Lies Young Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth {Book Review}

[Music] hey guys welcome back to the channel Dada of increase my name is nate anis for those of you who are new to the channel and I post new videos every Tuesday and Thursday all by my faith God Christ and expanding the kingdom of God and though it is Saturday that means I have a book review for you guys and I told you guys Saturday's I swear I would do my book reviews and this book review is one that I'm like super excited I'm trying for my glass out the way because this is a book that I read I loved and I'm actually currently meeting this with my sister and doing this study and that is going to be lies young woman believed by nancy Dumas will Gomez and Donna crush this is a part of a series and this is the second book in a series and I think this series is called lies we believe um that is the series I'm sorry I had to figure out what the name the series was but like I said this was the second book so I'm gonna show you guys all of the books that are out so first we have lies women believe by Nancy Dumas welcome at this was the first the second book that came out for that was Eli's young woman believed by nancy Dumas will Gomez as well as Donna grush third book in this series to come out was actually lies men believe and this was written by Nancy's husband his name is Robert welcome at which i think is so awesome and the fourth one which i'm hoping it's not the last one I don't think I look like one more for little boys or at least two more but this one is lies girls believe and this one is written by Donna Girish but obviously it's checked over by Nancy and this was the one that recently came out so yeah we have this along with that we do have two bible studies i'm hoping they come out with more bible studies for the other two books but lies one believe has a Bible study and lies young woman believe has a Bible study so I love all of these books I think these books are amazing I've only read one completely but I just I love the way they look if you guys can see up here you have the Apple here you have a mix of a Granny Smith with Macintosh you have the Apple over here with two bite marks and then a candy apple for little girls so I think it's like the cutest thing ever but this video is going to focus specifically on one of the books within a series and that is going to be on the yellow unbelief by Anita Moss welcome at the end on aggression now I am gonna tell you right now off the back this is a 5 out of 5 read from 5 out of 5 star read for me I adored everything about this book this book really helped me learn so much about myself this book really helped me to open my eyes and understand that I was still struggling with some things that happened in my past and helped me to bring those things to the forefront so that God can really get to the core and root of it and really helped me get over it I love this I am still currently reading this book with my sister I think my sister and I only got to chapter 30 but if you guys can see I have gone through this entire book by myself way ahead of my sister and write this book this book is amazing so on the back it says have you been deceived through a nationwide survey in an in-depth discussion groups Oh an in-depth discussion groups Nancy demonstrable gomez and Donna Gretch have listened carefully to the heart of your generation here's some of what they heard it seems like I've been struggling with depression forever I'm I always feel like I'm not good enough I couldn't live without texting and social media the whole wife and mom thing is overrated and no longer cool trying to figure out what is true can be hard especially today and this updated version of the best-selling lives young women belief Nancy and Donna exposed 25 of the lies most commonly believed by today's teen girls you'll hear real-life stories from young women just like you and learn how Nancy and Donna have overcome lies they believed best of all they'll show you how to be set free by the truth sorry about that but yeah so they go through 25 of the lies and I'm gonna run through them really quick so the okay this book is broken down into three parts so the first part is the landscape of Lies which it talks about the deceiver who was the enemy the deceived and where do the lies get power to destroy lives and then it talks about the truth so it's basically giving you some information on the enemy how we're deceived and then it's telling you the truth about like the world or what God says and all that then part 2 goes into all of the lies that young women believe so some of the lies are like lies about God how he is not enough how he's not really involved in your life lies about Satan how you know some people say we've never been exposed to satanic activities which is a lie or honestly exposed so we're on a daily basis lies about yourself how like beautiful girls are worth more and you have to perform to be loved and accepted which I think that's a lot a lot of us have believed as young girls in some form of fashion and even to this day still believe even though we say we don't believe that if that makes sense there's lies about sexuality how it's okay to date whoever you feel like dating how you're not really having sex if you're not having penetration then there's lies about relationships how you wouldn't be lonely if you had friends lies about your faith how like everyone at your church is judging you and I'm not even allowed when I was young a kid I used to think everyone at church was judging me and it just that's just what I believed happen in the church there's lies about sin how some people can't overcome sin lies about the media how it been the benefits of constant media use outweighs the harm sorry if you guys hear that hammering and banging there in the basement I so apologize the beeping with the smoke detector is not going off because I did manage to try to fix that it will be flater on but for some reason I just have the landlords just have to do something with the wiring because they're like I don't we didn't change the batteries multiple times but anyways and then there's lies about the future about how like what you do now doesn't affect your future and then part three is about how you can overcome those lines so how to stop fueling them lies them lies how to stop feeling the lies how to find freedom from the lies and then the truth that set you free and then it's like welcome and all that a pullout section and all that you guys this book was amazing so I guess I can go through some I don't even know like you guys is there like little questions and quizzes in the book that I actually like answered so like this one says selecting one pair circle the word or set of words that reflect how you feel or respond the most so like the first one is like relaxed or totally stressed out for me I put totally trust out because I feel that way sometimes the second one was like happy to be single or gotta have a guy I was in between I didn't need a guy but I also wasn't happy to be single you know good with what you got or ugly for me I put ugly forgiven or guilty and that one right there it really got me because I know if I'm forgiven but sometime I still feel guilty and that's not how it works I'm gonna make a whole video on that in breaking that down but this is just gonna be specifically a book review so if you have any questions just leave them down below and I'm gonna have a second video coming but you know authentic or hypocritical in control of my tech world or would die without texting in social media it was just a little pop quiz to see where you are mentally I guess for a little kid and I don't really trying to find a way to review this book because this book was amazing here it talks about the definition of life so a liar is a false statement with deliberate intent to deceive and inaccurate or false statement and then posture a lie is an impostor of the truth which I love that they say that when I said truth they put truth and capital with a capital C because truth is a furniture God the Word of God and then it says we often don't detect lies because they camouflage themselves so well and that it's so true I don't know how many lies I've been told that I always thought were truthful just because of how well they sounded or how well they seemed even though they were still imposters or not of the Word of God and if you don't know the Word of God for yourself you can be easily influenced by lies and not realize they're lies it says that Satan used a clever combination of half-truths and falsehood posing as truth and that's something that the enemy does a lot he will do a 50/50 thing like if it's 50/50 that's when we find ourselves in trouble because we know right from wrong but then we believe in those great areas that allow us to be tempted by those lives be tempted by the enemy and his schemes and this book plays no games like it dives and it says that all Satan's lies are intended to destroy lies about our bodies our physical beauty they're obvious and invitations to self-destruction which I agree with it says learn to run from anything that would send you in a direction that is contrary to God's will and as a team I'm not gonna lie I didn't I didn't study the word unless I was in church and I mentioned this before as much as I loved the Word of God as a teen I didn't feel compelled to study the word unless I was in church there was no going home to study the Word of God there was no Bible study at home I would go to church on wednesdays for bible study choir rehearsals on Thursday Fridays was evening Saturday was dance rehearsal I was in church all literally all day every day except Sundays I mean Mondays and Tuesdays I was in church you guys back in the day like when I was younger literally Wednesday through Sunday I was in church like I said Wednesday's was Woosley night prayers and Bible studies then Thursday's was choir rehearsal and because I was in a youth choir at my mama's in the adult choir we was in choirs all that I can quite rehearse with internal whole service you know taking demons and stuff out like my church back then was crazy um and then Fridays we would have youth nights at the church and then Saturdays I was on dance ministry so we had dance rehearsal morning and then Sunday she was in church all day morning afternoon like he was in church all day but for me studying the Word of God for myself wasn't something that I wanted to do I was all into going to the youth Church in doing Sunday schools I was into that and I always had a passion for it but there was no it's kind of like my flame died out when I left the church building I felt like in the building my flame was lit and then when I left the building there wasn't I wasn't going home to study the Word of God I wasn't being fed the Word of God so I wouldn't be able to tell those half-truths and those half lies from the full truth in the Word of God would just probably would mess me up personally I mean my college is because in my younger and teenage years I didn't care to look that's the word for myself and that's pretty much what a lot of kids do so let's just flip ahead I'm gonna try to you know talk about something so we're gonna dive into the lie so this one is lies about God so let's see I don't talk about that one because that one is pretty simple they talk about how like God is not enough so some people how God should fix my problem and that's one thing okay so the third lie that they talk about is how some people believe that God should fix their problems and a lot of the times I know when I was younger I would think okay if I did something wrong God will fix it if I did something wrong and angel would comment like literally this was my mentality I would believe that an angel would come to make it right but that is not God's job that his job is not to make it right he does make it right because he is a loving but that's not his job my job is to not to wrong my job is to know the truth from the lie but again as you when you're in your teen years and your younger years you don't know that now I am so grateful that there are some kids out there who are dedicated to the Word of God we need more people like that I have run across a lot of younger kids here on YouTube that have such a great dedication to the Word of God and I when I watch the videos that I do watch some of their videos I'm awestruck because I feel like I wish I was like that and my younger years now granted the things that I experienced and did back in those times help me now to minister to people but you know I know some kids nowadays don't care about the word you got I ran across some kids who just don't care this is the fourth lot God is just like my father and I think that's something a lot of younger kids battle with they struggle with relating God to their earthly father and God the Father is very different from your earthly father so I really love it just says learn to relate to your earthly father through God rather than relating to God through your earthly father which i think is so amazing like this this book really makes you think and though it is geared towards younger women for me personally it allowed me to be my younger self it allowed me to bring things to the forefront I know as I'm reading this with my sister I'm sharing some of the experience and some of the things that I thought of as a kid with her and she's learning from them so you know they took about lies about Satan so okay so line number five is that everything bad that happens is spiritual warfare which is not true now sometimes bad things that happened to us are a direct assault from Satan but not all bad things that happen to us are a direct undeserved assault from Satan and his minions say it is not the only enemy of our souls it says many bad things that happen are brought on by our own choices the greatest opponents to your Christian growth is you that right there for me was like excuse my language damn like when I was reading this I was like damn that's it's so true but many people don't understand it they don't want to agree with it they don't want to understand that everything is not spiritual it's just not there are some things that you do that just you have to do with the consequences and every sin has a consequence whether it's unintentional or intentional there's a consequence regardless but though the enemy will sometimes attack - attack - you attack you there are things that just happen because you made the wrong choice it has nothing to do with the enemy it has to do with your comments re s to do with you making the choice to sin and then you having to do with the consequences it is what it is um it says sometimes the bad things that happen are brought on by the influence of the falling world in which we live in so I mean okay it says that because this cut okay so it says the Greek word cosmos refers to the order of the system of organized culture apart from God so then it says the cosmos which is kind of like the culture apart from God attacks our appetites in our eyes and feeds our pride so I know for me in high school I saw a lot of stuff and I wanted to be down you know with people I wasn't popular but I also wasn't down with the losers if they made sense like I was in between I was cool with the popular kids I was cool with the Nerds I was cool with everybody like friendly with everyone but a part of me always wanted to be down with the popular kids and um it was hard you know there was some things I did that I grew attracted to because it looked cool and I saw that they weren't getting in trouble for it so I'm like okay they are not getting in her before it maybe I can get away with the two it didn't work that way for me but this book allows you to understand that it says even if Satan is the source of your problems you still have a personal responsibility so yes ayan does do certain things to get you tempted but it's your responsibility not to be tempted not to indulge in those temptations not to allow your pride to rise up in you and yeah I'm gonna try not to again to go through this entire book because it's so long it's I purposely didn't even mark things because um it's just so much in this book like every page returned I have highlights just highlights all through and what I'm like is that this is very scriptural base every page you turn is at least 305 scriptures to explain something or contradict a lie every page return is questions to make you wonder they refer to other people that you can actually go look up and research for yourself there's a little like quizzes that they did little polls they did they give you different things that you can do so here on page 111 this talks about the lives of our relationship there's five ways to cultivate authentic faith the first one isn't to invite your youth pastor's wife to follow you on Instagram I know for me back in those times I would not have one of my leaders to follow me on Instagram no I wasn't posting reckless stuff but just the stuff that I was posting I wouldn't feel comfortable with anyone from my church follow me on Instagram nowadays my pastor follow me it doesn't bother me because I make sure that what I'm posting is not reckless it's not it's still pleasing to God whatever I post so that was the first thing they said which i think is amazing for young kids to do the second thing it says so text at least one godly word of encouragement to a friend each day as much as these teenagers are texting people what are they texting you know they're not texting encouragement they're texting about sex their sex and about fights they're gossiping they're talking about TV shows that don't do anything for their lives like sex you know a godly word and that's something I personally started doing I think last year I started texting words of encouragement to my sisters from church to the ladies in the group like I was doing it not daily but at least three times a week I was texting and godly right of encouragement the third thing it says use your blog as a place for prayer requests and praise reports now that's something I think a lot of kids probably won't really do blogging is very much one of those things that is fun for a lot of people a lot of people come on YouTube a lot of people want to be Instagram famous but use your social media and to help spread the word of God I know for me I used to complain a lot like social media for me was a place where I can just go and just explain anything explode with my emotions and that's terrible one because you're putting everybody in your business and two it's not helping you're just making things worse nowadays when I post on social media I make sure that it's encouragement couraging whether it's a scripture or something you know related to Christ or just something motivational I'm making sure that whatever I'm posting is edifying to people and it's not making myself look bad nor being a misrepresentation of who God is nor causing any pain to anyone that I know the fourth thing they said is to put your favorite verses as your Instagram avatar I don't do that for me personally I just have scriptures and stuff all throughout my room like literally all over my wall you guys can see Scripture his prayers and traditional quotes I like that and then it says create a board of your favorite Christian books and start penning and a lot of these things are related to kids like nowadays and this generation because you know Pinterest is amazing and Instagram and blogging and both things are crucial but um you know now I do want to specifically talk about one thing and I'm sorry again that this video is so long and it's hard to really suck you know break this down but I'm chapter 11 lies about the media no is that it sorry it's actually chapter 5 lies about singing that's gonna be on page 60 when I'm actually gonna go to because I do want to talk about that because it's something that I feel weighs heavy on me personally especially wood things that are recently seen so it says line number six is I've never been exposed to satanic activities so then I access questions of have you ever looked at or read your horoscope have you ever participated in psychic activities have you ever did palm reading have you ever played a video game or watched a movie that portrayed demonic forces or witchcraft in a positive way and then they start talking about what was the was the show uh vampires and what is it called okay so they said okay who it is I'm sorry I was trying to find the paragraph but okay I'm just gonna read it cuz yeah this videos going almost so it says it's easy to become comfortable with evil when we're exposed to it casually or repeat we exposure plus a lack of awareness of what you're really exposed to can be dangerous then it says anything that presents characters of darkness as heroes anything that incites curiosity or encourages experimentation and exploration of things related to the occult is dangerous and should be avoided to be entertained or enamored by witchcraft is to be lured into alliance with Satan himself and then it talks about yoga as well how yoga is rooted in the religious belief and practices of Indian religion and then they talk about the actual breakdown of yoga how yoga comes from the ancient Sanskrit word yog which means to yoke and then how the positions of yoga were created to worship God now some people might not agree with that there I personally used to love doing yoga I haven't done yoga in a while just because I lost the passion to do it it has nothing to do with the whole religion thing but it does make me think every now and then when I want to do yoga but the whole thing so here it talks about um we're looking for the good in them Harry Potter a good wizard team Edward he's a good vampire The Walking Dead like it's making zombies you know it's crazy so for me I know recently I was watching the show Lucifer or next Netflix and I know Lucifer came on TV I forgot my channel but um it came on TV and I never watched it on TV and so it was on excuse me guys in thirsty if you wonder in this is my lavender vanilla um iced coffee I love this stuff so much homemade my the way but um you know Lucifer is a show about Lucifer and a lot of you guys probably know what I'm talking about of people on Netflix and look Lucifer up I literally binge watch the first two seasons and I had to stop myself I haven't watched season three or season four or whatever means I haven't watched it since because I came to the realization that I was starting to like Lucifer and it sounds ridiculous that I'm saying it out loud but it shows like that that tried to paint satanic and demonic beings and good light that we don't realize it and it causes spiritual problems and as I know for me as a as a kid I enjoy vampires it sounds crazy but I was attracted to vampires I liked watching vampires I was watching Blade I was watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer like I was watching a Sabrina the Teenage Witch hasn't been doing empires but you know I was watching that Disney Channel even has like you know twitches that's one which is like and these things we understand that these things are not right the Bible tells us that the you know these are satanic things and they're not good I used to read my horoscope all the time you know I mean my horoscope half the time was correct but like I would actually read my horoscope now I'm not one of those people that read my horoscope and try to live it out completely like I don't do that but I'm sorry Michael and I never thought anything of it until I read this book and I was like wow that is considered what's the word oh Jesus it's something in the but if I can remember the word I will put it on the screen hopeful if someone knows you can mention it down below but I know there's a scripture about horoscopes and looking at the Stars and all that and it's a who Scripture in the Bible I'm gonna look for a put-on it's great but um as a teenager you don't think about that stuff and then you don't have adults to tell you right from wrong you know when teenagers go to church a lot of the pastor's are not preaching to the teens you know you have youth services a lot of the times even when you have youth services they're not even preaching to the teens I've been to plenty of youth services back in my day where it's just like okay yeah I'm ready for the preacher to preach and they're preaching way over my head to adults like what but this book here really opened my eyes you know um but yeah like I said I was really getting into Lucifer like Islands I was I was I was happy you guys I was like oh my god Lucifer still sweet and you know they had the Angels ain't no angel don't need the good nor bad they do whatever God says period but you know it was just like I had to check myself for a minute and then I heard a whisper in my ear which I knew it was God telling me to stop watching it because I was actually becoming invested in watching this show and I mean he's Lucifer and a lot of kids don't think like that they watch um what's the name of the daggone show Edward and all that they watch the vampires and the werewolves and they don't think anything of it but then you're opening yourself up to these beings and though they look cool you start to think that what they're doing is cool and then you start to do things that are completely opposite or contrary to the Word of God and now you're stuck in a pit because you have to try to figure out how to fix it but nobody's there to tell you to fix it so now you go even deeper or you're now stuck in that one spot like there's a lot like I don't know if you guys heard that song Timmy Turner who even wrote that song I don't know but it's yes it's a song called Timmy Turner and I used to enjoy the song so much for one day there was a whisper and I know that was God saying to listen to the lyrics of the song and the lyrics of the song are so demonic and so creepy and so just you know that is the work of Satan in the lyrics Timmy Timmy like I'm actually going to look the words up for you guys because unfortunately a lot of the times when we listen to music and I know this happens a lot and with people of color we don't listen to the lyrics we hear the beat we get attracted to the beat we dance to the beat I'm going to read this lyrics the lyrics see you guys okay I'm not gonna say the curse words but it's Timmy Tim no mind you Timmy Turner is a show that I liked from the crane the OddParents if you guys all know him tomorrow I'll insert the picture here up timmy turner that's a cute little cartoon I enjoyed it now granted that's probably another show that you know people don't really pay attention to but it says Timmy Timmy Turner he be wishing for a burner meaning a gun to kill everybody walking he knows that his souls in the furnace fine be on be et hottie wollen she effin that's what it says on be et while in for a wallet killing everybody walking he knows that his souls in the furnace and it literally repeats and when I actually sat and listened to the words I to this day cannot listen to the song because you're basically telling me that he sold his soul to the devil basically and that he wants to kill everyone for no reason how does that make sense but then you have teenagers who don't think about that they just you know dancing that body's not listening to the lyrics and when you're not listening correctly to the things and you're just letting the music b-joo that's a problem and keep in mind say in if I'm not mistaken was the Angel of Music if I'm wrong let me know but I think I'm right um angel music so you know when you listen to a lot of these lyrics you know and a lot of people don't do that so I like that this book pointed out that we are exposed on a daily basis to satanic activities be it music be it through TV shows video games I mean think about fortnight people play for like fortnight like there's nothing but why are you killing people why you got all these type of demonic looking creatures like we don't think about this stuff we literally don't in even our my son um he's only five years old he watches things on YouTube but I believe what are you watching notes which that we're not watching it like no not today and he'll get mad because he said come on no there are certain things I don't want my son to watch and as much as there's other kids out there watching those things I am now more aware that a lot of these things that I thought were just little cute things they're not really cute there are actually more satanic and demonic than we realize and we don't take the time to think about it so lies young won't believe as much as this um geared towards teen girls I highly suggest even grown women read this especially if you dealt with any type of trauma or situation in your past this will help you bring the support right this will and equally the Bible study now I personally haven't written in a Bible study I got two copies for me and my sister I got underlying some things that highlight it but I haven't written in it just because I know that this is something I might want to use with other young girls and I might want to make copies of so I'm no longer gonna start actually writing in my books okay so soon yeah I still have like the bookmark here so me and my sister are only on chapter 4 leave all these in chapters 1 2 3 so far but great Bible study my sister actually enjoy this actually makes her think it actually makes her ask me questions and it really allows her to start to grow her own relationship with God especially because there's parts in here that they call what is it called pray about it where they give you like a prop so it's like Jesus thank you for being the truth help me learn more about you through your word and apply your truth to my life I'm learning to replace the lives in my life with the truth that and then they give you space two pages of space to continue on a retron prayer so yeah I got you you know how I'm all about them prayer prompts that help you to pray when you don't know what to pray so I I know this video was so long and I'll apologize but it's so hard to talk about such a book such a book it's so hard to talk about a book that has such a great impact and not a lot of people have read it I highly recommend this for both teen girls I highly recommend this for grown women I'm about to be 28 years old all right as well I was 27 it has impacted me immensely and I recommend the duo amazingly if you are a mom if you are a big sister if you are a cousin a best friend or whatever and you're looking to do something with your your younger child or your younger cousin or whatever this has one helped me my sister to become a local so me and my sister are like 10 plus years apart I'm out to be 28 my sister just turned 14 or 14 years apart yet 14 years apart the other day man Friday 28 14 pink 14 right yeah we're 14 years apart so there's a big gap between me and her so it's not much that we can relate to especially since my generation is very different from her generation right now but this book has really allowed us to really discuss some things and um you know speaking again if you're a woman you want to get lies won't believe get it I haven't read it yet because I think that I want to read the girl version purse which is live girl believe I mean if fly's young removal erupt me I can only imagine what lies girls believe can do to me and then both having read both the younger versions and then going to read the grown woman book come on so do I recommend it yes 5 out of 5 star rating for me from me and I what more can I say I'm sorry this video was long but at least there was no beeping smoke detector going on so I'm gonna try to make sure that I reset these smoke detectors every time I do this because apparently that's the only way that it works we've changed the batteries to of the 5 smoke detectors in my house are hardwired so they don't use batteries so I think I just have to reset them a lot because as you can hear downstairs they were banging they're doing work and the door so I'm gonna end this video here if you have any comments questions or concerns leave them down below and I'll catch you guys in the next video bye [Music]

Channel: Daughter of Increase

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Length: 31min 40sec (1900 seconds)

Published: Sat Jun 01 2019