INTJ & ENFJ Discussion Part 3

like i've tried to do extroverted feeling before and it you're like trying to develop your polar like honestly i i'm not sure it can be done like i've tried it and it just it's so and i think michael pierce even says this in the book like it can make you actually feel sick when people try to impose it on you what is what is my polar your pull is introverted sensing introverted sensation okay yeah because like i used to be kind of like that before because of the way that my family raised about my family the way that like you know my mom really like you know instructed my life and then there's a situation in college where like i reverted kind of back to that and like i legitimately felt sick like i didn't feel like myself yeah that's what i feel when i try to do extroverted feeling like or when people try to impose it on me like that's how we feel we feel like it's being imposed on us yeah so like when um you're in a group and someone's like i just joined in the group and i'm just like why mm-hmm like why should i do this it's like for the harmony the group and it's like for sure it's like why does that matter in anything like why does it matter in my context or in anyone else's context and it's like it's for the group yeah for sure and like for me it's like people are like you know like why do you have to say that you know like you don't have you don't always have to say what you think yeah yeah yeah and when people tell me that i'm just like triggered so hard i'm like so you told me i can't be the person i want to be that's what people like when people say these are like when it's like when people look at you when you're an introverted intuitive and you start talking about your ideas like people who get it they'll be like oh that sounds really cool whatever but some people they just kind of look at you like you're crazy for sure yeah they're like oh i don't understand yeah and it's like i can't open it yeah exactly no it's just you i mean it's sensing it's like when you and i think like even if you have it as your third if it's like your child function like they might like overeat or something because they're they're not thinking about what they're sensing and outside they're just like oh that looks good that's me that's mine yeah and i definitely had a phase like there was this one face for like a while like a couple years ago when i was just like instead of eating dinner i would go to like cvs and just buy a pint of ice cream for dinner and that would be like my dinner nice and i'm like this is not the best thing to do at all and i'd be like this is my dinner tonight because i just like ice cream i do really like ice cream by the way i've done that before too though yeah like we have expert sensing that's what happens when you have it like like if i ever go to the movies like i don't know i saw you at the movie and like i just ordered large popcorn and i refill it right away it's like the whole thing the whole thing that's my dinner i'm like how do you eat that much it's gotten really bad wait i think you ate a whole pizza before yeah oh there's a story this is my best friend's it's his seventh birthday party or something like that seventh or like something like that uh it's a really young age right but they ordered a ton of pizza right and they had like four or five leftover pizzas and i ate three boxes by myself yeah like at the party because like they were gonna throw it out i'm like don't throw it out i'll eat it there's a time too in college in my frat where we had a surf and turf but then no one ate the lobster so we were gonna throw out like 12 lobsters i eat all 12 of the lobsters dudes like that but like with him it'll be like i feel like a more social context with an intj they're just going to be like binging in there yeah or something definitely mine is more like yeah yeah and like with us too like they said some intjs and infjs like it's just like a huge imbalance so they might do the opposite too like uh michael pierce believes that nikola tesla was an intj and like at the end of his life he was just living on like crackers and stuff so like there's like stories like you can always also be starving yourself because you're just thinking thinking so much yeah or like you could be eating too much because you're stressed out or like how he never got married and there was this meme he put in one of his videos where he's like sorry ladies i'm married to science and i i've said stuff like i've said stuff like i'm married to my books oh yeah for sure for sure and it's like well you know like we might like the idea of that but we're like so much into our vision that's like doesn't really matter like mine is like role playing video games yeah no yeah because i feel like that has more extroverted feeling aspect because you get to interact with with everyone else even though it's just yourself and a bunch of cpus yeah like i feel like it gives you the illusion that it does there's other people there you know in college i was like every summer i was super introverted and i would just like play that game i would play fallout like for like 12 hours straight every day and like yeah that's my life that's that's where i feel like home that's my home you know i feel like i see that like our like safety yeah of our like for me i'm so much like what errol does like i can't even imagine because to me it's so energy draining what he's talking about like all this stuff he does for other people like and he's not doing it like on purpose i'm not he just does it and to me i'm like how do you just go out and force yourself to do that because i'm so like in my own space i'm like i can't even spare the energy to do that like i'm in my room for hours or i'm walking but i'll like be walking alone like sometimes like sometimes i take a walk with my aunt or something to the store but usually i'm just like on my own like in my own head like thinking like that's most of my day except when i chat online for me it's like for me it's like when it when this like for me helping people or something like for me it's like it's two seconds of my time you know it's not a big deal you know you've been doing it for like hours and it's like yeah it's it's an addition of two seconds of my time that's true it's like to me it's like my whole day is gone the thing is like i'm already doing it for myself you know that's the thing it's like all right if i'm doing it for myself i'll just toss it real quick into this group but then i'm doing that stuff for myself the whole day so then it looks like i'm bombarding the group with a bunch of messages but really it's just like i'm seeing this for myself but i think it's good for you too so yeah that's the thing like that's awesome like and you just kind of do it with i come at it like the opposite way i'm like i need to absorb all this in myself and that's like again in the book there's this idea that we're trying to merge the whole world into ourselves yeah and like i'm like okay now that i've done this now that i've absorbed everything i need to now i will like gain to project my ideas into the world because that's the hard part for me observing everything and like really letting it sit in my thoughts and everything like that it's like like you know whenever i'm in my car by myself you know and i'm alone with my thoughts and i'm just like thinking and now i'm trying to like now i'm trying to be like more productive with it you know yeah these products but that's it's still like these projects but it's still the hardest part for me so i'd rather be talking about it with somebody right and it makes it easier but when i'm in my head internally conceptualizing it i it's hard i can't really do it yeah like for me i have to force myself to make a video every time because because the way we are is like intjs were so subjective that we're like like i read it and i came to my conclusion and that's enough for me i have the conclusion but we have to like put it out in the world with extroverted thinking so like i have to force myself every time to make a video which is why i put myself on a schedule which is me trying these introverted sensing is a kind of routine but i don't actually have a work routine i'm just kind of like well i need to get it done before it's due for sure yeah and like so it forces me to like do it on time but it's like i have to force myself which is why i put myself on youtube because if i have an audience i feel like i i kind of feel like i have a responsibility to the audience to be like well i said i'd put it on on this day so i got to put it out on this day even though like i don't really care in the same way that i feel like an extrovert feeler might like i don't care in the sense like like i could literally brush it off any day and literally not care but i my with like introverted feeling i have this kind of internal i guess you can call like internal feeling law where it's kind of like i feel like i should do it because that's my way of trying to have like my own kind of morality it's like holding myself responsible to people my stuff might help even if it's only a small audience like my introverted feeling for me that's kind of a form of morality that i've internalized so i'm like yeah i could brush it off and totally not care but i don't want to so i don't want to brush it off because i want to be an example and part of my thing is like my goal is to like be an example and again this is exactly what he talked about trying to make our thoughts and actions match

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Length: 9min 33sec (573 seconds)

Published: Wed Aug 26 2020