r/Entitledparents Angry Karen Finds Reddit Post About Her

welcome to R entitled parents where an entitled Karen discovers a Reddit post written about them and all hell breaks loose our next Reddit post comes from no ride throwaway and this is an update to an ongoing saga that was originally posted to r slash am I the butthole as a quick refresher op is a 23 year old guy and every single time he goes on a family vacation he gets stuck babysitting his sister's three triplets the family kind of justifies it because op's parents always pay for op's room so he feels obligated to repay them essentially but on this upcoming family vacation op is like screw it this time I'm gonna drive myself and I'm gonna pay for my own hotel room that way no one can pressure me into babysitting my sister's triplets for the entire vacation predictably op's parents give him Flack for it and his sister absolutely blows up complaining that it's so hard to be a mother of triplets and she just needs a break to try to address the drama op shows the post to his family and everyone in the comments is dumping on the parents and the sister so the parents switch sides support op and start trashing on the sister and as a result the entire vacation gets canceled if you want to hear the original story I'll post the link to that video in the description okay so now that that's out of the way let's get into the updates on op's next post he adds a ton of backstory which I'm gonna skip because it's kind of redundant and get to the new information my sister tried to call me to complain while I was at work but my phone was on silent until my lunch break so all she could do was leave messages and texts but she was persistent and managed to get through to me when I was eating my lunch the gist of the conversation was that my post had taken our parents away from her side and now they were mad at her in the ensuing argument between them my parents canceled the entire vacation yeah they later acknowledged that they passed the blame out of embarrassment and have fully accepted faults they told me no excuses could excuse the fact that they made me their go-to free babysitter when I wasn't even living at home anymore they did try to backtrack a little by pointing out that they never charged me rent while I was in college but I reminded them that kids don't ask to be born and I was doing my hardest to make my own way then I pointed out that my father had the same kind of Advantage from his parents they let him live at home for free while he was in college that basically ended any argument my parents had left when my sister called me at lunch I presented the facts to her then she showed her true colors she implied that I have no life and that my free time on weekend should be spent helping her because she's tired and unable to even go out without bringing her kids with her unless someone's watching them she's a stay-at-home mom with a husband who makes a decent salary they live in a pretty decent house that's owned not rented and to be frank my nephews are not my responsibility my family just forced them on me and expected it to stay that way my sister angrily hung up on me but I recorded the call and played it to my parents later they were Furious they basically went to war with my sister my sister dug in her heels and blamed me then she doubled down in her belief that my life should circle around hers I told her that that was the most narcissistic and entitled thing that she's ever said to me it took days but her husband finally stepped in and forced her to apologize to me I'd never seen her cloud like that by anyone but she was on the verge of crying she ended up admitting to me that the reason why I was the go-to babysitter was because my sister didn't trust strangers it was never about the money or was it as a quick reminder Opie's sister never paid op to be a babysitter actually my brother-in-law thought that my sister was paying me for my time watching her kids after I moved out of my parents house but she didn't even give me gas money she just gave me cash that was enough to order pizza for both myself and the kids then she pocketed the rest my sister has been shortchanging me for months her husband blew up at her when this came out during her half-assed apology and she was forced to pay me what she owed me in cash entirely from her own savings which she looked very upset about then my brother-in-law apologized to me for his own inaction and letting my sister walk all over me and he promised that they would get a normal babysitter from now on yeah this will hurt them a bit financially but on the bright side my sister will be getting date nights back then the next day we had a family meeting we all gathered up at my parents house and everything was laid bare people made apologies all around and whatnot then my parents reinstated the family vacation and yes I still plan to drive myself and pay for my own hotel I'll even try to stay in a completely different hotel if my sister tries to revert me to child care and I've told them this she's promised me that won't happen if I don't update you guys again after the vacation in a month or so then you'll know everything is fine then op posted an update having a family that knows about your Reddit account has its disadvantages yesterday my sister called me after I got off work to ask me if the comments were still coming in she said that she can't bear the negativity of looking at them herself because the comments are also hurtful towards her so I was brutally honest at least 10 comments are still coming in Daily and most of them more or less are saying the same things about her she started crying and demanding I delete my Reddit posts but I refused and told her she can cry to anyone she wants the Reddit posts stay up because they're my Assurance that she won't try to treat me like garbage anymore after all she literally felt like my life should revolve around hers she didn't pay me for the babysitting money she was supposed to and pocketed for herself and she forced me to be the constant babysitter on last year's family vacation so I pretty much had no fun the entire time is it really any wonder that people are having so much hate for her when she treated me like that then when I mentioned the posts have already spread to other websites because I was asked a couple of times to let an article be written about my situation and there were some videos that read the post as well my sister shrieked hearing that and hung up well op you know let's not forget the podcast there's also a podcast out there reading this post my parents then called me begging me to take the post down I refused stating that I only did this because they didn't stick up for me this would have never happened if they had told my sister to treat me like an equal and not a servant I'm not her Butler babysitter or handyman I'm her freaking brother a grown man wouldn't they get tired of this too if they were in my shoes my parents agreed but still begged me to take the post down I refused and said that I'll keep making more if they don't start sticking up for me more whenever my sister comes crying to them let my sister clean up her own messes all of their enabling led her to do this they can either step out of my way or keep trying to enable my sister but I assured them that the latter would end badly for them the only way that this posting on Reddit will stop is if the drama stops I've kept things Anonymous and I've got a right to vent my very valid frustrations well that got my mother to start crying my father just went silent and I said tears don't move me anymore they know what it'll take to end this and that's to stop enabling my sister well my sister called me again to yell at me that our parents have told her that they aren't dealing with this anymore and to figure it out herself oh and they told her to be nicer to me too I just pictured her eyes twitching as she internally screamed after hearing that be nice to my kid brother what does that mean do I look it up on Google yeah I was that sarcastic to her it left her crying when I hung up my brother-in-law called me later to get my side of the story he's mad that I'm still making Reddit pose and made his wife cry but I explained everything to him and he said that he would have another talk with my sister I'm hoping this drama finally ends here but the family vacation is still on for late June I've already booked my room and put in for a day off work so that we can all leave on Friday my room is also not near the ones my parents sister brother-in-law and nephews will be using in fact it's not even on the same floor and when we get to the coast when it's not a family activity I'm gonna go where I wanna go and do what I wanna do you can bet that I'm gonna tour those art galleries pig out on local food and just enjoy being Carefree for a change and then op posted an update well the family vacation is over some things both good and bad when as expected good and that my parents didn't enable my sister trying to make me babysit and yes she did try but bad in that my sister tried to find out which room I was in but she failed and that got her in trouble with her husband again firstly I made sure to tell the hotel in advance that they were not to give out any of my information to anyone who asked except for the police they assured me over the phone that they wouldn't tell a soul then on the day of the vacation I left earlier in the morning than the rest of the family I knew that they wouldn't be able to get moving as a group until the earliest of 10 a.m so I left at 9am I sent out a group text to the family letting them know that I started my three-hour drive my parents were upset because they'd planned a family brunch on the way I pointed out that I was never made aware of these brunch plans so the brunch was canceled in favor of fast food I arrived at the hotel early a bit too early for check-in I told the desk staff that I was there to make sure that they didn't give my parents or my sister any of my information they claimed they don't do that but I told them that I know that sometimes it still happens so I'm just covering my own butts when they're dealing with my mother and my sister and three potentially crying boys trying to guilt-trip them at the desk they had better not yield also I wanted to know if my sister tried anything they awkwardly promised me that no one would get access to my room so I decided to go out and get something to eat I came back more than an hour later and there was my parents car and my brother-in-law's big SUV I went to the desk to check in and make sure the lobby was clear and it was then I asked the clerk if my family had asked about me and where I was staying at the hotel and yes they did fortunately the clerk refused to tell them my sister had apparently tried to push it but her husband husband shut her up I checked in went to my room and called my folks I didn't mention that I knew what they tried to do with the clerk and they conveniently didn't mention it either then we met up as a family to go tour around at one point my sister asked me to watch her kids for a moment to which I replied hell no because I knew exactly what she was doing she would pretend to be gone for just a moment and then would be gone for an hour I called her out and her husband told her to stop trying to make me watch the kids what did my sister do she just started crying on the spot that she needs a break her husband scolded her that he was also tired but he wasn't complaining my mother gave me a nasty look so I went right up to her and said that if she even tries to think that I should be watching these kids I would walk away from this family vacation right now it is not my job and I'm sick and tired of her and my sister acting like it is well that made my mother start crying too and then she just started repeating the words you're right you're right you're right over and over again this is another old tactic of hers she tries to look pathetic to guilt-trip me but I just told her that yeah I am right and to just let it go before walking away neither my mother nor my sister tried anything else for the rest of the day when we got back to the hotel after dinner my family were all crowding the elevator I didn't get in with them they asked why and I said that I would wait for the next one my sister glared at me because she knew exactly what I was doing I just sat in the lobby watching YouTube on my phone for 15 minutes then took the elevator up I was on a different floor and on the other end of the hotel I had a splendid night and the next morning we all went out for breakfast I made sure that they left first I was the last one out just like I was the last one in the night before breakfast went fine I told my family my plans for the day and my mother tried to bring up plans to go to the aquarium and a couple of other places I said I'd meet them up for those events but the rest of the day was mine until the family dinner they accepted this and that day went fine too back at the hotel that evening though my sister caught me leaving my room she must have been my entire floor looking for me I went back to my room to chill for a bit before dinner because I was tired from walking so much my sister was just down the hall when I left my room to meet them for dinner she tried to Corner me saying that I had ruined the family vacation for her because now it wasn't hardly any different from her than being at home because she still had to Wrangle her kids I called BS because my parents were helping out a lot then I told her that I'm sick of this song and dance of being her scapegoat and it's already over so leave me the hell alone and get on with your own life then I started walking off with her yelling hey I'm trying to talk to you I told her that I didn't care and I was going to dinner she followed me to the elevator and we both said nothing to each other I didn't stay silent I told my parents and my brother-in-law that my sister had stalked me to find my hotel room my sister was scolded like a child she had a pity party I told her to stop milking it and grow up up the old days when she could force her will on me were over then I walked out of the lobby to my car this time I was the first one to show up to dinner when everyone else arrived my sister looked depressed but not a single thing was said about what happened before and that was just fine with me my sister refrained for making eye contact with me for the entire evening and this time I didn't care about riding in an elevator with the rest of them I told them bluntly that unless it was an emergency no one was to come knocking on my door that I had a do not disturb sign on my door for a reason on the final day everything went swimmingly neither my sister nor my mother bothered me at all they'd fully surrendered at this point yeah during the whole vacation I did play with my nephew some I'm not a complete jerk I didn't Stonewall them I kept up being the fun uncle just not the babysitter Uncle the kids didn't even seem to care they just wanted to play I even bought each one of them one of those little baggies of crystals and Polished stones to take home as a souvenir there was a bit of mild drama between my sister and her husband but that was just some of their small disagreements that I didn't bother to pay attention to all in all I'd call the vacation a win because it finally hit home for my mother and sister that the old way they did things involving me is over and now I have my own life op I'm so proud of you I'm so happy for you finally we have Justice for the victim of an entitled parent I can't believe that she spent I would have to guess hours of her vacation just standing around in multiple floors of a hotel hoping to spot you at a certain location that's obsessive stalker Behavior lady just move on just enjoy your vacation with your family that was our slash entitled parents 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Length: 16min 20sec (980 seconds)

Published: Sat Aug 05 2023