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hey what's going on guys so today I wanted to talk about a video that has been requested quite a lot in the past and it's only been after I have received an email from a longtime subscriber also a member of the Thailand guys I said you know what you should actually make a video about this and he shared his thoughts in an email which were also covered in this video and then also add my own experience in my own thoughts basically it's the topic of a holiday girlfriend for your Thailand trip and the reality is that you know if you're a single man going to trial you probably want to do all the fun stuff that I talked about or that you've read about it could be in Bangkok taia and Phuket or in all those cities you try out all the stuff right and for some men that is enough and they keep partying every night they meet a different girl every night and the bars and nightclubs it kind of becomes a territory right they enjoy it they never get bored of it but then there's another group of men that that might party for a week or so but then they realize okay you know what I want to take it slow the partying is nice but I don't want to party every night kind of fit up with it I want to take it slow I want to relax I want to chill you know at a nice location maybe somewhere on an island but of course if you're by yourself that is really pretty boring and so what what they're missing or what they're looking for is a holiday girlfriend and that's what I want to talk about in this video how to get one how to make it happen efficiently quickly with minimal costs and ideally no drama okay because the last thing that you want is drama or anything negative in terms of emotions now before we get started a few things that I want to get out there first of all forget about the idea of booking a holiday girlfriend online using an agency or whatever or the misconception that you know this type of arrangement costs thousands of dollars per day is absolutely crazy it does not and lastly this is just my personal experience if you want to make it happen quickly efficiently not waste much time I would not go the route of meeting and relationship with a regular girl if it's for holiday only yes it's possible but in my opinion it's too much effort and then she might be at work and she's very in not very flexible with traveling etc so that's why I say you know I would rather go with a freelancer and I will go into detail as to why this is my preference so when you talk about Thai girlfriend for your holiday you thinking okay the two options a regular Thai girl that I mean let's see while I'm out clubbing or online etc or I can go with a freelancer and I understand the idea of taking a Thai freelancer on holiday with you doesn't sound very romantic and that is at least on paper in reality my personal experience you know hundreds of guys that have talked to this very little difference between a freelancer that likes you in an ordinary Thai girl the difference is that the Thai freelancer is upfront and one's money well let's say a reggae tiger might want something else or some perks right free food from travel or be you be the entertainment monkey entertaining her but various means right but notice how I said a freelancer that likes you and that is the essential criteria many guys make the mistake of simply taking any girl with them that they find attractive but they're not aware whether the girl also likes them okay and this is the reason why you find reports online stating that paying for girl does not feel like the real deal okay this is absolutely crucial this is difference between a good experience and an experience where it feels very mechanical and it feels like a pain experience now does she really like you before you think about taking a girl on vacation with you my opinion you should at least spend some time with her okay with a short time or overnight you just want to find out about the girl and see okay does she really like me was it just for the money I said I'm watching what she's up to and then you can look at her behavior okay when you spend some time with her for example you book short time one hour - but then she stays overnight let's say you condo right that's an indicator that she likes you some additional common sense cues are she wants to cuddle afterwards she initiates intimacy or sex when she doesn't have to let's say you know you just booked for short time right and then she spends all night with you or stays until next day or she initiate sex when she didn't even have to just agreed upon and one hour and she stayed overnight at etc those are all indicators that she likes you or even I would say offers intercourse without protection okay this is also a sign that she's into you but you're specifically saying it that you should not in my opinion take up her offer it's just a sign that you look at okay offers to not use protection that's a sign number one that she's likes me that she likes me but I personally absolutely never ever would take her up on that offer I mean I have had this bunch of time with freelancers also regular girls where not only do they say that you don't have to use protection but they become really forceful like they want to force it without protection and I'm like whoa get off me right but it's a sign obviously that the girls are tracted to you so basically anytime that the girl goes beyond what was agreed upon is a sign that she's into you and that's you know usually a keeper in my experience this is something you really have to think about and remind yourself of when choosing a girl okay wait basically you want to meet a girl in a scenario where it's up to her to decide whether she wants to go with you or not because let's say you go to a good example would be a massage parlor right you go in the girls lineup any girl that you pick she has to go with you because she works at the massage school and she cannot say no I don't want to so in that case it might be that the girl is not attracted to you maybe she's even like nah I'm disgusted by this guy but I still have to do it I'm not in the mood or whatever right but on the other hand when we talk about freely sir or girl you know even in regular bar she can decide which guy she likes she can decide whether or not she wants to go with you and when it's voluntarily then it's really the best case scenario in regards to spending time we go and finding the right girl okay location proximity is another big thing not so much in regards to finding the right girl but setting up the whole thing the holiday girlfriend experience if you want to spend your holiday on an island say via Phuket then it simply doesn't make sense to take a girl all the way from Bangkok to Phuket first of all she will want you to pay for the flight and what if you don't like her anymore after a few days and now you're stuck with her on the island or say for example you want to have your holiday experience on an island close to Phuket you would simply meet a girl in Phuket wilcos fine and then take her to that island because that way you keep it both your investment and risk low and the same obviously applies to when you should decide to stay near Bangkok of attire all right now let's talk about what I call risk management the last thing that you want is make a deal with a girl only to realize that you've messed up your entire trip and wasted money and this is what I call holiday girlfriend risk management I mean it sounds a bit mechanical like we're talking about a product but at the end of the day it's a service and you're putting your money in time at risk so risk management is worth consideration right I always say you have to maintain the upper hand you always have to maintain leverage this is the most important thing to keep in mind when planning a holiday trip with the Thai girlfriend so number one this is common sense you test before you buy right you don't just meet a girl and you talk to her and you're like yo do you want to go on holiday with me to this island for two weeks without even knowing the girl or having spent you know a few hours with the girl overnight so you should ideally spend some time with the girl couple of nights before deciding to take her on a holiday and then I would also say never paint they in advance take your girl as I've said from the closest city to your holiday destination an ideal you have one to two girls as kind of a backup option right this will make it easier for you to cut off the girl if she starts acting up now in terms of risk management there are additional considerations which I think most guys overlook and this is where I will cover what I've received from this longtime subscriber his thoughts pretty much sum up the most critical points again so here it is he says I think this will be an interesting topic for a video I like you to pass on a couple of points should anyone get offers of daily rates for holiday companion to take on his trip so the first thing that he mentions is fluency and he says it's an enormous risk as the girl might be great company for a few days but Thai girls are incredibly flyyy unless you can remain calm and talk her down it's a disproportionate risk I can suspect I can suspect the greater one Thai language skills are the better ones chances of a good trip are my opinion thus far is that if you can't completely understand each high drama show you're not food enough the second thing is where he mentions the daily costs and how they might possibly skyrocket and some things that you you know the average guy thinking about this might not even consider it might sound like a great deal right you have a girl on the man with you 24/7 you can go crazy but you should also do a proper evaluation of the costs because meals may be flights out of nope than anywhere you met the girl where the girl is staying and then add in half of her daily rate for gifts at a minimum she will be constantly pasturing for the make up she didn't bring that her clothes are ruined by the rain and that her shoes are too uncomfortable to walk around to all the sites you want to see so do a full full accounting of the expected cost before deciding that it's a good deal okay number three will be emotional groups maintaining your emotional distance is difficult when there was someone 24 hours a day and you know you intimate with that person multiple times a day that's just human nature compounded by any efforts to sink those hooks in and he says he knows his limits but he has had to put his foot down when she crossed them and some people will be less capable of doing this number four is libido hot-chick he basically says a hot chick that meet your heart just looking at her well that's nice but how long do you think that attraction will last for him it was three days and past that it has kind of lost its appeal I mean women are still an attraction but the 20th time dining at the Ritz becomes kind of not so exciting anymore and nearly says the girl was still attractive but the wow factor was kind of gone after that you know after a few days then he talks about a religion you know says Thai women particularly the freelancers seem extremely religious maybe if you need to cleanse their soul for what t2 is he says he's not religious integral he was with kept pushing tolerance onto him like the idea of being tolerant in that in essence to keep it short that kind of annoyed him and something to keep in mind and the last point that he mentions is something else that you have to keep in mind which is very important it will apply to pretty much all women right it's a period and not the punctuation mark the biological rhythms that these stabilize any and all women at very least you should find out when she's due if she's to sometime during the vacation and you should flee he says Thai women seem to lose to the fraying threats to sanity that they normally have and that's this experience you should run and that's something you should keep in mind before even planning your holiday number seven this is something I have added to this the seventh point is knowing yourself I think knowing how you tick is absolutely essential to get all right where does the hotter girl friend your trip in general or life in general you can kind of look at your past experience and ask yourself a couple of questions for example do you get bored of any individual girl very easily you get annoyed with girls ends of the night if that's the case then perhaps having different girls regularly instead of getting one holiday dolphin is a better option for you and I know this advice to me I'll get you know used to and boy with girls very very very quickly so for me this what means something a day or two would be nice but beyond that I would just be annoyed so I know okay a long-term holiday for the girl no this is not gonna happen just my nature right also you can ask yourself do you only care about you know intimacy or do you only care about intimacy and the rest of the day you want to be left alone or is it does it go beyond that you actually like hanging out with a girl it's only intimacy then it's probably better to not take a girl with you in that case you know having other girls around you that you can call up or text to to meet up with you might be a better option because otherwise if it's just a girl they take with you for intimacy and any hours between that you don't really like to have her around you it might feel like a burden okay and the last thing to keep in mind is what ask yourself is do you want to be flexible and spontaneous is that something that's important you don't want to plan far ahead do you like a variety imagine you're with your quality girlfriend and you see another girl which you prefer simply one night you feel like going out alone and meeting other girls so what now right if the holiday girlfriend is up for that for such an experience with another girl then you got fine but otherwise the holiday girlfriend will be with you in the same room and it will be annoying or it might even cause drama in this situation for example didya of taking holiday girlfriend to a remote island sounds good on paper but it will probably play out very differently in reality so I'm saying think twice about going ahead with your plan if you do perhaps limit the trip to a few days only can always extend it if if all goes well but kind like do a little test run throw all goes well you're doing it goes having a good time then you can always extend it okay now you probably ask yourself sounds of nice sounds of good where do I actually need a holiday girlfriend okay I mean where do we actually find potential candidates for the role of my holiday governor now I've written extensive covering nightlife areas in Bangkok Italian Phuket you can check those out in any place where in general you can read a freelancer is a place where you can meet the holiday girlfriend okay those places are a good start and you know if you read those guides you will see exactly we have to find which type of working girl what to expect in terms of prices and services etc etc if you want something more advanced can always check out my talent guide generally speaking meeting freelancers and for example nightclubs even on the nightlife areas on the street will be your cheapest option that is because there's no bar fine and the daily rates can be negotiated without constraints and oftentimes freelancers are on this gray area go steadily yeah well they're not really full-time freelancers or bar girls full-time bar girls the testing looking for additional money already might only go with let's see two or three guys a month so that is an option and it will be the cheapest one they take a girl from a bar or Google bar it will be very expensive as the girl is not able to work during the time while on vacation with you and you have to compensate the bar in the form of a bar fine okay that you have to pay what are the costs of actually you know getting paid Thai holiday golfing now unlike bar finds something like a short time a long time there's really no set range for the cost of such an experience and the two reasons that I can think of why this is the case first of all taking a Thai freelancer on holiday with you he's not as common as let's say booking her a short time a long time or spending the night with her etc and second and this is the bigger factor where you stay in what you do during your holiday matters a lot ok this makes a huge difference and it's you know common sense if you think about it if say your stay at a luxury resort that has you know amazing buffet and there's massage services including and all sorts of other cool stuff and the girl that likes you might just say you know what this is awesome I don't even want to get paid just being able to stay at the hotel for free and free food is awesome I don't need any additional money this is often the case okay it's understand you know it's hard to resist if on the other hand you stay at some budget hotel that doesn't even have a pool really just a tiny room then to compensate for the lack of clothes the girl will probably most likely ask for a daily rate and it will probably be the highest daily rate as opposed to staying in you know a nicer place that the rate might actually be lower or there might be no additional payment so this is something to keep in mind and some guys offer perks only in the forum they say okay you can be my holiday girlfriend and you can get free accommodation free food etc but there will not be a daily rate and this makes sense as I've said if you stay in a fancy place and the girls staying with you doesn't even cost you extra because the room is for two people anyway then that is definitely a good option also the longer you want the girl to stay with you the more leeway in general you have in regards to negotiating the rain when negotiating don't get discouraged by what you might read online about the costs of such a holiday girlfriend experience I mean I personally know freelancers I've mentioned this in a previous video that got paid 100 thousand baht which is around three thousand dollars and flight tickets for just one week and today I would say please don't be an idiot and think you have to pay these crazy rates okay something more reasonable will be a thousand to 2,000 baht per day and that's roughly thirty to sixty dollars and that's a rate assuming that there are no additional pros such as the luxury hotel example that I've mentioned previously if you cover food and accommodation and the place you're going to is interesting I would say most girls that generally like you will be happy to join you even if it's just you know to get away from hectic knocketh and get free food I said or etc now lastly probably the most important thing you have to keep in mind what the mindset you should have is be willing to walk off at any time okay really get try to get this in your hand this is your Thailand trip okay this is your Thailand trip you have probably invested a good amount of money for flights recommendation perhaps you've taken time of work so I would say don't accept anything but the very best if the girl you're with starts acting up or does something consistently that you don't like you talk to her and she doesn't really change don't even let that ruin you have to put yourself first not all the girls are the same and not all girls are great but I would say do not bullshit yourself into thinking that you that the girl you with is not replaceable because most likely she is so if the girl you're with becomes you know ungrateful or entitled just know that there probably a dozen girls nearby who will be more than happy to serve you or you can decide you know I'm gonna keep quiet and accept what is and let the girl ruin my Thailand holiday okay so as Thai girls like to say up to you hey what's going on guys hope you enjoyed this video if you have any additional questions about this topic or you want to read about this more in depth you can check out the link in the description or simply go to the website King epic comm where the written article I published new blog post regularly so in addition to your YouTube channel you can regularly check out my blog for new information about Thailand diets tips and tricks etc alright see you in the next video

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