In the Hot Seat with the “Payroll Husband” | Scheananigans

I've been searching for this all my life just my life I've been looking for a boy who can treat me right your hello everyone happy New Year welcome back to Shenanigans we are back from holiday break we are all caught up at home but we have a lot to catch up on with you Brock is back in the studio and um we have so many things to talk about honey I'm in the hot seat happy New Year everybody yeah it's the new year I really enjoyed our new year um I feel like hopefully everyone understands like it's a fresh start let's get it going yeah so last night was the creative arts Emy for those of you watching you can see I still have a little bit of last night's hair last night's eye makeup one thing I do whenever I get my makeup done professionally I wash my face all the way around my eyes and I try to keep the eye makeup for at least the next day cuz especially Marine on I when they do my eyes it's just so good so last night's makeup that makes sense this morning I woke up and I was like you didn't realize you missed some cuz you had like a little bit of p a little bit SMUD okay that makes sense now but yeah I mean let's just talk a little bit about last night first because I feel like I don't know if it's a little bit of the caffeine had today I'm a little on a high I'm a little just like oh my gosh I mean I could have never imagined in 2011 when I sat down with Alex Basin and talked about doing this pilot about the restaurant I worked at that fast forward like I'm going to get emotional to 2024 we at the freaking emys it was just like pun intended so surreal just looking around and even though we didn't win can we say that I mean it's public right yeah we didn't win but that's okay congrats to welcome to rexam for winning every everything but um just being there presenting the awards that's always been a dream of mine to do as well and I was telling laa I used to be the girl who would hold the trophy on the side and so to just have this full circle moment for me but to give all of these other people their Awards and just to see the emotion and all of the hard work it was so incredible I could have just never imagined it's one of those things you dream of you hope it happens one day but like holy [ __ ] we did it we got nominated we are on an Emmy nominated television show which is just it's wild to me and to get a present with wow it was uh it was something to see like to see you up there on stage and then with just literally the 75th award show for the EM it was pretty impressive and so I mean I was I've been impressed from day one since I've met you honey and and like thanks honey what' you get up to with your work and I think for me I remember Bravo com was the first year where I realized 2019 2019 when I walked around that corner I was like oh you were in a show and like the the reach of the show and kind of like and from then I was always a impressed of how you've been able to manage your way through all of that and to deal with everything that comes with being on that show but then to be acknowledged I think for you and for your classmates I thought that was a really cool moment you know hey guys well done not many not many shows make it past 10 years yeah I know you know what I mean and then you guys are now nominated on your 10th season yeah so so crazy but I mean congratulations to everybody right the whole team for sure everyone there's so many people who put so much hard work into this show it's not just the cast there's like 80 people behind the scenes putting their lives into this show as well and taking the time I met so many of our editors last night and they were nominated as well and I have been saying this from day one our editors deserve an Emmy they were robbed I think that they do so much amazing work and I was like I'm sorry that you have to look at my face and listen to my voice over and over and over to figure out the best parts cuz how do you do that how do you take hours of a conversation and turn it into minutes they absolutely crush it and it was just such such an honor to be a part of this last night I got a fun like off the top one okay so when the the awards were happening when you up to get your award you have your your speech yeah okay I want you to give me your best speech because the best part about the speech was the cut off time oh my God it was like 10 seconds I felt like they were already playing the music I'm like yo this is not a live show let the people think who they want to think they were they were hard but uh it was interesting yeah so you guys can watch this on Saturday the 13th at 8:00 p.m. on FXX and the thing is even if we did win we as the cast weren't speaking Alex Basin would have done the Acceptance Speech cuz right when we sat down I looked at Lala and I go wait oh my gosh what if we win who do okay obviously we thank our moms we thank like people the fans the people who work on the show The Academy I was like but she's like no we're Alex Basin is saying it and I guess that was in our notes SOA like oh okay so we just got to you know sit back relax enjoy the show and yeah it was just incredible congratulations to all those winners yes seriously so much hard work goes into making television shows and yeah the EMS the Afterparty so cool the amount of people we met and just you know making connections with other people in the industry and finding out who's a fan of Vander pump rules who watches the show and then to also like I said meet the people who work on our show behind the scenes and in the editing deck is just it was a real wild moment I'm not going to lie I facetimed my sister I was like Nicole you're not going to believe this from a farm to the em and she was literally working in she was on site in the mines she was just like in her office I was like look at this she like no way uh yeah it's very surreal very blessed well done honey congratulations thank you all right you guys sent in so many questions I want to try and get to as many of these as we can but I feel like we should start with the holidays Australia we had Christmas New Year's I mean BTV yes and we had a lot of people ask what was our highlight of other than Beyond the Valley because that obviously was one of the main reasons we went to Australia we had a job we did a live Shenanigans show in Melbourne I got to meet a cousin of mine who I've never met we've just been Instagram friends for as long as I can remember and that was so fun to get to do the festival with him and his fiance to see some of your family but I guess that would be my highlight other than the festival was the next Festival we went to wildlands with your family yeah that was pretty cool bringing your mom and your brother and your sister-in-law and everyone your sister's step kids too aren't kids I mean they're in their 20s it it was awesome we got to I got we got an Airbnb in Brisbane and then we when we flew up we got to see the family we're obviously there for two nights yeah first night hung out we played cards till the morning or early hours and then the next day went to the lawn bows Club the local bows Club yeah uh with my extended family and then that evening for New Year's Eve got to thanks beond the valley they hooked us up with artist passes we had no idea where we were going in this Festival so we kind of just like walked around in circles yeah uh but yeah it was uh it was a really cool moment to go home and spend that with my family I haven't spent holidays with my family since 20 when I moved over here 2014 2013 2014 yeah wow had you been to a festival in Australia prior like is this something you did when you were younger no this is this this was the first a brand new experience Beyond the Valley in M Melbourne was the first ever Australian Festival cuz I only started really partying I only started partying when I turned 26 once I got out of the league and I was like oh okay well now I got to enjoy life maybe uh thanks to the boys and then yeah I set up partying at the age of 26 little late bloomer see I didn't even realize that that was our both of our first Australian festivals and it's so crazy because it was so different it was basically the same lineup for both festivals the same company who put on both shows but the one in Melbourne was such different Vibes than the one in Brisbane the one in Melbourne these people have which you'll see on my Vlog coming up soon all of these people have these things called doof sticks and it's like this really tall like walking stick sort of thing with a massive cardboard paper with lights and tinsil and Garland and all of this stuff around it but each one was a different theme for your group so you can find people in the crowd we just use Blinky rings on our finger when we go to Coachella this put Blinky rings to shame they would never be allowed at any American Festival because it's a weapon here in Australia it was much different but how Wild was it to look out in the crowd we got to be backstage tribal if I can give you that so cool it was very tribal because like you looked around and everyone had their own do sticks their their Community flag for pottying when we got to the festival in Brisbane at wildlands I was expecting the same thing not one doof stick I was like is this a Melbourne thing is it just a Beyond the Valley thing because that one was a little more deser I have no idea because again never been they know the culture of partying but I'll assume like maybe because it was a three-day event thing like it becomes part of like your guys five four or five day I think it was four days three nights four days right uh because on the first they just break down and leave oh and wildlands was only a one day yes that's true that is the difference I think that's if you just go there for one day people are coming to party and getting after it so one was a little more country and camping and then the other one was very City in a stadium basically yeah so it were totally different Vibes but it was really cool to be able to see the same bands in two completely different settings uh Dom DOA did we did we point this one out when we backstage oh my gosh I was shook when I saw this first of all I didn't even didn't realize it was him I just saw a guy backstage with us in Australia wearing a Schwarz and sy's hat and I'm like where the [ __ ] did you get that I was like babe that guy over there see that hat SS and s's hat she's like what do you mean we go up to him not knowing it was Dom dollar we up hey bro where'd you get your hat from he's like oh my girlfriend she's over there he like gives me a hug and he's like all right I got to go have a set now and I was like oh my God that was Dom dollar then he goes up and performs and then his girlfriend goes by we're like oh we'd like the Hat she and then she was like oh my God yeah and then she noticed you she like liked every so we recognized oh my God and then uh she was like I'll be right back and then we failed because we ran off and then she came back and kept walking so we missed that but yeah I think it was I thought that was a pretty the fact that Schwarz and it's one of his main top three hats he's been partying with too yeah that was crazy I saw a lot of people ask why didn't we take summer to Australia mainly because it was a very quick trip the amount of time it took to get there and back I felt like we were pretty much only there for that amount of time the time change there I don't think eventually when we do take her will be as hard because it's basically the same time of day give or take a couple hours but the next day you know I feel like that'll be an easy adjustment once we get back I think is the hard part the trick with flying to Australia is your most flights leave at about 10: p.m. you leave in the evening M you're on a land in Australia in the morning mhm and so if you get on that plane you take a nice big six as long as you can sleep and get the big chunk of it out then you're waking up then you just got a very long day ahead of you it's not like you know and I think that's the best way to deal with that and then on the way back yeah that wrecked me I got home and I SLE but it was a very quick trip we plan to take her back for at least like a couple weeks and spend time with the family so she just stayed with my parents we didn't take her on this one but we also had to go and work and festivals and it would have just been way too much it was a great relationship building that trip that's what it was we want to figure out how we can get back to Australia more and honestly I think a l the fans they kind of feel like I dog on Australia and I promise you I don't I just haven't been home for a while but I went home to Melvin and I just felt like I was at home I was like damn see honey like and I think she you even said to me you were like oh now I kind of understand you a little bit more because literally the laidback culture just you know she'll be right just every I was like oh this is where you get it from I was raised very differently even when we went to the car rental at the airport it was like hardly any questions asked they didn't give a [ __ ] about insurance or anything they're just like all right well over there key that car go we're like wait what dropped it off didn't ask for any ID I mean the security at the festivals was for me I felt a little concerning soz I'm like that guy just wait there's actually no metal detectors what is happening it was so guns remember I know there's no guns there's still knives there's still other weapons but it was just so lack that I'm like oh I see where you get it from I love it I love it I missed it it filled my cup and so the goal is to get back to Australia a lot more obviously to spend time with the family yeah um and you know our lives are a little different now so I want to make sure we can like live between the two totally and speaking of family I do have an obvious question that in but we're going to take a quick little break and then we're going to get back to that okay everyone it's a new year it is time to get started on all of those New Year's resolutions with Factor new year new you factor still has the amazing ready to eat meal delivery that takes any stress out of meal planning and sets you up for Success this new year you can skip the grocery stores all the prep work cooking fatigue all of the extra waste you build up in the trash instead how about you get some chef-crafted dietitian approved meals that are delivered straight to your door they have over 35 meals to choose from per week they have so many different options like keto calorie smart vegan and veggie and over 55 weekly add-ons so you have a ton of nutritious and flavorful options to kickart the new year we have been getting our wellness shots and little green juices that even when summer sees that we have the little green juice she wants a little green juice the smoothies in 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jump in here uh I think it's a very difficult situation based on my actions my past and where what uh what my actions have caused for these kids kids especially when they were younger um there was obviously there's trauma there that needs to be mended and then my actions on the on my side I need to show them keep turning up and show them that I am the dad that I want to be and that they want to be around um so that's first and foremost when it comes to child support we paid them in Full made the payment uh and now we're working on a healthy relationship or a better relationship with the kid's mom and their stepdad and the goal is to just be time with my child support every month make sure that payment goes across and just continually turn up ask communicate with them right now the parents in their choices they would like to just keep it private they obviously have a very private life and so I know I know everyone's interested in my two little ones and I love that and they are top of mine when every time I go back home and the goal is to be able to have the door there it's always open so when they want to build that relationship with me when they see that I am where having turning up and continually turnning up hopefully they can build that trust up so it's uh it's tough um my actions put me here and so now I just got to keep being aware that I got to take my time with this and do the right thing and keep turning up and so that's that's where we're at it's a tough one I wish I could tell everybody like yeah we're going we're meeting up we're doing this but it's going to take time we're dealing with kids they're going from high school uh preschool to high school there's a whole bunch of things changing in their life and I don't want to be another one in there um I think they have a loving dad half sister uh and a beautiful family so you know right now that's not their priority and I understand that yeah totally thank you everybody that's concerned I would love for them to come around eventually but yeah we're dealing with kids yeah and rebuilding that relationship with your ex-wife and getting caught up and being consistent with the child support and being able to at least receive photos regularly it's likey steps but at the end of the day these kids are old to make their own decisions and you know they have their solid family unit set in place and they're in a very good place so I know you're not going to disrupt that you're going to do what you can to keep you know showing up in whatever ways you can yeah I'm sorry it's okay not e well do you want to um switch gears as Andy Cohen says yeah switch it out what's the best and worst things about being married to me oh my God I think they're both the same I think I don't know uh I think honey the best part about being married with you is the fact that you just make sure things get done uh I think the worst part about me married here was the fact that you want everything to be done this particular way so it is the both of them um anyway was there anything else you wanted to say about that was it something nice that they CAU you emotional I think it's just uh just the whole this is the bearing of it like the whole situation in itself and it's just like there's a side of me that wants to just fight hard but then there's a side that reminds me of like you just it's just it's just a tough Balancing Act and uh you know actions have consequences and so now I just got to just hearing you talk about it I just got to keep doing what I'm doing and I'm uh I'm happy with the changes I've made in my life and I'm really happy with all of that so yeah me a second yeah we're going to take one more break we'll be right back and now that we've got you fed let's keep you hydrated with liquid IV because look you don't have to reinvent yourself for the new year but you do have to rehydrate yourself and you can do that with liquid IV I'm telling you this is something I have in all of my bags I have 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your first order when you shop better hydration today using promo code honey liquid i.com okay I'm sorry we're back well I do have more family relationship I'm I'm good on the question that's obviously that's just a loaded question you we couldn't sit here and do this podcast and not address that when we were just back home and everyone wants to know and although there are things that you know as much as we put ourselves on a television show to put ourselves out there it's like you know oh well certain things should be kept private but then I didn't sign up for a private life and neither did you when you started dating me and so I feel like there are things that we do owe the fans a little bit on but obviously the relationship she wants to keep their lives as private as possible so we do have to respect that but I just I felt it would be weird to do a podcast with you starting off the year after we had just been back home by not acknowledging no and that's it like I feel like you're you're right like I'm okay talking about it I think I just don't talk about it so when I talk about it I don't know how those emotions there has come up so yeah we're here yeah we're doing the best we can totally and um I hear better help has great therapist so I've been using it money I don't even know if that's an ad in this podcast but if not it'll be coming up soon so stay tuned but um seriously just I think that you have put so much work in in your life in this relationship in this family and you have been going to therapy for the past like year now and I think just continue with that and being the best version of yourself because you've definitely put the work in and I see it next question where we at what do you guys do to keep the relationship going strong wait time out I said the reasons why I love about you and dislike about question was for you you're I'm the host you're the guest all right next one hit me yeah I just asked you what do we do to keep our relationship going strong uh just uh I feel like our date nights are really fun um case and point we got to go to the Emmy last night and we had a car Sur like we're good um there's that and then I think we just spent a lot of we're good at having downtime although I went out of our house the other day on a Saturday and I was like damn we live in Marina but we don't really take advantage of like Abbot keny or get out and about so I know I did more when I lived there the first time yeah right so I think uh what we do right now is we do really well you know we enjoy each other's company what I would like to do more of is more things outside of our company and put ourselves in back into the world yeah no for sure how do you tell one another when they have upset you and how do you keep it calm I mean I'm very I'm as you can tell I'm very like I just wear my emotions on my sleeves so when I I put it out there I can't keep my mouth shut and that's that is like it's a bad habit I should be between you and my mother oh my gosh ah look it's all love like it's not it's not coming from like a like a I don't want to hurt anybody when I say voice my opinion but I'm entitled to it but I should just shut up half the time yes you should how do you compromise when your partner has a different parenting style great question cuz we struggle with that and I know we have a other friends who are similar with that and it's tough I'm not going to lie have I not been better yeah I'm was I finished talking no you're right continue it's tough not going to lie it is something that requires a lot of compromise and meeting in the middle I understand when he wants to be really strict with the schedule the long-term benefits of that and Brock is the first person to not suggest something without actually researching it the next question I saw was who was more of a yes parent from my tvts and that's definitely me and that's where it is hard with the parenting differences because I just want to give her whatever she wants and I want to keep her calm and happy and say yes to everything but I know that that's not what's best for her in the long run so meeting in the middle understanding where you're coming from knowing that when you're suggesting something it's because you have abs solely researched it where I tend to be the more emotional and I don't want to say loving cuz we're both loving but I'm more like come here let me just give you a cuddle and you are more Stern with your parenting style they call that cuddling yeah whatever yeah and it's it's a it's a parenting technique that you got from your mom okay and we've been down this road before anyway moving on was it hard on the relationship filming VPR together this season yes well I thought that was a question for me for both of us I guess well yeah this this season was I think as everyone's G to watch like it's just very intensely difficult um but outside of that this season I mean um again this is my third season first season was season N9 season 10 I wasn't around as much and then this season season 11 boom back in it back in it but we I was really excited to that what we did film was just me and you and it was me and you and our story and like what cameras captured I feel like can be very relatable because we argue about really real real things like obviously we're in a world of dealing with everything else but we got to have that within all of that chaos how to raise a kid dealing with mother-in-law parent in-laws go from there so yeah it was good I mean that that that was my opinion until we see this then we get to watch it so they see how that comes across yeah no for sure last one on this topic any advice for new parents who are trying to balance work family and marriage uh advice I mean fun fact like I'm seeing it from the other side like they just take there's a lot of time in in kids and I think just put the phones down if you're around your kid and and the time you have with them is very limited put your phone down and even the other day I was on the toilet and summer walks in and she grabs the phone off the counter cuz it wasn't in my hand it was on the counter and she put it in my hand cuz she knows when you sit on the toilet on your phone and so that for me was just like a wake up I was like God like cuz that's it your kids are just a mirror like you can teach them whatever you want to say to them they don't care they it's actions whatever they see you do whatever they see you do what they see you around and so you know me and Shea's big one is keeping our phone off trying to and so my daughter did that now I got be better at this guys I want everyone to keep me accountable no totally all right I have so many more topics and things to get into so we're going to take I'll be quick with my responses too okay we're going to take one more quick little break and then we're going to get into Shenanigans yeah more Shenanigans all right so are you that one friend in the group that loves to treat 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was I was going to say I think we save that one for when Janet has postpartum recovered and is back in the hot seat but there will also be um somewhere you can watch that answer soon what did you think about Jax's lying about Britney having a stroke okay listen if if that is what I'm not there I'm he said it on the finale of House of billons I don't get it I don't get it I don't get I don't get it that doesn't make sense when Britney was hospitalized they thought and I know she has cleared this up on her podcast as well they were ruling out a lot of things they didn't know what it was and maybe they had said like oh we need a check and do an MRI to see if she had a stroke maybe that was something but the way I guess JX described it I didn't watch but he said that he had to leave because she had a stroke and then Britney's like are you [ __ ] kidding me now she has to go and clear this up that that's not what it was and Jax I feel like is just a special breed of his own like he is a very special breed and I obviously have' worked with him for 11 Seasons 11 years been friends with him for how long eight seasons and then two break and then he's kind of been back and forth a little bit but I spent I spent two days filming with him and I was just like what is I what is going on yeah had eight years of that and I I met ja right when the show started so I didn't have a friendship with was he the same before the show started cuz I heard this was his he just bang always has been full steam ahead Full Steam will you be going to see Ariana in Chicago I will be there opening night I'm doing a mom daughter trip Lala her mom some other friends and moms so we will be there opening night and then you and I will definitely go back for a date night whenever we're out there for like Watch What Happens Live or something I want to go see it as much as I can as much as I'm in New York while she is doing her run I I'm going to put this out there again I've said it to you a couple of times I'm going to put on the podcast unless like to go to New York and take summer for like a week yeah we go hit up our buddy out there and be like Y what up go out there for a week just saying yeah I would love to do that so Bravo KH yeah do you remember when Alexis Bolino she was on stage with Gretchen and she just went rogue and was like I'm the only woman up here who hasn't slept with Slade Smiley yes and Andy Cohen came up and was like yo this is not part of the script like you know so do you remember me telling you about the Afterparty how I said something to her yeah because she recently posted on her Instagram story and said that that was # lies and that it never happened and that all she did was smile at me and say hi or whatever and I'm like this was upstairs when she walked in on that Rooftop Bar on the right hand side of when straight walk straight in to the right hand side of that bar right there yeah rooftop open bar I just want to point out because I think she might have spent a little too much time there but it absolutely happened I absolutely said something to her because Gretchen has been a friend of mine since season 1 and I didn't like that she did that I thought it was extremely gross and disrespectful and now she's dating Shannon's ex and it's thirsty and it's gross and just like yes it happened so moving on yeah I don't know what I walked into then but it happened yeah I'm like you were there people were there and it also it wasn't a one-on-one conversation there were other people there when I said that to her so she wants to go and say it was all lies I'm like maybe you were just at the bar a little too long anyway um your cast was all together at the Emmys this week did everyone get along give us the tea for the most part yes but we were also all separated some of us were were backstage because we were pres presenting we weren't all seated together they had all of us on the end cap so in case I think we did win we could all just get up and kind of come out into the aisle together um yeah but I think maybe keeping us separated kind of kept the piece for that yeah I think it was a good setup everyone I feel like everyone was enjoyed themselves Ariana was obviously there but then she had to leave so that was good I think it was a great yeah listen we're doing our best we can yeah um a lot of questions came in about Nick V's recent podcasts I feel like I have been a subject on the last several episodes of his podcast because I don't know he has nothing else to talk about he keeps bringing Charlie on Katie and Dana just did an episode recently but one thing I'll say is I actually and maybe this was naive of me to think but I actually thought Nick and I were friends I've known him for years I've got his phone number we've done some social media things together I've guessed it on his podcast and I actually thought we were friends so Charlie referred to you as a payroll husband and then on the next episode that Katie and Dana did I think he referred to you as the payroll husband yep so I'm like let's let's break this down what does that mean does that mean that I pay you to be my husband that I treat you like an employee that I earn more money than my husband because yes that's true that's not a secret and also I don't see what's wrong with earning more money than my husband I feel like it seems a bit misogynistic that the woman can't be the breadwinner in the family because support comes in so many forms when it comes to a family financial support is just one of them you support me and this family in so many ways that I wouldn't be able to do as much as I do even with this podcast and have the freedom of changing schedules and all of that if I didn't have you at home as much as you're able to be to work from home to support me in that way so that really irked me when also his fiance is literally on the payroll so I'm like that's kind of Rich coming from you but um what do you want to say about that well I feel like uh the comment from Charlie was unnecessary um I could see where she would get the term payroll husband first off again I'm the only member of your family that's not on the that's actually true that is actually true because not my dad my dad's not on the either but like in that context but but it's all because you know you're very with we're hire within I not a problem with that I think it comes from just my un un my unwavering support for you right it's like what do you want to do my schedule is second to yours and it's not the fact that you you know it's because we're a family okay and I don't think she understands that concept whereas like yeah I have had a career was a professional athlete I went down to San Diego we had the gyms we met through the pandemic we ended up moving up here and so there was a great opportunity to sell our business doesn't mean I have other things going on as well but it just means and you're right I'm confused on this because I'm a male I cannot support my wife and let her be the M bread winner that's my first one to it but um ultimately for Charlie I'm like if she can say whatever she wants that woman threw a drink at my friends at a club at Delila yeah she got upset with our friend for having your back saying I don't want you to talk about my friend like that for me as she was giving her a warning mhm and then she perceived to have her full glass throw it one of those heavy glasses too throw her's glass at her miss her hit her husband okay and for me that's like the last kind of interaction we've had with her and at that point I was like Charlie like I get it you're going through some stuff whatever I'm not going to I'm not going to and like whatever and then her follow-up one was like yeah he tried to like evaluate me and I was like listen yeah she said that when we were at Brad's birthday party we we're at a mutual friends party I'm not I turned the corner and I walked into you guys it wasn't like I walked up to you guys looking for a conversation I walked into you guys I'm not an [ __ ] I'm not going to be ignore you okay like other people in our friend group that's not what I do I confront I confront a show oh hey guys how you guys doing what are you up to like the standard Baseline conversation to be like I'm not going to avoid this conversation but I'm not going to also and if it's something you're interested that we can talk about because here's the thing Cory and I very much business guys we used to talk about projects we're working on what are we getting up to and I still will talk to Cory about that and if that conversation went that way it had nothing to do with figuring out their status because literally I don't I have no status to evaluate somebody else's status like that's not my so that's Charlie down Nick vile look I want to stay positive but like bro the like what would you like you if your wife was a lead role in your family and you have a kid what would you do if you were to stay home would you like like there's no need to be calling just so that's for me I don't even going to down up PA plus I'm just going to point out the guy was he's 40 what two he's 42 he went on a dating show another dating show three seasons another seasons and all of those three dating shows left with nobody and then now at what he was 38 when he met his now fiance yeah she was 20 I'm not going to read into that you do whatever you want bu but just like understand when you're work ding with a family roles change sometimes and I struggled with that this whole season I went from being this leading role in my family to being a supporting role and I'm okay to be honest I'm okay with the supporting role because it gives me the freedom to spend a lot of time with our kid and then also allow us to allow me to do other Ventures too and hopefully in 2024 these Ventures start paying off okay and so thanks for talking about me guys uh and if it's anything if you guys want to take from that is just be a better partner to your wife if you think you're not a payroll get on that payroll buddy also I feel like Charlie's a little extra bitter because when we all got together for the girls night and rallied for Ariana last season in that very last episode right when I sat down I was like we're putting our [ __ ] aside same as Katie and I did it was only about Ariana in that moment and Charlie's like we're friends again right like follow me back and I was like look I'll unblock you for the sake of if we're starting a group chat and an Ariana support thing whatever I said but what you did to my friend that night when you threw that drink sh was I don't want to talk about I don't want talk about no no no like forget it forget it and I was like no no no cuz we are not going to move forward in a friendship until you apologize for that and the fact that you can't take any accountability we are not going to be friends and I even had my sister drop her off at home that night I was cordial I unblocked her but I feel like because I Dr you dropped her off we even dropped her off we were so nice this girl can kick rocks Moving on but for that I'm like you know what bye moving on it's C being a supporting partner yep um a lot of people obviously want to know if I listened to Raquel's podcast that came out this week if I was with her at the Grove because we posted there at the same time I was not with her whatsoever we happened to be at the same place at the same time Lala and I are walking out of dinner with the kids the moms and she's like keep walking and I was like wait what like what's going on and then she's like just let's keep walking and I turn around and I see Raquel standing there in the gold sparkly dress with all of her friends and I was like yeah no no we're g to keep walking so people people took your social media and and then put it together like we posted at the Grove at the same time the same night what a blund but yeah we were absolutely not together I have not listened to her podcast what was the best thing to happen in 2023 honey let's let's wrap it up here and if you have any New Year's resolutions business goals yeah uh best thing 2023 um honestly was meeting your buddy Jeff good friend of yours Jeff bowler um and having that opportunity to get into the creative space of developing and working on production um again have no idea what my future holds but it started off as a Dairy Farmer turned athlete turned business owner turned um entertainment space so there I have really no Compass of what the world holds but thanks to Jeff he has given me a lot of good advice and he's helped me put myself in good positions going into this new year so that was a highlight I think that's a highlight I could take um from 2023 because we had a pretty rough year that year yeah it was definitely one of the most challenging years of my life in more ways than one but going into this year I'm just looking forward to focusing on our family our business you know even though you're not on the payroll but just our business together the things we got to do together the Vlogs we get to create the activities and experiences that we get to do with our daughter and I I feel very confident for the first time in a long time in myself in our relationship in business that I'm doing and steps that we're taking and I know the right direction and I think for me one of the best things if not the best thing that happened to me in 2023 was meeting Kevin and Lando and starting music with them because that has been an outlet for me that I didn't know I needed so much and today when I woke up I had an epiphany after I heard more things that have been said about me and I'm like you know what I now know the entire theme of my EP I have such a Clear Vision of what we're going to do with the next couple songs were're writing and I'm so excited for that to come out I was saying mid-February I'm going to push it because I don't want to rush it I want to put more work into it but we did decide that we are going to be releasing boy crazy my next single this month yeah so I'm really excited about that and then we're going to Waterfall the EP so every month we're going to put out another song and then at the end of the season of Vander pump rolls around then we'll put out the whole EP so you can get them all in one place but until then it's going to be just a waterfall of it so yeah excited very excited for 2024 and getting into more Shenanigans thank you guys so much for watching for listening for sending in your questions for your support it means the world we don't get to do the job that we love doing if it wasn't for all of you so thanks for listening guys we'll be back next week cat you later me right so bright my soul and it my

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