People Reveal Why They Cheated On Their Partner

cheaters have reddit why did you do it gonna break the theme and give a real answer of the one time I did cheat on someone wasn't happy was only in the relationship because of threats of self-harm and not having the understanding and maturity to deal with it cared enough to say okay okay we'll work it out and go with whatever she wanted but the relationship itself was help was asked over by another girl and thought to myself in that moment it I don't care I've already tried to break up like half a dozen times and went on over she found out of course and cut herself badly enough to get hospitalized I told a nurse about our relationship and how I've been trying to end it but caving to her threats of self-harm her parents were there too though they were of the opinion I should just stick with her to get her through life nurse told me that she was only going to end up killing herself and to leave her and honestly that get out of guilt free card was all I needed she died a few years later suicide I go back and forth on if the right thing to do was to stick with her and try to be her support don't set yourself on fire and yet I do know she chipped away at my self-esteem and confidence for over a year we did the thing where we would be good for a few months and then she would break up with me for a week or two presumably to get with some guy she liked I knew it was the case at least one of the times she would always make the comment when we would be having makeup sex I bet this is better than jacking off so basically she was saying I wasn't attractive enough to have sex with anyone else so I proved her wrong also got some of my self esteem and confidence back as pathetic as it sounds I had finally had enough when she was getting ready and casually said I think I am too pretty for you kicked her out and declined any further attempts at reconciliation I haven't although she urges me to we're older she's menopausal and has lost desire and I'm facing my end and want to enjoy life so I have a green light from her but she is my love and casual sex is like an oxymoron to me it's frustrating I won't lie the following is a result of not putting the serious tag in your question didn't find what I was looking for but I'm having fun I was in a seven-month relationship that fizzled as quick as it started we stopped having sex or being intimate we became roommates real fast a friend of mine who I knew long before I met my then GF got closer and closer to me to be fair I never actually cheated but I caught myself one day texting the other girl non-stop and realized what the end game was broke up with my GF a few nights later ended up dating the other girl for a little under three years until she moved out of the country this is like the opposite of cheating though like this is the other option the good honest and correct option good on you mate I was stuck on a boss and was very frustrated and just wanted to get past it so ou can have fun again I just couldn't fight the stress that slice of pizza looked way too inviting my wife cheated on me she claims it was an isolated incident but I am skeptical were still together my self-esteem and sense of self-worth were initially so terrible but I've gotten a bit better I've been eating really well and working out Arizona heat is great for sweating and burning calories and I'm in great shape and in my opinion look really good but I'm afraid I'll never get over what she did to me there's a new girl at work and we get along real well and texts a lot she's also just drop-dead gorgeous without going into more details I think there's a good chance I could sleep with her and I want to do it I know I should have left my wife a while ago I know I should leave her now I know that her cheating on me doesn't make it okay for me to do to her I know I'm a shitty person this is the first time I've talked about this I've considered seeing a therapist I was stupid only time I did it I was on the way out with my current gf girl that I had mutual feelings for was on the outs with her bf too many drinks later and we are going at it against a wall woke up the next day broke up with my gf girl didn't leave her bf moved on have an amazing wife and life now this mistake will be with me forever I was the guy who said I would never cheat and now I am not that guy don't get drunk around people you have complex feelings about no sex for a year when we did have sex she just lay there she started going out all the time without telling me who what when where always unhappy night of main event other girls starts making major passes I try to leave and call GF in my car rings and rings more passes from other girl call GF again she clearly hangs up and declines my call go back inside to other girl eternal regret I was in a relationship with a man who was eight years older than me and who started grooming me when I was thirteen the person I cheated with made me feel genuinely cared for and appreciated it was something I had never felt before I felt safe it was the first time I slept with someone because I actually wanted to instead of doing it out of fear that's not cheating it's escaping very glad you got out of that horrible situation I'm too lazy to take care of my sims and get them proper jobs why get an actual job when you can just spam mother lode I was young horny and stupid so a typical high school senior I didn't realize the emotional pain it would cause my then girlfriend and looking back as an older wiser more mature person it's something I deeply regret he was practically showing me his cards it was impossible not to look I didn't study enough for the final and the cute girl next to me was willing to help me on a problem then we had dirty sex because she cheated first and lied to me about it I then met a willing and sexually adventurous woman and things happened I do have to thank my ex-girlfriend because I would never have gone through it if she had not motivated me to do so the real answer I was too much of a pussy to admit that the relationship had failed I was determined to make it work and I thought if I cheated we would be equal then I could move past her infidelity I was wrong she broke up with me not long thereafter my boss fired me so I his daughter we have a pretty hardcore group of around five monopoly deal addicts in my office and give or take another five people who play casually initially I'd occasionally cheat by holding more than the maximum seven cards I'd also sometimes slyly put money into the bank when it's not my turn why did I do it the fraud triangle framework theorizes that people commit fraud due to the intersection of opportunity pressure and rationalization I had the opportunity because my movements are deft and Swift I had the pressure to win because losing his soul-crushing and hairy looks like a smug trap whenever he wins I rationalized my actions is a necessary evil for my own mental health being and departmental harmony I quit cheating after I found a monopoly deal website online playing against Russians and BOTS and Russian BOTS has elevated me to a level where I am my department's goat monopoly deal player I now look forward to the occasions where I lose the way of cricket legend approaches his second innings in a Test match still hate it when Harry wins though split-screen multiplayer in halo I'm not about losing to my younger cousin in my case it was because I had two lovely girls of entirely different sorts coming at me at the same time and just couldn't decide had two good things and couldn't let either go plus I have this crippling inability to say no to a girl that's crying causing me to fail to dump one of them took months until things finally came to a head at which time I fully expected to lose them both but one held in there went on with her for a few years until it fell apart due to various sob story reasons after that the other one tracked me down we picked up like nothing had happened and that went on for a few more years then I finally got my comeuppance when she cheated on me almost as if she'd been playing the long game for that revenge oh to top it off they were both cheating on the current boyfriends to get to me when we first met looking back we were all pretty dysfunctional stupid weak willed and fairly handsome is a recipe for heartbreak when you're young these days I les have my cake and eat it too so much as get regular beatings from the cake that's around primarily for practical reasons to think of how much time I spent ridiculing my cheating friends before that incident and going ballistic whenever I heard of anything close to infidelity never saw it coming as I always imagined it as something some men did simply to get more tail once you're in it it tends to look a whole lot more complicated my first relationship lasted three years this was all in high school it should have lasted - he was very mean to me and every time I tried to break it off things only got worse so I lied to him said I was staying home and then hung out with this guy who wasn't really my type but he was nice and followed me around like a puppy dog obsessed with me it made me feel special I kissed him he found out I lied about staying home next time we met up I seriously feared for my life he kept a closer watch on me suspecting but not knowing I had a thing for this other guy bf1 and I planned to have sex after my birthday we started dating when I was 15 this was almost three years later I couldn't explain it to him but after bad encounters early in life I wanted to be 18 before having consensual sex I wanted to be an official adult first as though waiting would stretch out my stolen childhood more he thought it was stupid it was I still can't explain it a few months before my birthday my first bf moved to another state we tried to long-distance his desire not mine but eventually things just fell apart slowly by then the other guy had lost interest and I was telling him I loved him I just said it to get him to follow me around like an obsessed idiot like he used to because it made me feel better about myself we ended up having sex a few days after my birthday my first time while I was technically still long-distance dating bf1 I was not sexually attracted to this second guy I only had sex with him because I thought it would make him value me more I knew he'd had sex before and he claimed to be someone's first time as well I read that bleeding a lot during first time was a myth or very exaggerated wrong I started bleeding so much must have been half a cup or more not period blood but fresh runny blood dribbling out as though I've been stabbed with a knife in a major artery he was like.he double you don't bleed on my bed so I stood up and he's like don't bleed on my floor either he grabbed a paper towel for me and said with a hint of disgust he was going to take a shower I laid in his bed with a paper towel stuffed between my legs feeling like I wanted to cry but all I could do was stare blankly as emotions of guilt sadness and disappointment washed over me I knew your first time was never the best but I had no idea it would go that way a couple months later I survived a suicide attempt which was really a wake-up call to me that I needed better people in my life or none at all eventually bf1 and I connected again and he told me he had his first time with someone else so I told him about my experience also his was not great either he was finally going to therapy and being medicated so I felt we could finally talk as adults he's improved a lot I'm very happy for him but I told him we could not ever date again he was still living far away and was much more meek and agreeable over text and in person I've been in an actual healthy relationship for a year and a half now after learning to be comfortable on my own being single but this guy really supports me and improves my life and brings me up when I'm down so that's why I'm dating him I tell him all the time how grateful I am to have him in my life money in gta5 is hard to get okay don't blame me common theme in the serious comments current relationship was terrible and I didn't have the guts to end it or will to improve it but still had emotional and sexual needs I took a shortcut through the gas station instead of waiting at the light to make a right turn boyfriend told me to quit my stressful job and find something else rent time comes around and he takes back his promise to cover me says he doesn't care how I get the money turns out he did care because I become massively infatuated with whoever shows interest in me because I never got over my old flame we found each other after many years and found it was mutual I thought we had broken up . he thought we were taking a break and not seeing other people a mad in his shock when I was suddenly in a relationship with someone new so I didn't cheat on purpose but I still feel absolutely terrible about it I didn't feel loved and cared for by my boyfriend had very little attention from him we were together for seven years then broke up now couple of years later I wonder why did we stay the extra two years together even though neither of us was happy I was hungry and already met my macros for the day I got caught up in a perfect storm of relationship struggles low self-esteem from loose skin after weight loss extreme stress from school and the resulting sleep deprivation being manipulated by the guy the first cheated with and it being what I thought I needed to get my sex drive back it was not I told my boyfriend of three years about everything and despite my best efforts in all likelihood it will be what ends our relationship don't cheat kids you'll be full of self-hatred and hurt a person who you love it's not worth it

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Length: 14min 30sec (870 seconds)

Published: Sat Jul 13 2019