The Dangers of Whitewashing Black History | David Ikard | TEDxNashville

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[Music] <font color="#CCCCCC">I am the proud father of two beautiful</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">children</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">Elijah 15</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> and Octavia</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> 12 when Elijah was</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">in the fourth</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> grade</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> he came</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> to me came</font> home from<font color="#E5E5E5"> school bubbling over with</font> excitement about what<font color="#CCCCCC"> he had learned</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">that day</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> about african-american history</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">now</font> I'm an<font color="#CCCCCC"> african-american</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and cultural</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">studies professor and so as you</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> can</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">imagine african-american culture is kind</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">of serious</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> around my home so</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I was very</font> proud that<font color="#E5E5E5"> my son was excited about what</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">he had learned that day in school</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> so I</font> said well what would you<font color="#E5E5E5"> learn</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> he said I</font> learned about<font color="#E5E5E5"> Rosa Parks</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> okay what did</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">you learn about Rosa Parks</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> he said I</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">learned that Rosa Parks was this trail</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">old black woman in the 1950s in</font> Montgomery Alabama<font color="#CCCCCC"> and she sat down</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> on</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">this bus and she</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> had tired feet and when</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">the bus driver told her to give up her</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">seat to a white patron she refused</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">because she had tired feet and had been</font> a long day and<font color="#CCCCCC"> she was</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> tired of</font> oppression and<font color="#E5E5E5"> she didn't give a proceed</font> and she marched with Martin Luther<font color="#CCCCCC"> King</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">and she believed in non-violence and I</font> guess he must have<font color="#E5E5E5"> looked at my face and</font> saw that I<font color="#E5E5E5"> was a little less</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> than</font> impressed<font color="#E5E5E5"> by his history lesson and</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> so</font> he stopped it he's like dad what's wrong <font color="#E5E5E5">what what did I get wrong I said son you</font> didn't get anything<font color="#E5E5E5"> wrong but I</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> think</font> your teacher got a whole lot of<font color="#E5E5E5"> things</font> wrong what do you mean I said Rosa Parks was<font color="#E5E5E5"> not tired</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> she was not old</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">and she certainly didn't have tired feet</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">he said what I suggest Rosa Parks was</font> only<font color="#E5E5E5"> 42 years old yeah you're shocked</font> right never heard that Rosa Park was only 42<font color="#CCCCCC"> years old</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> she had only worked</font> six<font color="#E5E5E5"> hours that</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> day and she</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> was a</font> seamstress<font color="#CCCCCC"> and her feet</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> were just fine</font> the<font color="#CCCCCC"> only thing that she was tired of</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">where</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> she was tired of inequality she</font> was tired<font color="#E5E5E5"> of oppression</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> and my son said</font> well why would my teacher<font color="#E5E5E5"> you know tell</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">me this thing you know this is this is</font> confusing<font color="#E5E5E5"> for</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> me because he's easily</font> loved his teacher and she<font color="#CCCCCC"> was a she</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> was</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">a good teacher a youngish you know</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">twenty-something white women really</font> really smart<font color="#CCCCCC"> pushed</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> him so</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I liked her</font> as well<font color="#E5E5E5"> but he was confused why would</font> she tell me<font color="#CCCCCC"> this he said he said dad</font> tell me<font color="#E5E5E5"> more tell me more tell me more</font> about Rosa Parks<font color="#CCCCCC"> and I said son I'll do</font> you I'll do you one better<font color="#CCCCCC"> he was like</font> what I<font color="#E5E5E5"> said I'm gonna buy her</font> autobiography and<font color="#E5E5E5"> I'm gonna let you read</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">it yourself</font> so as you can<font color="#CCCCCC"> imagine</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">Alijah wasn't too excited about this new</font> lengthy homework assignment that<font color="#E5E5E5"> his dad</font> had just<font color="#E5E5E5"> given him but he took it in</font> stride<font color="#CCCCCC"> and</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> he</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> came back after</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> he had</font> read it and he<font color="#CCCCCC"> was</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> excited</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> about what he</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">had learned</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> he said daddy said not only</font> was Rosa Parks not<font color="#CCCCCC"> into initially into</font> non-violence<font color="#E5E5E5"> she said but Rosa Parks</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">grandfather who basically raised her and</font> was light enough<font color="#CCCCCC"> to pass his white used</font> to walk around<font color="#E5E5E5"> town with his gun in</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> his</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">holster and people knew that if you mess</font> with mr.<font color="#E5E5E5"> parks his children or</font> grandchildren<font color="#E5E5E5"> he would put a cap in</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> your</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">proverbial</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> bottom right he was not</font> someone<font color="#E5E5E5"> to mess with and he</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> said I also</font> learned that<font color="#CCCCCC"> Rosa Parks married a man in</font> Raymond who was a lot like her grandfather<font color="#E5E5E5"> right he would organize he</font> or<font color="#CCCCCC"> he</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> was he was a civil rights activist</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">he would organize events and sometimes</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">the events would</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> be at</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> Rosa Parks his</font> home and one time Rosa Parks remarked that<font color="#E5E5E5"> there were so many guns on the</font> table<font color="#CCCCCC"> because they were prepared for</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">somebody to come busting into the door</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">but they were prepared for whatever was</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">going to go down</font> the Rosa Parks<font color="#CCCCCC"> said there were so many</font> guns on the table<font color="#CCCCCC"> that I forgot to even</font> offer him<font color="#CCCCCC"> coffee or food</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> right this is</font> who Rosa Parks was and in<font color="#E5E5E5"> fact Rosa</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">Parks when she was sitting</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> on that bus</font> that<font color="#E5E5E5"> day waiting</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> for those police</font> officer arrived and not knowing<font color="#E5E5E5"> what was</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">going to happen to her</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> she</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> was not</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">thinking about Martin</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> Luther</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> King who</font> she barely knew she was not thinking <font color="#CCCCCC">about</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> non-violence or Gandhi she was</font> thinking about<font color="#E5E5E5"> her grandfather a</font> gun-toting<font color="#CCCCCC"> take no mess gunned father</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">the grandfather</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> that's who</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> Rosa Parks</font> was thinking about<font color="#E5E5E5"> and my son was</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">mesmerized by</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> Rosa Parks</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and I was proud</font> of him to see this excitement<font color="#E5E5E5"> but then I</font> still had a problem<font color="#E5E5E5"> because I still had</font> to<font color="#E5E5E5"> go to a school and address the issue</font> with<font color="#E5E5E5"> his teacher because I didn't want</font> her<font color="#CCCCCC"> to continue to teach the kids</font> obviously<font color="#E5E5E5"> false history so I'm</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> an</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> izing</font> over this primarily<font color="#CCCCCC"> because I understand</font> as an<font color="#E5E5E5"> african-american man that whenever</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">you talk to whites about racism or</font> anything that's racially sensitive <font color="#E5E5E5">there's usually going</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> to</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> be a challenge</font> this<font color="#E5E5E5"> is what</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> sociologist</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> white</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">sociologist Robyn D'Angelo calls white</font> fragility she argues that in fact because whites have so little<font color="#CCCCCC"> experience</font> being challenged about<font color="#E5E5E5"> their white</font> privilege<font color="#E5E5E5"> that whenever even the most my</font> new challenge<font color="#CCCCCC"> is</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> brought before them</font> they<font color="#CCCCCC"> usually cry get</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> angry or run and I</font> have<font color="#E5E5E5"> experienced them all and so when I</font> was contemplating<font color="#CCCCCC"> confronting his</font> teacher<font color="#CCCCCC"> I</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> wasn't wasn't happy about it</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">but</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> I was like this is a necessary evil</font> of being a black<font color="#E5E5E5"> parent trying to raise</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">self actualize black children so I</font> called<font color="#E5E5E5"> Elijah to me and I said Elijah</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">I'm gonna tell your teacher you know I'm</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">gonna set</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> up an appointment your teacher</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">and try and correct this</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> and maybe</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> your</font> principal<font color="#E5E5E5"> what do you think and Elijah</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">said that I have a better idea and I</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">said really what's your idea</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> he said we</font> have a public speaking assignment<font color="#E5E5E5"> and</font> why<font color="#CCCCCC"> don't I use that</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> public speaking</font> assignment<font color="#E5E5E5"> to talk about debunking the</font> myths<font color="#CCCCCC"> of Rosa Parks</font> and I was like well well that is a<font color="#E5E5E5"> good</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">idea</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> so Elijah goes to school he does</font> his presentation<font color="#CCCCCC"> he comes</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> back home and</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">I</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> can see something positive happened I</font> said<font color="#E5E5E5"> well what</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> happened son</font> he said well later<font color="#E5E5E5"> on in that day the</font> teacher<font color="#E5E5E5"> pulled me aside and</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> she</font> apologized to<font color="#CCCCCC"> me for giving that</font> misinformation<font color="#CCCCCC"> and then something</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> else</font> miraculous happened the next<font color="#E5E5E5"> day</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> she</font> actually taught a new lesson on Rosa Parks<font color="#E5E5E5"> filling in the gaps that she had</font> left and correcting the mistakes<font color="#E5E5E5"> that</font> she made<font color="#E5E5E5"> and I was so so proud of my son</font> but then I thought<font color="#CCCCCC"> about</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> it and I got</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">angry</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> and I got real angry</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> why why would</font> I get<font color="#CCCCCC"> angry</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> because my</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> nine-year-old son</font> had to educate<font color="#CCCCCC"> his teacher</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> about his</font> history<font color="#CCCCCC"> had you</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> educate his teacher</font> about his own humanity<font color="#E5E5E5"> he's nine years</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">old</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> he should be thinking about</font> basketball<font color="#CCCCCC"> or soccer or write the latest</font> movie he should not<font color="#CCCCCC"> be thinking</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> about</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">having to take the</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> responsibility of</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">educating his teacher</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> his his his</font> students<font color="#E5E5E5"> write about himself about his</font> history<font color="#CCCCCC"> that was the burden that</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> I</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> carry</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">it was a bearing that my parents cared</font> and generations<font color="#E5E5E5"> before them</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> caring and</font> now<font color="#E5E5E5"> I was seeing my son take on that</font> burden<font color="#E5E5E5"> too</font> you see that's why Rosa Parks wrote her autobiography<font color="#E5E5E5"> because during her</font> lifetime<font color="#CCCCCC"> if you can</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> imagine you do this</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">you you do this amazing thing you're</font> alive and<font color="#E5E5E5"> you're talking</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> about this your</font> civil<font color="#E5E5E5"> rights activism and a story</font> emerges in which somebody<font color="#E5E5E5"> is</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> telling</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> the</font> world<font color="#CCCCCC"> that you were old</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and you had</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">Tiger's</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> feet and you just were an</font> accidental activist not that you had been an activist by then<font color="#E5E5E5"> for</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> 20 years</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">not that the</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> boycott had been planned</font> for months<font color="#CCCCCC"> not that you were not</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> even</font> the first or the<font color="#E5E5E5"> second or even the</font> third woman to be arrested<font color="#CCCCCC"> for doing that</font> right you become<font color="#CCCCCC"> an accidental activist</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">even in our own lifetime so she wrote</font> that autobiography<font color="#E5E5E5"> to correct the record</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">because what</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> she wanted to remind people</font> of was that this is what it<font color="#E5E5E5"> was like in</font> the 1950s<font color="#CCCCCC"> trying to be black in America</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">and fight for</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> your rights during</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> the</font> year<font color="#CCCCCC"> a</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> little over a year that</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> the</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">boycott lasted there</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> were over</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> four</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">Church</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> bombings Martin Luther King's</font> house was<font color="#E5E5E5"> bombed twice other civil</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">rights</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> leaders houses were bombed in</font> Birmingham<font color="#CCCCCC"> Rosa Parks husband slept at</font> night with a shotgun<font color="#E5E5E5"> because they would</font> get constant death threats<font color="#E5E5E5"> in fact Rosa</font> Parks<font color="#E5E5E5"> mother</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> lived with</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> them and</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">sometimes she would</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> stay on the phone</font> for<font color="#CCCCCC"> hours so that</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> somebody'd</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> so that</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">nobody would call in with death threats</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">because it was constant and persistent</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">in fact there</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> was so much tension</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> there</font> was so much<font color="#CCCCCC"> pressure there was so much</font> terrorism that Rosa<font color="#CCCCCC"> Parks</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and her</font> husband they lost their jobs and they became unemployable<font color="#E5E5E5"> and eventually had</font> to<font color="#E5E5E5"> leave and move out of the south this</font> is a civil rights reality that Rosa Parks wanted to make sure<font color="#CCCCCC"> that people</font> understood<font color="#E5E5E5"> so you say well well David</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">what does that</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> have to do with</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> me I'm a</font> well-meaning<font color="#E5E5E5"> person</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I didn't know in</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">slaves</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> you know I'm not trying to</font> whitewash<font color="#E5E5E5"> history I'm a good guy I'm a</font> good person<font color="#E5E5E5"> let me tell you what it has</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">to do with you</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and I'll tell it</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> to you</font> by telling you<font color="#CCCCCC"> a story</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> about a professor</font> of mine<font color="#E5E5E5"> white professor</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> when I was in</font> graduate<font color="#E5E5E5"> school who was brilliant</font> brilliant<font color="#E5E5E5"> individual we'll call him Fred</font> and Fred<font color="#E5E5E5"> was writing this history</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> of the</font> civil rights<font color="#CCCCCC"> movement but he was writing</font> specifically<font color="#E5E5E5"> about a moment that</font> happened to him in North Carolina<font color="#E5E5E5"> when</font> this white man shot this<font color="#E5E5E5"> black man in</font> cold blood<font color="#E5E5E5"> in a</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> wide-open space and was</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">never convicted</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> and so it was this great</font> book<font color="#E5E5E5"> and he called</font> together a<font color="#E5E5E5"> couple of his professor</font> friends and he called me to<font color="#CCCCCC"> have to read</font> a<font color="#E5E5E5"> draft of it before final submission</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">and I was flattered that he called me I</font> was only a graduate<font color="#CCCCCC"> student then and I</font> was kind of feeling<font color="#CCCCCC"> you know</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> feeling</font> myself<font color="#E5E5E5"> a little bit okay yeah I'm</font> sitting<font color="#CCCCCC"> around amongst intellectuals</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and</font> I read the<font color="#CCCCCC"> draft of</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> the</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> book and there's</font> a<font color="#E5E5E5"> moment in the book that struck me as</font> being<font color="#E5E5E5"> deeply problematic and</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> so I said</font> Fred<font color="#E5E5E5"> as we were sitting</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> around</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> talking</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">about this draft I said Fred</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I've got a</font> real<font color="#E5E5E5"> problem with this moment</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> that you</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">talk about you're made in your book and</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">he said I could see Fred get a little</font> you know<font color="#E5E5E5"> a</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> little tight as we say and he</font> said what do you mean that was<font color="#E5E5E5"> that's a</font> great story<font color="#E5E5E5"> I I that was a</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> big you know</font> it happened<font color="#CCCCCC"> just</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> like I said</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> said can</font> I give you another scenario<font color="#E5E5E5"> now what's</font> the<font color="#E5E5E5"> story it was 1968 Martin</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> Luther</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> King</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">had just been assassinated his maid</font> domestic<font color="#CCCCCC"> we'll call her Maybelle</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> was in</font> the kitchen<font color="#E5E5E5"> little Fred is</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> 8 years old</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">little Fred comes into the</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> kitchen and</font> Maybelle who<font color="#E5E5E5"> he's all he's only seen as</font> smiling<font color="#CCCCCC"> and helpful and happy</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> is bent</font> over the sink<font color="#CCCCCC"> and she's crying and she's</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">sobbing inconsolably</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and little Fred</font> comes over to her and<font color="#E5E5E5"> says Maybelle what</font> is wrong<font color="#CCCCCC"> and maybe</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> I'll</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> turns and she</font> says they killed him<font color="#E5E5E5"> they killed our</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">leader they killed Martin Luther King</font> he's dead<font color="#CCCCCC"> they</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> are monsters and little</font> Fred says it'll<font color="#E5E5E5"> be</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> okay Maybelle it'll</font> be okay it'll<font color="#E5E5E5"> be</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> okay and she looked at</font> him<font color="#E5E5E5"> she's no it's not gonna be okay</font> did you did you not hear<font color="#E5E5E5"> what I just</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">said they</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> killed</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> Martin Luther King and</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">Fred</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> son of a preacher</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">it looks up at Maybelle and he says but</font> Maybelle<font color="#E5E5E5"> didn't Jesus died on the</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> cross</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">for our sins</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> wasn't that a good outcome</font> maybe this will<font color="#CCCCCC"> be a good outcome maybe</font> the death of Martin Luther King will lead to a good outcome<font color="#CCCCCC"> and as Fred tells</font> the story<font color="#E5E5E5"> he</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> says that maybe I'll put</font> her hand over her<font color="#CCCCCC"> mouth</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> she reached down</font> and<font color="#E5E5E5"> she gave little Fred hug and didn't</font> she reached<font color="#E5E5E5"> into the</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> ice box and took</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">out a couple Pepsi's it gave him some</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">Pepsi's and sent him on his way to play</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">with the siblings and he said this was</font> proof that<font color="#E5E5E5"> even in the most harrowing</font> times of race struggle that two<font color="#E5E5E5"> people</font> could come together<font color="#E5E5E5"> across racial lines</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">and find human commonality along the</font> lines of love and affection<font color="#CCCCCC"> and I said</font> Fred<font color="#CCCCCC"> that is some BS Fred was he said</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">Fred was like what but I don't</font> understand<font color="#E5E5E5"> David I I'm</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> really</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> odd that</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">that's that's the story I said friend</font> let<font color="#E5E5E5"> me ask you a question</font> I said you were in North Carolina<font color="#E5E5E5"> 1968</font> if maybe<font color="#E5E5E5"> I would</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> have went to</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> her</font> community<font color="#E5E5E5"> you were eight years old what</font> do you think the<font color="#CCCCCC"> eight year old</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">african-american</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> children were calling</font> her do you<font color="#E5E5E5"> think they were calling her</font> by<font color="#CCCCCC"> her first</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> name</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">no they called her miss Maybelle or they</font> called her<font color="#E5E5E5"> miss Johnson</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> or they called</font> her Auntie Johnson<font color="#E5E5E5"> they would have never</font> dare call her by her<font color="#CCCCCC"> first name</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> because</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">that would</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> have been the height</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> of</font> disrespect<font color="#CCCCCC"> and yet you were calling her</font> by<font color="#CCCCCC"> her first</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> name every single day that</font> she worked<font color="#E5E5E5"> and you never thought about</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">it</font> I said let<font color="#CCCCCC"> me ask you</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> another question</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">was</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> Maybelle mary did she have children</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">but what church did she go to what was</font> her favorite dessert<font color="#E5E5E5"> tread could not</font> answer<font color="#CCCCCC"> any of those questions I said</font> Fred<font color="#CCCCCC"> this story is not about</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> Maybelle</font> the<font color="#CCCCCC"> story's about</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> you</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I said this story</font> made you feel good<font color="#E5E5E5"> but this story is not</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">about Maybelle</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> the reality is what</font> probably happened was Maybelle was crying<font color="#E5E5E5"> which was not something she</font> customarily did so she was<font color="#E5E5E5"> letting her</font> guard down<font color="#E5E5E5"> and you came into the</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> kitchen</font> and you caught her at a weak<font color="#CCCCCC"> moment</font> where she<font color="#E5E5E5"> was letting her guard down and</font> see because<font color="#E5E5E5"> you thought of yourself</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> it's</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">just like one</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> of her children you didn't</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">recognize that you were in fact</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> the</font> child of her<font color="#CCCCCC"> employer</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> and she found</font> herself<font color="#E5E5E5"> yelling at you and then she</font> caught herself<font color="#E5E5E5"> realizing that if I'm</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">yelling at him and</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> he goes back and he</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">tells his dad or he tells mom I could</font> lose<font color="#E5E5E5"> my job</font> and so she tempered herself<font color="#E5E5E5"> and she</font> ended up<font color="#E5E5E5"> even though she needed</font> consoling she ended up consoling you and sending you on your way perhaps so she could finish mourning in peace<font color="#CCCCCC"> and</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> Fred was stunned and he</font> realized that he<font color="#CCCCCC"> had actually misread</font> that moment and see this is what they <font color="#CCCCCC">did to Rosa Parks because there's a lot</font> easier<font color="#CCCCCC"> to digest an old grandmother</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> with</font> tired feet<font color="#CCCCCC"> who doesn't stand</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> up because</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">she wants</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> to fight for any quality but</font> because her feet and her<font color="#E5E5E5"> bat are tired</font> and she's worked all<font color="#CCCCCC"> day she</font> grandmother's old<font color="#CCCCCC"> grandmothers are not</font> scary<font color="#E5E5E5"> but</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> young radical black women who</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">don't take any stuff from anybody are</font> very scary<font color="#CCCCCC"> who stand up to power and are</font> willing<font color="#E5E5E5"> to die for</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> that those are not</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">the kind of people</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> that make us</font> comfortable so you say what do you<font color="#CCCCCC"> want me to do</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">David</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I don't know what to do well what</font> I would<font color="#E5E5E5"> say</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> to you is there</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> was a time</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">in which if you were Jewish you were not</font> white<font color="#CCCCCC"> if you were Italian you were</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> not</font> white<font color="#E5E5E5"> if you were Irish you were not</font> white in<font color="#E5E5E5"> this country</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> it took a while</font> before the<font color="#CCCCCC"> Irish</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> the Jews and the</font> Italians became white right<font color="#CCCCCC"> there was a</font> time in<font color="#CCCCCC"> which you were other when you</font> were<font color="#E5E5E5"> the people on the outside</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> Toni</font> Morrison said if in<font color="#E5E5E5"> order for you to be</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">taller I have</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> to be on my knees</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> you have</font> <font color="#CCCCCC">a serious problem she says white America</font> has a serious<font color="#E5E5E5"> serious</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> problem to be</font> honest I don't<font color="#E5E5E5"> know if race relations</font> will improve<font color="#E5E5E5"> in America but</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> I know that</font> if they will improve<font color="#E5E5E5"> we have to take</font> these challenges on head-on<font color="#CCCCCC"> the future</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">of my children depend on it the future</font> <font color="#E5E5E5">of my children's children depends on it</font> and whether you know it or not<font color="#E5E5E5"> the</font> future<font color="#E5E5E5"> of your children and your</font> children's<font color="#CCCCCC"> children</font><font color="#E5E5E5"> depends on it</font><font color="#CCCCCC"> too</font> thank<font color="#E5E5E5"> you</font> [Applause]
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Channel: TEDx Talks
Views: 579,193
Rating: 4.7734246 out of 5
Keywords: TEDxTalks, English, Social Science, Big problems, Culture, Discrimination, History, Human Rights, Inequality, Politics, Progress, Race, Social Change, Social Interaction, Social Justice, Society, Sociology
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Length: 18min 27sec (1107 seconds)
Published: Wed Jun 13 2018
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