In the story of the Bible, King Solomon was the wisest ruler that Israel ever had. There are three books in the Hebrew scriptures connected to him: Proverbs, Ecclesiastes and the Song of Songs. They passed down the legacy of Solomon's wisdom, but in a surprising way. So, let's talk about how to read the books of Solomon. Okay. To really appreciate the story of Solomon's wisdom we have to go back to the garden of Eden. Where God created humanity, male and female. Right, Adam and Eve! God commissions them to rule the world together in intimacy and love. Kings and queens of creation. In order to rule, you need to be wise. The humans have a choice about how to gain wisdom. Yeah. They could live by God's wisdom which will lead to life. Or, they could become wise in their own eyes. That is what they choose: to take the knowledge of good and bad into their own hands. Immediately the intimacy between man and woman is broken. They hide their bodies from each other and then from God. Their choice leads to division and death. But the story holds out hope for a future human who will make the right choice and rely on God's wisdom. Like King Solomon. He prayed that God would give him the knowledge to know good from bad so he could rule with true wisdom. Exactly! He reverses the failure of Adam and Eve and it leads to abundance. In Solomon's day every Israelite sat in peace under their own fruit tree. Oh! It is like he is creating Eden. Well, for a while. But then, Solomon fails. He marries hundreds of women from other nations and he is deceived to follow their gods. This begins Israel's long descent into self destruction. So, when we turn to the books of Solomon we are invited to learn wisdom from his successes and his failures. Got it! So let's start with Proverbs. The book of Proverbs is most well known for the hundreds of short memorable sayings that teach us how live by God's wisdom. Like, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not be wise in your eyes." In Proverbs, living by God's wisdom instead of your own is called "The Fear of the Lord". Like in the book's opening paragraph, "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom." Now, Proverbs isn't just memorable sayings. It actually begins with a lot of poetry. Yes. Nine chapters of speeches from Solomon to his royal sons. He tells them to pursue God's wisdom which is symbolized as an elegant woman. Wisdom is a woman? Yes. Remember, in the Garden of Eden, the man and the woman's intimacy was violated by their failed search for wisdom. But now in Proverbs, humans who reunite with God's wisdom become what Adam and Eve failed to be: wise human rulers. Proverbs 3 even says that when we embrace lady wisdom, we are taking hold of the tree of life. Now we are the ones in the garden. Exactly. Proverbs is saying that every day, we all stand before the tree with our own choice to make. Solomon urges us, "Choose wisdom and life!" Got it. So, how does Ecclesiastes fit into Solomon's story? Well, in this book it is like we are meeting Solomon near the end of his life. He offers some sober reflections. "Life is hevel." That is the Hebrew word for "vapor" or "smoke" which is unpredictable and uncontrollable. He is constantly talking about life "under the sun." That is, life outside of the garden. How it is confusing and difficult. Right. Even when we live by God's wisdom, life can be full of disappointments. Leading up to the ultimate disappointment: your own death. That's depressing. But at the end of the book, he says we should strive to live by wisdom and the fear of the Lord, just with more realistic expectations. Got it. Well, maybe the next book will cheer us up. The Song of Songs, a love poem between a man and a woman. It will make you blush. Yeah. On its basic level of meaning, this book is racy Hebrew love poetry. But remember, in Proverbs, humanity's pursuit of wisdom was portrayed with the symbolism of a man pursuing a woman in a garden. But in this song, it is the woman who is searching and longing for her lover. Yes, it is a poetic image of lady wisdom pursuing us so that we can have life. In fact, the song ends with a poem about how this lady's love is more powerful than death itself. So the song works on two levels. It is celebrating human's desire for intimacy. And saying that that desire points to humanity's ultimate purpose: to be united with God and his wisdom. So we can rule, united with each other. Exactly. This is why the song ends with the man and the woman united in love under a fruit tree. So, the story of Solomon and these three books invite us to see ourselves within the whole biblical story. Yes. They are about how God designed all of us to rule the world by his wisdom so that we can all find true life.
There are definitely strong women in the Bible. Deborah was a prophetess and the judge of Israel, Jael straight up assassinated a tyrant with a tent stake, Abigail runs out between her home and a pissed off army to negotiate for the safety of her family, and Proverbs 31 describes a hardworking, intelligent woman that's clearly doing as much as (if not more than) her husband in maintaining their livelihood and home.
On the more corrupt side of things, Israel goes through several evil queens that are clearly more in charge than the king that they're married to. The most notable example is Jezebel
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/ot/prov/1?lang=eng
Just have to ignore all of the other crazy shit in the bible.