Shannon Sharpe Admits That Black Men Are Suffering Dating Black Women

people would rather you be miserable with someone in your own race than you be in love with someone of a different race it is so utterly ridiculous i read the comments people need to get a life let that man be happy i get i get it i get it but if he's if he if that's not what brings him joy if that's not what brings him happiness who are you to tell him who he should be with because it's not of his race i get it guys it's another one of these interracial dating videos starring you the black man but this conversation is so compelling it just keeps going on and on but i want you to consider this because i'm just like you an african-american i grew up in the inner city went to the black church had black friends some of you you know your parents may have had more money than me may have had less money than me but i think we all share the same experience and if you were somewhat of a high achiever you knew that if you came home with a woman that wasn't black like your mom it was a disgrace to her it was a slap in her face you know it kind of indicated that she did something wrong so many of us we didn't want to let our mother down right so we wanted to go out and get that beautiful black queen bring her back to the church merrier have black kids you know because he wanted to be accepted by our community we didn't want to be one of those brothers that was a sellout plus we love black women right but what happens to those black men who look at the black community as a place of trauma as a place of rejection as a place of you know some place that people laughed at you and even worse black dating what if you were the guy that you know chicks didn't like and you weren't cool and maybe you didn't sell drugs you didn't have the nice slang you didn't have the nice jordans and you know you got out in the real world and what you're doing now will be if considered will be considered corny like that has that changed your perspective in dating it may have and what shannon sharp said might actually be true for some of you guys listening now listen shannon sharp is just like us he grew up in georgia he grew up with black parents he even has a black daughter but as he started to get out in the real world the opportunities um became greater and greater to deal with other groups of women and that's the case with brony james i mean he's the son of lebron james and you know we see what he's doing and his prime pictures and people are very upset with that but you heard what shannon sharp said what did he say people would much rather you be suffering in your own race than be happy with somebody else well what do we what does he mean by people because there's only really one race of people we could be talking about because white people they tend to you know stay together longer hispanics asians there's really only one group of people that he could be referring to that want you to suffer that is the black race that's african-americans in particular so what does shannon sharp revealing for some of the black men out there and he didn't want to phrase it in that way so he couldn't be canceled but shannon sharp is admitting to something that we already kind of know that um yeah some black relationships if not most people are suffering right there's not a lot of great things going on and a lot of black men feel that they need to keep it you know real they need to keep it black they need to go into the black love thing uh you know or for fear of being ostracized you know by the mother by the community by being called a sellout instead of figuring out how to be happy now i i want to talk about this because shannon sharp you know if he was uh let's say he was a woman okay and uh in in and it was a black woman taking the picture with a white man and shannon sharp was asked about that then the response would have been okay because black women it is completely okay for you to go out and date white men you can still have your blackness and do that we know that because maya angelou still keeps her blackness it's very common but what about you you as a black man if you don't want to deal with you know certain elements of sisters in the black community or if you're not feeling like you know these ladies are our marriage material if you're feeling like there's a little bit more of entitlement going on and you want to spread your rings and you want to go out and date somebody else well what are the outcomes of that well people going to talk about you you're going to call your sellout especially if you're successful and um well the question is should you do it and briani james at 17 is already doing it but see it's going to even get worse because there's young guys 14 and 15 who are not even going to be participating in the gender war that you may see going online between black men and black women shannon sharp is admitting that a lot of black men may be suffering in their current relationships with black women not only did he make that uh explanation so did the late great kevin samuels and that caused a lot of ruckus amongst a lot of people on the internet that a lot of black men were suffering in relationships possibly with black women now could that be because these guys chose the wrong woman absolutely could it have been because those guys didn't work enough on themselves and sell it for less absolutely but could it be also now that black men are going to go out there and kind of like you know kind of figure it out for themselves and you know let the best bidder win and you know whatever they can do to get the best woman for themselves they're going to do that absolutely that's what you're going to see what you're going to see is less black men a focus on you know developing the community and doing what's best for the black community for the community to survive and more black men are going to be looking at trying to gain their overall happiness if that's what the women in the black community or it could be a woman from the dominican republic or even the white woman and i think this is the scary part there's too many guys out there that agree with shannon sharp and even me i'm a pro-black like hardcore hard body but i mean some of my friends in the pan african community we see what's going on and many of us are afraid we don't know what's going to happen we don't know what the outcome is going to be because we see a lot of black men like shannon sharp who feel like him who they have ties to the black community but um they're not dedicated to the black community as far as you know staying married or reproduction as much they're looking at uh trying to find the best one for the job and in many cases i'm afraid right i don't know if we're going to be able to keep the african-american community going on for much longer and the reason is because you're going to have so many black men dealing with other women of other races because they're looking for the best person for the job and no longer are you gonna have black men you know really saying i'm for the black women i'm for the black queens i'm from the black community everything is black this is b1 first you're not gonna hear that from a lot of guys you're gonna hear from some guys but most guys gonna be looking at who is the best woman for me first and see when you get to that situation that's when it gets scary but i don't think that people understand how scary it is it is really scary for our community and i don't know what's going to change that i mean you have a lot of women out there who feel like you know these guys don't need to be competing for and so you kind of have these guys who feel like you know well i never fitted in the first place i need to go over to another community and do something over here and then when you get a lot of those guys feeling that way that's the beginning of the end and that's where we're at now we're in the point where black men just don't care about what their families think they don't care about what i think they don't care about what the pro-blacks think only thing they care about is them being happy they know that they die earlier than other people they know that you know their lifespan is not as long as other folks so while they're here they're just trying to be happy they don't have time for the foolishness and then there you have it that's where black men are gonna go from now on and uh you know i will have to say i'm sort of sad but i think the writing could possibly be on the wall what do you think we can do to change that guys let me know in the comments subscribe with the bell check out the first comp at the top and as you know the buffoon remains an all-time high i'm out [Music] you

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Published: Fri May 27 2022