The MS Dhoni Podcast (Part 1)

hey guys the conversation you're about to see is between me and sharan and we interviewed The One and Only The Legend my captain Ms donon I consider myself very lucky that in the past year I have had a chance to interact with this amazing personality he's always extremely kind uh extremely generous with his time with his wisdom I'm just I'm just very lucky this was done at Prav 2023 it's an initiative by the lovely Folks at riggy if you're a creator and you have an audience beat in any field whether you are in education or in finance or in health and fitness you can use riggy to monetize your growth you can create your own course and put them up riggy for your audience to consume it behind a pay wall and they have many other tools that you guys must check out so check out riggy link is in the description on that note here's the conversation May well initially I thought when you go for an I forgot one main thing 0% because everything for them is around the mobile phon so it's good to be here thanks for the welcome so I'm just hoping it will be a lot of fun and you know we'll try to make the evening light and basally can everybody hear may all the way at the back as [Applause] well so I don't want to jinx it by saying anything more but and it's a very good team so everything is looking very good [Music] [Laughter] [Applause] so audience creators and I believe you know on some level being an athlete and being a Creator there are some parallels so disc you are not the most Tex heavy person phoneapp does being disconnected help I think it it helps a lot and phone and the only time I really look for my phone is so for me my phone basically does the the job of you know waking me up in the morning or Candy Crush Candy Crush is on the iPad Gamers so it's all too small and I'm aging so anyways you know but anyways coming up what was the question I forgot the question disconnected does that help was that conscious decision especially in our case it helps in a big way because we are all humans and or if a known personality then everybody has an opinion about you and as humans if you're too much connected to the social media or the mobile phone you're spending a lot of time over there but because we are humans you still feel bad so especially before big tournaments or when you're going through a lean patch I always advise the youngsters Mobile in fact mobile apart from you know how it is supposed to be used Instagram social media sites don't get into reading the comments you have to realize a lot of people they comment for the sake of having fun they also don't mean it but it's fun for them but when you are going through a lean patch you know Cricket me life everything starts to hurt so anyways you have so much pressure on yourself you want to avoid any undue pressure I won't be thinking about it anyways I have close friends I have parents Guardians they will help me out so that way it has really helped me and I always keep telling the youngsters please you know minimal use so I want to ask something uh so before you retired I'm sure um there was a lot of expectations on you in terms of Performing and cricket and every day would have been really really difficult in terms of dealing with the expectations but now that you've retired has one second retired from international cricket hello hello hello there's a CSK fan H where how how how's the knee feeling uh knee have survived uh survived the operation so now going to the rehab patch and Rehab excises you'll feel much better by November but daily life to retired from international cricket only please continue retired from international cricket has uh life become easier in terms of the expectations and the pressure has life become easier in general well you know frankly if you ask me if you're a celebrity in India if people look up to you there's always certain amount of responsibility roles that you're supposed to fulfill and that expectation is always there also I'm only playing IPL which means I'm actively playing Cricket for two months in a year in fact it's slightly more difficult because I'm not playing throughout the year so now my role and responsibility for CSK or towards Cricket I have to keep myself fit so I have to plan the whole year where you know what I need to do when I need to do I'm 42 running 43 which means I have to eat nicely I can't just eat what I want to eat you have to train because at the end of the day nobody cares if you're 42 45 or 50 if you're competing with people at the top level you have to be at the same Benchmark you know what they are setting they may be 20 they may be 15 they may be 17 so if you're competing with them you know you have to be like them so there's no excuses for that so that's one of the reason I find it slightly more difficult you know you have to be very motivated at the same time your friends keep on complaining you know they'll be like ah we gave you a lot of time you know now that you have retired from international cricket you have to spend some time with us you need to eat what we are eating and all of that so you have to balance it out so that expectation level that pressure is still there got it my I would love to know captain cuz a lot of people here run their own offices a lot of them are entrepreneurs they also have their own teams when did you find out what was the moment you found out you're going to be captain and did you think of the moment you were Captain like okay what am I going to be like in the dressing room cuz there's a new leader in the dressing room it's very interesting uh if I'm not wrong it was 2007 Eng so they made me the Vice Captain for The Limited over for at ODI May and then when the seniors they were not coming for the T20 World Cup there were you know very good chances that they'll make me the captain so it was a new thing for me frankly coming from jarand it was Bihar initially I never thought I'll play for the country you know that was the first thing so you know country you cannot ever imagine even in your dreams you'll Captain the side so it was a surprise for me I was happy yes but at the same time I said how should I look at it so I looked at it as an added role and responsibility that was given to me not to forget I had seniors who are part of the site from long before you know I was relatively new 2004 December I made my debut so I was like I'll just keep it as a role and a responsibility I will never think about myself as a captain I don't want to change myself in the dressing room yes I have that responsibility of picking the 11 you know on the field I have to guide the fielders take the bowling changes seriously and I just kept it to that outside the field I never showed to anyone or told anyone you know that as if I am the captain of the side you need to do this you need to do that because when they are seniors in the side you have to earn their respect you know that's one of the most important thing if you are if you are a leader if you are a boss you want to have the respect of the people you are leading or representing so for me that was my biggest challenge yeah so um how do you actually keep calm and cool when the situation is so it looks almost next to Impossible like one of the instances that I can think of is uh the India versus Bangladesh match where they required one run in two balls right two runs in three balls and we won the match like how do you kind of compose yourself in these sort of situations like are you really cool inside or is it just the you know the exterior looks cool you know but uh you know it's a lot more fun because I can share my experience with you guys and I'm I've always been someone that believes in the process you know I'm not someone who looks at the result so even in this scenario I was never thinking what if we lose the game I was thinking what can be done you know what should hardik Bowl what is the field setting that that I should have you know where whatever resources I have what is the best way to make the most of the resources I have you know if I have half a glass of water I don't think about the other half that is not there so at that point of time I'm thinking okay this is the length we need to Bow if you're going for a Yorker what are the pros and cons the only thing is everything needs to happen very quickly so you need to take the I would say a good decision at that point of time because best decisions generally you know a lot of times in cricket you don't have the luxury of time so we kept it simple we like you know this is the length that you should bowl and we'll take it from there we'll take it one ball at a time and it worked you know at the end of the day it worked but the thing is not to think about the result result is a you know whatever you do the process you are following the byproduct is the result so if if you need to revisit you revisit the process you know result it's it's more like a learning you know it tells you what went wrong so you take the learnings out of it you don't carry that excess baggage on your head oh I lost this happened that happened no it's all irrelevant you lost you accept that loss and the only way to move forward is to take the learnings out of it speaking of learnings my wife yes yes I always wondered um you know you have the brand of being Captain cool right feet um feed like was there a particular apprec like in our environment I always preferred oneon-one uh if you see Indians we are emotional people you know I know the whole world is turning and saying you know we need to be much more professional but our strength is that emotion you know as simple as that we are the only country that has maybe 10,000 patriotic songs you know for we have songs we have songs for our family we have songs for wife brother sister everything so we run on emotion so I always believe oneon-one works for a simple reason let's say if I'm addressing a team let's say even in business there are like 14 15 people in a room and if you point finger at someone all of a sudden he feels bad about it the thing is he's not hearing or listening to what you are saying he has just felt bad and he doesn't like it so I always prefer talking oneon-one one-onone let's say if I say a sentence to him in front of 15 people he will feel bad if I take him to a side and maybe add a few more grammat or adjectives to it you know he will still be fine with it that these these things so you can say on television also because because basically what what you mean is everything is happening here why are you looking on the other side so as simple as that do you remember any example of you know someone was having a tough time and you gave them some particular feedback that really helped them you know always had that power in him but he was not aware about it stop believing in yourself so others your teammates are believing in you but the first person that loses faith is you yourself you know on the talent that you have so know this is your strength you these are the places that we can work but as of now keep working on the strength that you have because your strength will get you out of the difficult situation so usually a lot of times what we have felt is even so you say leave that aside what is more important right now is this man for me in the tournament so a lot of time you even give them false confidence MH because it is important a confident guy is much better than a talented guy who always keeps questioning himself that's very true so you know again again what it depicts is you have to make the most of what you have so we have a 15 member squad or a 16 member Squad so what's the best way in which we can perform to 80 or 90% of the potential that we have up you have of course helped many players in their Journey may but as a leader you know you have to be strong you have have to not show your emotions you have to no matter strong but how do you be vulnerable you know were you able to be emotional in front of the other players you know I'm having trouble with this were you able to be vulnerable is that something that you ever did no irrespective of how strong you are irrespective of whether you're leader or not there will be times when you will also feel the same kind of kind of pressure it's just that I'm not very good at expressing I don't express my I I keep things to myself you know so that's how I deal with it you know the good thing with me is I try to be in the present so once I'm inside once I'm in the situation I don't think too much about whether I'm in form or I'm out of form for me okay what is needed I bat at 5 6 or 7even what does the team need from me as of now so once I start thinking about the process that I need to follow when I'm there I don't have enough time to think about whether I'm in form I'm not in form did I score match uh runs in the last game whether this bowler got me out so all these things become irrelevant so again you go back to the process you have belief in yourself you know so it's an abstract form is an abstract you know it comes in 10 minutes it goes in 10 minutes so we never know when that 10 minutes will come so you have to be positive you have to to believe in the process you have to be aware of the situation and that's what gets you out of trouble this you know my my father once told me this he said ke I I asked him this one saying I wonder if if Mahi feels vulnerable at some point and he looked at me and he said I would 100% agree you know but again as I said when you have that extra role and responsibility of taking care of everyone that is around you and in a team sport often yes the individual Brilliance is there but we rely on the team effort say going through you know but whether it's a number four batsman or two three he gives me that few deliveries because he's scoring boundaries then we are converting those one runs into two runs or two runs into three runs those those are the things that really help you and same thing will happen to the other guy and that time I need to take that responsibility and that's what the team sport is all about that's what needs to be learn done in a team environment and often we think that team team sport no it it is applicable in business it is applicable in a family because family so you have to look at it in a way that you're very positive about it and you have to make the most of everybody who's around you sure yeah so um most of my friends today who are in their 20s and 30s they're very hungry for Success they want quick success so as someone who has had such a fantastic career and has achieved so much in the eyes of the public um does it feel like there is more to achieve is that hunger still alive or if not what is important to you today in life know right from the start I was not into that people should remember me as a good cricketer I always said you know I want to be remembered as a good human being you know and if you want to be a good human being it's a process till you die you know so so so Cricket to me is a part of life you know so once I started playing serious Cricket or once I started representing India You'll Play for India for 10 years 15 years 5 years or 20 years if you are you know if you start at an early age maybe 20 years and Beyond but the whole thing is it is still part of life if I consider I live for let's say 60 years or 70 years it's onethird of my life right so you want your life to be productive you know what I if I score run I'm scoring runs for myself but what is it I'm doing that I'm making it better for people who's around know so you know his life on in the cre becomes easy for him so for me every day is important I I try to be the best version of myself and that's what keeps me going you know and that was as is something that has kept me going for a very long time and I don't think I'll change that perspective because Cricket will end whether next year becomes my last year or the year after that but again it will be a part of my life you know that will have a comma or a full stop but the life continues my one year at a time one year at a time so I'm single okay and I feel like you know when you when the rest of your life is so iotic having a partner who brings some sort of stability that is very appealing to me now at least home life is sorted do you remember how your life changed when you found some stability in a relationship in your personal life like does does does it help does it help to have you know how many of you are married over here I don't know I ask this question and a lot of people laugh you know it's a serious question how many you are married so that's one second how many of you have a girlfriend who's steady and you think you'll get married somewhere in the future how many of you have a girlfriend who we will get married so the interesting thing is it's how you look at it you know and I feel as a man the all the Masala in our life comes from the wife you know she keeps our life going M you know you may be the captain of the Indian cricket team or the ex- captain of the Indian cricket team it hardly matters to them you it's a grounding Factor yeah yeah yeah you have a place in the house M and usually it's not your choice that's what I said you may be the captain you may not be the captain and the best thing is they will be like whatever you say gets done everything you want you to get it done but the whole thing is it's what they want that you are doing and they make you feel you are doing it it's your decision so if something goes wrong which can they're like so they also help us in a big way because life is chaotic as you as you yourself said now imagine there's a trainer in the house that is training you how to control that chaos by creating chaos inside the house practice the practice no but but whatever said and done uh you know we we all joke about it that's a common thing but they're the Pillar of Strength In in the family whether it's my wife or if I see my mom you know they are the ones who run the family so I came from a middle class uh background so my father will give the salary after that he doesn't ask her you know how you will run the family she has a budget and now she has to run for whatever 30 days or 31 days so so they're excellent at it you know so they'll quickly reassign everything okay yeah this can be done so I feel you know they are the ones that bring that Comfort into our family they they you always fall back to them you can ask them anything often when I'm frustrated you know I take my frustration out on her you know which is not a good thing and I have to eventually pay a heavy price but that's how life is so you know if you find someone you know that you're really happy with you know please do get married Bachelors you know or misconception by ending this [Laughter] [Applause] answer speaking of um you know up budget that reminds me May is there what is your relationship with money and or cuz everybody here right as creators ITP money has become the center point for so many of us was there a point where you cared about money and or do you still care or what is the relationship with money no money is an important part of life but at what price so money also you know it it has an impact so we all want to make money so some for some of us we may think you know I want to earn money because I want to make the life of my parents comfortable for some they may think you know for for the siblings for some I want to make money because I want to make it comfortable for my children so till the perspective is like that and the way you make the money is right now I don't have any problem with it because different people get motivated with different things so some may say I have an car that cost 10 Rupees but I want to upgrade to 25 rupees there's no harm in that it's how you want to make that money second is look to add money don't look to multiply money whenever there's multiplication there's always a problem so try to add right if it's changing you as a human then it's not worth influencers right [Laughter] St Revenue multiple [Laughter] and and they are the best you know I watch them on television since I have a few stocks and everything you know3 no they just it doesn't have a bottom anymore so yeah but it's interesting you know but like nowadays it's very important for you guys to educate you know the coming the newer I would say the newer generation because they want to invest in stocks what is the right way to do it again don't look to multiply multiplication problem and interestingly now all the business channels you keep saying you know 95% of the fno people you know they they they undergo loss but still people still people do it that's true we're going to take one last question from sharan and open it up to the audience so whoever has the mic just start identifying who you want to speak to sharan go for it so one last question uh so most of us when we look at a celebrity we feel like okay their life is perfect everything is going well happy life so I wanted to ask you uh is it mean is there anything that's like bothering you in life any problems that you're facing like is life really perfect we the thing is we all have a set of problems you know we we all face different kind of problems for some it may be different from others it may be different but I feel problems are the real essence of life imagine if you have a life where everything is so smooth that once you get up in the morning you don't really have anything to look up to because everything is so smooth you know whether it's your business whether it's something or the other so for me you know when I was like coid times and all I had a lot of times my worry was you know I have to make that bike so once I've opened my bike and I don't know much about it then I'm like you know what what do I need to do for me that is trouble you know for me once I FaceTime my daughter and she says you know uh can you come tomorrow that is a trouble you know when my father some 5 seven years back you know he was like you have played enough Cricket you know leave it now there are others who will play so now you know that different things that's problem for you yeah you know it's just that problems are important part of life because if they don't keep testing us you know we won't really improve so I feel if all of us need to have problem but there are certain people where their problems are much bigger than ours and if we are well to do you know we should try to take care of them try to do our best you know to guide them you know so that they have a life you know which is a bit more peaceful and where they're not worried about everything in life you know every day so that's what my view is about problems in life all right where are we taking questions from who has the mic yes first of all let me thank the both of you for a very very exciting session a very very fun session that was can we hear an on of Applause a big L of Applause ladies and gentlemen for the Charming enigmatic witty Brandon Bas fry Mr Ms doni big one big one big [Applause] [Music] one

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Length: 28min 9sec (1689 seconds)

Published: Sun Oct 29 2023