HOW TO TELL SOMEONE "I LIKE YOU" - Lunch Break!

more that's right every so often on lunch break we end up talking about relationships and we got this question a lot past episodes basically how do you tell someone you like them it's like the most basic kind of starting point for any relationship but a lot of you actually don't know how to keep that it really depends on my case by case basis and like cool and there it is nothing in the episode I have to do it your personality and then I would say actually depends on your age first age okay and it comes off how you do it you know you've experienced things or you're more emotionally mature or immature whatever and like how you approach it will be you know like there's all the guys talking right now be good well I know I realize you know they quickly know that guys have to think about how to tell y'all how to talk about like no I never heard anything about that we're giggling because you two are going on and on about it because like you guys are like specialists in it and gender staring at each other above as well generally it's not because we don't have to because we don't know how to so first of all like physically telling someone you like them is very very easy but the hardest thing is like whether it's whether or not you're willing to like wait for what that response will be I think that's what everyone fears no no for me just saying it no I need purchasing day all the thing it is easy but the reason why it's tough is because you know that it's gonna because I respond well a bunch of it it's basically just tell something because you can be like hey put in a word like you hard about it let's look at this perspective before we start giving advice let's go down the panel to see if we're even qualified hobby I'm gonna show the guys first have you ever told someone that you like them not okay with me so Jim hello is that seat hot gentrify whatever so someone that you like them no wait but have you ever liked someone but you want to tell yes alright never outwardly actually have you ever told someone that you like them yeah I feel like there should be no gray area you either however you have I have yeah tell my gunner first no okay she responded okay I like you too oh that's simply you need to be more specific than so it's like stripping and I like you when you don't know what situation is actually it is a great bet it's like you're worried about it not being reciprocated yeah your rejection is the only reason like you will don't say any of their emotion emotions right let's go with God okay because it has to happen more often mmm not cool but that's okay if you have a friend and you know you're catching feelings yeah you guys have known each other for a long time what would be your strategy I think you would just do more like activities or actions that you know to test water yeah I think the first thing to do is to try to limit the variables as much as possible if you're worried that you're going to get rejected you want to do as much homework as you can to minimize that risk you pick up on signs when you you're hanging out with this person I guess the hardest part I think you about five yeah that's nothing too watery wait are you are you saying that as a girl that wants it like test the waters with a guy or you've got you guys test awash with you and you get hard to like I think if they're different ways it's easy to become fun I'm done oh no no no I can see on the other end I think it's hard when you're trying oh maybe I'm just being from my bracelet upgrades but like I always talked myself into she's not into you because I don't want to get my hopes up so when I no matter what sign I get like I try to like play it down so that it's like okay well verify your maybe expect me exactly but I'm his and you might be giving a house Nick aren't you are you an onion basically like I have a lot of layers as I do you do overcompensate is what I mean like like if it's sometimes it's very clear if a guy like want to hang out one-on-one yeah oh my god yeah that's like that's really yeah okay so that was a little bit earlier I think so I yeah ah no wonder way did you meet a lot of girls on because you hung out with in one-on-one no I think the other way around they wanted a hang I remember there were people there no no but no definitely there's a plenty of times where like oh you wanted to hang out with them but obviously they don't read the sign okay like he wants to hang out well and it should be roommate assuming just everyone's in the dark okay you like us girl one of the first things that you should do is start to try and focus the attention on them to let them know I leave hey there's some interest here something just right and I go whether that's hanging out 101 right what else has been a clear indication that a guy was interested that made it very clear good morning like one waiting why yeah that's like 10 steps later reference whoa there is a chart you've gotten a good morning text from friends did you like kind of like a little fly to like up wait oh yeah good I need it text them in the morning without saying good morning yeah like the fact that you're saying good morning is something but like they won't say good night because good night end the conversation girl the moment i which white guy normally tells you good morning right okay right this goes back to another short that we made about creepy person romantic you were like oh well good morning to you it was a it was a guy that you like you got come on I think someone you didn't think I feeling for you authentic oh oh okay please do you think that even before doing that he should have already known that okay no we're just friends basically would you would you give a bicycle guys that if he was gonna about to tell you that he likes you to like start with the use of steps so let's say that she is responding what saying I could do get a good morning text level and she's like hey yeah dude I'm like what do you do today right yeah is that basically like okay green light time to like forget all the BS and just let's establish that we like each other or do you feel like this still like some more spin like I think that's a good sign if they are precipitating to like so type of things like Kayla came out no yells Aramis do it like it's a good sign if you hang out and you hang out for like six hours at a time it's not just like hey let's go gradually really quick and then it's like an hour thing or if you're texting but it's literally throughout the whole entire day back and forth then those are way bigger sign if you say I like you or showing gesture that you're interested we're also talking about the fact that they also intercept that like they're also feeling the same thing at that specific moment remembering okay cause like usually only one party usually feels that way first I feel stronger you're right I think for two people to at the same time be initially attracted and interested and it just sort of timing it's fresh air yeah that's it that is actually extremely good timing sometimes so this is this is something I'd everyone asked because in college I struggle with can i spell friends that didn't that didn't necessarily go down to a woman wasn't that bad I was making observations of other friends I'm asking advice my friend Oh what did he just blindside them and then they're not ready for it and let's say the girl's not ready for the person a she's not ready but then how much is perseverance a factor to get them to realize that they like you too I've definitely had friends mm-hmm where girls that were like oh like yeah I though I didn't like him at all I think at the beginning yeah but he wore me down kind of thing yeah tried wearing people oh my god you need to tighten a little bit I just be like a cheetah and that's not good I'm like okay thanks throughout the time that I was persisting there's gonna be like you know there's certain things like you're the red light and then my you know trying to make your not focus on the bright light oh so she would be like I'm lighting because of these things are accurate then you go oh I'm actually will change that ah what do you go think about this ahead it happened it's not happen yeah I knew it oh my gosh you know it's happening um you don't know you should accept it or not something good like what is that people never look at me that way before you think it happens that you know my guy was being persistent with you and you actually started being like okay maybe I should give this a chance yes you do I know no like it's not fun to let someone down right so you're going to des course do the type of thing and like when they ask you to hang out you say no or you hang out only in groups and you avoid them and stuff like that so it's that's happening you need to take that hint right now Sega as I'm going to try harder because then it feels like they're trying to push they're feeling them on you and you don't have a choice this goes end really really fast I think it's what you're saying it depends on like whether it in the category of complete not interesting to you and you're not interested at all and like kind of the gums middle ground one and it's like the middle ground I feel like this is ridiculous oh yeah sounds like they are interested I mean generally everyone just gives me more honest with examine so if your figure girl guy that has people pursuing you like that and you're really not doing it yeah even though like you said it sucks to let someone down sorry just like I'm going which is not going to happen you know like I don't feel as I don't do it anyway or even if you're unsure just even being brutally honest with that I'm not very sure about how I feel I'm somewhat willing to explore this by something we can talk about but not dancing around it so you guys would be okay with does a guy that you like yeah he's available and he might be showing interest but because he doesn't make the first move you're gonna let me go yeah that is oh my god oh my god why was I gonna die yeah yeah yeah if I'm in really really want to happen let's say it's so clearly sure maybe me no I never been I've never been in that information where I'm so clearly sure so as you guys have gone experience have you guys gotten better it realizing whether or not you guys handled yeah very good well I think for me it's like I click again the testing the water thing I was I'm not sure like we're just saying if a guy starts hang out with your life right here I said you good morning sex super here okay this guy just doing all these things and you like it - ah - let him go I've no no but I've never been about in tribution okay there's a reason why Jedi Knight hardside lovely yeah so how come when a guy that you do like is doing those same things possibly you're not sure personally I doubt myself so I got the job I don't you know you have 30 feet of attention and have plenty of guts because I have girlfriends that have pursued guys that have been very upfront with guys about their intentions and everything and it's worked out and sometimes it happens I am maybe Jen as well just aren't the type to put ourselves out there no knowing that I have a ton of respect for people who do because it's terrifying regardless is like girl or guy just as I forgive is dumb if you feel sure about your feelings go into it do whatever you need to do so that when you walk away from it you feel comfortable knowing that you tried and just be ready to accept whatever answers that is and maybe in your favorite may not be but you need to accept that and respect it I think we opened up categories with busy change I thought we didn't give you guys any solid advice we'll try default but maybe another time if we can give you solid advice maybe leave in the comments below and we can extend yeah on that you guys might be much more expensive yeah you episodes every Thursday and with you guys next week bye

Channel: More Wong Fu

Views: 927,094

Rating: 4.9435263 out of 5

Keywords: relationships, dating, asking a girl out, asking a guy out, advice, crushes, romance, shrek, good morning texts, love

Id: SzVIpS-F8c4

Length: 12min 35sec (755 seconds)

Published: Thu Jan 19 2017