Triple Episode: I Know My Boyfriend is Cheating on Me With Women He Meets Online | Couples Court

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<i> This is</i> Couples Court With The Cutlers. [DANA] This is the case of Adcox vs Weaver. You all are engaged, have been together three years. And I can't help but notice there's a 23 year age difference between you all. So, Ms. Adcox, why have you brought your fiancee to court today? I put a lot into this relationship and I believe that he is cheating on me. When, um, we got together I was waitressing. He was a man... He came in as our manager. We got along very well. Everything in common. Then we started seeing each other and then, right after that, I started finding out a lot of things. And I believe that he's been cheating on me, possibly, since we've been together, over three years ago. Let me ask Mr. Weaver. I mean, she feels that you all have been having problems since the beginning of your relationship. What are you here to prove today? I'm here to prove that I am innocent beyond a shadow of doubt, that I love her with all my heart. I want this to be a nice, happy, smooth, stable relationship. Okay. Tell me what it's like in your home right now, with her believing that you are cheating on her. At home, it's... it's really nice. We... Everything's civil. When I leave for work or if I go out to do something... then, that's when it... I come back home, that's when the problem starts. So tell me what happens when you get back home. She'll start accusing me... She'll start questioning me, what I was doing, who I was with. Uh, why was I gone for so long. And, I have to constantly defend myself. Like, keep a tab of every little thing I did. A laundry list... It's ridiculous. So, what's on the line if you should find out that Mr. Weaver is, in fact, cheating? If he's cheating, I mean, I don't really have time for this. I've already been in a relationship for 20 years. You know, I have kids. I put in everything into this relationship. I love him more than anything in the world. But, I'm not gonna stay with him if I find out that he's cheating on me. I wanna know today. You talked about... You met at work. Tell me about your first meeting and your first date. It was beautiful. I mean, another woman that worked there asked if I wanted to go with her to take him out for his birthday, that she was gonna take him out for a couple of drinks. And so we all went to a place down the street, we went out for a couple of drinks. And the friend that I worked with, she left earlier and we stayed. And we got into a conversation, we got very close. And I kissed him on his cheek. And, uh, he's like, "Wow, a woman never kissed me." And I was like, "Yeah, right. Okay." He was like, "No, I've never been kissed by a woman in my entire life." I'm like, "Get out of here!" He's never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. So, for a month from there, we still were working together. We started seeing each other more, we got into a relationship. He said he'd never had sex. Like, I was his first love. Ever. Anything. Okay, so, you took his virginity? [LAUGHTER] [KEITH] All right. So, Mr. Weaver, you see this woman at work. Were you looking for a relationship? Were you looking for a relationship with an older woman. What happened is, we started out as coworkers. Uh, we started to gradually know each... get to know each other over time, working with each other. And then, eventually that friendship kinda just developed naturally into a relationship. I didn't question it. Uh, I didn't think anything of it, 'cause it just seemed so natural. [KEITH] It just happened. [WEAVER] Exactly. [DANA] All right. [KEITH] And she was your first... [WEAVER] Yes. [KEITH] ...person you kissed? Yes, Your Honor. [DANA] And she was the first person you made love to? Yes, Your Honor. What was that like? [EVERYBODY LAUGHING] Well, what are you saying, "What was that like?" [DANA] Well, I mean... [WEAVER] It was scary. [DANA] You were scared. [WEAVER] It was scary. I... I didn't know what was happening. [LAUGHTER] The reason I asked... I know that seemed really... But I asked because, I mean, he's young with an experienced woman. She has children. So, I was just like, "Okay, what was that..." I mean, wait a minute... Everybody sitting here was thinkin' it. They were like, "What was that like?" I just asked a question nobody else could ask. And that's why we love you. And that's why you love me. [KEITH] You ask the hard questions. [LAUGHING] So, not to embarrass you. But, no, that's a beautiful thing. You have found your young prince. Yes. [DANA] You're in love. [ADCOX] Yeah. You are sharing first experiences. [KEITH] He's treated you like no man has treated you before. No. Not... Never. Why do you think he's cheating right now? His family loves us and they love us together. They've never seen him so happy. So, you know... So, we go over there to spend the night but here's this girl that I've never seen before and the mother's explaining to me, "Well, she grew up with the kids and she's like, part of the family. And we're just helping her out. She's just gonna stay for a while." She was mean to me the whole day. She didn't talk to me or anything. And at night she just came in there and she just totally attacked me. And beat me up in the house, with the family. So, you believe that this is the woman that Mr. Weaver was dating. Yes. And he had something to do with this girl. And there's no reason for her to attack me. We didn't know each other. I didn't have a problem with the family. She had nothing to do with that. She attacked me because there was something with him. we, uh, were staying the night at my mother's house. This girl comes in, uh, she starts complaining about we're leavin' all her trash all over the place. And, a fight broke out. They started trash talking to each other. And so, I just jumped in front of the door, closed it and like, barricaded myself in-between them, so they couldn't get to each other. Uh, somehow I lost my grip, the door got loose and they got into it when the door opened. Okay. So, did you ever have a relationship with this woman in the past? No, not at all. All right. So, Ms. Adcox, is there anybody else that you think that your boyfriend is sleeping with? Yes, there is another girl. She started working after us. And she's a very pretty, tall, younger girl. She's very flashy, always flirting with him. But he loves blondes. He's got a thing for them. They're all blonde. Everybody, I'm talking about. Like, we're working together but he doesn't notice me anymore. He's constantly behind her. Constantly helping her with everything. And then, when he's behind the... Okay. Let me ask... I wanna ask him about this. This new coworker, were you helping her? Were you ignoring your girlfriend? No, I was not ignoring her over this other coworker. She was new. It's my job to instruct the waitresses. How to do their jobs, how to assist the customers. [ADCOX] You know, when you work, and I know this, I've been waitressing forever. The work phone is for the workers. [ADCOX] And her number ends up being in his cellphone. [WEAVER] No, she was... [ADCOX] And she's calling him... [WEAVER] No, no. And I caught him one day and I'm like, "Who are you talking to?" And he hangs up the phone right away. That was so I couldn't talk to her or anything. And then he goes, "She called for you." I'm like, "Why is she calling for me on your cellphone?" I don't even talk to her. We're not friends. "No, she called for you. I'm serious." "Give me her number." He takes it out of the work book. Now, I call her, she says, "I wasn't calling for you." Okay. So, doesn't it make sense that if he's the manager of the restaurant... [ADCOX] Mm-hmm. [DANA] ...she's a new employee, he would be paying her more attention. Yes. But, another thing... We went to the beach and he's with swingers, girl and a guy. And he's got them on the phone and they're messaging each other... Swingers! How do you know they were interested in him? Because I was standing next to him when they were talking to him. And they asked him if he wanted to get together. When you say "get together," what do you mean? I don't know if there's that much... "Do you want to get together and go out sometime?" [DANA] How do you make the jump from, "Do you all wanna go out" to swingin'? That's a huge leap. I mean, we meet people and they're like, "Hey, we ought to go out." They may get his number. I don't think they wanna swing with my husband. [LAUGHS] [KEITH] Yeah. Yeah. I could just tell what kind of people they were. And I'm just so upset, I'm like, shakin' my head, like, more or less like, you'd know when I'm saying, "Don't take their number, let's go." But, later on I found out he did and they were messaging each other. Okay, and what were they messaging each other? The guy asked him, "When are we getting together?" To play golf? To go out for beers? To watch the game? I'm sure he knows. Why do you think there's something bad about that? [ADCOX] Why was I... [DANA] Cutler... Why did he lie to me? The light bulb just went off in my head. [ADCOX] Why is he lying? [KEITH] Okay, tell me. 'Cause I, you know... I wanna sit back for this. Tell me. She told him not to take the number and he did. So, that means she thinks that he's doing something that he shouldn't do. But... He's a grown man. He could take somebeody's number, a guy's number, if he wants to. [ADCOX] But why is he lyin'? We're in a relationship for over three years. Why would he lie? [ADCOX] That would be... [DANA] Wait, wait, wait. Hold on. [ADCOX] ...taking your number and then leaving. And then telling him later on, "I don't have his number." And then, you messaging me later on saying, "Are we going out?" Why is he lying? Why does he keep on lying? Why am I fighting these lies? Well, I think if he's trying to explain it and this is what he gets when he's trying to explain it, I can see why he just said, "I'm not sayin' anything." Mr. Weaver, what is this like for you? [DANA LAUGHS] I just know what it's like for me. [WEAVER] It's very mentally taxing. [DANA] All right. I work 12 hour shifts, minimum. I commute two hours to work, each way. So, I have no time to even... It takes you 45 minutes to get to work. My son just drove you to work the other day. That's another lie, right there. It takes you 45 minutes to get to like... [ADCOX] It can take you... [WEAVER] It takes an hour and a half in traffic. And I've been taking the train lately, 'cause our car's broken down. That's just now. We're not even talking about that. [KEITH] All right. Well, to get to the bottom of this, the court has ordered a full forensic investigation on Mr. Weaver's cellphone, and we have those results. Ron, would you please escort Mr. Gregory Evans into the courtroom? [RON] Yes, sir. [KEITH] There he is. [EVANS] Thank you, Keith. [DANA] How are you Mr. Evans? I'm fine. And yourself, Your Honor? [EVANS] Good to see you. [DANA] Good, good. All right. You performed a full forensic investigation on Mr. Weaver's cellphone. [KEITH] Is that correct? [EVANS] Yes, I did, Your Honor. [KEITH] All right. [DANA] Mr. Evans, did you find any interesting communications between Mr. Weaver and women? Yes, I did. [AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING] I found a fairly recent explicit picture that the defendant had deleted off his phone. And the picture is faceless, but it... Well, here. It speaks for itself. [EVANS CHUCKLES] [DANA] Oh! Uh, we are looking at a woman's breasts. And this photo of a topless woman was found in Mr. Weaver's phone? Yes, it was. [KEITH] And it had been deleted? [EVANS] Yes, it had. Mr. Weaver, were those breasts on your phone that you deleted? [AUDIENCE LAUGHING] I don't feel like I recognize 'em. [KEITH] Okay. Well, Ron, would you please hand him that photograph? That means I don't have any. So, like I said, wouldn't be mine. [ADCOX COUGHS] [WEAVER] Oh! [ADCOX] Oh, what? [AUDIENCE LAUGHING] [WEAVER] Oh! [KEITH] So, you recognize 'em now? [WEAVER] I do. And whose breasts are those? Those are the plaintiff's. [DANA] Okay. Well, plaintiff, you... Can you show that to her, please. [CHUCKLES] Oh, shoot! They're mine. [EVERYBODY LAUGHING] [DANA] All right. So, okay. He's saved on that one. [KEITH] Thank you, Ms. Adcox. Mr. Evans, did you find anything else on Mr. Weaver's phone that raised your suspicion? I did, Your Honor. I really did. As I said, I did a full forensics investigations of the defendant's phone. That includes anything he deleted such as pictures, videos and text messages. [DANA] Okay. That's how I came up with this real racy conversation between Mr. Weaver and a woman. All right. This is from Tim, it says, "You're sexy, I love you so much, sexy." [DANA] She responds, "I love it when you make love to me." [AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING] [DANA] "It's very sensual, sexy, hot and loving." [KEITH] And Mr. Weaver responds, "You're so sexy." [AUDIENCE LAUGHS] [KEITH] Okay. You recovered this in Mr. Weaver's phone? Yes, Your Honor. [KEITH] Mr. Weaver? [WEAVER] I know exactly what that is. That's actually a conversation between me and the plaintiff. We use several different cellphones, and sometimes if one phone is off and another one is on, we have to switch out and we may have a lot of diff... of these conversations. I don't even use that word, "sensual." I don't even know how to spell it. That's one of our conversations, word for word. That sounds exactly like us. So, Ms. Adcox, this is not you? You're not the woman who is shown in the text message? That's a no. [DANA] How are you feeling? [SNIFFLES] Mr. Evans, this communication, was it with a woman named Babies? Yes, it was. [GASPS] Is that what he calls you in your phone? Yeah. I never use the word "sensual." I can't even say it or spell it. I'm not an idiot or stupid... I just don't. And like, that's not my... You busted it out there. I mean... [DANA] All right. To further investigate this matter, the court has engaged the services of licensed private investigator and polygraph examiner, Kendall Shall, who was a special agent to the FBI. Ron, can you please escort Mr. Shull into the courtroom? Yes, Your Honor. [KEITH] Mr. Shull, how are you today? [SCULL] Great, Your Honor. [KEITH] Good to see you. [SHULL] Good to see you. You conducted a polygraph examination on Mr. Weaver, is that correct? I did, Your Honor. Mr. Weaver was asked, "Since March of 2014, have you had sexual intercourse with any woman other than Ms. Adcox?" What was his response? His response was "No." What did the lie detector determine? The lie detector determined he was being... [SHULL] truthful. [ADCOX SIGHS CONTENLY] [AUDIENCE APPLAUDS] All right. Ms. Adcox, if you want any chance of keeping this young man, you have got to lighten up. He says, when he comes home, you start barraging him with questions. "Where have you been? Why does it take you so long to get home?" A man can't live like that. A woman can't live like that. If you keep lookin' for somethin', lookin' for somethin, you're gonna find something. And you're gonna blow it out of proportion [KEITH] and this is gonna be a big mess. [ADCOX] Yeah. [DANA] This young man has told you, "I love you. I want to be with you. I want peace and harmony in my home." That's what he wants. Make that for him. Yeah. You are dating, you in a long-distance relationship. I noticed on the court papers, there's a 15-year age difference. Ms. Scott, you're a little older than Ms. White, is that correct? Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE KEITH: All right. And y'all have postponed an engagement twice... ERICA WHITE: Yes. ...because of cheating allegations. And this relationship is not going anywhere until those allegations are resolved. Yes, Your Honor. Ms. White, you've opened this case. Tell us why you here. 'Cause I think she's cheating on me with two different women. JUDGE KEITH: Oh. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) JUDGE KEITH: Two different women? Two different women. And I'm here today just to find out if it's true or not. All right. It makes me feel real... Like, I'm nothing. My self-esteem be down and I'm tired of it. AUDIENCE: Aw. All right, Ms. Scott, I'm looking at the pain in her face. I'm looking at the tears in her eyes. What are you here to prove? I'm here to prove I'm not cheating on her. JUDGE DANA: All right. Especially with two different women. One woman is my family member. She's saying you cheating with a family member? RENEE SCOTT: Yes, ma'am. Yes, Your Honor. It happens like that sometimes. JUDGE DANA: Okay. JUDGE KEITH: But you deny that. Yes, I deny that. JUDGE KEITH: Yeah. Ain't no truth in that. With a family member or anybody else, you're not cheating at all? I'm not cheating at all. They're too friendly. Slapping butts. Y'all too friendly. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) So, Ms. White, if you find out that, in fact, Ms. Scott is cheating with one or both women, is this relationship done? I guess, it is. It's over. Have you been cheated on in the past? So many times. So many times. JUDGE KEITH: So, this is where the pain is coming from. So you're like, "This is the person I thought was gonna "take me out of this." WHITE: Yes, out of that. And she's dragging you back to it. And lift me up, lift my spirit up. Lift me up, say that I'm special, that I mean something to somebody. AUDIENCE: Aw. You just don't understand. JUDGE DANA: It's okay. It's not. It really is. I'm nervous and it hurts. Thought this was over, wanted to marry. Twice. Twice I engaged to her. Twice. And here you are, right here with us sharing this pain. With a person you thought was gonna bring you up. I really care about her. I love her. I'm in love with her and everything. And you just don't feel it coming back to you? No. Not at all. Ms. Scott, how do you feel about the situation? What she's saying is untrue, okay? Like I said, this is my family member. This girl got... But you said this is not a blood relation. SCOTT: This is not a blood thing. She's just like my family, you understand what I'm saying? Not slapping butts, not taking pictures the way they're taking pictures. I've never in my life slapped that young lady on her butt. Not the way they taking pictures and do what they do. No! I'm watching you two. I'm feeling the passion. And the tension. And the tension. You love this lady. I wanna be with her. Yes. JUDGE KEITH: You wanna be her. How did you two meet? At a fish fry. At my family member's house. Tell me about that. Tell me how that happened. When she came in with one of my family members and I saw her, glasses, dressed, I was like, "Huh, I want that." "I want that." (AUDIENCE CHEERING) "I want that." "And I'm gonna get that." Did you get together after the... I fried her fish. And gave it to her. (AUDIENCE CHEERING) JUDGE KEITH: All righty then. I fried her fish and gave it to her. Well, do tell. Well, well, well. Well, do tell. All right, Ms. Scott, she says the fish was fried. SCOTT: That's right. What did you like about her when you saw her? It's her lips. I call her Sweet Lips. That's what I named her. I named her Sweet Lips. JUDGE DANA: She's beautiful. Right. She's a very beautiful individual, don't get me wrong. You know what I'm saying? But I just can't deal with all the drama. You understand what I'm saying? I want to be with her. Yes, I want to be with her. We've been together for one year, you understand? And one month. You understand? I want... I want us to be together. She live in New York. I live in Virginia. But I make sure I come down here, though. Yeah, we come to see each other, you know what I'm saying? Even when I'm at her house, she accused me of everything. 'Cause you keep talking on the phone... Listen to me. A phone is a phone, you understand what I'm saying? I don't act on that. But here's the thing, you believe that there are two women that Ms. Scott is involved with. WHITE: Yes. JUDGE DANA: Tell me about the first woman. Riana? I'm not sure. WHITE: Yes, it's Riana, the younger lady. The younger woman? WHITE: Mmm-hmm. Okay, so we're gonna call Woman 1 the younger woman. Okay. WHITE: Uh-huh. She's in the life, too. JUDGE DANA: All right. You know, the gay life. And I guess she wants some inspiration from her aunt. So-called aunt or whatever. And they're just too rocky for me. Like, you know, she always calling, "Take me to the store." "Give me money for cigarettes." And they're just too friendly for me. And this is the person that you claim is like a family member to you. SCOTT: Yes. But it's not a blood... But it's not a blood family. Not a blood family. But she is a family member. JUDGE DANA: Okay. And in your mind family members don't do this. WHITE: She's slapping butts, Valentine's Day she left me for her. Tell me about Valentine's Day. She didn't know I was gonna propose to her. JUDGE DANA: Okay. I told her, "Babe, it's Valentine's Day. Stay with me in New York City." She was like, "No, I've gotta babysit, watch her children." I'm like, "What's more important?" And you were tight about it? WHITE: Yes, very tight. 'Cause she did it twice. In December around Christmas. JUDGE DANA: Okay. Okay. This is our first Christmas together and you wanna go and babysit somebody. Let her find a babysitter on her own. JUDGE DANA: All right. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) Them not your children. I don't act on that. All right, so what do you have there? WHITE: I have two pictures, Your Honor. Okay, Ron, would you grab those for me, please? RON: Yes, Your Honor. Thank you, ma'am. What are these pictures that we're looking at? WHITE: This is too friendly to me. She looks sneaky anyway. JUDGE KEITH: But, how... SCOTT: There's nothing there. JUDGE KEITH: Who took these pictures? Where did you find them? WHITE: Her... her... The niece took the pictures. Why you poking your lips out and all that? SCOTT: Listen. Why does she look sneaky, like, mmm... (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) I've taken selfies with girlfriends and we're both... I'm looking over her shoulder, she's looking over mine. Y'all are voguing. We're voguing and whatever. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) And I don't see why this would set you off. I just don't trust. SCOTT: Oh, come on. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) All right, Ms. White. WHITE: Yes. You got something else to say? After the fact, how I got those pictures is because me and Riana was on FaceTime. I made a mistake and FaceTimed Riana and she said, "Oh, my girl went and got me a pack of cigarette like she always do." Then Malika came back and then says, "Why are you on Riana's phone? "Didn't I tell you don't call 'cause we about to do booty, "and I'm gonna send you the video." Yes, she did. JUDGE KEITH: So, Ms. Scott, is this true? That's not true. What happened was Ms. White sent a picture to Riana of her ex-girlfriend. I sure did. And the ex-girlfriend texted me on my phone telling me that her and Erica... That she asked Erica out. So I told the young girl, I said, "Do me a favor, "act like me and you are messing around." It wasn't even none of that. See? Tit for tat. It was none of that. That's before... So that's why she gave her this message that we're about to do something? Right, that's why she did that. 'Cause I told her to do that. So y'all just do stuff back and forth to get revenge at each other. You get back at her, you get back at her. WHITE: I'm tired. It's crazy. JUDGE DANA: This is not what love looks like. It doesn't. No. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) JUDGE DANA: It's not what it looks like. There were two women. Okay. Let's talk about Woman 2. Malika comes down to my New York apartment. She was in the shower. Phone was ringing off the hook... (MIMICS PHONE RINGING) "You have a message from such and such..." The woman. Such and such, going on. So she was in the shower. I went in the shower, gave her the phone, I said, "Malika, who is this lady, keep calling you?" "Oh!" She's screaming, "Oh, the lady, she's just my friend. "Just an old friend that I met years ago!" Just the way she reacted... WHITE: I knew something was wrong. I knew mostly all her friends and family, but this didn't sit right with me. JUDGE KEITH: You confronted her about it. I confronted her... She gave you an explanation and you didn't buy it? WHITE: I didn't buy it. Okay, Ms. Scott. Who is this woman? Hmm? SCOTT: An old friend of mine. One day I was coming down the stairs and she ran into me, she gave me a hug and a kiss on my face. You kissed her... You put her tongue in your mouth. JUDGE KEITH: Hold on, Ms. White. She gave me a kiss on my face, you understand what I'm saying? Her tongue in her mouth. Rather... Yeah. I told Erica... I said, yeah, because me and you was going through some problems. So you kiss another woman? So I said to her, "Yeah, I was texting the girl." I wanna know, did you put your tongue in her mouth? I've got proof, Your Honor. She put her tongue in that lady's mouth. JUDGE DANA: Ron, could you please get that? They was texting, "I wanna see you. "I wanna see you and give you a kiss." The lady sent it on my phone. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) She ran into me, she gave me a hug and a kiss on my face. You get this text... WHITE: From her! From her. WHITE: From the other woman. (JUDGE DANA READING) Then another one. "GM, good morning." (CONTINUES READING) And then... (READING) All right, so this is Wednesday, April 18th, Thursday, April 19th, Friday. And that's when we was going through something. April 17th was our anniversary. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) WHITE: It was our first year anniversary, Your Honor. On the day after your anniversary... Can you believe that? She talking and texting another woman. All right. Then we have another set of texts. And this involves the other woman. JUDGE KEITH: "Hello, sexy, been a little under the weather." And then you respond... JUDGE DANA: "Hope you feel better. I'm coming to N.Y. Tuesday." JUDGE KEITH: "Okay, so I am happy to read that, "looking forward to kissing you again." (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) JUDGE DANA: And you say... "Okay, me too." That's not a kiss. So you did kiss this woman. I told you I kissed her on the face. Yes, I did. No. The woman said you put your tongue in her mouth! JUDGE KEITH: Hold on, Ms. White. JUDGE DANA: Hold on. I've been kissed on the cheek many a time. WHITE: Mmm-hmm. It ain't something I'd look forward to. Exactly. Thank you! Thank you, Your Honor. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) JUDGE DANA: It ain't something I'd look forward to. To get some perspective on this we wanted to hear from a person who has been in a same sex relationship, a long distance relationship. We're gonna hear from Season 7 of<i> Bad Girl's Club,</i> Ms. Judy Jackson. (AUDIENCE CHEERING) Ron, would you please escort her in? RON: Yes, Your Honor. RON: Judy Jackson. Hi, Ron. RON: Hi. Which way? Up there? Yes, right up there. Hello. Hi. How are you? You're currently in a same sex, long distance relationship, is that right? Absolutely. So have you been accused of cheating? I have cheated. But I didn't take it as cheating because, you know, I'm hosting parties, I kiss people, I get paid for it. So I don't think it's cheating. It's just me doing my job. What kind of kiss? Because I've been at parties where we go, muah, muah. Or, you know, cheek to cheek, but... No, I put my tongue all up in it. (ALL EXCLAIMING) JUDGE DANA: There it is. WHITE: See? You don't consider that cheating? You know, technically it is cheating. JUDGE KEITH: What kind of advice would you give to our litigants? I understand where you're coming from. You gotta not be friends with people that you had a past with. There's no need for them anymore. You got a new girl, you know? Are you of the belief that if you are in contact with that past, texting with that past, texting with folks, like "I miss you"... It leaves the door open. There it is. It leaves the door open. You gotta close it shut, so no little thoughts can come back through. WHITE: That's right. JUDGE KEITH: All right, thank you very much, Ms. Jackson. Thank you. Good luck to you guys. Thank you. All right, I think we got enough evidence, Mr. Cutler. JUDGE KEITH: All right, what do we have? JUDGE DANA: She believes that Ms. Scott ran off with a younger woman, to be with a younger woman on Valentine's Day. She's got text evidence indicating that not only does Ms. Scott wanna see another woman while she's in New York visiting her, but she's also kissed this woman, and they're looking forward to kissing again. And based on all of this and the fact that she's had a past of broken hearts... And I love her. And that she loves her and she is sayin', "I love her. I want to be with her." She wants to marry her. But she cannot do that... Can't get my feelings hurt and my self-esteem down, I can't live like that. JUDGE DANA: She says she's not going to do it. Yeah. JUDGE DANA: All right, love, that's all we got. Now, Ms. Scott, do you realize what's at stake here? Do you love me? Answer that question! Yeah, I love you. You know I love you. No, you don't! See, this is what I go through. This is what I go through. You don't show it! You don't show no love! This is what I go through. Even four other young ladies became involved. You always question about my love. You can't keep doing it. WHITE: Action speaks louder than words. You keep trying to run me out the door, you understand what I'm saying? And I'm getting tired of that, too. JUDGE KEITH: Okay. JUDGE DANA: All right. I'm getting tired of that, too. JUDGE KEITH: There is a lot at stake here. And because of that this court has done a full and complete investigation. At this time the court will hear from certified polygraph examiner, Patrick Coffey to determine "Is she cheating?" (AUDIENCE CHEERING) You know, Ms. Scott, you've been smiling quite a bit. And smiling at really inappropriate times. Mmm-hmm. In my history here on this bench, is when I see that a lot of times, it's the exact opposite. Because you got something you hiding. I have nothing to hide. JUDGE DANA: All right, so I'm gonna give you this chance... All right. ...to speak your truth before Mr. Coffey does. Do you have something you need to tell Ms. White? No, I don't. I have nothing to tell her. None of this stuff... All of this stuff is untrue. JUDGE DANA: All right. There it is. JUDGE KEITH: Mr. Coffey, you conducted a polygraph examination of Ms. Scott, is that correct? Yes, sir, it is. Ms. Scott was asked... (JUDGE DANA READING) What was her response? Her response was no. What did the polygraph reveal? Polygraph disclosed... Her response was no. What did the polygraph reveal? Polygraph disclosed she was being truthful. (AUDIENCE CHEERING) It's been a minute since some litigants wore me out like you two have. And the reason you have worn me out is y'all don't listen to us, y'all don't listen to each other, y'all do a tit-for-tat. All of it. No! It is a hard no. What you need to do, you got two ears and one mouth, there's a reason. And the only thing you can close is your lips. Close 'em and use your ears. You Ms. Thing, you need to... Slow down. Slow down. Slow down. Give this woman a chance to love you likes she wants to. SCOTT: Thank you. Okay. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) JUDGE KEITH: She can't get in. She can't get anywhere. I mean, it's like a buzz saw. I mean, you're afraid to jump in. Let her love you. If you want her to love you let her love you. Because you're gonna scare her away. WHITE: Okay. You know? (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) You gotta let go of the past, whatever happened in the past, you being cheated on, you gotta let that go. You can't blame her for everything that's happened to you in the past. You're right. Now, Ms. Cutler said you gotta close your mouth, you know, to make sure you can have a happy relationship. You gotta keep something else closed, too. To all other people except you two. You know what I'm saying, right? (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) JUDGE DANA: Did Mr. Cutler just say that? Yeah, he did. You all have known each other for 20 years. You've been together for five years. But this relationship is on hold right now because you believe Mr. Walls is cheating, -is that correct, Ms. Masten? -Yes, Your Honor. Okay. Mr. Walls, you know, how do you feel knowing that your relationship all depends on what happens here today to determine whether you're cheating or not? I'm okay. I'm not cheating. I'm here to prove that I'm not. So, I think everything's gonna be fine after the results are back and, you know, and she finds out that I'm not. -I haven't told anyone. -[Judge Dana] Oh. I haven't seen any other women. So, you know, that's my story, you know, stickin' with it. So, Ms. Masten, tell us what's at stake -here today. -[Masten] Well, Your Honor, um, I've been withholding sex from Mr. Walls for a few months now. Um, I kinda came up-- come up with excuses when he tries and stuff, like, I don't feel good -or things like that. -And are you doing this because you believe he's cheating? -I do. I-- For me, -[Judge Dana] So-- just imagining Dave with some other woman, is a real big turn-off for me. So, I've been having problems with that. And, so, you've been saying what? When he approaches you, how do you deflect? Um... I don't feel good. I have a headache. Um... "It's that time of the month." Anything. You're just pulling them all out? -[Masten] All of them. All the tricks. -All the classics? -"I got a headache." -Yes, ma'am. -[Judge Dana] All right. -Mr. Walls, I mean, how has it felt, you know, her withholding sex? Did you know she was withholding sex? Uh, yeah, I just thought she was sick. [chuckles softly] You know? And... I don't know. -So, you thought she was sick? -[Walls] It was bad, -you know, I was trying. -[Judge Keith] Whatever excuse-- -[Judge Keith] Whatever ex-- -You know, it's wasn't working. Whatever excuse she gave you, you believed it at the time. No. No, I knew something was wrong. I just couldn't get it out of her, she'd never tell me. Okay. How long has it been that you all have not been intimate? -Uh, it's a few months. -[audience exclaims] [Judge Dana] More than three months? -Yes. -[Judge Dana] More than three months? -That's a lie. That's a lie. -Yes. Okay. You're saying it's been about three months? [Masten] Maybe. Uh, three months is probably even exaggerating a little. So-- Are y'all in the same bedroom, are y'all sleeping in the same bed? We are. We do. We sleep in the same bed. I just kind of keep my distance. -And, come to find out-- -That's a big bed. -[audience laughs] -[Masten chuckling] Well, I mean, we was-- we went from having sex a couple of times a week when we first got together, um... to not having any for maybe, maybe three months. [sighs] I mean, how does it feel to be rejected? Do you love her? -I mean, what are you feeling? -[Walls] Yes, I love April. It feels bad. It makes me feel really bad to be rejected, you know. -[Judge Dana] And to be... -And I keep asking her... -...constantly just pushed back. -"What's going on? What's going on? You're not feeling me anymore? What's going on?" and she's, "No, it's okay." I even asked her, "Are you still attracted to me?" And she's just saying, "It's okay." "Oh, yes, I am. I just don't feel good." Good. So now that you've found out that the reason she was withholding wasn't because she just wasn't attracted to you or she wasn't feeling well, she was withholding sex from you because she thought you were cheating. -[Walls] Right. -How does that make you feel? Uh, I don't know. I wasn't cheating. I mean, she's constantly accusing me of it but I wasn't. I never have. I can't convince her of any difference. So, I mean, hopefully, this test they did proves, you know, otherwise. It should. This has gotta be pretty horrible for your household. What is it that-- Is your household cold now because you all are not together that way? It's put a strain on us. -It really has, um-- -I love April. I always have. -And I always will. -[audience awes] You know, I hope we can work things out and continue our relationship, you know? How do you end up in my courtroom? How does this happen? What made you believe that he's cheating? Dave ended up in a hospital and had to have surgery. He ended up, laid up in the hospital for like two months. And I wouldn't come and visit Dave until after the visiting hours. Because I had to take care of things at home. -So, after visiting hours-- -[Judge Keith] Wait. He's in the hospital for two months? -[Masten] Yeah. -What happened? He had to have a surgery on his back, on his spine. His spine almost collapsed. -[Judge Dana] Oh! -Wow. Okay. Wow. Okay. So, I'd go up after hours and visit with him. And there was one particular day that stands out that a nurse just got in there. And the nurse comes walking by the door and kind of backs up and looks over at me and said, "I thought you just left." And then, kind of, looks at Dave like maybe she had said something wrong. Stuck her foot in her mouth... -[audience exclaims] -...you know. -Oh! -[Masten] So, that kind of was like, "What was that about?" You know. [Judge Dana] So, okay, wait. You come in. And the nurse says to you, "I thought you just left." And you're looking at her 'cause you just got there. I just got there. So, somebody just left. So, something on your face-- And so, did she look at you crazy -or did she look at him crazy? -[Masten] So, she kinda said "I thought you just left." And then she looks immediately at Dave, and I don't know if I may be missed a look from Dave to her or her to him or whatever. And then she says, "Wrong room" and walks on. So, I'm like, "There's something not right." [audience exclaims] Mr. Walls who was it that just left your room right before Ms. Masten got there? It was a family member. And I told her that, she knows that. She knew they were coming to see me. It's the only people that came to see me was her... -It was days before that. -...and family members. That was it. -I think he's lying. -[Judge Keith] Did he tell you -who the family member was? -Yes. Do you resemble -the family member? -No. [Judge Keith] Is that a mistake that a reasonable nurse could have made? No. No, I don't-- Nothing like her. -No. -And this family member you don't believe that's who came to visit Mr. Walls? No, I believe she came but I don't believe it was then. I believe it was a couple of days before then. Ah, so you said-- Okay, if it was a family member, it wasn't the night in question? -Exactly. -[audience exclaims] So, what have you experienced lately that makes you believe that you've gone from this suspicion, this thing that caught your eye, to something that's actually happening? Okay. So, he's just now able to start getting back to work -in the last few months and... -[Judge Dana] Okay. ...with my experience with him working before and now -is a little different. -Okay. He doesn't answer his cell phone while he's at work. He doesn't answer phone calls that I call. Doesn't answer text messages. And then here lately, he's coming home later and later and later. You know, everybody has a cell phone on while they're at work. Everybody. Well, let's find out from him. Mr. Walls, why are you not answering your phone? -Why are you comin' home... -I leave my phone in the truck. -...later and later? -I never take it with me. I'm up and down ladders. I'm on roofs, I don't take-- I've dropped a couple of phones and broke 'em and it costs me a bunch of money replacing them. So I don't take the phone out of the truck with me. I leave it there, she knows that. -Okay. -I don't answer the phone all day. And I won't. And I'm not going to. [Judge Dana] Okay. But let me ask you this, is this different from that in the past? Did he take his phone, did he answer, did he answer calls and text? When we first got together, he did. Okay. At some point, he stopped. Was it after the surgery or before? Um, well, he had been out of work for a while so, I'm gonna guess I noticed it after the surgery -when he just went back to work. -[Judge Dana] After the surgery? And that's one of those things people talk about, either the person stops responding... -[Masten] Yeah. -...or "They're responding but it's never to me." It's, "They're on the phone but it's not with me." -Right. Right. Right. -[Judge Dana] Okay. But, Mr. Walls, did we have his drastic change from before and after with your answering the cell phone? I don't think so. I think she's exaggerating. I really do. I don't think there was no change at all. I've always left my phone in the truck. And since I broke a few of 'em and had to replace 'em, I just left it there. She knows that. I would call her back when I got to the truck. Now, that explains the phone, what about you coming home late? She says you're coming home late-- Well, sometimes I got people's windows and doors out of their house, I got get them back in there before I leave, you know, I just can't leave their house open all night. So, a lot of times that's what I'm doing. I'm finishing up a job, I have to. You said a lot of times, what about the other times, because I think that's what -Ms. Masten is concerned about. -There wasn't other times. -[Judge Dana] Well, and I-- -What other times was it? Where are you and who you with? [Masten] That's usually what he tells me. He can't leave people's houses open or the roof open. That's always his excuse. I don't drink or anything like that. I don't go to bars, you know. When I leave the job, I go straight home. -So you're saying-- -[Walls] Or sometimes I may go to a construction, you know, a place to pick up supplies for the next day or something like that, you know, and then home. But I'm not going anywhere else, I'm not seeing anybody else. But the bottom line, Mr. Walls, is nothing's happening, you're just a working man. -[Walls] Right. -And you're coming home or either taking care of business. -Right. -[music playing] You know what, love, I-- what I'm sensing is just a lack of communication between-- Do you all talk to each other? -[Judge Dana] What kind of-- -I question him when he finally does show up and come home, I question him and he says -I'm on his nerve. I-- -[Judge Keith laughing] -You heard her answer, right? -I didn't-- -Yeah, I did. -You asked, "Do you all talk?" -She said, "I question-- -No, I said communicate-- -No, "Do you all communicate?" -Right? "Do you all talk?" She says, "I question him -when he comes home." -There's a difference between communication and interrogation. Yeah. [Judge Dana] And so, if you're interrogating him, yeah, you're getting answers but you're not having the connection that's required for communication. -[Masten] Okay. -And when you're communicating, you're like, "Love, I don't know what's going on. Talk to me about your work schedule." As opposed to, "Where you been? What you doing? Why are you late?" That's a different flavor, right? -[Masten] Right, correct. -[Judge Dana] Okay. [Judge Keith] Because he's going to shut down mode -at that point. -[Judge Dana] Yeah. Immediately. [Judge Keith] That's exactly what he does. -Right. -So, have you found anything that makes you think he's cheating? Okay, Your Honor, so, we share a car together and he takes it sometimes by himself. And, um, I found a hair tie in it. This hair tie. A big, bulky hair tie -and that's not the kind... -[Judge Dana] Okay. ...that I use, I've never used. I use this kind. [Judge Dana] Okay. And you're trying to figure out whose tie is that? Where did it come from? It's not mine. Has nothing to do with me, I've never use that kind, -I just don't. -[Judge Keith] Mr. Walls, -whose hair tie is that? -I have no clue. The car was never cleaned out when we bought it. I never the cleaned the car out. So, I don't know where it come from. It was either under the seat, came out from under the seat, I don't know? And you don't need a hair tie, -looking at you. -[Walls] No, obviously. [Judge Dana] Yeah, yeah, that doesn't need a hair tie. So, when you asked him about it, -what did he say? -[Masten] Just that. It had to have already been in the car. It's not nothing that he did and... And you're just like, -but that's just another layer. -It's all of a sudden there. -[Judge Dana] Yeah. -Boom! So, have you discovered anything else that makes you believe -that there's something amiss? -[Masten] I have. -I have. -Okay. I have also found a little cheap fake nail -that was in the car. -[Judge Dana] Oh. And as you can see, I have real nails. -I don't use these cheap things. -[audience exclaims] And so what did you say to Mr. Walls, like, -"Whose nail is this?" -[Masten] Again-- again, I take the nail to him, "Where did this come from?" And again, "I have no idea, I've never seen it before." Okay, Mr. Walls. I can give you the hair tie, but come on now, you got fake nails in the car? -I mean-- -Popping up. Same thing, the car wasn't cleaned out. It had to been in there, it's not from any other woman, you know. But why all of a sudden? I mean, you all had the car for a while before these things -started appearing. -We didn't have it that long. We didn't have that car that long. -[Judge Dana] But why the-- -I never cleaned it out, -I know she did. -[scoffs] -So, yeah. -Yeah, no. No, I get it. I get it. I get it. I get it. Mr. Cutler, I think we got enough right here. -I think we got enough-- -Hold on a second. Let me think about this. To think he's cheating on you now, how does that make you feel? It hurts. It doesn't feel good at all. Um, because he used to tell me all the time that he loves me. And we used to be real intimate and we talked, communicated. I know a lot of it's me because I feel that he's cheating, I'm blocking a lot of it. But it doesn't feel good at all. I would love to find out that I'm completely wrong and get it back together. You need to have this block moved out -of the way... -[Masten] Yes. ...so that you all can move forward. Yes, ma'am. And I guess, Mr. Wall, you got to feel the same way. If you say you're not cheating... Yeah, right, I do. Yeah, every day, you know, like, "What's going on? Are you not attracted to me?" 'Cause she's not, you know, like it was in the beginning at all. Yeah, I would like to get everything out in the open and move on and try to, you know... I love April. I want to stay with April. I'm 51 years old, there ain't another woman. And you're trying to figure out, "How many different ways can I tell you I'm not cheating?" -[Walls] Right. -It's got to be frustrating -to you at some point, right? -Yes, exactly, yeah. All right. Well, Mr. Cutler, I think we got a good idea what it's like in their household. I mean, it's clear they're not communicating, she's not communicating 'cause he's coming late, she thinks he's doing something other than working. He's disappearing and won't answer his phone. She's found these women's articles in the car, the scrunchie, and the fake nail. And so she's like, with all of these things happening, and they've just recently started, for those reasons, she thinks he's cheating. And she's like, "I can't continue this way." And he's equally frustrating wanting to prove -his innocence. -Exactly. Well, this court has done a full and a complete investigation. At this time, the court will call forensic voice analyst, Guy Wolfe, to determine, is he cheating? Ron, please escort Mr. Wolfe out. [audience cheers, applauds] -[Ron] Guy Wolfe. Sir, come on. -[Wolfe] Thank you, sir. Good day, Mr. Wolfe, how are you? I'm well, Your Honor. How about you? Doing well, thank you very much. -You're welcome. -Would you explain, please, what forensic voice analysis is? Yes, sir. When you speak, you have AM and FM frequencies in your voice, like on a radio, and when you tell a lie, the FM frequency goes away. Forensic voice analysis works by measuring those frequencies. I can then look at a chart, and I can determine when somebody's being deceptive. And you conduct this examination by asking a person -a series of questions, correct? -Yes, sir. [Judge Keith] And you asked Mr. Walls a series -of questions, correct? -[Wolfe] Yes, sir. All right. Let's take a look at the first question you asked him. Did the hair tie, that was found in Ms. Masten's car, belong to a woman with whom you've had physical, sexual contact? No. What did the forensic voice analysis determine? The forensic voice analysis determine that he was being truthful, Your Honor. Told you. Let's take a look at the next question. Did the fake fingernail, that was found in Ms. Masten's car, belong to a woman with whom you've had physical, sexual contact? <i> No.</i> What did the voice forensic analysis determine? The forensic voice analysis determined that he was being truthful, Your Honor. Yeah. -Is that somewhat of a smile? -It is, it is. [Judge Keith] That's a good sign. There was one more question, correct? -Yes, sir. -[Judge Keith] All right. Let's take a look at that question. <i> Since getting back together with Ms. Masten, five years ago,</i> have you had physical, sexual contact -with another woman? -No. What did the forensic voice analysis determine? The forensic voice analysis determined that he was being truthful, Your Honor. [audience cheers] Okay. You look like you're about to cry. [Masten] I am. -It's okay. -[voice breaks] I'm sorry. [audience awes] How do you all feel knowing that this... -I'm glad it's out in the open... -...impediment is gone! ...and now she knows that I wasn't doing nothing. -[Judge Dana] Yeah. -Yeah. I'm glad we were here to help you with that. And Ms. Masten, how are you feeling right now? Um, maybe this big because I accused him but I'm glad to know the truth. I really am. Um, I miss him. I miss the way we used to be, a lot. So, I hope we can get back there. So, you won't have any more headaches anytime soon, will you? -No, ma'am. [chuckles] -[Judge Dana] All right. -No more excuses. -No more excuses.
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