Respect for Authority - Dr. Benny M. Abante, Jr.

[Music] get your bibles and open that book ephesians chapter 6 we're going to read beginning verse 1 to 3 of ephesians chapter 6 [Music] or of preaching not indito through me so you may give it of course it says children obey your parents in the lord for this is right honor thy father and mother is the first commandment with promise that it may be well with thee and thou mayest live long on the earth shall we pray heavenly father once again we thank you lord for this time you've given to us to come and worship you may they want to bless your word father god thank you so much for everything that you've done may you please oh god use your servant tonight and that your holy spirit lord will give understanding of your word in christ and we pray amen amen you may be seated tonight i'm going to start teaching about the baptist family as you will know that is coming monday we're going to have our year-end conference and we shall be talking to you on the theme the baptist family senator and baptist family to differentiate between any other family to differentiate between the family or the catholic family oh or your class in a discipline your of which many of you that came in here when you were young your parents were not bible believers so tonight and the title of the message tonight is respect for authority respect for authority ephesians chapter 6 uh number one children obey your parents in the lord honor thy father and mother if our children will obey their parents of course now of course they must obey [Music] that when you obey your parents it is like obeying the lord you are an ibiza being is a pajama when you obey your parents it is like obeying the lord why because that is the command of god thy father and mother because it is right tontama that is the first commandment with promise the first commandment with promise you promised alien promise that it may be well with thee oh and thou mayest live long on the earth that it may be well with thee oh and that you may live long on the earth in exodus chapter 20 and verse number 12 and sabae honor thy father and thy mother that thy days may belong upon the land which the lord thy god giveth thee both in the old and new testament that when you honor your parents your days will be long in buhay mo i'ma gigging mahaba so mundo deuteronomy 21 deuteronomy chapter 21 verses 18 to 21 deuteronomy 21 verses 18 to 21 if a man have a stubborn and rebellious son is if a man have a stubborn and rebellious son which will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother and that when they have chastened him will not hurricane unto them then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him and bring him out unto the elders of the city and unto the gate of his place and they shall say unto the elders of the city this our son is stubborn and rebellious he will not obey our voice he is a gluten and what and a drunkard and all the men of his city shall stone him with stones that he died so shalt thou put evil away from among you and all israel shall hear and fear nothing after being rebellious after being stubborn later on they would repent and they would obey their parents that would be a different story but i don't git language away so we live nowadays in a very [Music] disrespectful society number one that happens when the bible says there's no more fear of god before their eyes that's one number two when they demand for their perceived rights [Music] authority and i believe this is what the age of permissiveness has taught our young people today the age of permissiveness is you start when it is small because when it has become big you cannot bend that tree anymore you have to break it you have to break that okay although perhaps they do not have any discernment that what they're doing is wrong yet well that's wrong don't do it no discipline starts early if you want the children to grow up and obey you for the rest of his life education may serve as an answer to economic progress and yet it does not at all help our society raise young boys and girls with character oh yes they may be well educated but still fail to measure up to the biblical standards of good manners and right conduct to the biblical standard of right and wrong there is academic excellence but no character excellence there ought to be a balance now you teach a man you teach a young boy mathematics you also teach him honesty because if you teach in mathematics and you do not teach some honesty he will use that mathematics to steal money from you no no anybody see i mean you know that's one thing that all of us should realize and any other subject for that matter sophina goes up and not indito the baptist family no money but sometimes that discipline ah it's not at all [Music] tama you will learn it later on okay and we see that most children today view and treat their home just like any dwelling place and not a place or of a boat where love and respect you realize that respect foreign m huh i will violate the rules of the school but i will never violate worship oh you will not graduate if you will not take a rotc i don't care to me the most important is to be in god's house not at otc [Music] fernan is special the natal nothing special force special action force [Music] on they have to make a decision on that just like i made a decision on that on my own not even my own father told me the first two years we're going to put up a special action force and we will do it on a saturday oh physical education pe lingo graduated church why because during sunday it is always the duty of every baptist to be in his own ecclesia to worship god amen indeed graduates so commerce oh and because of my credit and units in bible college and commerce i was able to take up master's degree at plm [Music] the parents should teach them to make a stand yum yeah no my own parents don't do that dinner [Music] foreign my foreign a respect you you children the house is not yours that's your parents and you are a special guest in that house so what do you do you obey obey the rules see later on m [Music] church [Music] foreign [Music] foreign they also treat or regard their parents [Music] authority doesn't mean anything to them anymore authority is a subject they find as not their own thing children do not anymore regard their parents as people they are deeply indebted too and the ones they should love honor and respect all the days of their lives inaudible [Music] [Music] give instruction to a wise man and he will be yet what why sir teach a just man and he will increase in learning you see so the question is how can we teach respect the biblical way parents are mandated by god to teach and show their own children his word and his ways and make them see that he owns them and has the authority over them to teach and what show acts oh foreign foreign we're part of that did you really tell them learn the word of god be in the word of god be in god's seer listen to the pastor oh yes allow me to use that word oh no if we want to raise godly and honorable children the very first thing that they ought to learn is respect for god and authority if they respect god they will respect authority if they don't respect god they will not respect authority foreign you know they can easily learn it by setting ourselves as their own example to follow he picks a being and then one perfect example the lord is not demanding that you be a perfect example oh foreign my no i'm not the perfect example to my children but i tried to be you know apostle paul not that i have apprehended but i tried to be ah i mean something that all of us ought to realize respect for authority is best understood and accepted when we ourselves demonstrate it before our children we make our point clear and sound when our children see us love respect and honor god in every way and when we treat them the best way we can now you're making an outline big letter a in my outline says parents teaching respect to their own children parents teaching respect to their own children how do you do that number one require strict obedience require strict obedience colossians 3 20 children obey your parents in some things about some things in all things all things if they are an example to you why for this is well pleasing unto the lord is when the parents would tell them to do something against god hello because the bible says we ought to obey god rather than man for this is well pleasing unto the lord no romania so require a strict obedience number two require proper respect our children must also learn to give fitting or proper respect to all people especially to those who are in authority over them they will also accord respect you know that why because they learn to respect it from their parents for example princess is 40 years old rich is 38 years old at foreign i do not treat them kids anymore no whenever we talk i treat them as adults oh i allow them to talk to me i allow them even to discuss with me i allow them even to argue with me if they can but they have to argue with respect because if not i'm going to stop them see rich foreign okay ah foreign let the parents do it because that's their job and grandparents should enjoy the grandchildren it is the parents that should discipline their own children foreign it is not your job to discipline your grandchildren it's the parents job and it is not your job to hinder them to discipline their own children because that is oh foreign family so children should recognize their parents as people who have dignity and honor that must it would be hard for them if they don't see us having respect for ourselves you know for them and for others how can you be an example of respect we must dread and learn from the example of noah and ham who had been so imprudent of their conduct and in turn lost their honor experience for their children very godly very spiritually you can read in genesis victory am i right [Music] you have been an example all throughout your life and all of a sudden for one thing you're not no no no example abraham foreign is foreign the thing is this i'm so glad that i can be in my office i can be in my house and i can trust the people there honey a more important character of respect than love actually letter b children should be taught to be polite or well-mannered addressing their parents and other adults with yes sir yes yes do not allow your children not to respect you about good morning oh a good morning m huh foreign children should be taught to be gentle affectionate and considerate of their parents and other people at all times i want a problem okay forget see children should be taught to be gentle affectionate and considerate about why because you know asap in the bible be angry and what and sin not let not the sun go down don't do that me that you should forgive a person 70 times seven tenes you submit time seven four hundred ninety eight you should forgive a person 490 times every day you know what i'm saying indeed m foreign oh young gentle affectionate and considerate giving your parents the best chair taking their turns holding the door open for others but respect on then the letter d or number four children should be taught to revere god to give god reverence honor their parents and respect others and most importantly to love god deuteronomy chapter six verse five to seven ah anandapat etoro to love the lord their god with all their thine heart with all thy soul and with all thy might this is first god's command to the parents and what would the parents do this must also be taught to their own children if you teach your children to love god with all their hearts and minds and soul even if you do not teach them to love you they will love you automatically you realize that they will respect you letter e children should be taught to care deeply for their parents and others especially if they're getting old and mrs cooper foreign but foreign you ought to be the children of your parents old age bible and thy staff they comfort me my foreign should be taught to care deeply for their parents and others then let her be parents teaching themselves to respect their children parents teaching themselves to respect their children and somebody's 6 4 and if others provoke not your children to what to wrath but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the lord colossians 3 21 fathers provoke not your children to anger lest they be discouraged we as parents should not forget that our children are little people who also have honor dignity and value [Music] school nothing we do not treat those children as children we treat them as little people we let them realize that they have honor they have dignity and they have value especially herbie our authority over them does not mean cruelty or freedom to do everything in our power or to lord it over them no we should learn this to differentiate between discipline and cruelty we should not be tyrants to our own children the lord gave them to us to what to no risk to love to protect and respect them and most importantly they are given to us to point them to christ and teach them to live for him on and you try to let others lead your children to christ no i led all my children to the lord jesus christ when dealing with our grown-up children we must see them as individuals having their own unique rights and privileges that ought to be respected too not to be [Music] spoiled respect does not mean spoiling your children respect means that you discipline your children in the right way so that they might respect others also let us always trust that they are capable to make godly and wise decisions for we have trained them to be good but let us still remind them to consider always the lord in every decision they make for the future deputy speaker the princess is foreign see instead of making it the right let them choose their own career or field of endeavor [Music] you know you need them but let them pursue not what they like but what they can excel to do so am i right son you go to up and enroll in the conservatory [Music] without question she followed me she learned piano she learned voice scholarships and i will be there to support you why because she learned to obey her father oh mayo she princess rsa he became a pastor now i want him to realize that his daughter can be a lawyer foreign anyone among our children that will not obey the pastor will not all right you do everything you can to finish your studies professional [Music] here oh for example choose their own lifetime partner should there be the one the only one secured no no preaching on first corinthians 7 i'm going to preach that don't you know that the bible has instructed us if you do not want your own daughter to get married you have the right the right to say don't get married the parent has that right so therefore um [Music] for example foreign foreign distancing foreign foreign google my foreign that's it my love flew away immediately why because i do not want that kind of a home [Music] foreign foreign teaching respect for authority is very important to our children and vital to our home life so i plead before you parents that you should not be negligent of this very important job you have with this duty comes great responsibility and accountability oh yes you will give an account for each one of your children as well as the future of our nation you disrespect and honor and plant goods now you will harvest a respectful and god honoring future generations respect for authority shall we stand i have given you home respect and do not make that home like a cave but you get into and get out the lord has given us our own families then you ought to promote respect respect for authority respect for the institution that god has created tonight it's the best time to pray for our children the best time to pray for ourselves the best time for those children to pray for their parents the best time to realize that there is no greater respect but great respect towards god and perhaps to some the best time to get right with god if you have been remiss in teaching your children and because of that they're not faithful today libya you

Channel: Metropolitan Bible Baptist Ekklesia

Views: 1,925

Rating: 5 out of 5

Keywords: respect for authority, Metropolitan Bible Baptist Ekklesia, king james version bible preaching, MBBE Preaching, bible baptist, filipino church, kjv preaching sermons, baptist preaching, bible baptist church, benny abante preaching, dr benny m abante jr, children obey your parents, ephesians 6:1 sermon, obey your parents bible lesson, respecting your parents video, respect, authority, Family

Id: VyYCMJJIXxY

Length: 90min 48sec (5448 seconds)

Published: Thu Dec 24 2020