The Distraction of Women || Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan || AMAU

[Music] in which low aspiration manifests preoccupying yourself and busying yourself with insignificant things things that have low value you preoccupy your time and your life with those matters which are very insignificant you find a lot of youths youngsters they live this world they live in this world with no objective or aim there is no hymn there's no lofty aspiration present in their hearts and there's no uh determination and dedication for a brighter future that they are looking for or they're trying to achieve you don't see that all that you find that they're busy with is their clothing that they wear they are preoccupied with the car that they drive the rims on the car the shades and the tint on the car they are preoccupied with the spoiler at the ending and they also preoccupied with they are preoccupied in following news about football this player was booked for this much this is how much he was paid this is how much goals he scored in this uh season he's the he's the top man of the match well and in restaurants and sitting there and laughing and joking and whoever goes by whether it's a man or a woman just look at them that's all their life means this is a sign of low aspiration if your whole entire life is that what do you really live for brothers and sisters what is the value that you bring to this world what is the value you bring to your religion your deen are you just gonna come and time is just gonna perish you and you go and your presence in this world and your absence are both the same is that what you want to be or some people are even worse their presence in this world is worse than when they go how many people will be happy that they vote they've caused harm on this earth some people they are preoccupied with their phones and their mobile phones excessively just texting whatsapp calling all day messaging these things are without a doubt um it's preoccupying yourself with things that are insignificant and of no value that's what it is allah you're a muslim you're a mormon insha allah you have to have that high aspiration your life cannot be about that number 12 the 12th thing that is a sign of low aspiration it's love [Music] he said that love and obsession is only found in a person who is lazy a person who is he has nothing to do and he then said it is rare that you find love and obsession in the heart of a person who is mashuling someone who's preoccupied who's busy with something who's doing something and productive in their life even if it's not a religious issue even if it's a profession he's got a job he's got a um he's uh he has a um a nine-to-five job he's working in a uh a field of you know he's specializing in something or he's working in a particular industry yeah i need that individual otg or he's a businessman or a woman that person majority of the times you don't find them busy with the with ish love and obsession then he says then what do you think with a person who is preoccupied in the religion if the person who's preoccupied in worldly matters doesn't really get caught up in these obsession of love and lust majority of the times because they're busy with what they're doing then what do you think about if a person was preoccupied with the religion and he was busy achieving majority time that doesn't happen it happens when your aspiration goes down now when what i'm saying i keep saying is the word love with ops obsession obsessive love i'm going to mention a line of poetry of ladino one individual who was tested with excessive love and his aspiration became very low especially this poetry is when he was called to do jihad the muslims were going to wage war and fight and defend their land and their country and he was called out for the jihad and then he said about that he said and participate in the battle and then he said which jihad do i want uh to participate in hadith between every dialogue with these with the woman there's a smile and there's a life in it and then he says and everyone that is killed in the with besides them is a mata he's considering that the best jihad for him is to sit with a woman and to talk to her he said that is the jihad that i want to be in i know it's he doesn't have high aspiration aspiration and it happens from someone who the is he becomes uh preoccupied with thinking about this person so much so that the person who comes to him in his like when he's alone for akuru the person that this individual is obsessed with they start to see them even when they're not uh they're not seeing them they're alone the person starts to come into their mind and their hearts and so that's all they think about there's a powerful statement he says whoever doesn't have high aspiration lofty aspiration he's not going to be able to get rid of this sickness because this type of aspiration it will enslave you and desires humiliate an honorable person it will humiliate you he said if i knew that cold water will damage my honor and my dignity i will not drink it and in cold water if me drinking cold water means that my honor will be harmed i won't drink cold water and the one who has obsession for uh a woman or woman that individually harms his honor al-asha who's sometimes considered to be from the uh he said i see them with it for a person to connect his heart to a woman and when she is close his happiness is connected to that ibm he said he said even that though my heart is close to you and i love you my love for you like him will not reach a point where i would humiliate myself low aspiration one of its malware is excessive love obsession he said know that the thing that harms a person's religion and also his physical ability and physically harms a person and also destroys your wealth [Music] and also get rid of the veneration and the glorification that you have is being obsessive over women from the problems and the harms in the one who's obsessed with women is that he always has something but he sees another one and he has another he sees another one well but the women are all the same because he has obsession so one comes he sees another one and then he keeps like that is and he mentioned that many people they have a great person in their life an honorable individual in their life but they don't see that that doesn't come to their mind they look at something that is not in their hand they say oh that's that's the one that's the woman this one she's the west that is the one so he keeps looking at his tattoo his heart and his mind is always looking at there and he's always seeing that keeping in mind he doesn't know that person all he's seen is from the outer he really doesn't know that person is like how a person looking at the food that is in his house and he says this is rubbish the next-door neighbor's food is always better than us the women in true essence they are generally the same one is a woman and the other one is a woman they ask differences without a doubt but the tafaw and the differences that many people are basing on someone they don't know is all due to obsession and obsession is he also says he said what is fascinating is a man who is smart he's clever he sees a woman from very far wearing clothes for you and he sees that to be when he sees her beauty comes to his mind and his heart connects to this woman without actually really knowing how she looks without no information reaching him from her so yeah he might even see her to be honest in the most unappealing form and in the she doesn't look good and she doesn't but he still sees that one better than the one he has i think one of these that reminds me is a man has a wife he's got a wife and then he goes to a prostitute the prostitute is a woman that many men are fulfilling their filth with her their desires he doesn't see that he goes to that filthy dirty woman and he will leave his honorable protected wife of his that most of the time is more better looking better more hygienic of course with all of that his nafs is there he finds that appealing over this that's what the imam is talking about here so and that's the real essence of dim within us he says someone you don't know you haven't really seen them you have no understanding of them you may be glimpsed once or twice but nothing more than that your heart has now connected to that person you saw an instagram image of them for example or you saw a a twitter picture of her online and automatically she's better than someone you know they're in and they're out a partner that you are this is uh the ish that we're talking about it's the ish that we're talking about which based on dunawa i'm going to stop there insha'allah anything which i have said that was wrong or incorrect is from me and shayapan and allah and his messenger are both free action right now that will give you a share of the reward of everything we're doing on this youtube channel simple like this video and click subscribe why it will allow youtube to recommend our videos to other 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Length: 18min 47sec (1127 seconds)

Published: Sun Oct 04 2020