Shahrazad Ali on Rock Newman 2.0

it's evident that he cares what do you care about welcome to the Rock Newman show The Rock Newman show the first thing we have to do to shake off our ancestral slave history is get a white man back his God and we refuse to do that we need to give him back his name we refuse to do that we think these things are not important but they didn't do anything to us that wasn't important everything was designed to Rob us up ourself and make them the people that are the best when actually you are the best we have the best man on the planet everybody want our man with us and that's what it was designed to do greetings beloved and thank you so very much for deciding to take a moment and to join the rock Newman show 2.0 today um I have a guess today that uh my producer Avis and I have been um wanting to have on for a very long time um we look at The Strife that is rampant throughout our community and so many of the dysfunctional relationships that are happening between mother and son husband and wife and so on and so forth and for decades now our guest shahzad Ali has been speaking to these issues uh often times what she has communicated has been very controversial she stays rooted in her beliefs that she's been sharing for a very long time Miss Ali it is my pleasure to host you today and to have you as a guest on the Rock Newman show 2.0 well I certainly I'm so honored and I thank you very much for inviting me I have seen your show too for a long time and seen different people on there and uh I wasn't sure if you just had men so I didn't ever approach you about it I said well I'll just wait they'll get around to me and then you did man oh man and I'm telling you getting around to getting around to you and having to get a yes from you was indeed exciting you know there are so I've got notes all over my desk text messages from Avis about potential places to go but I'm going to take the risk to go uh to something that some folks might look in and said oh my God you're starting at a very morbid place but I let's just start here and we can unpack it all you are you making the the comment about seeing someone very close to you suffer before they died and you made the comment and wrote a piece saying you want to own your own death would you please elaborate on that well like every other culture when we were forced to come here when they you know enslaved us and Drug us over here we already had our own systems of politics child rearing Life Death food clothes we already had had those ideas and we had already systems that we were practicing and one of the things that has never been challenged here is how we die now we know the police kill us we know that the our open enemy kill us but we have not uh ever discussed how do we want to die how should we die and things like that the uh Indians they had their processes but of course we weren't allowed to pick that up or anything and so when I say I want to own my own death I mean I want to decide if if it's at the end and I no longer have a quality of life and uh I I'm a type A personality so I don't want nobody changing no diapers and you know doing all of those things I want to decide how I want to die and if it's by medication and go to sleep that's painless then I might want to do that but I think we should have a choice instead of being forced to drag out spend all that money let's at all of the white owned hospitals make millions and billions of dollars off of our dying process when we get to the end and we know we're no longer useful we're just a burden on our families and our children and grandchildren then we need to just go on and end this and let that be the the end of our story and leave our Legacy intact instead of leaving our last memory one of us curled up in the bed not knowing anybody you know and losing control of our bodily functions I don't want that I'm not going to have that I I you know I'm suppos you know I've been told by folks that advise me on how I can be a better talk show host is to remain neutral just call balls and Strikes remain neutral not necessarily to give my opinion but to me what you just expressed makes all the sense in the world I'll take it I'll take it just beyond that I want to get your thoughts on this I hadn't thought to ask this question question but I just want to take it to that next step where are you in terms of cremation versus a burial uh at a cemetery uh we're gonna have to go to Cremation a lot of you know because we've already tested that that if you die you're gonna come back and if we came back there's no room for everyone and it's very expensive people put 10 20 $30,000 in the ground trying to honor somebody who's not even aware what's going on and uh I don't think that that's a good idea either I think that like a person like myself who does not believe in life after death okay not a physical life and so it's a real test for those of us who say we believe that to say well I rather just be cremated here's the thing if you heat the human body to 300° fah and put a little Clorox or something in it the body turns into mineral oil so I had someone ask me do you think we're already eating people I say well we may not be eating them but we certainly are rubbing them on our body and cosmetics because mineral oil is used in everything like soybean oil and so we know that there are some other uses for the human body for that fles than just putting it in the ground to rot and turn back into dirt anyway back into the Earth and so uh I think that cremation is a good solution and the way they do cremation these days let me tell you is that they leave you in the locker for two or three weeks to make sure you are really dead even if you don't have a heartbeat they leave you in there to make sure that you're not going to come back alive back in the olden days they would put a bell on the casket so that if you did come back alive you ring the bell and they dig you up but see we don't we don't have that so but no I think that that's going to be the best way it's too many people not that the Earth is overcrowded you know everybody in America could live in Texas if we had to so there's plenty of room here but it's just that's just a waste of useful land to keep burying people and now a lot of cemeteries are burying people on top of each other putting two and three caskets in the ground because there's no space the people are dying quicker than they're being born because of abortion and so forth and so we just need to just get a system for that stop paying all that money and be done with it uh two questions and two what I deem to be some very very praful practical and and and useful answers um you know I think that in uh interviewing you talking to you sharing with you um we inevitably it's a easy slide into controversies in terms of things that you have said wisdom that you have imparted and so I want to ask this it's a open-ended question and I already know it could be answered so many different ways but I just want to get your thought because I just I witnessed something I witnessed something within the last two days that made me say I'm I'm going to talk to Miss Ali about this I saw a man and a woman um matter of fact I was at their home and they got in a little spat and it energized quickly and they were at each other's throat you know those times when you want to just kind of disappear and be at you know just falling in a hole of something and I mean they were really at each other's throat well if you do this I'll do this well I you want to do that I'll do this and she ultimately left and slammed the door I thought the walls were going to fall down nothing nothing nothing was resolved there was no agreement I didn't know what was going to happen I tried to make as quick and a dignified Hasty Retreat as I could so I left haven't talked to him since it made me think that happens in life where there is a disagreement man woman get married a whole lot of disagreements but in that circumstance how what do you think should happen and how it should should one have the final say I I I I I I looked at that and I was like I kind of saw both points but the but the two points were Polar Opposites and I'm like Okay now what's gonna happen it it's un unfortunate that it has grown to be like that uh most of us don't realize that in in the studies that I have done we learn how to argue and disagree with our mate and in the home a lot of times it's what we see and how we see our parents fight if they fight in the ring and just deal with the subject if they have enough self-control to control themselves and tell the guest leaves and talk about it later when they're alone or if we have actually two women arguing the men arguing like a woman and the woman arguing like a woman because a lot of times we fuss at our men so long and in order to try to uh defend themselves they start talking like us and then that's right down our alley because then we can really let it go then and we both you know can fuss and it sounds like two women arguing as opposed to a man and a woman and so we have to learn how to fight in the ring when I say fight in the ring I mean if we are arguing about you didn't take the trash out and I tell you every day to take the trash out and we keep going over that well it's no point in me saying that's why your mom ain't got no teeth you understand you don't jump into something else yeah trying to F if we're talking about this sub it's called staying on message Stay Stay Stay Stay on message and and and and the truth of the matter is they both through some mud but she really went back in time and right that's what I'm talking about right you know so we do that you know and so we we have to just uh look at that that most of us because we argue we not gonna break up most of us have unresolved issues and we bring them up in every fight those same issues we're not going to solve that and uh I always jokingly say that you never really know that you're in love and tell you look over to your mate and think I could kill him you know and then and then you don't and then and then you resist I get it I get it right but you know we do that and as I said we learn that in the home now the fact that we had the two parent home the one parent home well now we have the no parent home and so you're talking about children and young people now raising themselves and they're learning how to quarrel and argue with each other either from the street TW or from the uh videos that are violent from the rap videos and things like that and we can't say that those things don't have an impact on our Behavior because you have never seen one commercial the commercials run all day repeat means everything and after we start bullying that into our heads allowing our children to listen go to sleep with earphones in their ear and listening to a lot of nonsense Around the Clock they'll fight you about their cell phones and different things because you know they have created the manufacturers have made it addictive for us and we have addictive personalities because we don't have no self and and you know that that's another reason I want to add that that we can be we turn into another person in a movie when we play a person and do a biopic we actually turn into them because we're an empty vessel we can put anything in there we can be anybody we can be anything you say we do that because we have no self yeah that's deep well I have I have a list of questions but I'm gonna ask you to expound on that we have no self well there's an example right now due to this border crisis thing that they're talking about and the immigrants invading the country and so forth we got 195 nations of different people coming in here these people most of them the majority of them have not been enslaved so they have their own culture knowledge of their culture how they dress as I said how they eat how they raise their children what their politics are what their religious beliefs are how they decorate their homes how they handle outside of their homes their hygiene habits their sanitation they have already these ideas and so when they come here they will set up their ideas start to live that way we're going to start to smell all kinds of different foods on the street we're going to see all kinds of children dressed in clothes they're not wearing Louis vuon they're not concerned about plaids and Stripes together they they don't have any of that nonsense that we have been taught here as a result of them erasing our history essentially we have adopted things from all over the place we we have uh mixed up different African fabrics and hats and so forth together because we don't know which one is which we came here from different tribes you can see the different shapes of our noses you can see people wear their hair different ways you can see black people with different kind of jury done those are different tribes these are different people that's embedded in us but we don't know how to express it because we don't have the history they beat our history out of us and so now the things we do we think it's our choice we have tried to normalize our captivity and act like that we're not living in a hostile environment and that integration solved all our problems and so therefore everything we do now is by choice but it isn't and I do have a book called are you still a slave it's a test book it lets you take a test a couple of tests and find out how much if a slave are you still acting like even without a slave master you mentioned you mentioned that book and it was probably I I should have talked about your past more in terms of the things that you've done and the impact that you have made you don't just have that book you have several books and I want to touch on them and I want to suggest to our viewers play close attention to what I'm getting ready to say and that if you find yourself engaged in the reading and the understanding of some of the wisdom that contained within what Miss Ali Shah rzad Ali has imparted I think it'll make you it make you make your life a little better oh it'll change your life here here's here's some here the book here's some of the books the black Man's Guide to understanding the black woman and the black woman's guide to understanding the black mind and you say in the one the the black Man's Guide to understanding the black woman read it before she does why you say that listen I don't have to tell you that got me in a lot of trouble too okay well because one of the reasons I wrote the book is because you all have been so naive about our behavior and motivations and our expressions and the double meanings of some of the things we do you all have just been in the blind for many many years and uh I want to level that playing field because we have studied you all intently we know what to say to make you happy we know what to say to make you insanely mad we know more about you than you know about us we not only know more about you we've told everybody else about you the black woman is the only woman in America who goes out publicly and talks about her man we don't know what the Chinese man do we don't know what he does how he act in the house how he deal this we don't know that we don't know what there Arabs do it's a lot of people here we don't know what those men do the Latinos we don't know what they do but everybody know what y'all do because we tell them man so you you are suggesting that a mate in the black community a woman is that is culturally specific to the black community that by and large she is the only one that goes out and kicks the black man kind of yeah that's that's exactly what I'm saying and it has made you uh more vulnerable to a lot of other criticism from other people because the only way they know about you is through us because you are not telling them we tell them and uh it's I wanted as you asked about the book I wanted to level that playing field and let you all know more what's going on now some of it has backfired you know uh the book did produce Kevin Samuels you know my boy and he's my spiritual son I call it and uh you know he came out and took it a step further I tried to what I consider was gently tell people about our situation and to stop us from controlling you all with not only insults but with sex if there have been a lot of things we have been able to manipulate our men with just based on those things plus we convince you to tell us your secrets and then the first time we get mad then we go and tell them we'll tell the police we'll tell your mama you know we'll tell your children we'll tell anybody and so I'm trying to get us to stop practicing that to pull that back and if we speak a good word for our men that every if we defend you publicly like they defend they men if the white woman have a husband and he go out and he kill 10 people when they go to court she holding his arm and they go in there together and she sit there with him and then they go home and the children are there and they do everything when you all tend to do different things we not only abandon you then we tell everything else bad that we know about you and that's not the way to build a nation it's not the way to repair the man that the white man has destroyed man I do not in any stretch of the imagination want anyone to think that I come here today with any type of an agenda to bash black women we come for we come for I'm a black woman I got black granddaughters I got black children black girls of children so I'm not trying to bash but we can't have a better man till we have a better woman okay and to that end I I had a question Dov Tales to some of what you were talking about there and the quote was from you women overvalue themselves because they control sex yeah can you expound expound on that well we have a new type of young woman today and that type of young woman believes that she does not have to have any other qualifications to make with a man other than bring sex and they have some kind of ridiculous idea that a man is supposed to house feed and clothe them and their children uh buy them anything they want give them money and take pay their bills as they say and do everything for them and all they're going to bring to the table is their vagina and so that makes it very difficult and it confuses our men because nature May made you to be attracted to us to procreate and made us to be attracted to you we are not independently here the egg in us would lay there forever if the man didn't fertilize the egg the life comes from the sperm it don't come from the egg and so we feel that since we carry the baby it's put in us that that gives us a greater power because we can reproduce you but we can't reproduce you without you you so it's it's lopsided on that end too but we have to use sex because that's what we were taught in our ancestor slave history that was our only value that was the only thing we had to negotiate with and we have come full circle that we have produced a generation of young women who believe that their only value is sex so we have put your total focus and mind just on sex because that gives us a captive audience for whatever that period the time is where you are focused just on us and not on the other life issues that you need in order to survive and protect your family and be a wealth for yourself okay let's stay there let's stay there for a moment because you know I've intentionally try to prepare for this and you know get your thoughts understand your statements and one of them was that you made a comment about the value of having face-to-face sex as opposed to what I think you characterize as some other deviant Alternatives and I'm going to tell you something that captured my attention because I have I have some folks that are distant family members and and and and and and it is females that I'm talking about and I see some of the stuff that they say publicly via Instagram Facebook Twitter whatever oh yeah whatever it is and their willingness to share publicly what seems to me would be stuff and I ain't nobody's Pana but seems to be just vulgar yes rash and their willingness to talk about it publicly that's all they talk about so you mention face-to-face sex versus the Alternatives and I'd like for you to say more about that here well I knew that there was something going on see each generation has their own trends of how they do how they dress uh how they have sex you know whatever the trend is for that particular generation that's what they express and that's what they put out front and talk about so I started talking to the young women and I said what is this about that uh when you all are being intimate uh you want to be choked you want men to spit in your mouth and uh you all uh knocking the women's back out and getting yourself injured and all kind of things I said what is that I said that sounds to me like hostility you know we used to call that making love you all not making no love you making hate I say what is that about and one of the young women a college student said to me well yeah I like to be choked sometimes now this is a huge leap to decide that sex which was designed to be pleasurable to procreate is now being used as a hostile almost a fighting motion to being choked how is that connected to pleasure and I asked her that I said well how did that feel good what are you talking about she said well you know you just like it sometime I I I want to be slapped yes it's all right and this these are so-called intelligent women in your Upward Bound I'm not talking about just somebody I found on the street and uh when I listened to them I recognized how crazy it was so I looked into it further and I I came up on the information that uh humans are the only mammals that make face to face all of the other animals it don't matter who it is and so they have taken sex and turned it into something that we wouldn't even Define as sex now I've been out here since 1985 that's more than most people the young people I talked to have they weren't even born and so they don't have certain foundational information that maybe we grew up with about the word normal or routine or basic they they don't understand those tactics they have come up with other things and because they don't have any cultural information to tie them to their own people or their own tribe they're just making it up as they go and they getting suggestions from their music they're getting suggestions from their movies and they're getting it from just whatever their Basic Instincts are and so this has created they acting like animals that ain't no sex you know all of our music was a baby I miss you in the say in the 60s I love you I want to be back with you come and spend time with me we need to be together well that music is that I'm G knock your back out come over here spit in my mouth and crazy stuff that we would consider just absurd and how does that get connected to sex it may be something to do but I don't think it's sexual I think they got some other ideas that maybe hav't even been revealed yet and so I uh I'm sorry that that's like that because it has robbed them of some understanding of things but when you reject certain truths you have nothing left but lust man um that's troubling that that's that's that's troubling let me ask you um one of your books how to tell if your man is gay or by don't answer yet because what I what I want to say to give an opportunity for you to tell my viewers how they can get in touch with you how they might be able to get some of the materials that you have some of the books that you've written some of your just how can folks study shahazad Ali well part of the problems that I have had brother is that I'm sometimes before my time okay I came up people can't believe that I wrote the black man's God it was back in 1990 because it's so relevant to the day and people are always amazed at that they say I can't believe it it's like you live in the house with me I said no but uh we all diff we not different we are all the same we think we different and we try to pretend we different by our clothes and our education but we are not different because we all have the same ancestral slave history which put certain things in us that we haven't been able to shake off because the the first thing we have to do to shake off our ancestral slave history is get a white man back his God and we refuse to do that we need to give him back his name we refuse to do that we think these things are not important but they didn't do anything to us that wasn't important everything was designed to Rob us of ourself and make them the people that are the best when actually you are the best we have the best man on the planet everybody want our man but us and that's what it was designed to do all of the things that have been put in us but it's very difficult now because we function almost as enemies we don't function as helpmates if a man ask a woman these days to prepare a meal many of our women tell them I ain't your mama but they didn't stop eating when they was just with their mother food is what sustains life we don't even teach cooking anymore our women don't know how to prepare a meal how to actually cook with food and so that's a problem because that's a problem for your health as black men and our children because what you eat generally determines what your health is going to be for the next 20 30 or 40 years it's what you put in your body so preparing food is very important but that's something that also has been kicked to the curve we don't have people that do that if you want to cook today you got to go to cook in school because you're not going to learn it at home so anyway but back what you were saying you know it's just so many things and I I want to get different things out there because as you said these books are lifechanging and anything that you read in them will help you change your life it's not going to help me change mine so yeah so so let our viewers know now and I want to do this important how folks can can can get in touch well you have my code yeah you have my QR code and you have my cash app code for those that say they really love me and uh you have uh my email I'm at sister sharizad Ali at yahoo.com but I I don't really have to talk to everybody I cannot talk to thousands of people a month and everybody got a question that I don't have time I'll starve to death you know but anyway you can reach me there and then I have a lot of other videos that people have taken and put on YouTube and Instagram and just taking Snippets and clips and things but that you know my books are available on Amazon and eBay uh I stopped trying to do the Facebook and all of that because it just went so so crazy and people would hack it every other week I you know but that's how you can I don't want this to sound like the end of the interview because it's not but sister has books the black guy the black man's gu understanding the black tell the black woman's guide to understanding the black uh man uh uh uh um are you still a Slave how to tell if your man is gay things parents should have told you she folks I'm telling you I'm telling you do yourself a favor and get some of this material now I'm I'm going leave that there now we were down and you know you were talking about you know what what women aren't doing and I I went to uh uh where it says how to tell if your man is gay or by well I had to uh stop production on that I don't release that anymore because you know how the gay community is and I didn't want that B to Define me yeah and they were jumping on that and they were going crazy and we were going through a lot but that's a very important issue because so many now we have young people who don't consider it being gay if a man have sex in the rectum with another man they don't consider it being gay if a woman have sex with another woman they they'll go with a man one week and a woman the next week so they have changed a lot of the morray of how you maintain a civilized society and so I wanted to back out of that very gently and so the book how to tell if your man is gay about sexual it was wonderful but I don't print that anymore because I have other important issues that's not what my legacy is my legacy is trying to get us back together to have a better child and a better future if you would address what is so prevalent and that is the black man's propensity especially notable high-profile wealthy celebrities athletes politicians black politi male politician born a born born a man their propensity to be so desirous of either very light skinned women and more desirable to them it seems the white women now yeah now I had I had Kareem Abdul Jabar in the studio to interview him I was really excited about it I had want to talk about his history I've been a fan like forever MH and but one of the things I wanted to ask him was what he thought he's T tends to be a cerebral guy what he thought about the issue of Sydney porier har bellonte and so many other black folks Hollywood celebrity and as I said politicians and the rest why they choose white women I wanted his explanation because he was one of them he he he he he was and so I want to ask you what your thoughts are well well it's a it's a long history of Desire when your enemy is so big and you can't seem to win over him physically because he got all the guns and the weapons the land the power then you try to attack what he has presented as what he values most see you could have children of every color across the Spectrum by any woman doesn't matter who the woman is what nationality she is you are going to show up in that baby but the white man is not like that the only thing that can reproduce him as a 100% white man if there's such a thing is another 100% white woman and so the number one I think recessive issue that our men have had is that if they get a white woman that they first of all getting back at the white man because they taking his woman and doing to her the things that they did to his woman and that if a black man is successful and he walks in a room where there are other big successful white people and if he's in there with a sister he'll just be recognized as the black people have showed up but if he show up with a white woman she's his introduction she can get him in because she's going to get recognition don't matter what he's done she's going to get the recognition first and so that brings him in that's the number two reason the number three reason is that the white woman has not been through the kind of trauma that we have been through as black women so she ain't as mad as we are she not as disappointed as we are and she mad at the white man too and so that's another one of her ways of getting him back see white women are easier for those black men to get along with because she is dealing with I'm going to have a tea today uh I'm going to volunteer at the art museum and all of that where we sitting up talking about how we going pay the gas bill you know where was you at last night I'm tired of taking the bus you ain't being a father to your children you know we got a ly a long list of excuses and assaults and a lot of times these things are true but because how we present them we don't get the outcome that we would like to have and the cooperation we would like to have which don't have nothing to do with money incidentally and certainly we need money but the things that we need to repair ourselves is not finan Final in regard to the man woman relationship but we want something that we think gives us a little bit as I said our men want something and they don't care what it cost because them white women don't necessarily like the rest of the black people but they like the black man that's got money and the moment that they break up they show you who they really are and the and the other bad thing about that for us is that they take their resources to the White Community cuz she going to make sure her people are taking care of and our men don't as much make sure that we're taken care of because when a man get married he gets pulled to his wife's side just automatically almost that's just how that is you know and the wife has more say so she has more Authority and she has more pull because she's sleeping with it that's big that is big um I'm I'm I'm I'm jumping around because I got I I know I got a whole bunch of questions I can't get so I'm I'm I'm going hit you with this one you advocated that boys need to play with dolls and absolutely and you you certainly have a you have a thread that runs through much of what you say where you advocate for black men being strong and for black women to support the strength of the black man and you say boys need to be taught to play with dolls please explain well I think that we all slept at you know we have spent Generations talking about we need to develop better mothers and teach motherhood but it certainly should be obvious Us by now that we also need to teach fatherhood I think we had some kind of misunderstand understanding that men would automatically know how to be fathers and husbands and that's not true they went through the same purging of our identity through our ancestral slave history that's been passed down generation after generation I think we about 18 generations of From Slavery and we still acting like slaves to each other first and so we we can't have a good mother if you got a bad father that doesn't match and so a lot of times we've noticed over the years that if a woman meet a man and I've been teaching this since 1992 and she bring that man home and say say listen I'm going run to the grocery store and she might go out shopping and stay two or three hours and leave her little children there with a man she just met yesterday you don't know nothing about him don't even know if that's his real name and then he do something to the children he beat him I'm not even talking about just sexual abuse I mean he beat him he hit him with his fist knock him down and I also noticed that if a man's playing a video game and the little children intervene a lot of men have killed those children kicked them stumped them in the stomach knock them out with their fist hit them in the chest and did a lot of things and they don't have any selfcontrol with dealing with children and I figured out it's because they're not familiar with babies and little children so while we buying the little girls dolls because we figure they going to grow up and be a mother we need to get our men dogs cuz they going to grow up and be a father and they need to know how to hold a baby how to deal with the child if it's crying that's another time that our men have a tendency uh to beat the child to thinking that that's gonna make them stop crying hit them with their fist it's ridiculous and so we need men who are familiar also so when they get to play in house let him play the daddy and let her play the mama and let him change the baby diaper let him Pat the baby on the back and do all the things that you would do with a little child so that they are more familiar with that role instead of thinking that's just something that women do and I think that would also help them not be so susceptible to walking away from their children and acting like that didn't even happen because they don't have any connection to a baby and their life and what their needs are so yeah we need to let our boys play with dogs so they'll know how to handle and deal with a baby and how to be fathers we need to teach motherhood and fatherhood should those because one would say you teach a teach a little boy to play with dolls then you are leading him towards femininity and um and homosexuality um so my question there is should they be should should they be boy dolls should they be because I understand what you're saying I understand the value and the importance of socializing a young man a young boy how to treat a baby tenderly and children tenderly I I I definitely understand that yes uh I I think that that's a Miss I think we have some confusion about that because we have boys who were raised up with football players and construction workers and they still turn out to be gay if that's their idea plus don't forget this we can never leave this out we have had UND and some years of a bad diet bad water bad medications and so it's very possible that we have been given different chemicals in our body that have tended to change our identities and change our feelings and change our hormones that create people who want to be somebody other than themselves because that's all the options that we've had we've mimicked everybody we've TR you know used to call it talking white we have tried to be white people you know we have tried to be Asian we have tried to be almost everybody because we don't know who should we should be because we as even our black historians We can't agree on the history and so no that's not going to turn him into being gay well if that's the case when your man grow up and be a father he don't turn gay because he change his baby diaper or because he Pat him on the back but that's among civilized men but men who have been raised by women and who have a feminine attitude and who have a feminine emotional aspect in them they are not going to learn how to do those things they're not going to switch manhood they just automatically have the female mechanism see as women we have to remember we talk more with our eyes with a child than with our mouth they can look in our face and tell how we really feel no matter what we're saying out of our mouth they know us they've been looking in our face since they were born and they know our emotions and men will mimic that if that's all he's around that's what they'll do please unpack this for me Chris Rock is on the stage he makes uh makes a joke about Jada pinkit Will Smith gets up marches up slaps him in the face some people opine that part of where that came from was the fact that J pink had what had what she called an entanglement with her son's friend who was about the same age yeah the floor is yours well that's another problem that we have in not having proper standards we don't have boundaries anymore we don't have boundaries for senior citizens you know it used to be that old people and babies were the protected species every everybody respected them you could be someplace and somebody curse and somebody else will tell them man don't be cursing in front of her don't be cursing in front of that woman that sister that Grandma or whatever and if it's a baby people back up and let the woman through with the baby stroll or something well see we don't live like that anymore because it was not taught you have to be taught everything we think we getting it from oursel but we're not all of the evil that we practice we learned it we were programmed for it we were taught it as until now it's even a mental illness in that sense but uh there were just no boundaries and in a lot of situations we have women who are going with their daughter's man we have daughters who are going with their mother's man this is the kind of ignorance that we are practicing and when I say ignorance I don't mean dumb I mean to ignore the truth that in every civilization you have to have certain standards to maintain civilization it's not willy-nilly you can't do everything everything there is no freedom without responsibility nobody can just go around doing anything and think everything is going to turn out all right it doesn't work that way got to have guard poost got to have some barriers you got to have some rules you got to have something that you have that has to be your standard that is civilized our children don't know what civilized mean a lot of our grandchildren certainly don't and I've looked at that you remember when our people starting getting mixed up about what respect was instead of respect being D being dignified and honoring people not cursing or acting Savage around people not talking bad and cursing out adults and teachers and everything instead of it being that respect got to be don't step on my shoe you got to respect me don't lean on my car respect my car and respect turned into being something that was physical instead of something that you actually practiced to keep a certain standard of behavior maintained and to keep civilization the purpose of education is to civilize people and the fact that the public school education has been going down the drain for the past 30 years and that's when they took home economics out of the school and they took shop out for the boys when they took those things out then we don't have any standard to uh civilize our people and I say all the time we are the only people in America or in any foreign country who turn their children over to the enemy educate them of course they're G to miseducate them why wouldn't they they want to keep us slaves they want to keep using us as a tool they want to keep control of our men and they want to use us to do it and that's what we don't recognize the white man don't think the black man is better than you he don't think that the white that the black woman is better than you that's what I mean he don't think we good he don't think we so great but but if he can use us to hold you down and to destroy the little bit of ego you got left then that's what he'll do and that's where all that nonsense come from that we the backbone of the black community there's no other community in America where they they point at the woman and say she is the backbone of the community the white woman know she ain't the backbone of the white Community she know she not and she stay in her Lane most of the time and just do what she's allowed to do every advance ment that they claim that they have given us that we think we earned we Ain earn nothing because white men decide every law and every rule in America they G to decide what you can do and what you can't do so if they can use us to keep our children dumb to keep our man under our thumb to keep his mind on sex instead of building and trying to do something for himself we are just a nation and a nation like every other nationality in this country but we are the most dependent people here in this country because we got convinced as I said that integration would solve all of our problems and everything would eventually level out well it hasn't leveled out it's more bumpy than it's ever been and we are losing everything that we thought as I said we we had gained we are still a dependent slave in this country us doing for something for ourself does not mean that we are suceeding or separating from this country and always you the food as an example the Africans the Asians the uh uh Italians the Latinos the Arabs don't matter who it is they all have a food path they have food in their stores that they have imported in they have food in their stores that they raised on a farm somewhere they have stores with food and cans that we can't even read the language but it's for them we don't have a food path if we don't get our food from the white man we don't have no food we don't understand that because we think he going to continue to feed us and give us food stamps but we don't have a food path see if the white man don't feed those nationalities I just listed they have a place to get their food they can still bring their food in if they got to bring it in on Horseback they can do those things but we don't have anywhere to get food the only food and they can control us with the food they do control us with the food by teaching our women to just buy junk food as quicker and not to prepare proper nutrition for our family they controlling us with food now and your position would be that is intentional that is by that is that's another form of Oppression yes okay I gotta I gotta ask you about then because as you're saying that and it's a it's it's simply a reality it makes me think about a slightly built man who some say had a speech impediment but you who communicated a vision for the Lost found nation of in America no whatever but it's like you are expressing a multitude of issues and have done so and it's like the teachings of The Honorable Elijah Muhammad seem to address all of what you're talking about there's the argument there's I think the argument can be made that aside from the onslaught slaught of racist propaganda and character assassination that Elijah Muhammad can be viewed as the if not the one of the most important black people that have ever walked the grounds of the United States that's true and if we had been able to have the strength to continue on with the programs that he had for for us and designed for us which was actually first to clean up ourself to get our dignity back and do something for ourself respect our women be parents to our children and be able to feed ourselves it's a very basic need if we had stuck with that instead of ego growing we would have been in a better condition today he gave us a demonstration of what having your own strip malls of what having your own Farms your caner factories your Airlines uh your schools all kinds of things he showed us this how you do it you can do it it's not impossible everybody else is doing it so you can have some control over your destiny and if we had stayed with that then we certainly would have be in a better position today where it's almost like we have regressed are you familiar with the intense rivalry between black men and women today on social media platforms yeah yes I am and it's very sad as I said that's one of the things I think that we as black women have done to contribut it to that I didn't think I would ever live to see a day when adult black women we're not talking teenagers would go on the Instagram or the Facebook and put their naked behind to the camera for the whole world to see because this is an insult to all of us as black women because people from all over the world which is what the technology allows look at that and think that that's the black woman in America and they think that all of us are like that so they come here already disrespecting us and that's another reason I'm concerned about these immigrants come in here a Mexican hate a black man more than he hate the clan I would rather to have the clan come in than the Mexicans because they hate you and the problem with that also is that our women are not GNA let no men show up that they don't go and have sex with and start having a bunch of Half Breed children it's not gonna happen so when those men get here our women are gonna start meeting with them and probably our men are gonna make with the women so we keep doing things to wipe our own self out and and that that's that's unfortunate that uh we tend to do that and people say what I talk is old school now what I'm talking is what's going on now this has not expired I wish it would I didn't make this up this is actually going on these are the things that are happening in America today that are damaging our image worldwide and it makes you look like you don't have no control over your women because we out there doing any and everything but they keep that nonsense up online as I said it again you don't see a bunch of white women on there talking about they man going back and forth what you see is us and the black man who has been as we know infiltrated with ideas of being feminine he don't have to be gay to be feminine okay because he been raised by a woman and he act like her and so we out there fighting as I said again we arguing with another woman instead of another man cuz a man is not going to participate in that with a woman because he know how women are and he knows it's how you start out with them how they going to act but our men are dealing with the double women they haven't been taught manhood they've been taught how to survive maybe and how to live and eat and dress or something but they haven't been taught manhood so whatever they're doing it they thinking it up in their head they looking at videos or they watching somebody else that's the same age as them and so we need new teachers we can't have new teachers until we have new schools we can't have a school that white people control and teach them the truth they're not going to allow that that that makes me ask you uh come back to this one of your books are you still a slave your your your your by line there says recovering from Pro post-traumatic stress recovering from post-traumatic stress the post the post-traumatic stress of slavery can you uh I think what you talking about I think all of us have postraumatic stress all of us got postraumatic stress we don't know how to always identified but we that's what as I said that one book are you still a slave is very enlightening now of course the black man's got to understand the black woman every black man need a copy of that and pass it on to his son so that he can have a heads up before he gets out here and try to meet we don't know how to meet where would we learning it from we don't know how to parent where would we learn it from if we didn't come up with older people who pass down information that our people will listen to but our people our children have been taught to disregard what we say they Tau him not on television when they start letting the children talk back to their parents and curse their parents out and make demands of their parents that was taught and because we felt we didn't have any control over the television di like we don't have no control over the cell phones they've made those things dangerous because there are many cases where if a parent take away that cell phone the child burn the house down or kill the parents this is how addictive they made this stuff to us I went this don't and and the cell phones have broke up more relationships than we can think of because people find them they find out that the man or the woman is with somebody else it created a big problem they have a big fight sometime they kill each other with that so this stuff has been detrimental for us it has not been beneficial okay I was talking about um recovering from post-traumatic stress and I think this this this this doves into it and I'm responding to what you just said I went to an all segregated Black Elementary School mhm so left the sixth grade went to Junior High School to an integrated school it was when I was in the eighth grade that I had turned 14 before I had heard you know I lived in a black community I was 14 before I had heard a child cuss his parent right one of my teammates the picture on my team his dad said something to him of encouragement he told him to go to hell and used every other F bomb that he could think of it shot the hell out of me that right black kids did not talk to black parents that way no did we do like Martin Luther King said that he was afraid of we integrated into a burning house yeah well he didn't have to tell people like me that because the I'm realized Muhammad had already told us about that and he gave us standards and a way of life to replace the slave master's ideas and so we didn't have children that were behaving like that when they're young but they have grown up now our children grandchildren and got into this world since we didn't prepare another world for them and now they're doing many of those same things but uh we were always more civilized than them remember we came from a civilized area East and West Africa we came from more civilized areas these beasts came out of the caves and hillsides of Europe and just like the immigrants coming over here now they're sending every pedophile every robber every killer every every uh anybody that's doing anything bad they're emptying out their country and sending them over here well that's out of their playbook this is what they've always done but we have always been civilized we are the most conservative people in America you know we really if anybody was going to be with the party of Lincoln it should have been us because we are more conservative than the people people that we have produced because we allow them to be infiltrated and around all kinds of Filth and ignorance that these other people practice this there was a time when you didn't have a black serial killer there was a time when you didn't have black children chopping off their mama's head you didn't have black children shooting their father we didn't practice a lot of that although it was practice in these other communities we didn't do it but as a result of being that's why we have to have separation because we have to be removed from the kind of evil and filth that's practiced here so we can get back to ourself we are living other than ourself and we think we as I said we keep trying to normalize it and act like this is just how it is it's only how it is because we are allowing it to be that that way because we're not willing to make the kind of sacrifices that are required to get our future Generations in order I could look at a great great granddaughter of mine and wonder who is she gonna marry where is the black man gonna come from it it don't matter who it is whatever come out here they all got to come through our womb we got to birth it and teach it and raise it up they ain't no magic in it you're not GNA just be born in America and know how to act we see how people in America Act and we act like as I said we don't have any control we we just floating around doing anything accepting anything and that brings us back to that topic you had about can a woman raise a black man the answer is no we can feed him and clothe him get place to live and take care of him but we cannot raise a black man because we can't teach him how to stand how to sit how to handle his emotions how to process them how to behave and how to protect himself we put our men out here our boys vulnerable because we have refused to tell him who his open enemy is we have made him vulnerable to anybody can kill him and do anything to him because we have told him that he's equal we have not told him that there's some people out here that want to kill you every day and that any opportunity you give them they're going to do it we didn't teach them that because we thought integration would solve that we didn't tell him be careful of them they not your friend you can interact with them and of course be civilized but don't think that they're your friend and of all the things you do don't go marry your enemy's daughter don't bring that into our bloodline we didn't tell our boys none of that that and so they out here doing anything thinking it's just natural our children just like many of us do two things we doing wrong we think good sex means love that's one thing and the second thing is that we think that love is a disease you catch love I can't help it I just love them I just fell in love with him that's not true love is a decision you can decide you love somebody but they can do something and you decide I love them no more we know it's a decision yeah you know I I hate him in fact you know it's not a disease we have control over that we think attraction is love it's just all mixed up and we're getting old I'm getting old we have not you were talking about the school you went to we have not produced a sensible black leader who is for us since integration pick him out tell me who he is he certainly ain't Barack Obama he was the worst black president or white president we've ever had for black people so it wasn't him we have not had a good black leader since integration started because you you can't produce a good black leader in a white womb you can't do it you put a child in a mixed school I got two sisters who put their children in those white schools where you pay high tuition because they thought they would get a better education both of them today got two white girls pregnant okay that's what we got that's what we pay for by The Authority invested in me today on this show I am going to Proclaim you to be Queen shahazad Ali and as Queen I am going to ask you to speak to your subjects first to the black man and then to the black woman just give them one piece of by each because I would ask you a whole bunch of whole bunch of stuff but time time prevents that so Queen Shard Ali speak to your male subject and your female subject I I certainly will I think for our women we do have a lot of courage and we have a lot of strength we can do anything we are the most beautiful woman on the planet don't let anybody reduce us to just being a sexual object for anybody that's not all we are so when a man ask you what do you bring to the party you figure out how to tell him I can sew a button on I can plan a dinner party I can fix a delicious meal I can help you keep your clothes and house C clean I can raise civilized children that you'll be proud of and I can act like a lady when I go out I don't have to take my clothes off to be beautiful and for our men I would tell you the first thing is to be in charge of your own fertility you make sure that you do something to keep from just spreading your seed around in places that you don't know how it's going to turn out that's you in the future you don't have to claim it it's still you somebody's gonna claim it somewhere you are the first man on planet on the planet that God created he didn't make all of the other nationalities and then make you he made you first you are the greatest man on the earth you have lost your way because of your open enemy but you can get that information back you don't have to join nothing you ain't got to contribute to nothing you can go study up enough information so that you can be the man that God designed you to be you are in the image of God every time you look at a black man it might be the closer to God we ever get so that's who we need we need you to step up and for you to put some standards on your women if your woman come outside naked tell her to go put some clothes on or leave her where she is she's putting your life in danger and is setting a bad example for your sons so that would be my only little message right I tell you what I appreciate all that you have said and I want to invite those who are watching subscribe to our Channel look and find Miss Ali's information I said it earlier and I'm gonna say it again I think it could make your black life better and for any white folks out there looking it'll give you some understanding also right so teach them they got the truth thank you so much I have so much more which means we got to do this again yeah we maybe can do a part two next summer or something might not be that long thank you very much have a blessed day and enjoy enjoy yourself thank you thank you so much thank you so much for inviting me I've always cared about you and I have enjoyed this and you're a great host and I appreciate everything you do to help our people thank you folks that's uh that's our show for the today subscribe to the channel like uh love to hear your comments I'd love to read your comments we're going to wrap it have a great life

Channel: RockNewmanShow

Views: 100,610

Keywords: Shahrazad Ali, Elijah Muhammad, Rock Newman, Kevin Samuels, Black men, Black women, Parenting, The Blackman's guide to understanding the Black woman, The Blackwoman's guide to understanding the Black man

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Length: 72min 42sec (4362 seconds)

Published: Thu Feb 08 2024