The Rhythm Of Love #3 | Dr. Sharon Nesbitt

[Music] [Music] um [Music] so [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] so well glory to god hallelujah the lord is faithful in this tabernacle come on in everybody we are so excited that you are here tonight i hope you are ready i have some amazing things to talk about tonight we're in the month of love we're in the rhythm of love and we are going to discuss some some deep things some things that um that is going to take us into a new revelation a new understanding of how to love how to walk in love how to live in love what love is what love is not and then i've got a special guest on but let's go before the throne of god before i get too excited i hope you all are enjoying what god is doing in this season in and through us and what he's going to do in it through uh your lives and how he's going to set the tone for the next level uh of your life i am so excited about what god is going to do so let's approach this throne father we thank you as we approach your throne we honor our reverence we thank you even now for your grace and your mercy holy spirit uh give us the revelation the understanding technology methodology of how to love how to walk in unconditional love how to live and the purpose and the plans that you've created us for as loved beings we thank you even now that your love has already been shed abroad in our hearts by you holy spirit and we thank you that we love by you in jesus name amen amen amen well i want to introduce you to my friend some of you and then let you welcome to you who already know him my friend we've known each other for many many years he's traveled all around the world preaching teaching prophesying and the word of god uh tremendous impact on nations and uh we're talking none other than dr kirbyn j smith prophet kerbin j smith he's coming on right there you can see him he's on and he's written so many books um uh he's written so many books a living single uh seven men that you don't want to marry he's got um you know success books motivational books but he's got books to talk about the prophetic uh spiritual warfare he's doing a whole series on the book of revelation i want you to welcome my friend prophet kevin j smith thank you so much uh uh my friend for coming on and helping us to navigate this rhythm of love come on say hello to the people thank you dr nesbitt thank you for inviting us for this wonderful time it is a month of love it is in the midst of all the anarchy and the upheaval and chaos that we're going through this is still the month of love as well as african-american history and so i think that i think it's apropos for all of the things that we've been going through that there can be some love that is exemplified and released in this atmosphere and thank you so much for inviting me for the rhythm of love or we call it the flow of love yeah yeah the flow of love well so you know you you've traveled all over the world we've had our experiences in ministry um and we've seen a lot of things we've counsel a lot of people so let's define love let's define what love is and what love isn't for all of our friends you know one of one of the most important things in people's lives is is relationships god creates to be relational beings and um growing up whether we sense that we felt loved or the absence of love we could be stuck in adolescence we can have um things stuck in our spirits we could have the spirit of rejection because we didn't feel the right kind of love nurturing we didn't feel accepted or wanted so let's let's define what love is for the people or let's talk about it and in our talking we'll define love what do you see even even even in our in our churches um the things we've seen in the political realm even upheaval in churches pastors have been walking in anger and bitterness and all of that where do you see us going i know i'm asking a plethora of questions so i'm just throwing them out there you can take them as you see them as you feel it and and just where you see us going and how do how does the church have to operate but as we define this love and walking in this rhythm of love well one of the things that one of the things that we we've experienced in this pandemic i am getting so many texts and emails and people it's just like i'm tired and you can really see that people are so being worn down the spirit of depression but there's three things that um that have taken place in you since we're talking about love three things that have taken place in this pandemic the first one is babies whole lot of babies being you know made because you know you're in the house and that's just what's going on the second thing is what i'd like to say is beat downs in other words physical abuse is on the rise 54 to 56 percent one of the reasons why is because you can really love someone but you've never spent time with them and you know loving is you know you're going here you're kissing you're going you know one person's traveling the other person isn't and we're always constantly on the move we see each other we spend quality time but one of the things about this pandemic is whatever was in you if your relationship did not have a strong foundation you found out immediately what was going on and so therefore there were some things that began to come to the surface so after babies was the beatdowns the third thing is the breakups i'm gonna say again the babies the beatdowns and the breakups now people are talking about divorcing one another and there really is no reason why they want to get divorced they just found out oftentimes that the person that you know because today when people say i love you a lot of times it's not really i love you it's i lust you right i've known somebody for you know two or three months and you're still you know six months you're still giddy a lot of times it's not love it's lust one of the things i'd like to give the definition of love um i'd say love is selfless love is selfless in other words you learn that it's not always about you it's not always about your agenda and the older you get the more you're starting to see that you just want someone to love and so you've got to be selfless you're not going to always be right you know you're not going to always these things are not going to always go your way so it's going to require you to make uh some sacrifice which is the second thing so it would be selfless and then the second one would be sacrifice i mean what are you willing to give up what are you willing to give up okay for instance if the person lives in california and you live in texas and the person says to you i don't want to move to texas and then the other person said i don't want to move to california now it doesn't mean that the person does not necessarily love them but somewhere along the line someone's going to have to give up something and oftentimes pastor you could see people that have been dating i call it serial dating s-e-r-i-l serial dating they've dated somebody a long extended period of time it's not that the oftentimes that they don't love the person they're just waiting for things to change you know if you have uh five kids in the house and they're all 30 years old and the man is saying he wants to spend the rest of his life with you and now you're saying my kids gotta stay it's a package deal most of the time he's gonna say keep that package because you know if they're teens and younger it's different but when you start talking about grown folk he wants to be able to spend his quality time with you and be able to pour his love upon you and he wants to be free every man decides desires to be free in his home he wants to to be able to floors the way he wants to flow as well as a woman wow wow you haven't packed a lot so so the babies the beat down and the breakup and um i think a lot of people can find themselves in one of those categories but if love is going to be uh the kind of love that god commands us to love unconditional it has to be selfless you have to have sacrifice so why why do you think in the body of christ let me read some of these stats we've got fifty percent of all first marriages end in divorce sixty-five percent of remarriages end in divorce fifty percent of couples today cohabitate before marriage couples cohabitate are 80 more likely to divorce why why do you think we are failing as christians in our relationships what is the number one thing and i know we talk about love we talk about relationship somebody did a poll and we're saying what would you like the church to talk about they talked about they felt like the church didn't give them enough information on relationships how to be married and how how to be married and what love is so now if we take a dr backdrop to that how do we begin to teach people how to be productive in relationships and i know i've got my answer i want you to go ahead with yours well i think that uh as i'd like to say this is one of my favorite things but the two most important decisions you make in life number one to accept jesus christ as your personal savior number two who you marry now it's it's amazing how people will take the time to look longer for a dress to look longer for a car to look longer for a house than it takes to look for a spouse i want you to say that again people will take longer looking for a dress looking for pairs shoes looking for a car and looking for a house they'll take longer doing that than when it does when it comes to looking for a spouse a lot of times people oftentimes they want to get married because they let's just come just be honest they love god and they want to have sex and they want to do it right but it has to be deeper than sex because after that person i know that this is pg so i can't really get right so after that person makes you feel good after that person gives you that feeling whenever you see them the thing about it after that is what else is left do you have more than just a feeling and so when you when you're at a certain point and when you know your purpose driven and when you know you have certain things that god has given you in your life certain destinies and dreams you're pregnant with you have to connect with somebody that is going to catapult you to another dimension in other words you may not need money but there's somewhere they just add value to your life in other words whenever you see them that same person has to be able i was just talking to my son i said you have to marry a woman that turns you on when i say turn you on i mean because there's gonna come a day where you get upset with her disgusted but in the midst of it does she still turn you on is that person a person that lights your fire we don't think about that and then another thing is i don't want to marry where i am i gotta marry where i'm going wait wait say it again slowly for the people i don't you never want to marry where you are you don't want to marry uh february the 10th 2021. you want to marry february the 10th 2035 in other words if if i marry february 10 2021 and the person i marry is stuck in february 10th by the time i get to 2 35 they will have an attitude of discontent an attitude of frustration and then i will have married someone oftentimes who will try to sabotage my purpose my dreams and my vision this is why it's paramount when you're connecting with someone you have to be that person's greatest cheerleader so whoever i marry the next person i marry i'm going to be their greatest cheerleader whatever they do their doctor their lawyer indian chief and that's the same thing that person has to feel that you're the greatest in other words i don't care if i flunked i don't care if i fail i can come home and she the woman can be able to cuddle in my arms and i'll be able to let her cry herself to sleep or be able to say hey listen you did a good job you still my superstar you still are the best of the best because there's times where we all mess up we all blow it we all do goofy stupid things uh and so in the midst of that we've got to know that we're connecting with the right person why are there so many uh that's probably why i would say that takes care number one number two see because the next time you get married if you get divorced i've been divorced for quite a few years now when you get divorced here's what happens one or two one of three things number one you go why that means you just start dating everybody in the church huh what's your fault i'm church folk say it doesn't matter you go buck wild number one number two you isolate yourself and you don't want to be involved with anybody or number three the first person who smells you the first person who blows a kiss in your direction you immediately connect with them why because you feel like there's an empty void that's in you that's why you can oftentimes look down the line and people who've been married seven eight times there is a void that they're consistently trying to feel rather than falling in love with themselves there is a period i tell women this all the time and i tell men too and particularly i tell a lot of women this though in my counseling session let yourself air out they said what do you mean error i said let yourself air out stop jumping from relationship to relationship then oftentimes it comes with daddy issues it comes because they didn't have a good relationship oftentimes with their father or you know even if they didn't have a good relationship with their father that's why it's so important that um uh women must know because there are some men that god assigns to your life that is not your man come on there's some men that god assigns to your life that he's not your man but he may be there for your son and they may be there for your daughter and there's no funny business god literally places that person in your life because that's the person that's taking your son out to play basketball with him to play football with him taking him to different events he has literally and the same converse is true he is gravitating but it does not always mean that that's the person that god has brought to be your spouse so he may be ministry not marriage there it is he may be ministry and not marriage and so you've got to understand that and the person could be there for the the woman or the man and not necessarily just for the children to also help them navigate certain things and not always spiritually but physically and not physically in the touch but you know things that they need to do things they need to know just being there somewhere in the midst of every relationship everybody has to deal with the i am you've got to literally look in the mirror and you got to deal with the i am what is i i am you know what you are i you're a mess i am so-and-so i am so and so whatever it is you got to deal with this i am and when you come to grips with this then you can begin to start shaping your identity and shaping your character and i've counseled everybody from strippers to athletes to celebrities i've counseled everybody and in the process of it and and one of the women i'm just going to be honest and plain she was a stripper she was a well-known stripper she gave her life to the lord and she said to me um she said now this was deep um she said to me she says i don't want my husband he knows i was a stripper but i'm saying she said i don't want him to feel as though he has to compete with every man i've been with my entire life wow i said right and i leaned back and i said what were you gonna do that so she i said how are you gonna do she said so she got this surgery uh it's called vagina rejuvenation i know it's you know we grown folk it's called vagina and she whatever the surgery was so she said seven she's been with him 20 i'm sorry she's been within 20 years and she said he has never felt as though he was competing with now i thought that was a very selfless thing to do that she do something like that and so that's that's enough we don't we don't understand that because a lot of times you know when you marry somebody there sometimes they're competing with your past yeah and and the truth of the matter is you should never have to compete with my past i should literally come to you as the word fresh that's why some people need fresh starts they need to move they need to get out of that wherever they're from because your reputation is shot god will send you to a place like albuquerque new mexico where you don't know anybody but that's the place where he blesses you because he has to give you a fresh start and a fresh start is really rediscovering yourself yes rediscovering who you are because if you base yourself on your past relationships you will always re attract the hurt that's in your heart and so you'll find women who come out of abusive relationships always attract a big abusive man or whatever they come out of it's because that wound in their soul and their heart is still bleeding still they're still broken and they are attracting who they are and the i am has to change but you know who you are but to become who you want you have to become the woman or the man that the person you're looking for is running you know that a lot of women always say you know on top of their living vision list for a man is he's got to be wealthy i'm like well a wealthy man is not looking for a woman like you please say that again that's important you know what i'm saying so you have to be a wealthy man may not be looking for you if you don't have the uh ability to get up and go you're not you don't have business savvy you're not you know keeping yourself up everybody got their wish list for the other person but refuse uh to reinvent themselves to become what that person is looking for exactly you know let me say that they wanted god to bless them with a doctor they want god to bless them with a lawyer well god blesses you with that person but you've got to understand you've got so much drama that's going on in your life the competition is stiff he doesn't have to stay there for all the drama you know it you know this guy's coming in and out and that you know and so therefore i had one of my friends make a phone call and he called the guy he met dating the girl she had two children good girl sweet nice she was working her way going back to school and he called the boyfriend she's because she was always stressed out because or called the ex uh he wasn't really wasn't married to him just just the baby's daddy uh and he called and said listen hey you know the child support i understand you know the child support is fluctuating up and down she's stressing out don't worry about it we don't need anything from you i got it from here wow that's a real man yeah yeah that's the same thing because you know i'm the kind of person if i was i've always and i was always shared this i said if i was marrying someone with children i don't look at them as their stepchildren i look at them as they they're my children and that means that i'm going to bring them unto me and i won't treat them any differently and because of that you know because of that relationship because he did that the woman went on got a master's degree and i mean undergirds his arms this man said he told me on privately he said man i went out with my friends he said man i tried to cheat i said what do you mean by that he said man i tried to they had all these women around i tried to talk to him he said but it did it just wasn't there he said i have something going on at home that i don't need you know i don't need anything else and then so now he as his wedding band on nice looking guy every time women see him they're like oh he said the wedding band means something you know he said i've been married to the woman for nine years she serves me breakfast in bed four times a week i said my god you know so i mean what else are you looking for well the thing is understanding how to be yoked equally yes and i think the scripture is very clear i think in genesis 24 uh god was always telling the men of god where to marry who to marry don't marry out of this group he was pacific was solomon don't marry these particular people why is it that in the church because we're talking about this rhythm of love and if we get the vertical right with god the horizontal will be right uh that in this could it be that we are always unequally uh in relationships that don't produce the right results because our relationship with god is unequally yoked we're unequally yoked with god that and we have these prognosticators and prophetic people in church saying this person should be with that person this person should be with that person a lot of times the person you marry it doesn't mean they're a bad person it just not means that they may not be yoke with you you know and so when you really know who you are if you just had 20 most of us had 25 30 years to to do it all over again we would have literally waited and done things differently in other words we would have definitely looked at our situation and said to themselves one of my situations was you know i was a young preacher so i had all of these guys i just come out of the financial industry had been on wall street doing very well and i was really loving god but i didn't want to you know didn't want to be in sin and uh all these bishops and pastors like you're a young preacher you need to get married and see that and many of them i'm not friends with today for that particular reason because they pushed me i felt like i was pushed into something that i should i should have waited on because i at that particular time i was not ready to be married i was my my my my wife was my ministry i'm gonna say that again my wife was my ministry a bad decision and you know if i could take a whole lot of things back today family would be the center or before ministry and i made a lot of decisions i made a lot of bad decisions under the guise of this is the right thing to do and at the end of the day that's why you can't always blame the other individuals sometimes you got to take blame yourself and true for the matter is i'm a workaholic so it has to be somebody that really understands me i'm not the kind of person that you know when i wake up everybody's up that's the lesson that i learned my sister whenever my dad got up at 5 30 6 o'clock in the morning everybody was up it was no laying down so i can't really get with somebody that's sleeping to two and three o'clock in the afternoon unless you work the night shift it's just you know certain things so i know that's not gonna work for me and you know at the end of the day um here's one of the things there's a complicated mix pastor we struggle with strength and fragility okay strength and fragility in other words men will use their strength to hide their place of fragility i gotta be a man i gotta be tough they never ever show that side of them you know when i see my my son and see my daughter i'm consistently hugging on them kissing on them i don't have a problem you know if the movie certain movies uh color purple there's something about that movie there's always a tear comes to i can't shake it but it you know it's i don't mind sure and as i get older you you've got to save yourself you can be a person strong but you have to understand that you're fragile we're all fragile that's why you need somebody to help you in life to put the pieces of the puzzle back together again because all of us somewhere in the life we're jigsaw puzzles and we need somebody to intricately help us get there that's why the person that you cherish the person you love the person you trust you open up with them you share things with them you know you don't have secret bank accounts uh-oh you know seriously listen we can bring all our money together you can put less you can have your savings i have my savings but let's put it all together you know let's take this and let's grow it together and so that's why it's so important that you connect with the right person so so so when we're talking about the this rhythm of love and understanding how to get our rhythm back like stella got her crew but that's a bad analogy but but people are look that's the kind of relationships that end up in divorce stella trying to get a groove back not understanding who they are and they don't look at uh the flaws they don't look at the person or they look at the flaws and say okay i'll overlook that now we know the scripture said that love covers a multitude of sin but it shouldn't cover so many flaws that that i i can't see it that it's gonna destruction in my life so not having a man that of that is vulnerable that that can be touched by god you that's that's a sign to run well it's a sign to run when you watch let me tell you something i before i could even consider marrying somebody i gotta watch and see if they're a worshiper or to the spiritual part okay if they don't worship it says a lot about them okay now let's let's deal with that let's put a pause right there so what if what if they come to you and say i've met this guy he loves god he talks about god he's not in the church and we're not we're not in the church but he's he's got some other things it's unequally yoking people trying to get them saved and and dress them up and clean them up and all of that so you're saying number one he's got to be a worshiper well what you just said he's not in the church he loves god here's what i say this is my statement if it don't fit don't force it okay a lot of people are trying to force something that doesn't fit one of the thing one of the reasons why most relationships don't work marriages is because people have taken god out of the center in other words they don't pray together they don't fast together they're too busy i mean okay the intimacy one part is wonderful but intimacy is better when god is in the middle after you've prayed and after you've ministered man man being intimate after that time is phenomenal because it's right when you're married sex is right intimacy is right the problem there's three problems that that most people have the first one is respect the first one in other words you don't have to agree with everything but there has to be respect in other words when i say respect i admire you you know how uh you know it's funny when you you know when a woman respects a man they could be sitting next to each other doing an interview like they're talking to you and when she when he's talking she's looking at him you still see that look in her eye the converse's true true when she's talking and even when the respect comes how does he respect her he never he never embarrasses her in public you know that's the one thing that's a no-no i can take a lot of stuff but men real men are not gonna let you embarrass them it's just not gonna happen you know she doesn't agree embarrass you in public she she she treats you like a king you know she absolutely and vice versa respect the second thing is argue but don't fight hello but don't fight in other words arguing is non-combative you say what you feel without cussing each other out but when you start fighting now you're picking on certain things my nose you know physical characteristics certain things about me you know that really bug me that's when it begins to fight so you can argue arguing is okay because you know making up is wonderful the third thing is agreement on sex now sometimes women use sex as a punishment or reward you didn't take the garbage out i'm not giving you any sex you didn't buy me these shoes you're not getting any sex i told you i wanted to go on that trip to dubai you're not getting any sex and so because of that women have to always understand there is always some woman with a ma with a welcome mat out for a man so then that love is conditional no no i'm saying you know the bible says don't don't neglect yeah yes yes yes yes i'm sorry so my love now has become conditional based on what you do or don't do right so defining what real love is real love is covering but real love is selfless that i'm going to give myself irregardless and so when you your love is conditional like that and you start nitpicking that means you have fallen out of affection you know people people say i fell out of love i'm like no you fell out of affection because if you truly love somebody had the rhythm of love you could never fall out of love you could fall out of agreement you can fall out of affection but you can never fall out of love not real law exactly not the god no israel love you're right it's it's very difficult to fall out of love even if that person has moved on with the other person it's very easy to just say i don't love them you may not love them anymore uh in that in that capacity but somewhere deep in the inner recesses of your heart that person has affected you particularly if you've been married and particularly if you've had children with that individual you know i've seen a lot of people get married and they've moved on because they don't have children they go their separate ways so you've got to connect with people i always i've been counseling someone recently here and um they've met somebody and they said they giddy over them and they haven't been dating them two maybe two three weeks and they're ready to get married basically tomorrow i said uh because of who you are in your position take your time yeah rush into this you know the pandemic has kind of started working psychologically people are on roller coaster rides folks again you know why because loneliness is setting yeah don't want to be alone one of the things i learned in being in this pandemic is i learned i had to fall in love with myself all over again and the reason why is because you and i as much as we travel we've been given a piece of ourself to everybody yeah you give so much to everybody when you that's why when you come home you're just exhausted because you don't have anything for yourself and so i've learned that you have to love yourself and you have to keep something for yourself not just give it to everybody because there's somebody that god's going to place in your life who you need to be able to give that to and when you meet that person you don't want them to be worn out and exhausted you'll be able to have something left for me to give to you and you to give to me that's that rediscovering who i am and i think i think you you said it right we travel so much that you know by the time we get home we just we've already kind of self-medicated ourselves with traveling and planes and hotels and you know counseling people getting them by the time we get home it's like you know we have nothing for ourselves but it's really taught us during this pandemic how to rediscover us and how to love god beyond the pulpit yes beyond beyond the building beyond and and really defining our relationship with him instead of having a multitude of relationship with people god has kind of kept us and i think he's doing it for everybody for himself to say i need you to come back to your first love so the rhythm of love we're going to wrap this up i i think we probably have to do a part two but the real rhythm of love has to flow between you and god first so we can i can be effective in the earth and uh there are several times i just cursed god out didn't want god because of certain things happened in my life and i was mad at god i didn't like god for a long period in my life because of certain things that happen and sometimes we have to go back and redefine who god is in our lives understand how to love through the love of god and then begin to solidify our relationships through his love let me ask you this one thing um in ministry do you feel like people are pressuring you now to get mad because we got a lot of people on here that are still waiting for that person and people are still they're always asking them or telling them you need to get married why are you not married something must be wrong with you why are you not married all of that what are you saying to those people now and how do we talk to the people who are who are saying i got a lot of pressure on me to get married a lot of young people got pressure on them to get married and they just haven't found the one yet so what what do you say as a prophetic voice what are you saying to those people um i i say that now is the time to really get in touch with you when this pandemic is lifted you need a break you need to go somewhere and go places that you've never been before i one lady told me i'm not going to paris until i uh meet until i get married well how do you know your husband's not in paris you don't know where god is going to send you you know people the bible says he that finded the wife find it the good thing and obtain its favor from god but you've got to be in a position to be found most people are hidden and they this is a good time for people to start getting their personal appearance place that it needs to be you know i'm saying if you want this person to be all fit and stuff and then you're not where you support i'm being careful with my words you're not where you're supposed to be it's a great time for you to be physically fit uh learning how to eat properly learning how to cook clean yes preparing yourself for that relationship and so how do you tell people because i know you've written this book seven uh seven men you don't want to marry yeah seven men you should never marry and seven women you should never marry um you have to like i said um there are some interesting um man we could be on here forever but uh there's some interesting things when i when i think about the a recipe for a good relationship i want you to hear me ladies men recipe for a good relationship are three things love passion and intimacy now you bring me back we do a part two i'll tell you all about it but those are the recipes for a good relationship love passion and intimacy and love is a wonderful thing that i always tell people if you ever go to paris there's a couple places if you go to paris if you go to vancouver um if you go to montreal and you go to quebec those about four places your relationship can be on the rock rocks and you go to any one of those places and something about those places you fall in love all over again and another thing is if you go to paris and you're going with somebody that you like you may end up falling in love with them wow yeah what are you trying to say there's an anointing every place i just called there's an anointing it's in the air wow can you put that book up y'all you know we can only and and we looked like we were going healthy skelter with everything seven men you should never marry and there's seven for the men seven women uh you should never marry and uh you guys pick those books up if if you're in that area and some people say it's too late i'm married how did how do i get out you got to stay in and let god uh bring some order um to your marriage excuse me pastor but there's some other people too there's one other group that we haven't touched on and that other group is the woman or the man who are wearing their wedding band and still believing god for their mate their husband or their wife to come back and it's been five six seven years old person has moved on and their date they're living with somebody else had another family but that person psychologically in their mind had placed themselves on a roller coaster believing that that person is going to come and therefore they placed an albatross around their neck somewhere you're going to have to release yourself take the wedding man off because persons have moved on sometimes god's telling you to hold on sometimes he's telling you to move on oh that's a whole nother that's that's all know when to hold him and then know when to let him go right let her go right perceived um relational i'm dealing with a um dealing with somebody now who the wife has moved on and been very clear um that um they're in ministry and um just doesn't want to be a part of ministry anymore and um he's still holding on and and i think it's time for them to let go and i've already voiced that but anyway that's a that's a that's a whole nother you know because every marriage was not god ordained every you know a lot of our marriages was we just didn't want to sin anymore and some of us was young we had no counseling we didn't know you know what what a marriage should be we didn't have a good model whatever and then we had them we misconstrued what the idea of love is relationship marriage all of that especially in our african-american communities and so hopefully we can start writing the wrongs of what was committed in our lives and and so we can write that from our children or read that from our children is there any last words you want to say i was saying something and i dropped it and you kind of missed it before but men of a certain age always have a welcome mat out if things don't work out there's always somebody with a welcome mat out if things don't work out with men of a certain age so if god gives you somebody celebrate them love on them and if you don't want them trust me there's somebody that's sitting there with a welcome i'm telling it's just it just it doesn't matter he could be 75 years old there's somebody with a welcome mat waiting for him well there you have it y'all give god praise and thanks thank you so much kevin smith y'all's picked up you can go onto his website and pick him up and um what's your website how can i get those books it's kirbynjsmithbooks.com okay smithbooks.com okay all right i'll have them up there and um they'll make them do it all right now you can never we're gonna we're gonna say uh good night to uh doc uh prophet smith and um we're gonna we're gonna get you back on real soon all right blessings on you and so man i hope y'all had a a a good time tonight uh you know prophet smith is is just who he is he's he's he's phenomenal teacher and he's just gonna say what he believes y'all know i'm a little more reserved and uh that's why we bring people on to complete us so i want you all you know i want to give you an opportunity to love on god tonight if you've never made jesus lord of your life y'all see i'm kind of little around in my team it's laughing at me uh i want to give you the opportunity to give your heart to the lord come on let's do that amen amen amen y'all y'all pick up them books some of y'all need them uh let's give your heart to the lord um and uh how do you do that the bible says if you confess with your mouth believe in your heart that god raised jesus from the dead you can be saved you can be secure and you can start that rediscovery of the i am and let the i am live in you that your rhythm of love can be unhindered unblocked and it will flow perfectly repeat this practice may father i come to you in the name of the lord jesus christ i ask you to forgive me of my sins wash me cleanse me i believe jesus died rose and ascended on my behalf i make him lord of my life baptize me with your spirit now forever give you praise in jesus mighty name amen amen amen glory to god now if you break that prayer there's a number on the screen one eight six six uh ministry partners are standing by to take your call so many of you have called and said you want to be a part of our church where we just keep it real you can become one of our e-members uh what is that you have full rights as a member you have a zoom call with us at least once or twice a month and uh we're able to articulate specific and to specify teachings that you we wouldn't normally do on social media so you could be a part of our our family here you can call that number on the screen amen amen amen well it's time to give glory to god the bible says that god so loved the world that he gave all through the scriptures you see where god loves a cheerful hilarious giver that god is he's so entwined and so much in love with us that he is willing to give to us all all that's what a real relationship is that whatever i have when we come together whatever you have we put it together and we become one and when we make jesus the lord of our lives everything that he has and the father has became ours bible says in ephesians some of you should have been reading ephesians one three times a day verse 11 says that we have obtained an inheritance from him before the foundations of the earth which he has purposed in him in us according to his good pleasure that god gave us his inheritance we have an inheritance not just of salvation but we have an inheritance of wealth material goods in genesis 12 18 the bible says that he made abraham rich and very rich not just in mercy not just in grace but in possession in substance he was very rich we are living in the greatest transfer of wealth that the earth has ever seen and you're going to be a part of that because god has ordained it in your life he loves you it's the rhythmic flow of love through giving and so what is giving i give selflessly and sacrificially because i love god and if that's you i want you to go ahead and give your gift ty offering first fruit your love gifts i want you to begin to give those and there's several ways that you can give here at the church you can go to givlify and you can go to dominion world outreach in marion arkansas make sure because there's a lot of dominions on that dominion world outreach marion arkansas you can give there you can call the office at 1-866-579-5807 they'll take your call you can go online to dominionworld.org to dominionworld.org you can go to cash app um to dollar sign dr sharon nesbit dollar sign dr sharon nesbit and then lastly you can go to p.o box 41 marion arkansas 72364 that's po box 41 marion arkansas 72364 glory to god hallelujah so hopefully you've given on those flats some of you need to sew for our spouse some of you need to sew for your husband or your wife some of you have never sown a seed for your marriage some of you never have vision for your marriage some of you need to write the vision for your marriage together where you want to go write the vision for your relationship and then sow a seed in that but the bible says it gives seed to the sower and sometimes you have to sow a seed to stop the cycles of in your life when it deals with relationships and um so you can do that let's pray father we thank you even now that if we bring you our tithes and offering to the feet of our high priest jesus we're in heaven he receives in there we thank you now for the blessing and the protection of the tide and the offering father we thank you even now in relationships that your love your power will penetrate and saturate even those hearts that have been broken and wounded father we thank you that seeds will call those cycles and those systems and patterns to stop in the name of jesus so father we give freedom we give joyously and we give victoriously in the name of the lord jesus christ if you have given any of those platforms of you just said yes but i don't have it i want you to confess three times i'm abundantly supplied come on i'm abundantly supplied i'm abundantly supply i'm abundantly supply in jesus mighty name amen amen amen thank all of you all for joining us tonight so on our wednesday nights we're going to have sessions like this uh we we um we had already planned out our our couples because of inclement weather we had to do something different and i called my good friend dr uh prophet uh smith and he was uh just johnny on the spot ready to go he's always been a faithful friend to us during the year so we thank him again for allowing us uh for for coming on with us and uh so get ready for next wednesday it's gonna be funny it's gonna be fun we're gonna talk to some couples we're gonna talk young love old love we're gonna talk to those that are waiting to be married it's going to be fun and then we'll bring back uh dr kirbyn and um let him finish talking about uh the relationships uh that needs to be garnered in the rhythm of love hey i'll see you sunday morning at 8 30 come on and hang out with us we're going to be still talking about the rhythm of love see you then you

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