- Quite large! I- I- I- I had to throw most of it away! - You- you- you- you threw my- - Ross is hanging on by
a thread, buddy. (laughs) - [Ross] My sandwich? ("I'll
Be There For You" plays) - Okay, after the last one where I reacted to Sex in the City scenes, so many of you asked me to do more, so here I am reacting to Friends, which apparently, is a community fave. So many of you are huge fans. It was really, really fun. We'll be watching them deal
with alcoholism, loss, breakups, getting back together, OCD,
anxiety, and so, so much more so let's just get to watching. And the first episode of
the very first season, the pilot, is what I
wanna jump into first. Let's get watching. - Daddy, I just... I can't marry him! I'm sorry. I just don't love him. (scoffs) Well, it matters to me! - It should matter to
everybody! (chuckles) - Come on, Daddy, listen to me! It's like all of my life,
everyone has always told me, you're a shoe! You're a shoe, you're
a shoe, you're a shoe! And then today I just stopped, and I said, what if I
don't wanna be a shoe? What if I wanna be a...a purse? You know, or-
- Thinking for herself. - Or a hat! No, I don't want you buy me a hat, I'm saying that I am a hat-
It's a metaphor, Daddy! (Rachel sighs) - You can see where he'd have trouble. - The reason I wanted to include this clip and why I thought it was
so important is it shows us how we can't keep letting
other people define who we are. In the end, that only leaves unhappiness, and apparently running
away from a wedding, in our wedding dress, on our wedding day. Probably should tell them
beforehand if, you know, we're not sure, probably
shouldn't get married, but at the very least, she
did what was best for her. And, you know, I had a family
friend of mine actually, like a distant family friend,
who at the ripe age of 42, just up and left her family because she said that
she never really wanted to get married or have kids, and she did get married
and have kids at like 18, like very young. But, that's what happens when
we let other people define us and tell us what we should be doing, and when we should be doing it, instead of just figuring it out ourselves. And I think this really foreshadows, like all of Friends
where they're just trying to figure it out. And I think that's why it's so relatable, 'cause everybody's at different
stages trying to, you know, get their career on line and figuring out what that means for them. And then trying to
figure out relationships and what's healthy for them. Anyway, long story short, I just really like this because, even though she's not
sure that she can get away without having her dad's
money help support her, or Barry, who she's gonna get married to, she knows that she can't do that anymore, that she can't let other people
decide and call her a shoe. And maybe she wants to
be a purse or a hat. So many of you requested
that I add these clips in, and as a licensed mental
health professional, I felt that I really, really
had to add in Roger the shrink. If you don't know who this is, it's a person that Phoebe dates. It's horrible. It's hilarious. Let's watch this first clip. - Rock, hard place, me. - Chandler, always with the jokes, right? (Roger laughs) - You're- (laughs) you're so funny. He's really funny. - He is funny. - I wouldn't wanna be there
when- when the laughter stops. - Like who says something like? - Whoa, back up there, sparky. - Right? - What did you mean by that? - Hmm, well, it just seems as though that maybe you have
intimacy issues, you know? That you use your humor
as a way of keeping people at a distance. - Huh. - I mean, hey, I just met you.
I don't know you from Adam. - Yet you're saying things
about him that, you know? - Parents divorced before you hit puberty. - It's too much, man, too
much, pump the breaks. - Uh-huh, how did you know that? - It's textbook. - That is just... That's the reason people
always ask me all the time, as a therapist, Kati, do you, you know, psychoanalyze your friends,
or Sean, or your family, and the answer is always no. I mean, first of all, it's
exhausting to be on like that and to be thinking of things
in like a bigger picture way, looking for patterns, that's a lot of what therapists
do is look for patterns, and to try to make sense of what can seem nonsensical, right? It's exhausting, takes a lot
of focus, so I don't do that. Also, uh, healthy boundaries. But this just shows you people's response to that kind of interpretation
and like forcefulness, essentially, with an analysis that he really doesn't
know Chandler that well. Sure, there are certain
things you can tell from people really quickly. But, first of all, people
aren't ready to hear them. And second of all, you shouldn't be telling people
who aren't your patients. This guy has no boundaries. Okay, that's just to get started, but there are more clips with this guy because he is that good. So let's get into another one. - Hello? - [Phoebe] It's Phoebe. - [Roger] And Rog! - Come on up! - Oh, good, Rog is here. (Kati laughs)
- What's the matter with Rog? - Eh, it's nothing, it's a little thing. I hate that guy. - See, strong reaction. - So he was a little analytical, that's what he does, you know? Come on, he's not that bad. You see, that's where you're wrong. Why would I marry her if I
thought on any level that, that she was a lesbian? - I don't know. Maybe you wanted your marriage to fail. - Chandler's saying, I told
you so, I hate that guy. - Why? Why would I- why, why, why, why? (Kati laughs)
Why? - I don't know, maybe... maybe low self-esteem? Maybe...maybe to compensate,
for overshadowing a sibling? Maybe you-
- Wait, wait, wait. Go back to that sibling thing. (Kati laughs) - Well, I don't know. It's conceivable that- - If you don't know, shut up. Also if you do know, shut up. - ...sibling would feel
like less of a failure in the eyes of the parents. (Ross scoffs) - Now siblings can do this where they will hold themselves back as to not overshadow a sibling or continue to overshadow
a sibling, right. There can be some guilt, especially if we thought one
sibling had it worse than us or whatever. There can be- obviously then there's, we've all heard of like
sibling rivalry, right? So that is a very normal, I don't wanna call it
psychological phenomenon, but just like a normal
way that we react to life. Again, you can't just go saying this to people who aren't your patients
and who didn't ask you. So frustrating. And I understand why Ross is frustrated and doesn't wanna talk about it anymore. Here's the last clip I wanna show. - That's tough, tough stuff. - He just like opened Rachel up. I cut that part off 'cause
it's not really, you know, that pertinent, but you
can't just do that to people and just leave them hanging. That's why it should be done in session. - Thanks for everything, Mon. - No problem. - Listen guys,
- Yeah, right, not so great. - Mon, uh, easy on those cookies, okay? Remember, they're just food. They're not love. - (chuckles) As an eating
disorder therapist, I find it so frustrating. I would never say anything
like that to anybody. Even though, I will be honest, when I'm out in public
places, I can see someone, like doing weird eating disorder behavior or notice when someone, you know, is engaging in binging,
or over exercising, or something like that, right? I might think that's happening. But again, I have healthy boundaries
between work life and personal life. And I would never say that! That's also, I think all of
us can nod along and be like, it's also not helpful. Shut up, Rog. Okay, enough about Roger. We're done with Roger. Let's move on to one of
my favorite characters. Fun Bobby.
- Does this have non-fat milk? - Ummm, I- I don't know. Why don't you taste it? - Rachel's the worst waitress. (laughs) - Mm, no. - Oh, well, too late,
sorry, you already had some. - What do you say we
make these coffees Irish? - So what time in the
morning do you think it is? - Um, cake! - Yeah, we're gonna,
we're gonna get some cake. - You know what, it seems like
you've been making an awful lot of stuff Irish lately. - Well, I would make them Belgian, but the waffles are hard
to get into that flask. - Bobby. - Deflect with humor, very Chandler. - Maybe this is none of my
business, or maybe it is, I don't know, but I'm kind of worried about you. - (scoffs) Okay, look. This isn't the first time
somebody said something to me about this, but I don't know. I always made excuses about it. Like I'm just a social drinker, or hey, come on, it's flag day. - I wanted to share that
little bit of that clip because I really, I, first of all, I love the way that Monica
brings this us up with him. And I couldn't find the full clip online, but this ends with him
just saying that, okay, but now I'll try to stop, right? Which is a great response
to a very nice way of bringing up her concerns. Again, there's no judgment, or as little judgment as there
can be when you're trying to mention that someone's
drinking is bothering you, right? And that you're kind
of worried about them. I love that she leads with concern. I think that's a better way
to approach any situation like this because that's
really what it is. You're really worried about them. And that's how you should
broach the subject of, you know, maybe alcoholism, drug
addiction, things like that. Because we know can get very defensive. So I appreciate the way she approached it. However, when he, and that's
why I said it kind of cut off, but this goes on for him to be like, okay, but I'll give it a try. Yes, that could happen. But in my experience, I don't know, I'd love to hear from you
guys, in my experience, that's not always how it goes. Usually people who are in
the midst of their addiction can get defensive, can push people away, can say they're gonna stop and not. And this just like switch
it on, switch it off thing, it's just not very
realistic, but you know, it's a sitcom. Okay. Now, when you guys asked me
to do the react to Friends, you knew these clips were coming. You knew it. By and large, when I asked on Instagram for the clips you liked, this one was requested so many more times than any other clip, and you've
probably guessed it by now. The sandwich. - Ross. May I have a word with you? - Oh, of course, Donald. - We've been getting reports
of some very angry behavior on your part. - What? - Threatening letters,
refusal to meet deadlines. Apparently, people now call you mental. - Remember Phoebe wrote that letter to keep people out of his lunch again? 'Cause someone ate his moist maker. - We want you to speak to a psychiatrist. - His sandwich.
- Oh no. (chuckles) You don't understand. Ugh, this is so silly. This is all just because of a sandwich. - (chuckles) A sandwich? - Yeah, yeah. You see my, my sister makes
these amazing Turkey sandwiches. Her secret is she puts a, an extra slice of gravy
soaked bread in the middle. I call it the moist maker. - I wonder if people changed
the way they make sandwiches, leftover sandwiches, because of this. - Oh, you know what? - [Ross] What? - I- I'm sorry. I- I- I believe I ate that. - You ate my sandwich? - It was a simple mistake. It could happen to anyone. - Oh, really?
- No. - Did you confuse it with
your own Turkey sandwich with a moist maker?
- Right? - No. - Do you perhaps remember
seeing a note on top of it? - There may have been a joke... - Uh oh.
- Or limerick of some kind. - That said it was my sandwich! - Now, now calm down. Come look in my office. Some of it may still be in the trash. - Why would you say that, dude? - What? - Well, it was quite large! I- I- I- I had to throw most of it away! - You, you, you, you threw my- - Ross is hanging on by
a thread, buddy. (laughs) - [Ross] My sandwich? My sandwich? - Now of course, this is funny. And because it's all about this sandwich, and also, clearly Ross is overreacting. Although I will throw in my
own thoughts about the fact that I don't understand
why anyone would want to eat anybody else's lunch. Like, I don't know how
you made that sandwich or who made it. I could see maybe you
ate someone's yogurt, something that's like
sealed that you purchased. Like, something like that, I get, but like, to open someone's
bagged lunch they brought from home and eat something they made just seems weird to me. Anybody else? Maybe it's just me. But, also, if you don't know, if you haven't watched Friends, or you don't remember what was
happening during this time, Ross is going through a shitty time. He's getting divorced from Emily, I think. And then he is having to move out of the apartment that he was in. So he has to move, he's
going through a divorce, because the apartment was rented to him from like a member of her
family or something like that. I think they bought it. So, so much upheaval in his life. And clearly, he's anger out
because anger's protective, right, and he's feeling probably
really hurt or really sad, and you know, maybe really lonely. So it's clearly an overreaction. It's not really about the sandwich, but that's what makes it funny. Okay, we're not quite done, yet. Here we go. - Ross. - Hey, Chandler!
(Kati laughs) Monica. - Ross, are you okay? - I'm fine. I saw a psychiatrist at work today. - Why? - On account of my rage. - Which if I may say right
now is out of control. - He gave me a pill for it. - A pill? - Uh-huh, well, when
the psychiatrist told me that I had to take a leave of absence because I yelled at my boss, I started to get worked up again. So he offered me a tranquilizer, (sighs) and I thought it was a good idea. So I took it. - Wait a minute. They're making you take time off work? - And you're okay with that? - I don't know. It's gonna be weird, not having
a job for a while, but I, I definitely don't care
about my sandwich. (giggles) - It was never about the sandwich. I both love and hate this. First of all, I don't know how a job can
force you to see a psychiatrist at work and then prescribe medication. I don't- That seems a little overstepping for me. I don't know. Maybe it's okay in some workplaces. I just can't imagine that being
something that they would do where they have a psychiatrist on staff. That just seems very bizarre to me, but whatever. We'll just go with like
suspension of disbelief, right? Go with it. That they gave him a tranquilizer at work, I'd be worried about
him getting home okay. Like, did he have somebody with him? And also, I don't like the
fact that this like re- not re-stigmatizes, but increases the stigma or
continues the stigma of like, oh, if you take medicine, you know, it's just gonna make you a zombie, and you don't know who you are. Or, so there's that. I don't like that. And then I also don't like the fact that this is seen as
treatment for his rage or for his upset versus understanding, like where the problem's
really coming from. And let's talk about that, so that his anger's not
coming out everywhere because he needs another outlet. Another way to cope. That's a healthy one that
isn't rage or tranquilizers with cotton candy. Okay, that is all we have for the sandwich because it's just so good. But, now we're gonna dig
into some anxiety-based, OCD type of things. And you guessed it. Monica's involved. Here we go. Oh my god, Chandler. - Wow, couples who live
together do start to look alike. (Kati chuckles) So, Mondler, um. What uh, what you doing? - What does it look like? I am cleaning. - Did you get Monica's authorization to move all of her stuff? - Authorization, I don't need that. I'm gonna put everything back. - Put it back exactly where you found it? - Yes, I'm gonna put it back
exactly where I found it. - Okay, first of all, that
attitude is not helping. - She is not gonna care
if I put her stuff back in the same stupid place. - Uh, hello? Did you just meet Monica? - She is gonna recognize
that I did a nice thing and, and appreciate it. - I would.
(Ross scoffs) I love when Sean cleans, so helpful. - Because when you have
to move back in with Joey, Joey's hot new roommate
can come live with me. - I see, I see. Y-y-y-you're trying to freak me out. - Look, Chandler, Monica is really weird about this kinda stuff. Believe me, I lived with her for 16 years. She is going to freak out. Oh my god, she's going to sit on you. - No she's not. Okay, you know, I'll prove it to you. I'm gonna call her right now. - So sure of himself.
- Phone's done. - Why is he wiping everything, taking everything out?
- [Monica] Hi. - Hey, Mon,
- It's like way overdone. how's it going?
- Terrible! I'll tell you, if, if, if I
want something done right, I have to do it myself! Other people just wreck stuff! I really think I might
kill someone tonight. - Oh, come on, come on. It can't be that bad. - It's worse. The only thing that's
getting me through is knowing that I'm gonna be seeing you soon. I think I might even try
to get outta here early. - No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no! Sounds like they really
need you down there. - Enter panic. - Are you just hanging out with Ross? - It's all good, okay, bye-bye, Mon! She's gonna kill me. - The phone was facing the other way. And that goes back up there. - Okay now, I know everybody's talks about how they think that Monica has OCD, and it's possible that she may, but I don't see that. I don't know if anybody
else understands OCD. If you have it yourself,
you might get this. But OCD comes with like
this build of like anxiety, and anxiety, and anxiety,
and like worrying. You think something
terrible's gonna happen if you don't do the compulsion. The compulsion being, you know, like everything symmetrical, or do something a certain number of times, or I don't even know, check things. Checking is very common. Like, oh, did I turn off the lights? No, I don't know, I'm gonna go check. And we check a certain
number of times, sometimes, or we just have to keep checking, and it takes up a shit
load of our time, right? However, Monica is more about the
control of her environment, and so I'm not really sure
if it's OCD necessarily, or if it's just more about
her internal anxiety, and yes, OCD is part of like anxiety disorders, but I'm talking like
generalized anxiety disorder. And I would argue that, especially 'cause we know
that she used to binge eat as a kid and had an eating disorder, and she's kind of swung
in this other direction. So I think she might feel
like her environment is one of the only things she can control that gives her some
sense of relief, right, from her anxious symptoms. Or maybe it's like, she
replaced the cleanliness, and you know, wanting everything just so instead of doing the
binge eating, you know? We use different coping skills. That's what I think is
happening, but anyway, we're not done here. There's a couple more little
clips here I wanna share. So let's move on to the next one. Here we go. - Know what we should do? - Okay, still fixing it. - You know, that'll be easiest. - I don't know why he took everything out. Move furniture around? It's not always necessary. - I got it.
- Like why? Could've just like, you know,
wiped down the counters, put stuff away, did
some laundry, vacuumed. - The couch is perfectly
in line with the carpet, and then I could just walk over here and casually just put my feet right up on- - Uh oh. - Okay, okay, here's what we do. We just move the couch
closer to the coffee table. - But then the back of
the couch won't line up with the back of the carpet. - Has to be just so. - Well, here, we'll just,
we'll move the coffee table. - Wow.
- Closer to the couch. - No, whoa, whoa, whoa! But then the coffee
table won't be centered in the seating area. - It's a lot. - The coffee table Ddoesn't
match the table- Ross! - Is it okay for me to come in now? - Uh-huh. - Why is everything different? - Bye. - (laughs) Ross just bails on him. Now I couldn't find the extended clip, but Monica does go on to
tell him that she's grateful that he put all this
effort in, and, you know, she doesn't freak out
or anything like that. And I think that just goes to show you that it is more of like the
controlling of her environment, and it also shows that
she's grown as a person and really loves Chandler. But again, I just think it's
something about the environment and controlling her environment, and I think that's more of
what's going on with Monica. And I just appreciate that Chandler wanted to do something nice
for her, and you know, was so silly to not think
that it might be upsetting. But man, Ross just got
out of there real quick. Okay. Moving on to, still in
the Chandler-Monica space, but I wanted to include these clips because I think a lot
of people are struggling with infertility, and people
don't wanna talk about it. And I love that this
conversation was being had so many years ago 'cause if you forget, Friends was like, what? Late '90s, I think, early 2000s? So it's been quite a while ago. So let's watch this clip. - Hi, honey. - Hey, look, I brought
friend home for dinner. This is Zack from work. - Oh, of course, it's so
nice to see you again, Zack! - You too. - You guys haven't actually met before, but boy, you're both polite. Why don't you have a seat, Zack. I'll get you a beer. - I got it.
- Thanks. - Do we ever learn what
Chandler does for a living? I don't remember. - So, Zack's pretty nice, huh? - Accountant something?
- Yeah, I guess. - So how would you like to have a baby that's half yours and half his? - Excuse me? - Yeah, my reaction. - Zack may be the guy, I mean, look He's intelligent, he's
healthy, he's athletic, I mean, he's sperm-tastic. - Sperm-tastic. (laughs) - Chandler, this is crazy! What did you even say to him? Come up, meet my wife, give us your sperm. - No.
- Moving pretty quickly. - For a chance to get
to know him, you know? I mean, if we go through a sperm bank, you never meet the guy, get to check him out.
- That's true. - Chandler!
- I'm telling you, he's great. I mean, even if my sperm worked fine, I think he'd be the way to go. - I'm not going to be a part of this. You can't just bring some random guy home and expect him to be our sperm donor. - Okay. - Zack. - Thanks. You, uh, you have a coaster? I don't wanna make a ring. - Tell me about yourself, Zack! (Kati laughs) - I love that. 'Cause it's right up
Monica's alley, right? Doesn't wanna leave a ring. But the fact that they're
looking for a sperm donor, it is true, you don't
get to meet the people if you just go through a sperm bank. If you have a friend or family
member who is going to donate because you can't. Like, I know one of my
patients back in the day, her, was it her uncle
couldn't have children with his wife, and her dad
who obviously is brothers with her uncle, he offered to donate. They went through a sperm donor anyway, but, you know, if you
don't know the person, then it is kind of weird. But you can still see their like health, their history, and you know, read about them so that
you know enough to pick. But I just really, I like that they're talking about this, but let's go backwards a little bit. I know these are a little out of order, but on purpose, because now
we'll get to see a little bit about them learning about
not being able to have kids. - Oh, I still can't believe this. My uterus is an inhospitable environment? Always tried so hard to be a good hostess! - I can't believe my
sperm have low motility because let me tell you,
while I was growing up, they sure seemed to be
in a hurry to get places. - Those medical terms are
so offensive sometimes. - I'm sorry there wasn't better news from your test last week, but I wanted to talk to
you about your options. - Okay. - Well, first of all, even
though your chances of conceiving through natural means aren't
great, you never know. So keep having sex on a regular basis. (Kati laughs)
- Goddammit! - Don't worry, after a
while, you'll tune it out. - Well, given your situation, the options with the
greatest chances for success would be surrogacy or
insemination using a sperm donor. - Wouldn't they have to do both if both of them are having a tough time? - Neither of those is right for
you, you could always adopt. - Is that a hint? Because we love you Dr. Connelly, but we don't think we
want you to be our child. - Oh, Chandler. (laughs) Always making
inappropriate jokes. - Wow, talk about an
inhospitable environment. - Okay. I wanted to bring up this
little clip only because, I think often, medical
terms are so offensive, and they just brush right
over the emotional component too often. Like he was like, wish I had better news, which I understand. I don't expect doctors to
be therapists, by any means. But I do think when it
comes to complex situations, like chronic illness, or intense
diagnoses, or infertility, I feel like there needs to be a little bit more bedside manner and not using terms, and I don't know if they really
do use these terms, again, this is, you know, a TV show,
but like, telling Monica that her uterus is an
inhospitable environment. That's kind of offensive,
or telling him that, you know, his sperm lacks
motility, I think is what he said or mobility maybe? I feel like there's gotta be
a better way to say things, like saying that your sperm
count is a little bit low, and they're just not moving
as fast as they used to. So you're gonna struggle to get pregnant or telling her that, you
know, it doesn't seem like the lining of your
uterus is thick enough for it to be able to house a baby, and it's just not in a good
place for you to get pregnant. It could be more difficult for you and then give you percentages. Now obviously, I know
I'm like soft talking it, but does anybody else feel like sometimes the medical terminology
they use is just like, ooh, it's like hard to take. It's kind of offensive. Okay. That's enough of that. Let's move on to the final few clips. Well, I'll just let you learn. I'll let you learn as we go along here. Let's start here. - Uh, can I just say, I know we're doing this
for Ross, and that's cool, but if it was up to me,
- Ross is fine. - this is not what we'd be
doing on our first date. - Well, what would we be doing? - I'd take you out for a romantic night. Some champagne, fancy dinner, feel you up on the carriage ride home. - God, Joey. - Feel me up? - In a carriage. - Hey, Charlie!
- Hi! - Hi, hey. So. - Oh and Charlie used to
date Joey, by the way, Rachel and Joey are now dating. Awkward, awkward, awkward, all around. - Actually, it's some stuff
you left at my apartment. - Ooh. The returning of the stuff.
- Oh, uh, thanks. - And you know,
- I never did that. - you can just gimme my
stuff whenever you want. - Just chuck it. - Yeah, I didn't throw any
of that out. (chuckles) - Right? Same, same. - Ah, I thought I heard voices! - When he does that high
pitch, you know it's not right. - Hey, Joey.
- Hey. - And uh, oh, you're
gonna have to introduce me to your new girlfriend. Huh? (laughs) - So uncomfortable. - I was kidding, I know Rachel! I know! (groans)
- (groans) So uncomfortable. - Please come in, come in. - Okay, uh, well, we
brought you some wine. - Ohh! That is so thoughtful. She's a keeper. - We brought you wine, oh my god. - Actually that's, that-
- What, underwear! A toothbrush, and a Van Halen CD? I can use all these things! - (laughs) Oh my god, Ross. - Gosh, Ross, you know,
you seem a little, um- - What? Fine? Because I am. Huh? Aren't you? Aren't you? Aren't- who- who else is fine? Come on.
- Okay, listen, hey, Ross. Why don't you try to relax, okay? - A little much.
- Maybe have a drink. - You know what, that is a very good idea! I'm gonna go make a pitcher
of margaritas. (stomps, snaps) - Oh geez. How did he do that so fast? I had to include these clips because Ross clearly isn't fine. And I honestly, does anybody
else hate that term, fine, when people ask how you are? "Fine, fine, fine." That's not an answer. I actually used to have
like a no "fine" response when I worked at the eating
disorder treatment center, and actually in my office,
when I ask people how they are, they can't say fine. I'm like pick another emotion. Pick another thought,
another word, anything. Because "fine" is almost
like our automatic response when we just don't even,
we're not gonna tap in. We're not checking in, we're
not figuring out how we feel. We're just like, I'm fine. We just want people to like
move on, and as a therapist, it's not acceptable to me. So I make my patients come
up with something different, and I'm sure that annoys a lot of you, but that's why this is like
"The One Where Ross Is Fine," 'Cause he's not, he's totally not. Okay. Here we go. The night continues. - Like you two... Are together. - Oh, he's doing his toast. - And now one day you might get married. And have children of your own.
- Aw, he's having a hard time. - Yeah, he's not okay.
- Dude, are you okay? - Totally. - Everybody cries into their margaritas. - Ross, you don't seem okay. - I'm sorry, it must be the
pressure of entertaining. - Poor Ross. Things are awkward. You don't have to rush to be okay. You don't have to be fine with everything. It's okay to be sad. It's okay to not be okay. I think that's like the motto
of my YouTube channel, right? Okay, final clip. Here we go. - [Joey] Morning. - Must've been a lot of margaritas. - [Ross] Did you- you stay here all night? - Yeah. - So you took off my pants and shoes? - Joey's a good friend.
- No, no. You actually did that
when you were dancing to the "Chicago" soundtrack.
- "Chicago" soundtrack. - Look, Ross, about- about Rachel and I. Listen, you don't have to
worry about that, okay, because nothing is gonna happen. - Joey is such a good friend. - What do you mean? - Well, she and I said from the beginning that we weren't gonna do
anything unless you were okay with it, and clearly- - (scoffs) What are you talking about? I'm fine.
- Fine, I'm sick of that word. - It's okay, Ross, you know, I- I totally understand. Of course you're not fine. You're... You're Ross and Rachel. - Yeah, except we're not. I mean, we haven't been
a couple in like... Six years.
- Wow, six years. - (scoffs) My god, is that right? Has it been that long? - That's what I hear, you know. - This is crazy, I mean, six years, and 'cause of me, you guys,
aren't gonna be together? Can I ask you something? Really, what is this thing with you and Rachel? - C'mon, you know me, (chuckles) you know. - Joey. - I'm crazy about her. - And she feels the same way? - I think so. - Well then, maybe it's
time we all moved on. - True. - Yeah, but Ross, I mean,
you're not okay with it, so. - No, but.
- I love that. - I wanna be.
- That's the truth. - I- hey. I will be. (Joey exhales) Besides, I'm- I'm with Charlie, right? Oh my god, I'm still
with Charlie, aren't I? I mean, she didn't see the dance, did she? - No, no, no. No, that was, uh, that was just for me. - I really wanna include this clip because Joey's a great
friend, and so was Rachel. And even the fact that they were like, if you're not okay with
this, we won't do anything. And I think that, you know, I'm glad that Joey stayed the night and made sure he was okay. And then Ross said, no, I'm not okay, acknowledging, I'm not okay with this. It's okay to not be
okay, but I want to be. And that's where I would
end it, is "I want to be." 'Cause he says, I will be. You don't know. Hopefully, yes, but just the "I want to." And that's the truth. He's not okay with it
now, but he wants to, and he wants to support them too. And it's just, it's a lot of
love. It's like a love fest. And so of course, I love it. And that's why they're such good friends, and they've been friends forever. Now obviously, there are so
many other clips to cover. Like I didn't even get a chance to dive into Phoebe losing her mom to suicide. She talks about that off
and on throughout the show, or issues that you can struggle
with when you have a twin, or what's going on with
Joey, or any of those things. And oh my god, there is just
so much more to talk about. So if you like this video,
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