If You Cheated, Should You Tell?

should you always tell your partner if you cheat oh you know do you think it depends on if you're married or if you're just dating it's confessing more about clearing your conscience than being honest with them and that's a lot to consider so Tamar you first what do you think well first giving honest to God and on the Saints and available I don't agree with cheating married single I just feel like if you want out just tell that person just watch them but I really don't have much more than you know I'm safe now you know and she don't agree with it at all well I think the question is should you tell your partner if you cheated because I get what you're saying if you don't want to be with somebody to get out what should you tell them so like I feel like if it's a one-night thing like say you go on vacation and you know some one thing led to another no I think in that case you know because I have friends that have done that that's the reason why I say that okay and I feel like if you're never gonna see this person ever again I don't think you should tell the mate this is my opinion because why tell him if it's just gonna hurt him if it's to clear your conscience you shouldn't did it in the first place on the person like for me I personally could not even go to bed at night knowing that I did something no for real I we're not enabled they're always nervous when you hide like a really deep lie like that's that could destroy your marriage and we all who are married here know how hard marriage is right I'm gonna challenge it I'm gonna take it a step further I know a lot of people may not agree with me but I'm gonna say this if I even have thumbs and out I'll tell him like where you at because I want the whole thing because we've been if we're not more in sync it's gonna lead to that place where we're not thinking about each other but what you tell a girl and I would tell them even before I started getting to that place like as soon as you start thinking it I think you gotta tell your man because it's yeah what if the laundry fire and the thoughts are happening you know what I'm saying because you're there you're like gonna go it's a trickle flow effect once your mind starts Pictionary everyone got follows so you got to put a stop to it but in the middle of the night let me tell you something I feel that if you have gotten yourself into a situation like that if I'm honest you probably don't want to be with that man anyway because I think maybe hey for women I mean what it takes to get to that place of actually already cheating and you're in the eyes all right you probably want to get far anyway you probably don't want to be with the other always with your man yeah it's been in that case I say leave but don't say nothing so they answer the question right I feel like we're not truly answering the question I would do the answer break over you're saying you wouldn't say anything I would just bring my chesley and leave correct I feel that there are some people that just tell to to get the guilt off their chest yes and then the other person is left like oh my gosh you just rocked my world it's different if somebody actually you know tells them but it comes from a genuine and apologetic place because to me what's in the dark is gonna come out yeah I don't want to find out from someone else yes I want you to tell me and when you do tell me only tell me if you truly know the consequence - if you truly are you know if you're if you're sorry like like tell me what you want the result yeah don't just tell me to get it off do with ramifications goes with what you're saying to me yes I feel like if you want to work on your marriage and you've made a mistake you guys remember the movie Sex in the City when Steve told Miranda she didn't she went but they were counseling because I was gonna say that since the counseling let us say it I think there's me right okay so do you feel like you should tell your spouse when you know they can't handle it like you're selling I'm saying like when you know if you children tell them this if you can't get back to that place if they know if you want to stay in that marriage because if you want to live in a Jackson I'm saying if you want to know your spouse can all your partner cannot handle but you want to say don't you understand what I make it work and you want to work on your relationship okay so here's the question would you want to know would you want to know kind of chick no it's okay I feel like I can handle it oh my god they leave you I personally think she can baby I don't think y'all give me enough credit no just being blown baby and then let me say I feel like I can't handle it because when I cannot handle is another chick having one up on me that's what I can achieve I can handle it oh he wouldn't be able to handle if I found out no what I'm saying is I can handle it but if he told me that's what we talked about this before if he told me that he was cheating oh ho ho ho the ratchet Tamara will come out it's what I would do I would brawl out y'all no no no yes I'm staying loyal you're staying loyal because Mary's no I mean brought me we Brawley

Channel: The Real Daytime

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Keywords: the real, daytime, talk show, women, tamar braxton, tamera mowry, adrienne bailon, loni love, jeannie mai

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Length: 6min 49sec (409 seconds)

Published: Fri May 20 2016