r/Trueoffmychest I Ruined My Life by Cheating on My Wife

welcome to r/ True off my chest where op's Affair completely ruins his life our next Reddit post is from deleted I'm a 45-year-old man and I cheated on my wife who's 41 it changed her fundamentally she's always been this bubbly and cheerful woman with her beautiful smile never leaving her face she makes everything better and has the ability to make people happy around her wherever she goes now she's distant silent and I haven't seen her smile since it happened a year ago when we got back together after a small break she told me that she was fully aware about our declining love life and her role in that she said that she didn't know if or when she could ever sleep with me again she said that she couldn't handle the pressure of needing to heal fast to not lose me again for me to not cheat again so she said that I could still sleep with the other woman she just doesn't want to know when and not in our home I hate myself for what she's become like a broken bird when I talk to her about divorce her tears just start pouring and she asks if I don't love her anymore but I do more than anything but I want to set her free but her tears I can't the only thing she hasn't changed is her kiss in the morning she wakes up very early and before leaving she kisses me goodbye and Whispers I love you I prend that I'm sleeping when I hear the door lock I break down crying I cry for a good hour before it's time for me to go to work too I hate myself every day for what I've done to her sucks op I would feel pity for you but I don't pity cheaters our next Reddit post is from difficult figure I had surgery that had to be performed with partial anesthesia and I received propal Plus fenel for Sedation and relaxation however I did not react too well to propal instead of it sedating me it made me talkative and euphoric with basically zero inhibitions it's sort of like being drunk but much much stronger by far I remember everything that happened I even remember what I dreamed about when I knotted off occasionally I was talking about ridiculous stuff it was totally embarrassing behavior and I grabbed my surgeon's butt and grabbed her boob the memor slowly came back after the surgery and I am so embarrassed I could kill myself I feel disgusted like a predator like a low-level human I'm literally so asham that I just want to die I asked the doctors if what I think happened really happened in the end but they said that I was just asleep I could tell from her gaze that she was lying in order for me to not feel embarrassed I'm losing my mind I wish I had chosen general anesthesia instead of listening to the doctors and choose partial anesthesia the worst part of all this this is that I can't even apologize down in the comments Avatar Deng says I was under Conscious Sedation I think ketamine or something while my doctors had to reset my broken leg I was convinced I was screaming like fullon horror movie screaming for an hour yelling at the doctors telling them how much pain I was in it was so vivid the other thing I remember was not being able to move like a coma patient being fully aware but not able to do anything about it when I fully woke up I asked my doctors if I was screaming they said that I never made a single noise and that everything was perfectly fine they even looked concerned when I told them that I thought that I was screaming the entire time so honestly it could very well be a hallucination okay so back when I was in college and I drank way more than I should have there was one night where I drank to the point where I was blackout drunk I could swear that during this Fiasco I grabbed another dude's nut and when I woke up I apologized to the guy but the guy said what you never grabbed my nuts what are you talking about and to this day I literally still don't know if it happen and he said that it didn't happen because he was trying to avoid an awkward situation with another dude which is understandable or if it didn't happen and I just drunkenly dreamed SL imagined it and I just convinced myself that I did but it felt so real I can I can still imagine the guy's nuts in my hands man also jeez we have on the other end of the spectrum a post from Morpheus MD dude don't worry about it I'm an anesthesiologist I see people disinhibited every single day I've had patients try to kiss me patients grab at my crotch patients say wildly inappropriate things patients cuss at me patients get violent and patients try to bite me I had a patient start writing in their own blood on the sheets we don't take it personally we know the drugs that we give you cause people to behave strangely and mostly we just laugh about it odds are good that they're going to be laughing at your story for years mine is the identifying information of course don't sweat it dude our next Reddit post is from character Fortune I'm a 35-year-old woman and my husband is 34 we have two beautiful children ages 5 and 8 my husband is a cop and as such Works Long stretches of time when he's home he doesn't have the bandwidth to be a husband or a father and mostly sits in his computer chair drinks and watches Tik Tok holding a conversation with him is nearly impossible I can see the pain in his eyes anytime he has to interact with me the last good thing we had together was passionate hugging yesterday he decided last minute not to come to a birthday party with us because I was being annoying for asking him if I could have one Saturday a month to myself he rolled his eyes and said I don't want to talk about this right now now I ended up taking both kids myself to the birthday party which is always sketchy because our son has autism and tends to wander about 15 minutes into the party sure enough my son bolted I had to call 911 the birthday party turned into a search party it was an absolute mess I was an emotional train wreck thank God we found him about a 45C walk from the building we were in when my husband caught wind of what happened he called me a slew of names and then told me that until you get your act together he wouldn't passionately hug me my love language is physical touch so he knows how much this hurts me he's already taken affection away no more spontaneous kisses no compliments no tucking my hair behind my ears and kissing my neck so now no passionate hugging too last night I think that he was dreaming because he pulled me onto him and I could feel his standard issue sidearm poking me in the butt butt and he put his hands down my pants I whispered what about your boundary and he said oh okay you don't have to if you don't want to then he turned over I asked when we could passionately hug again and he said when I earn it I asked how I can earn it and he said by not being a b word to me and watching your kids yo gez I'm sorry this is lengthy I'm in so much pain how starved can a person be no intimacy for who knows how long oh man oh jeez I'm looking at this edit op posted a long edit that's even longer than the original post and it's literally just her defending her husband it's her defending her husband and saying that she's not the victim so unfortunately I think that op isn't in a mental state at the moment to receive the good advice that people on Reddit and YouTube are trying to give her but you know I'll give it a shot just because hopefully some of this will come come through but I doubt that it'll stick op your husband is completely checked out he's not interested in you he's not interested in your kids he doesn't really seem to be interested in anything except for tick tock and being on his own so I don't know what's going on I don't know if he's cheating or if he's just depressed or what but your husband isn't really a husband anymore he's just a pseudo horny roommate and to be clear op yes your husband is a butthole and yes you are a victim Opie I'm giving you zero out of five buttholes but still you need a reality check girl I'm giving your husband 3.5 out of 5 buth holes not only is withholding affection super abusive but if he had done what he had supposed to do in the first place then your son wouldn't have gone missing because you'd have an extra parent watching him our next Reddit post is from throwaway I'm a 30-year-old man and I've been dating this girl who's 27 for 3 years we're raising our 2-year-old son together I was her first serious relationship in a while before me she was just casually seeing people she told me that she was pregnant very early on in our relationship which I thought was odd but she insisted that it was mine my son looks nothing like me I have brown hair and green eyes and he has blonde hair and blue eyes however blonde hair and blue eyes does run in both my and my girlfriend's side of the family so I figured that it was just genetics doing its thing however I still had a bit of Doubt so I got a paternity test without telling anybody not even my girlfriend it came back that I am not my son's biological dad I was devastated but I decided that I'm not going to say anything to anyone because realistically it doesn't change much I'm still as father I've been here since before he was born up until now I make enough money to comfortably support us both so I'm not worried about child support or anything like that I don't even know if my girlfriend deliberately tricked me maybe she genuinely thinks that he's mine she may not even know who the biological father is so I feel like bringing it up would just cause problems op you don't know if your girlfriend deliberately tricked you she just accidentally got knocked up by another man and forgot to mention it to you of course she's deceiving you op I mean maybe she cheated maybe the pregnancy was before you guys even got together but clearly she's trying to deceive you our next Reddit post is from camera guy so I'm a 25-year-old guy and about 2 weeks ago I matched with an 18-year-old girl we hit it off in conversation and I thought that things were going well until we exchanged numbers my first mistake here was not verifying her age which was the biggest mistake of my life she asked me for a selfie which I gave but it was just a normal photo of myself at my job however she sent me a not safe for work photo which I was immediately uncomfortable about but the conversation kep kept going that was mistake number two we mostly talked about our favorite shows and our hobbies and the conversation stayed clean fast forward 2 days later when I get a call from a child protective agency asking about the same girl who they revealed to be actually 15 I was of course at a loss for words the mom wanted to press charges against me for going against the terms of service at the dating site which is understandable the dad however didn't want the cops involved and we worked out a Sol ution where I could help her pay for counseling which I agreed to it was a lot of money and it took me a while to get it all to them but after it was all transferred I thought that I could forget all this I was wrong fast forward to today I get a call from the child protective agency again and they tell me the girl's in critical condition and she attempted to take her own life the agent then tells me that my name was put in the suicide note and that she said our secrets were safe with her I was in the car when he told me this and I almost crashed I didn't even know this girl and all of a sudden she put me in her suicide note the agent then suggested that I called the Dad the dad was livid with me and I was beyond confused I was as well and I explained to him that there were no secrets to her that I'd shared I could tell that he wasn't having any of it the only information that this girl and I exchange were about movies and TV shows he then said that he still doesn't want to go to the cops but that he needs me to pay for her medical bills I can't afford to give him any more money and I'm beyond confused here because nothing like this has ever happened to me as I said I've been crying in my car for the past 10 minutes before riding this I don't know what to do here because it was never my intention to do this because I was absolutely gullible enough to believe that she was 18 I want to tell my mom about this but I'm afraid that she'll be angry with me what do I do here all right halfway through this story I thought that this was just some fake Reddit user who was making a BS story in order to get karma but I mean yeah it is a fake story just not the way that I thought op you are clearly getting scammed here this is the this is so obviously a scam I briefly thought about not publishing the story because I try to avoid stories that are obviously fake but I decided to leave it in because it gives you information about scams that are going on out there so be careful everyone our next Reddit post is from Lonely thought my ex-boyfriend Tyler was very close to his female best friend Lily they're so close that people often think that they're dating the effort that he put into my Valentine's gift was nothing compared to what he did for Lily's palentine's gift one day a coworker of his confronted me for flirting with him when he has a girlfriend I tried explaining to him that I was his girlfriend but he didn't believe me he didn't leave me alone until I showed him pictures of us on my phone I've tried talking talking to Tyler several times about how this makes me feel but he always brushes me off and said that Lily is like family to him and I'm being insecure our anniversary was coming up and a travel agent friend of mine got me a good deal for a two night stay at a resort about 2 and 1/ half hours away I booked it and when I told Tyler he seemed very excited about a week before our trip he came to ask me if he could go with Lily since she has a lot going on and she could use a pickme up I was sh shocked and asked him if he would really rather spend our anniversary with another woman he just got mad and called me a cruel jealous witch and said that Lily really needed him right now when I still told him no he said that he didn't want to go at all and he left and we didn't talk for 3 days so I took that as us officially breaking up as I was crying to my best friend about the breakup and being unable to get my money back she suggested that we go as friends well fast forward to about an hour after we check in and I get a call from the front desk saying someone was trying to check in under my reservation when I went down to check I saw Tyler and Lily Tyler immediately stomped towards me and went off on me for taking the spot when Lily needed it more and then Lily plopped down on a chair and started balling her eyes out saying I just wanted a relaxing weekend to forget all that's happened to me after a while of my ex screaming and her crying security forced them to leave the next real Shocker the next day on social media Tyler posted that he and Lily were officially together unfortunately for him my friends and family are vengeful people they all started commenting on his post with comments like isn't that your sister aren't you too related and Sweet Home Alabama he tried to deny the comments but it was no use because the rumors already spread it's been 3 months since then and while nobody bothers them about the relationship anymore it definitely ruined their reputation and that makes me happy man op your boyfriend was for sure cheating on you I think that coworker was right your boyfriend did have another girlfriend that was r/ true off my chest and if you like this content check out my podcast where I publish the exact same episodes also hit that subscribe button because I put out new Reddit videos every single day

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Published: Tue Nov 14 2023