, like, really scared. And I would definitely say that Jax is a lost cause. AMY: I am afraid of Jax. My mother-in-law, she's definitely scared of him. I don't wanna be on, everybody on edge. ISAIAH: It's like walking on eggshells. PRISCILLA: Jax's behavior has really affected my relationship with my family. Before, my parents would come into my room and hang out with me and now it's not even an option. Sit. Sit. Life with Jax is exhausting. I've come to a point where I feel like I don't know what to do. It's been a year of this behavior and I don't wanna imagine how long this can go for. The worst-case scenario would be him getting at my grandmother or my mom, my boyfriend, my brother, to a point of, like, no return. I hate to say it, it breaks my heart to say it, it makes me emotional to say it. But my only option would be to put him down. I'm sorry. Family to me means being there for each other, not giving up on each other. In my heart, I can't give up on Jax. I need Cesar's help right now. CESAR This guy is keeping the whole family prisoner, so let's find out what the root of the problem is. (doorbell, knocking) PRISCILLA: Hi. DANIEL: Hi. CESAR: Come on out, guys. Come on out. PRISCILLA: Thank you. How are you? Thank you so much for being here. CESAR: Really good. Danny, right? DANIEL: Yes, sir. CESAR: Priscilla. Nice to meet you. PRISCILLA: Very nice to meet you. DANIEL: Nice to meet you. CESAR: Un placer. So how can I help you? PRISCILLA: So we got Jax two years ago. CESAR: Okay. PRISCILLA: And after he turned a year was when the behavior really started. CESAR: Uh-hmm. PRISCILLA: It started off where he became very territorial of toys. CESAR: Okay. PRISCILLA: Then it was areas in the house. CESAR: Okay. PRISCILLA: Me. CESAR: Okay. PRISCILLA: And now it seems like it's just anything. DANIEL: He's really good outside the house. PRISCILLA: Yeah. CESAR: So it's about the family. He's against the family. DANIEL: It feels like it. It does. It really does feel like it. PRISCILLA: It feels genuinely. He's bitten my mom. DANIEL: He got me right here a couple days ago. CESAR: Ooh. PRISCILLA: But he has bitten my abuelita and. CESAR: He bit grandma? PRISCILLA: Uh-hmm. CESAR: It's an absolute must that Priscilla's family feels safe in their own house. So Jax attacking grandma, mom, and Danny is an immediate call to action. It's innate in dogs to protect their pack. So Jax turning on his pack tells me he's very confused. PRISCILLA: I believe that this opportunity came to me for a reason and I genuinely believe that. CESAR: Yeah. Well, we gotta work hard. That's it. So this is what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna go in the backyard, we're gonna put some cameras inside. I wanna see the behavior, see what you do. I just wanna do it without my energy influencing Jax. PRISCILLA: Thank you. CESAR: All right. I'll go this way, you guys go inside. NARRATOR: While Cesar monitors from outside, Danny and Priscilla head to her room, a place Jax often behaves aggressively. PRISCILLA: Sit. DANIEL: Hi, babas. PRISCILLA: Oh, who is that? DANIEL: Hi, babas. No. (barking) CESAR: This dog is confused. Right away, this guy wants to fight. Yeah, super confused. (barking) CESAR: Aggression is never the problem, it's the outcome of a problem. So the confusion is terrible. DANIEL: Calm down. Hey. It's okay. CESAR: Ooh. Saying okay is not okay. The dog doesn't feel good, so don't say okay when the dog doesn't feel good. This dog is absolutely confused. DANIEL: Hey, hey. Jax. (snapping) No. CESAR: Priscilla and Danny are giving Jax mixed signals. First, they tell him no but then they say it's okay. That is super confusing for a dog. And when a dog is constantly confused like Jax, his instincts can tell him to fight or flight. It is pretty clear what Jax has chosen. DANIEL: If I come here to grab like a food bowl... (barking) donezo. PRISCILLA: No. DANIEL: He's completely blind right now too. PRISCILLA: He's gone. Stop it. DANIEL: He was, just pure anger. (barking) I mean, I've seen him mad, I mean he's, he's bitten me a couple times and especially recently I thought it was never gonna get worse than how it was. To see him push that, it was intense. PRISCILLA: It was scary. It was terrifying. No. No. No! CESAR: This is bad obviously because he's, he's in a red zone. He's gonna hurt, he's gonna bite anything that gets near it. PRISCILLA: Come. Come. CESAR: Ooh. She's frustrated. She doesn't wanna deal with him, so she's just putting him in the crate. (snarling) They're clueless. I gotta stop this right now. Big no no for the dog people. Never force a dog into the cage. Never trap a dog in a cage. Instead, you treat him like a regular dog, you treat him like a wild animal. Those are where aggression comes from. Right? And then they take this reaction against anybody that is not the person that put him in, because he's not gonna do it towards Priscilla but he will do it to everybody else. Okay. I just need something to protect me. Once I know that a dog bites or lunges, normally I grab something. I'm just protecting myself. (barking) DANIEL: Hey, Jax. PRISCILLA: No. CESAR: Don't, don't let that bother you. He can't see you right now. DANIEL: Right. CESAR: He's literally blinded by the rage. So this is not territory, this is beyond territory. We need to get him out of the crate. He could hurt himself in there. This mindset in the crate is dangerous. (barking) What we're dealing with is this is the animal, the animal, (barking) you wanna be able to open this. (barking) This is the danger zone. This is definitely a red, red, red zone. These kind of dogs can actually hurt themselves and grab things and stay there. They don't mind to kill themselves. DANIEL: No! CESAR: Don't get angry. If you get angry, just breathe it out. You get frustrated, just breathe it out. DANIEL: I know what you mean. I'm like. CESAR: Yeah. You get tense, breathe it out. DANIEL: Uh-hmm. Tense, yeah. PRISCILLA: Jax is out of control and seeing how he is with Cesar makes me very worried. Maybe my dog, like, can't be helped. CESAR: He's gonna get tired. As long as we have the leash, we got him. (barking) (barking) Hey. Hey. Come on. Shh. (barking) (barking) CESAR: Tsch. (bleep). We need the leash to keep him from hurting himself. (exhales heavily) There you go. (deep breath) You put him away when he gets in trouble and then you trap him. They don't understand why you put him away. Hey. Tsch. Tsch. There we go. Now he's calming back down. You see that? So now that he's relaxed, this is when you can say he's okay. Not earlier when he was trying to attack you. DANIEL: Right. CESAR: Here's what's going on in this house. Have you heard the saying blind with rage? That is the next level of aggression Jax is reaching. What's causing that? Confusion, he doesn't know if he's supposed to protect or attack his pack. No wonder the entire family hides from him. Priscilla loves her dog but she's afraid of his behavior. The dog feels that fear and believes his human is in danger. So he doubles down and charges anyone who comes near his mom. This is a volatile mix of aggression, fear, and confusion that makes Jax a red zone threat. And the only solution is for Priscilla to wake up and realize that it's her fearful energy that is causing Jax to lash out. You're used to your anxiety. PRISCILLA: I am. CESAR: You have learned to live with it. But fear is not allowed. Otherwise, it's contagious. That's why I'm not bringing you closer because I could still see your anxiety. PRISCILLA: Yeah. CESAR: I can still see your uncertainty. If you were holding the leash instead of me, he wouldn't be calm like this. I know it's hard. But find a positive mindset. So every time you get nervous, frustrated, anxious, just go back to calm confident, love and joy, Do you think you will be able to find confidence within yourself? PRISCILLA: Not to, like, say anything bad about my parents but I don't think they ever instilled that in me. I know that progress is not just a straight line going up. I know that sometimes we fall back and. CESAR: That's right. PRISCILLA: But I want myself to get better. I'm going to get better. So he's gonna get better. I never really had anyone to kind of tell me how important it is to have calm and confidence and be joyful, no matter your circumstance. It made me feel something I've just never felt before. And that gives me hope. CESAR: What I would like to do for you guys is to continue your learning, to continue your growth. I want you guys to come to the DPC, my ranch. Thank you. DANIEL: Thank you. PRISCILLA: Thank you so much. CESAR: Con la familia! NARRATOR: The next day, Priscilla, Danny, and Jax arrive at the Dog Psychology Center. DANIEL: We really gotta make sure this works, babe. NARRATOR: The dog's rehabilitation is even more urgent. Just this morning, Jax's behavior escalated to a new level of aggression. CESAR: How's it going? PRISCILLA: He's still just acting like just rage. I do feel like I don't have control because for the first time ever, Jax redirected on me. (growling) That's never happened before. DANIEL: This is as serious as it's gotten. PRISCILLA: Uh-hmm. He jumped at me, growled, and tried to bite, like, it was an attempt to actually attack me. CESAR: It's a dangerous confusion. He needs to learn not to feel threatened when someone guides him. Jax had been very confused for a long time. And now anything can trigger him. He reminds me of The Incredible Hulk. You don't know when he's gonna turn green. (growling) Ah-ha! I got it. (barking) In his confused mind, he's in charge. So he acts aggressive when he feels his power is challenged, like Priscilla's handling this morning. Yeah. Shh. Okay. So here, this is just to protect. The first thing we must do is to get him on a leash to show him how to behave when a calm, confident human is in charge and that the crate cannot be allowed as a trigger for his aggression. (barking) There you go. Tsch. Hey. Tsch. See? My confidence is calming him down. Tsch. So we remove him then he goes back. And then erase the bad impression, like hitting a reset button. We're eliminating the first picture that we got. DANIEL: Oh. CESAR: Yeah. So now with me, the crate is starting to equal calmness. Tsch. Stay. PRISCILLA: Baby, are you nervous right now? DANIEL: It's, I'm surprised. CESAR: No, he's surprised. Yeah, if a guy does this, he's like, "Oh, (bleep)"! PRISCILLA: He really snapped him out that quickly. So that was really amazing to see, because I didn't even realize we're doing it wrong. You know, that's what's Cesar is teaching us. CESAR: Come on. PRISCILLA: Yay. DANIEL: Okay. CESAR: Follow me, guys. Today's first exercise is a two for one special, which will help build Priscilla's confidence while also addressing Jax's confusion. And specifically his negative reaction when Priscilla puts him in the crate. Watch. Here. Right here. Just grab the leash and ask him to follow you. Boom, boom, boom, boom. Come on, come on. And then once you come here, go. Yeah. You see? Like a bowling ball. That ball had to go exactly where you want it to go. And now you can see he's in there and calm because I took control of him with the right energy. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: You understand? So you are conditioning the brain to accept your direction while also telling him he's safe in the crate. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: Okay. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: All right, Priscilla. I want like a cheerleader but a coach. This is gonna build so much trust, guys. Just remember happy-go-lucky, Priscilla. PRISCILLA: Come on, come on. CESAR: Right next to it. PRISCILLA: Come on. Come on. CESAR: Be confident. Lead him. PRISCILLA: Come on. Come on. No. Don't jump off. CESAR: Be careful. You're too far in front. PRISCILLA: Okay. Come. You got it. CESAR: Not like that. Don't hesitate. PRISCILLA: Come on. CESAR: So that hesitation, we don't want it on the crate. PRISCILLA: Come on. Come on. Okay, ready. Come on. Come on. CESAR: Right from there. PRISCILLA: Let's go. Let's go. CESAR: As soon as you see that he's coming in, send him into the crate like a bowling ball. Go. PRISCILLA: Come on. Come on. Hey. Back. CESAR: Don't force him. PRISCILLA: Come on. Come on. CESAR: It's not working. Let's do it again. Nobody wants to be pushed into something they are not sure of. So jacking the leash is only going to confuse and anger him again. She needs to use the motion and confident energy to create a momentum that guides the dog into the crate. PRISCILLA: Let's go. Let's go. CESAR: Come back. PRISCILLA: Come on. CESAR: And then, and then two, three feet away from the crate. PRISCILLA: Go in the crate. CESAR: Yup. Stay. PRISCILLA: Wait. CESAR: Don't let him move. Then bring it out. Come on. Celebrate, celebrate, celebrate. Yay. (cheering) Priscilla did better the second time around but she still have a long way to go. She's really going to have to practice overcoming her fear and claiming her leadership position in the pack if she ever wants Jax to respect her. He doesn't take you serious in the leader aspect because in the beginning, you hesitated. Your calm, confident energy wasn't strong enough. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: He's only gonna follow if your energy is calm, confident. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: Not fearful. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: And the more he lives with a fearful energy you've been giving him, the harder it's going to be to get him rehabilitated. PRISCILLA: Uh-hmm. CESAR: Jax. (barking, snarling) CESAR: Tsch. Tsch. (barking, snarling) I got it. Tsch. Tsch. Tsch. Luckily, he didn't get me but I need to lay him on his side until he fully surrenders. DANIEL: Yup. CESAR: Tsch. (barking) Tsch. There you go. DANIEL: It's exactly what I'm telling you is that, like, yeah. PRISCILLA: It's out of nowhere. CESAR: He has an episode. DANIEL: Is it done? Is my question. CESAR: Not yet. He's still dealing with all the tension that he built up with that outburst but eventually, he'll let it out. He's gonna go... (sigh) so by them doing that is they're breathing that tension away from them. PRISCILLA: Ohhh-kay. CESAR: Just wait for it. Boom. Look. And then he wakes up like it's nothing. Like he just woke up from a dream. But still, I don't like that he's acting out like that. Where does this aggression come from? Well, Jax was doing well with the exercise. PRISCILLA: Go in the crate. CESAR: Yup. But remember, this is day one of rehab. And he's been living like The Hulk for a long time. So anything can trigger him and I am ready for moments of aggression like this. I'll address his angry Hulk outburst until eventually he learns the most important lesson in this rehab. He must stop attacking his pack or else his family might feel forced to put him down. This intensive level of rehab can only be achieved by keeping him here at the DPC. My next suggestion is for him to stay with us. PRISCILLA: Yes. Okay. CESAR: He's not ready to go home. PRISCILLA: Uh-hmm. I think this is a good reset for him, for myself. I mean, he just redirected on me and I think this is a good break that we all need. CESAR: Use this time to work out or meditate, whatever makes you feel calm, confident. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: So he will see you as a leader. PRISCILLA: Yes. CESAR: You need to gain the respect. PRISCILLA: Okay. DANIEL: Yeah. CESAR: All right. DANIEL: Yeah. CESAR: Jax. Come on. Let's go say bye. Let's walk him out. NARRATOR: The next morning. CESAR: Unleash the hounds. NARRATOR: Cesar assembles his dogs for the morning hike. (barking) CESAR: Come on. NARRATOR: But Jax's continued confusion prevents him from even following a simple pack walk. CESAR: Jax, where are you going? Look. He does, look, he just takes off. See how the pack gathers? Yeah. If the pack goes this way, he should follow the pack. He doesn't know how to stay within the group. He's not connected. So he has no understanding to stay within the pack. He just goes. Look. When we brought a troubled dog here at the DPC, I want them to switch into a balanced pack mindset. But Jax is still so confused that I need to try something drastic. Using an item that he has such a negative association with, I wanna give him a positive experience. (whistling, smooches) There you are. We're throwing a crate party. Let's continue with the rehab. (clapping) I'm gonna show you how the pack is gonna help him to associate the crate in a completely different way. The pack will be his role models, which creates a stronger connection to both my dogs and me. Look, he knows this is his crate by the way. This is his crate. As we all remember the last time I was near the crate, I need to use a racket, you know, just to block him. Because, you know, The Hulk was coming out. For Jax, the crate equals confusion. It represents fear for both him and his mom. In his mind, he's being trapped so he behaves like a wild animal. It is a constant trigger that turns Jax into the angry Hulk. My dogs will use their happy-go-lucky energy to show Jax the crate is not something to fear. It's good that he's not charging or lunging but you can definitely see he's unsettled. Come on. Come on. Come on. (smooches) He's a, he's a little bit guarding it. He's not as relaxed as the rest of the pack, you know? Good girl, Sophia. He's the only one not getting the food yet because he's a little bit tense, because his association of the crate, I mean, he's going in there but he's tense, he's tense about it. See, look, these guys are calm or happy-go-lucky about it. He's tense because this reminds him, this reminds him the Hulk. This guarding, unsettled behavior can stem from the fact that Jax doesn't know something all members of a pack should instinctively know from birth, how to share. Being a single child, they don't know how to share, you know, because that's exactly what he's not doing at home. He's not sharing. That's why his family hides from him. He isn't used to share his space with anyone but especially with a dog pack. Come on. Hey. Come on. Come on. Let's go. Come on. Let's go. This is the part that he's tense. Look. Come on. Hey. Come on. He's getting super tense again. CESAR: I need him to imitate the pack while he's here. You know, so if he's not imitating the pack, that tells me he still is not connected to the pack yet. If he's not connected to the pack, that lets me know that he's not connected to me. Without a healthy connection, a dog is more likely to act aggressive or bite. That's why his humans are hiding from him at home. For this entire rehab to work, Jax must learn what it feels like to share his space and become connected to me and my pack. Come on, come on. All right. Let's show him how we share here at the DPC with a party inside the crate. Come on, guys. Everybody in. Huffy, Benson, go. Go in. Find a spot. Stay. Stay. Sharing, he's sharing. Stay. He's tolerating everybody but he's not fully calm. But now that he's surrounded by my pack's calm energy, I'm gonna start entering his space by reaching in to give him treats. So I'm focusing on giving the reward. For example, I'm going inside to give Benson a treat. To give Lola a treat. So that way, he'll see that by staying calm and sharing space, he gets the reward. There you go. This is good. He's starting to mirror their energy. He's calm and he's sharing. Finally, he gets a piece because he's allowing everybody to be around without him reacting. So that's really good sign that he can share. Now that he's starting to connect to me and my pack, okay, guys, come on, we got a long week ahead to continue his rehabilitation. Good boy. NARRATOR: Over the next week, Cesar works closely with Jax. CESAR: There you go. NARRATOR: The goal is to overcome his confused angry mindset by integrating the dog into Cesar's pack. CESAR: Jax and I are making some real progress. He's had some good moments. He's doing good. And we're overcoming a lot of the confusion that he's faced. He's doing nose, eyes, ears, which is what he should be doing. He's even starting to become part of the pack. Yes, sir. That's it. He's playing. But I also recognize that he's still getting really frustrated. And while we try to burn off that energy, literally, we're doing a treadmill in the water. His frustration is still causing unwanted behavior. No. Oh, that's not good. Bison, get away from Jax. It's a good day for us today. There is tremendous improvement on his trust but we must address his frustration, some of which is coming from his testosterone. So this testosterone triggers him to practice owning, controlling people, furniture, whatever it is. Some of his aggression comes from him being intact. Neutering him will eliminate the frustration of the sexual frustration that he has. Besides this particular case, there's an overpopulation in America and in the world. So spay and neuter is a responsibility that we dog lovers must follow. If you want puppies, just go rescue one. So I need to talk to Priscilla because I definitely want her blessing. And so my boy is ready. All right, Jax. Say goodbye to your little friends. Come on. NARRATOR: The next day, DPC handler Jaime takes Jax to be neutered and after a successful surgery, Jax returns to the ranch to continue his rehabilitation. CESAR: This guy that we used to call the Hulk, he had fear, he was confused tremendously, and he was way too excited. We were able to neuter him and so he's now part of the world. NARRATOR: Two weeks later, Priscilla and Danny are back to reunite with Jax. PRISCILLA: Hello. CESAR: Good to see you. PRISCILLA: How are you? Good to see you. CESAR: How's it going, brother? DANIEL: How are you doing? CESAR: How's the home feel? DANIEL: Interesting. PRISCILLA: Peaceful. I miss him a lot, of course, but, I mean, it was necessary. DANIEL: Exactly. CESAR: You missed part of him and the other ones you don't, because if you miss him 100%, there's something wrong with you. PRISCILLA: No, I don't. DANIEL: For sure. PRISCILLA: Like, I'm not gonna lie, like I did miss him, but I had fun, like, the energy was different. Like, each day, more and more, I feel like I've become more grounded. My main focus has been focusing on the peace that I feel and being a leader. It was the reset we needed. This time away from Jax has made me miss him. But I also have found a new peace and tranquility within myself that has gone through the entire home. DANIEL: How was the training? CESAR: He has been in a shutdown mode for a long time and he was very confused. PRISCILLA: Really? CESAR: Yeah. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: In fact, one of his problem was he was not connecting to the pack, so he would just take off. He'll come back, but that's not ideal. He has been isolated. And even in your own home, he's not clicking with the family. It took a while for him to become part of my pack. PRISCILLA: That fear that got so instilled within me caused me to just, "Okay. No dog parks. Okay. No doing this. No doing that." Just because I was, I was avoiding. CESAR: So you isolated him from everyone. It's good that they're talking the right language. Priscilla said a very important word. Feel peaceful. All right. Let's, let's see if you can practice that. All right. I wanna show you something. Come on. PRISCILLA: Beautiful. I love it! CESAR: Look at him. DANIEL: Getting to see Jax for the first time, he looked calm. He looked like every other dog. I'm actually really impressed he's not, like, all over you right now. PRISCILLA: Yeah, I know. I am, too. CESAR: Yeah. See, that's what he's supposed to be doing. He's still a swollen from the procedure, but he's healing fine. DANIEL: It was nice. There was a change in him, for sure, getting to see him after so long. PRISCILLA: He looks so handsome to me. CESAR: Up until now, Jax has considered Priscilla a possession that he needs to protect. When another dog or a family member gets close to her, he moves into her space, protecting her by becoming aggressive. To start establishing herself as a leader that Jax respect, I need to teach Priscilla how to claim her space so she can show the dog that his overprotective aggression is not allowed, especially within his own pack. So this exercise is very simple, while keeping Jax watching from a distance. I want you to feed not just the dogs, but I want you to do it with a cow, a goat, a horse, and an alpaca. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: I want you to sit here and you're gonna be surrounded. Almost like Snow White moment. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: But you have to feed them while claiming your space. The animals can only eat if you hand them the food. Look at... PRISCILLA: Uh-hmm. CESAR: No animals are allowed to eat from the bowl, all right? So he is learning to see you controlling other members of the pack and experience the other animals being peaceful, calm, respectful. Due to her fear and doubt, Jax has always thought that he needs to protect Priscilla. We have to teach him that she's strong enough to take care of herself. Sit right here. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: To do this, I am going to have Priscilla feed the farm animals while Jax is tied to the bed. She needs to make the herd give her distance by claiming her space. This way, Jax sees that she can handle herself and he doesn't have to get aggressive. As always, my crew will ensure the animals are safe. They can crowd you, keep it at a distance. That's respect. PRISCILLA: Oh, you're so sweet. DANIEL: You gotta be stronger than that. PRISCILLA: I know. I know. I know. I'm learning too. CESAR: They're getting too close to you. Remember, be confident. PRISCILLA: Is this like they should all be, kind of, like away? CESAR: That's right. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: That's right. DANIEL: You choose who's getting fed, right? Right? CESAR: Right. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: Priscilla is letting the animals crowd her because the energy she's projecting is weak. If she doesn't start projecting confidence, she'll never be able to claim her space and Jax will go back to protecting her. Stay confident. If you don't claim your space, Jax will get anxious. (barking) Tsch. PRISCILLA: I feel like I ain't doing it right. CESAR: You weren't claiming your space with that goat. Keep it calm. Be careful, also don't let. PRISCILLA: Am I allowed to? CESAR: Yeah, of course. You're allowed to. PRISCILLA: Okay. Okay. CESAR: Claim your space. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: Goats can also be disrespectful. PRISCILLA: Oh, man. Oh, man, oh, man, chill out. CESAR: Too much excitement going on right now. Priscilla, come over here. If he senses your fear, he'll want to protect you. (barking) Tsch. (whinnying) CESAR: I'm going to put Jax in a calm surrender on the bed. Tsch. Priscilla didn't claim her space with the animals, so Jax thought he needed to protect her and became aggressive. So this is the moment that I'm looking for because it's good to see how your fear triggers him. So I can correct him. When Jax senses that Priscilla is fearful, he thinks he have to protect her and hulks out. (barking, whinnying) In his mind, the only way to protect her is with aggression. Let me show you how to prevent that. Tsch. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: Tsch. Yeah. Make them give you distance and then you feed them. See it? I reward the distance. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: You're rewarding on top of you. Blue. All right, so they ahh, because you get into the sweet self, you're. PRISCILLA: And I let them do whatever. CESAR: Yeah. You're, yeah. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: So they're taking over, then you create competition because it's gonna get crowded. PRISCILLA: Okay. CESAR: You see, that's why he can be close to you right now. When you are calm confident, Jax can see that. They're respectful to her, so she's not gonna get harmed. Then Jax doesn't feel the need to be aggressive. PRISCILLA: Okay. When I see Jax go lunge, I'm, like, kind of mad. But at the same time, I realize that he's doing that because of me. He's reflecting me right now, so I need to be calm confident for him to not do those things. So yeah, I had this realization that, like, when I'm in a position of having to, like, stick up for myself or say what it is that I want, for some reason, I feel almost as if I'm not allowed to. CESAR: Why do you feel that way? PRISCILLA: Because I feel like, oh, when I'm demanding all of that, that like people are gonna perceive me as not how I wanna be perceived as, I guess. So, yeah, I need to vocalize and take action and just do what it is I'm thinking in my head and do it, you know? CESAR: That energy right there and this whole thing right here, that's it. PRISCILLA: Okay. Okay. CESAR: Yeah. PRISCILLA: I'm in it. CESAR: Yeah, yeah. DANIEL: Up. PRISCILLA: Tsch. CESAR: Make sure to correct her. She can't mess with the new fearless Priscilla. Better, right? PRISCILLA: It is better. CESAR: Yeah, it's easier. PRISCILLA: I feel clear. CESAR: Look, Jax is a lot calmer now that you're confident. PRISCILLA: It feels really empowering because it's like, "Oh, yeah." Like, I can say "no, thank you". DANIEL: Right. PRISCILLA: You know, like, I don't want that. DANIEL: Yeah. Say it. PRISCILLA: And still be me and still be kind me. CESAR: I am proud of Priscilla. She's beginning to realize that her insecurities have not only been affecting her relationship with Jax, but also have been holding her back in other areas of her life. She took a big step today and created a safer common environment for her family, where they no longer have to fear leaving their rooms. I already knew Jax was ready to go home, but now I know that Priscilla is ready to take him home. So you're gonna take your guy home today. PRISCILLA: I have missed you, dude. CESAR: I hope you had a good time. When you go home, continue to practice what you have learned today. PRISCILLA: Thank you. DANIEL: Absolutely. Yeah. It sounds great. CESAR: All right. Let's go. There you go. NARRATOR: Over the next few weeks, Priscilla works to put Cesar's teachings to the test in Jax's home environment for the first time. PRISCILLA: I've been focusing a lot on my energy. I've had to really learn how to calm my energy and really have that calm confidence while I'm working with him. Come on. Stay. Good boy. Claiming space has been really, really good. Like, he really respects my space where before, he didn't. And it's been really great to go ahead and, like, conquer that. The only thing is my family is still scared of Jax and doesn't feel safe around him yet. NARRATOR: After weeks on their own, Cesar checks in on Priscilla and Jax. CESAR: Jax. NARRATOR: In the hopes of seeing a united pack, free of confusion and aggression. CESAR: Hello. Hello. Come on out. Look at you. DANIEL: Yeah. He's excited to see you. PRISCILLA: So excited. CESAR: Come on out. Well, I don't even wanna ask how's he doing, he's doing great. PRISCILLA: He's beautiful. (laughing) CESAR: You're welcome. You're welcome. PRISCILLA: Thank you. CESAR: How are you, how are you doing? PRISCILLA: I mean, at the start of this, it felt at so much heavy energy. And now it's like literally that has been lifted. I'm just living my life now with my dog. CESAR: How's the family? PRISCILLA: My mom, my brother are still pretty scared of him. DANIEL: It's still that trust level, you know? PRISCILLA: Yeah, that's what it is. DANIEL: He hasn't gained our trust yet, so there's a lot still, kind of, like.... CESAR: Okay, so now you turn as to get your family to know that you're in control and they don't need to worry about it. So let's go inside and let me do my Latino thing. PRISCILLA: Yeah. DANIEL: Let's do it. All right. CESAR: I can already see a lot of progress in both Priscilla and Jax, but I don't like to hear that some family members are still feeling unsafe. It's important to make sure they don't feel like prisoners in their own home. Como esta? Bien? PRISCILLA: They're scared of him right now. AMY: I'm still afraid of Jax because I was the first one to get bit. So I know that he is capable of being that aggressive dog. I just want everybody to feel comfortable in the home. CESAR: I know you have some bad experiences, but I think you are gonna see Priscilla has come a long way with Jax and he'll continue to improve. So for the final challenge, let's show my boy growth. To show the family that Priscilla is in control, I'm gonna have them enter this room one at a time while Priscilla keeps Jax in a calm surrender on the bed. Priscilla, do your thing, put him in the, the raised bed. If she can do that without the dog charging or attacking like he used to, the family will see that they no longer need to live in fear. Priscilla stays and everybody else come back and walk by like normal family. PRISCILLA: I am expecting some reactions from Jax just because we're still working on making sure that sounds don't bother him or movement isn't bothering him as much. But I do think that I'm capable of getting him to calm surrender. CESAR: All right. Priscilla's brother, come on in. (growling) PRISCILLA: Tsch. (growling) (barking) PRISCILLA: Tsch. (barking) Wait. Hold on. Please. Shhh. Tsch. CESAR: There we go. All right. You can go forward. Priscilla, keep watching Jax. Yeah. PRISCILLA: Tsch. Hey. CESAR: That's good. For years, Jax have acted out towards the family, especially when they enter the room. Breaking the cycle is a process that takes repetitions. So, Priscilla must continue to correct his unwanted aggression until he remains in calm surrender. Okay. Next up, we're gonna bring in your boyfriend, Danny. All right, Danny. (growling) PRISCILLA: Can you stop right there actually, please. (barking) Tsch. So, something that I've been trying is deep tissue massage... CESAR: Okay. PRISCILLA: To get him to relax more... CESAR: Mmm-hmm. PRISCILLA: So, like, just let him know that I want him to be calm. And also, I'm focusing on my own energy and my own breath. CESAR: It's working. It's calming him down. The start was a little rough, but I love that Priscilla took my lesson and made it her own by adding the massage. Her touch is not an action of affection or reward. It's a common technique. Eventually, Jax will react with calm surrender on his own. But right now, we're seeing a very different dog and pet parent. All right, Danny. There you go. That's, that's his homeboy. DANIEL: Yeah, right? CESAR: That was great. You calmed him down, and he seems really relaxed now. Do you think you're ready for me to bring your mom in? PRISCILLA: Yup. CESAR: All right, Amy. The queen herself. Priscilla's mom, Amy, still lives in fear over Jax violent past. (barking) The most important thing is for her to stop feeling like a prisoner in her own home. So, this moment is key because she needs to see there is hope for Jax and he won't be a danger to this household anymore. PRISCILLA: Mom, you're more than welcome to come in, just remember no touch, no talk, no eye contact, please. (growling) Tsch. Tsch. CESAR: There you go. That's much faster. PRISCILLA: Mom. CESAR: That was really good. PRISCILLA: Yes. CESAR: Now that he's relaxed, he's fallen asleep. Let's just quietly celebrate on your own. PRISCILLA: Yay. Good job. CESAR: All right, family, what do you think? AMY: I'm very proud of Priscilla. I know it was a lot of work. CESAR: Yes. AMY: To help him. CESAR: Yes. AMY: Right now, I am feeling excited because I see a big difference in Jax right now. And I feel more calm, I feel like our home is going to be normal again. I don't feel afraid. CESAR: Yup. PRISCILLA: I'm here. I got this. Like, you guys don't have to worry. I'm protecting you now. Like, I know what I need to do. And we can always still have this because I know how to handle it, you know. DANIEL: Uh-hmm. PRISCILLA: So it's like. (squealing) CESAR: Yup. I am proud of how far Priscilla has come. She started this journey fearful and clueless, but she's really done the work. This is a long-term transformation for both her and Jax, and eventually, the goal is for Jax to remain calm surrender without Priscilla even being around. I have total faith in Priscilla to reach that goal. And I know that they are on the right path to full recovery. DANIEL: It's nice to see her happy and confident. CESAR: Yes. DANIEL: Yeah. PRISCILLA: Thank you. CESAR: Happy relationship. DANIEL: Yes. CESAR: You're welcome. PRISCILLA: Thank you. (laughter) Going from feeling like there was a black cloud over the home to this new state of peace and to enjoy each other's company without worrying about where Jax is, what he's gonna do. You're so cute. (deep breath) Cesar, I truly don't have the words to tell you how grateful I am. And if it wasn't for you, I wouldn't be who I am today and who I'm going to become. So, thank you. CESAR: Thank you very much for listening to me. And now let's celebrate. Señoría... CESAR: When a dog like Jax become violent, I believe there is something within the human causing that imbalance. So, an aggressive dog is often caused by an anxious pet parent, and in Jax home, the whole family live in fear. Because Priscilla recognized her own insecurities, she's now finding her own voice. As she continues to work and nurtures calmness, Jax won't feel the need to transform into an angry Hulk again. Now, they got connection that is communication in a balanced relationship. Connection, communication, relationship, that's how you honor the true nature of a dog.
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