Should You Text Them Again?

attraction is a dance attraction is I take one step forward and then I take a step back and you step into my lane here now I take another step forward and now I take another step back when I take a step forward you take a step back when I take a step back you take a step forward but we're here we're dancing it's not Chase Chase Chase Chase so invest and then test if I give a little if I take a step forward do you now take a step forward invest then test and I also think about this in terms of modeling the behavior that we want to see instead of mirroring the behavior that someone else is giving us let me give you an example of that you go on a date with someone and they don't text you people ask me can I text them of course you can text them that's just taking a step forward and what you're doing is you're modeling what you want to see from them and that's okay that's how we get the relationships we want is we teach people how to love us by the way that we love them we teach them how to invest in Us by the way that we invest in them but we don't we only do it in small mini experiments that's how we Safeguard our own energy

Channel: Matthew Hussey

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Length: 0min 56sec (56 seconds)

Published: Tue Sep 05 2023