Understanding Narcissism | Psyflix ft. Dr. Frank Yeomans

foreign [Music] weeks that me and Martin are dating so that's something new you mentioned him I didn't know you were dating regularly are you well yeah I mean seven weeks I don't know if that's regular but yeah six times in the seven weeks for you that's a long time we would agree yeah because we didn't have sex oh okay We Kissed But yeah well can you say more I mean all I knew is you had dinner with him and that you liked him but I don't I mean yeah I do like him yeah what are you asking me oh just to get a picture of how you've been getting to know him how you're experiencing him how you react to him well where you think it's going you know what one asks about way too many things oh but yeah it's I mean it's a lot all at once why don't you just tell me how it's going well it's going good I mean he also likes animals so that's a good thing we agree on that but we did go on a date that we watched a movie have you seen that movie everything everywhere all at once yeah all right there was this okay this is not so I don't know if this is a really big deal or not but there was this one point when the two rocks were talking to each other and I thought that was really funny but I don't know if he got it oh it looks like he didn't laugh that was kind of weird you looked I might be exaggerating but your facial expression almost looked like you felt a little disgust with him at that point I mean no discuss this too intense but I I just thought he was smarter than this and now it's like hmm it's a bit of a letdown this happened just this past week yeah two days ago and you say you've been seeing each other well this was our last date I mean I thought it was going really well and I do like him but it's just yeah that date was kind of weird oh well are you going to see him again yeah okay yeah but you we still have to have sex so you're very sexually attracted to him yeah okay all right but then I'm afraid that if we do then we won't see each other again why would that be I mean sex can bring people together conceivably um for most people maybe not for me you say that with a laugh but because we've talked about this already several times that like yeah that if it's just it's either too casual or not and I'm I don't know I'm I don't know I don't know what I'm feeling um well that's when it gets complicated it's hard enough dealing with the work issues I think I should tell him that I found it weird that he didn't get that part in the movie or is that too annoying well there's two things right now one is that I was beginning to say something you sort of moved right in there so I'd like to wonder about that yeah but the second thing is you asked me a direct question is it weird but right from the beginning of therapy almost a year ago now I remember explaining that I don't think my I don't think I can help you the most by answering questions or giving advice I think I can help you more by working on what makes it difficult for you to figure things out so it's when you ask me something like that is it weird one way to understand that is that you're getting anxious about something in like some relief from your anxiety so I'm wondering what's getting you anxious right now yeah so he that what if we start dating and if I mean he doesn't get this movie but what if we don't think alike what if we don't agree I mean what's what's the point right like I mean what what kind of how can I live with someone without I don't agree with I mean also yeah I think it sounds maybe like it's not a big deal but just not knowing something [Music] I love movies so much so if we can't talk about that then yeah what yeah I don't know [Music]

Channel: Psyflix

Views: 2,884

Keywords: borderline, narcissism, personalitydisorder, borderlinepersonalitydisorder, psychotherapy, therapy, transferencefocusedtherapy, psyflix

Id: asc0n1yZSnQ

Length: 5min 12sec (312 seconds)

Published: Thu Jul 27 2023