So how can we overcome procrastination? Well, it turns out that there are findings from within the addiction literature that turn out to be very powerful
towards leveraging our way out of procrastination. And it has to do with this, you already know, because I've told you
probably a dozen times now, that the depth of the trough after a dopamine peak is proportional to how high that peak
was and how steep it was, how quickly that peak occurred. It turns out that not only is the depth of the trough proportional to that, but the rate at which you
get out of that trough is proportional to how
steep that trough is. Let me explain this for
you in as clear terms as I possibly can. Imagine you're in an amotivated state, you're just not feeling motivated, you're procrastinating. You may think, "Okay, the
thing to do here is something, I'll clean the house, I'll
take care of some bills, I'll do something, or I'll just wait." Those approaches, as
we talked about before, generally don't work, or at least don't work quickly, or they lead you right up to the deadline and that's the deadline that forces you to get something done or
you just don't get it done and you don't succeed in your goal. That happens a lot as well. However, if you were to take
that state of being unmotivated or procrastinating and actually do something that's harder than being in that amotivated state, in other words, doing something that's more effortful, even painful, you can rebound yourself out of that dopamine
trough much more quickly. So what do I mean you want
to put yourself in a state that's worse than or harder
than the state that you're in, or do something, quote
unquote "more painful". And here I want to be very clear. I'll say this three times, but I'm going to say it
for the first time now. When I say more painful, I do not mean doing any kind of tissue damaging or
psychologically damaging behavior or anything of that sort that's going to render
you injured or not well, even in the short term, that's not what I'm referring to, okay. Let's just get that one out of the way. What I'm referring to is
the fact that, for instance, if you're feeling amotivated, but you find yourself cleaning the house as a way to procrastinate, you can say, "Well, cleaning the house is harder than sitting down and doing nothing." But actually in that moment or in those moments, that's not the case or else you wouldn't be doing it. The reality is that the
dopamine system works according to what feels
hard or easy in the moment. In other words, if you're
feeling amotivated, you need to do something and put yourself into
a state that's harder than the state you're in. So for instance, if you're
sitting around feeling amotivated or you find yourself tending
to tasks that are irrelevant to the goal that you really
should be focused on, you need to put your body and mind into a state
of discomfort quickly. And the way to do that is to either engage in some tangential activity, meaning an activity not
related to your goal that puts your body into
a very different state. So here again, I'll
default to the obvious one, which is something like cold shower or cold immersion, which not only increases
dopamine long-term or over several hours rather, but for most people is
experienced as pain. That pain causes a rebound out of that dopamine trough faster than it would occur if you had just stayed
in that amotivated state and waited for it to go away or done something like cleaning
up that for whatever reason, felt like it required less friction. When I say friction, I
mean limbic friction. Your limbic system is
always in this dialogue with your forebrain and
limbic friction goes two ways. Limbic friction can be you're tired and you don't want to do something, and so you have to quote
unquote, "motivate to do it", energize yourself to do it, or limbic friction can be
that you're nervous and scared and anxious to do something, and you have to calm yourself in order to lean forward into action in order to do that thing
despite the anxiety. I realize this can be a little
bit confusing as a concept, so I want to go into a bit more detail. Let's imagine that you or somebody else does
not like to exercise. You don't want to exercise, and you're trying to get your minimum of
five days per week exercise and you're just not motivated to do it. There are a couple of different
techniques to doing this. Assuming you've taken care
of all the baseline stuff, all the foundational stuff
we talked about earlier, and you're just not getting in gear and you find yourself checking your phone or maybe you're tending to some tasks, obviously those things are
quote unquote "easier for you", meaning they cause less limbic friction than engaging in exercise. The typical advice would be just exercise for one minute, okay. Just get one minute of
exercise or five minutes and then use the successful completion of that one or five minutes as a milestone that allows you to then
move to the next milestone. And indeed, that approach can work. And it's exactly what I'm describing here when I say that you're in a
state of lack of motivation or procrastination or both, and you need to put yourself into a more painful,
not less painful state. So what do you do? You push up against that friction and you exercise for a short while and then that pops you out of that trough. That's possible, but for a lot of people, even that won't be possible because they just can't get motivated. Or they do that one minute or five minutes and then they're just like, "Okay, I'm still in the trough. I'm not actually feeling that great." In those circumstances, it
makes sense to do something that's tangential to the whole path that you're trying to pursue, this goal that you're trying to pursue that is, believe it or not, much worse than just being amotivated. And when I say worse, I
don't mean picking some task that normally you don't like to do, but now you're willing to do. I mean, literally thinking about what would be worse than
being in this state, again without causing yourself tissue or psychological damage,
what would be worse? Well, cold water would
be worse for many people, very cold water. So the key is to figure
out something that, for lack of a better way
to put it really sucks, really sucks, and yet is safe. And by doing that, you steepen the trough. You steepen the slope of the trough, which we know brings you
back to your baseline level of dopamine more quickly. Now, for some people, that will
be deliberate cold exposure through cold shower ice bath. And I have to tell you that if you're cringing as I say this, well then there you go. You now have a tool that you know you cringe even when you just think about, and therefore represents
a great tool for you. So if I'm procrastinating to do something I really need to do, should I just simply wait for that procrastination to evaporate? No. Will it eventually evaporate? Maybe. Will a deadline eventually surface that will trigger me into an
anxious or activated state that will allow me to complete
what needs to be done, maybe, hopefully. But better would be to get
out of that amotivated state, that state of procrastination quickly. [MUSIC PLAYING]
