How To Never Deal With Broke Men Again

hey guys I'm back I mean my room anymore I'm back in my old spot how y'all doin so I'm gonna wait for a few more people to join pay y'all a dollar here okay okay so I get this question a lot every time you know I speak to someone or I'm in the groove or whatever how to not deal with broke men ever again okay so what you're gonna have to do is like I always tell you guys is the first step is to stop dressing like broke man you know bait stop dressing like broke man bait what is broke man bait broke man bait is anything you probably see on Instagram anything you probably see in the club anything you probably see on Love & Hip Hop that's broke man attire okay dusty attire right leggings you know skin tight jeans with you know everything showing maybe a low top shirt you know just the typical Instagram look and I said it's ugly because it's not ugly okay I'm not saying that's ugly in fact it looks good but it doesn't attract men with a lot of money that will probably want to be with you long term okay that's quick money or no money okay so what you want to do is dress almost the opposite of that which is well put together right more tailored more sophisticated more classy another thing you could do is your nails your nails tell a story you know if they're very complicated you're gonna attract dusties okay complicated nails I'm just gonna say complicated complicated nails attract Dusty's okay complicated colors may attract Dusty's okay so you got to keep it neutral red pink neutrals stuff like that you know peach whatever no outlandish colors because that's not what wealth is attracted to okay Dusty's are broke man so if you're gonna attract men with money you need to look like a man with money girlfriend or wife okay so ditch all those you know Instagram clothes ditch all those green and you know blue and yellow you know nail colors you gotta get rid of that that's not gonna track it now after you get with someone after you're in a relationship and you could be more creative with your look or if you know you hooked them buddy and you can start to introduce you know little things back in but don't go overboard Dusty's are attracted to women who look like what they scroll past on Instagram after 11 p.m. okay so if that's what they see when they see you they're automatically going to be attracted to you and try to highlight you because that's what they fantasize about in bed at night while scrolling through Instagram so if you look like that they're going to associate you with oh that's what I want you know if you don't look like that if you look like someone that you know oh that's a billionaires why oh that's that looks like that that rich dudes wife they're not going to approach you because they can't afford you going to rich areas of town versus going to the club or to the hangout or the local hangout or whatever you're not going to run into Dusty's in places where you know the drinks cost $20 plus or the cheapest thing on the menu is $25 you're not going to run into a dusty there you ain't so make sure when you go out and you're freestyling make sure that's what you're keeping in your mind you know also how you speak if you say something and it sounds you know hey you know a dusty radar goes off and he turns it's like a little it's like a radar and he goes and he's attracted to that okay but if you're like oh no sweetie we can't really go there tonight I'll see you I'll see you another day okay all right thank you use two proper for me you know she'll think I'm you know ghetto or something so you have to keep it on a level where Dusty's will be repelled by you full makeup hair classy sexy clothing proper speech you know don't even make eye contact and this is how you avoid getting approached by anything less than what you're looking for and they may look but they won't approach you see that there's a difference and how to get men to approach with money well you have to be confident you have to feel like you belong in the environment that you are in and that this is the norm you know get to know the bartender a little bit get to know the menu a little bit you know how to pronounce the words on the menu don't be trying to order some qua sybilla's when it's quesadillas you know that's my deal would say so you know learn how to read them mean you learn wine you know you can do this stuff online when you're at home they have the menus online at most restaurants but you can look through and if you don't know ask you know excuse me excuse me bartender or waiter could you tell me about this dish thank you I am royalty or I thank you diamonds that was a nice little donation I appreciate it so yes make sure you're you know if you don't know something ask a question okay and don't order you know like I always say the typical stuff but make sure that you're not like on another thing don't don't be on your phone in public that is a no-no and I already told you all this of many videos stay off your phone in public when you're sitting down like if you're freestyling somewhere it don't always be on your phone you're looking around you know if your attention is not on your phone whoever is looking for someone to approach it's going to feel more comfortable approaching you if you're not on your cell phone or talking to some other chick you drug along with you which I tell you never to do go out alone go out alone stay off your phone okay this is gonna get you approached much faster and trying to go out with a bunch of people and always on your phone in the same old same old area that you always meeting dusted that okay you have to change up everything right only accept dates that are of your standard okay you know keep blowing the person off until they figure it out you know like oh I don't want it I don't do coffee baby you know if you make them seem like they can do better like oh baby I don't do coffee I know you could come better than that right see okay well what do you want to go you don't just like what do I say he asked me to coffee what do I said no you flip it baby you do you really want to take all this to coffee like I'm just saying you could have me for dinner lunch breakfast what see and with that he feels like you're a little bit sexual and a little bit you know wild so he's gonna skip coffee because first you just told him two things I'm very attracted to you and I just said I'm sexual that means you can skip coffee okay so you have to understand this you got to understand what gets you past coffee and drinks and there was like oh sure where do you want to go eat they'll be so like oh my gosh thank you miss sunflower you are doing an amazing job thanks for helping me this is all I want to say thank you all thank you for the donation so miss sunflower I appreciate it so your best friend said she'll accept McDonnell State well you need a new best friend okay that's all I gotta say because I can't be hanging around people that's on dates at McDonald's and then two days later be seen with me I can't do that okay okay I got kids you know they might be embarrassed um D aren't Denise thank you for all your valuable advice oh thank you for the donation girls nice very very generous appreciate it um okay so feminine girly colors stay out of the black stay out of the brown go for more pinks tans light baby blues you know light coast they got a Barney purple stay out of you know and you know winter you can do a little bit of black but mix it with a girly color like a pink or red or like a baby blue or a cream but in the spring and in the summer you need to be all feminine colors even red is a feminine color you can do red if you don't like pastel keep it jewel tone but don't do Barney purple you could do like pretty green and we're freeing if it's tasteful because you know some of those greens you know are a little bit too much just as long as it's tasteful you know I'm saying but make sure that you're keeping it classy and sexy don't skip the sexy because if you look too classy dopey you know like well maybe she's not really exciting maybe she's not that exciting so make sure you add a little bit of sexy so they can at least be turned on when they look at you okay most of the time the best way to catch them a man with money is not online it is out when they least expect it okay it's like they're just going to lunch one day and then BAM they see this beautiful woman at the end of the bar and they can't contain themselves you see BAM they don't want to be stuck in traffic on the way home from work so they stop into this spot for a happy hour hey I'm there you go you don't look like you've gotten off of work you look like you're ready to have some fun okay you don't look like you're gonna talk about your boring job all day you look like you're going to want to do tequila shots or you know talk to this guy and be impressed by him so that's what you have to you have to be you know become in order to attract the wealthy man don't be his business partner don't talk business with him that's not for you okay do that with your friends okay um [Music] yes I've been getting approached by random and random places by minute means I'm freestyling everywhere shooter you wear makeup to bed so James sees your beautiful in the a.m. no I James and see me all type of ways you know I look I look okay without makeup so when I go to bed it's not a problem Thank You Craig right pretty right thank you for the donation hello to you too yeah I've been with James 18 years so you know you know that's what I look like every which way all right um and it's still he said still looks good can I ask your favorite movie I don't really have a favorite movie because my movies watch movies for different reasons than most people so I don't really have a favorite movie hmm okay n okay so if you're going if you're trying to find a man of means you also have to understand that most men with money have lots of options that means you can't treat a man of means like a dust you see because they have too many options they don't put up with your BS they don't put up with attitudes they don't put up with crazy bipolar ness and because they could go get another one so you have to be having your plan already in place in order to execute it and get what you want out of that person or out of that lifestyle they're not messing around with you know playing you know silly games you know what I'm saying so you got to have your game straight up you can't be extra sensitive and emotional I guess we need time with you men with money don't have time to spend because they're too busy earning money you see so if you want to lay up and you know wait for vacation okay and you shouldn't be laying up anyway because they're gonna get tired of you faster if you're always over there they need to be able to miss you when they stop working or stop getting those checks and making business deals and so when they have a moment to think about you they're gonna go find you you see they're not gonna be like all calling you ten times a day because you know they're on a smoke break at McDonald's no they're not gonna be doing that because they're gonna be too busy getting that money okay so if you text somebody that has money and they don't text you back right away because then I don't a smoke break and McDonald's okay they're in a board meeting there are to lunch with clients they're doing a B C and D they don't have time for your pic Machinists okay so make sure you understand that and I have I have seen so many well he didn't text me back and well girl he don't care because you're not men that have a lot of money value money more than women which is how it's supposed to be you're supposed to value your ability to provide so that you can get a woman just without that you know buddy don't want you okay so if you're upset because a man plays a job for you or didn't pay you know call you back or you know pay attention to your text or whatever you should be happy he has something to keep him busy in earning money versus you know him always having all this time to make you feel secure yourself you know so get get in the right mindset first of all because poverty and Dylan an attractive brokeness is also a mindset okay if you're acting and treating that man like he's broke don't disappear I promise you can't treat him like a dusty because he he doesn't have the same life okay um you're all day texting back unless you're in junior high school and high school that stuff is old school okay get out of that nobody cares you know get that if you if you just need all that attention from a man to validate yourself get two or three of them get one to text when you're bored if you want to go out to dinner when the other one is busy and get the one with the money and he fit him in whenever he decides to give you a ring okay that's why you need three I keep telling you guys and sleep with none of them okay unless they start paying for everything and giving you everything you want and it's going somewhere serious you know what I mean what do you think about texting first sit do I look like I text first that's that's your answer do you look like you text first if you don't look like you text first thing you don't text first that's it that's it if you don't look like the type to text first and don't text first don't ask me no dumb questions go look in the mirror okay how exactly do you treat rich man um you treat them not like a child okay you don't really nag them you tell them what they want to hear because at the end of the day all you trying to do is get the lifestyle or the money they don't because you're very replaceable you know what I mean until they get hooked then after they get hooked you have a little bit more ability to you know kind of get what you want but in the meantime you need to play the role to get what you want okay otherwise you can't why didn't you call me back or do you care about me and all this stupid stuff well how come you didn't text me back i text you 50 times you know no you just have to be understanding let them do most of the talking you know don't try to be masculine and compete with them in any way they don't they have another that at work you know what I mean don't try to do business with them keep yourself as feminine as you can so that they can treat you that way especially when you want some money you know if they see you as a feminine helpless lady they're gonna help you versus a competitive know-it-all you know career woman they're not gonna give you nothing you see so you have to understand how to act in order to get what you want but not attracting a broke man requires you to get up and do something with your looks you go to the gym watch what you eat make sure you keep your skin right you know dress appropriately don't wear stuff you see on Instagram where a thousand dusties have liked it in less than two seconds don't wear that if you saw if you saw those dusty likes on it no tried to wear something that they know that they can't afford so they will not approach you not talking name brands but I'm talking class you know there's certain type of people that dress a certain way and there's certain people that dress another way super casual you know girls with sneakers and tight jeans and stuff like that it'll still look like teenagers in high school Dusty's will approach that if you're in nice heels a nice MIDI dress maybe showing a little bit of cleavage nice hair makeup done you know cute classy nails speech on you know correct and you know looking like you would never deal with that type of food they won't approach you because they don't want to get rejected okay so right you don't want that type of person approaching you you have to look like you would never talk to them in a million years and it takes effort to look like that especially if you've been used to trying to attract dusties for so long you gotta have to throw most of your clothes away mostly your accessories away and start over you know you're not gonna be able to wear sneakers out in public unless it's to the gym now gonna be able to do that anymore you know you're gonna define an alternative you're gonna have to really really step it up if you want to stop attracting dusties that's it okay um our hoop earrings dusty you know they are that's why you asked him okay the last time hoop earrings were in was back in the day when J Lo came out with Jai roll-on that song and then what was that the early 2000s or the late 90s that was the last time hoop earrings were okay and they were still dusty because you know it was still dusty but don't wear them you know dusty do you see rich women wearing hoops do you see rich wives wearing hoops and now I'm not talking about housewives er you know Love & Hip Hop I'm talking about out and about for real not too many and if they're wearing them they're not wearing them because JLo that's her signature she came out that was her signature that's why she rocks it you're not JLo that's what I'm trying to say but I say if you wear any type of hoops make sure they're small and not you know these giant hoops I don't even like small hoops okay mm-hmm right not even really like small whose anyway howdy have soft boundaries without the defensive miss oh you have to figure that out but I just want to pop in real quick and do this video because I think it needed to be said I don't want it to make a long video because I want people to really listen to what I said and get it together no no ghetto sunglasses no you know no ghetto attire you know no trashy attire don't have a bunch of holes in your pants all up your butt that that's gonna attract dust okay if you're gonna wear pants or jeans make sure you know you wear a top that doesn't make them look trashy you know what I'm saying right mm-hmm too many trends look ya know try to stay classic classic style okay your opinion for teaching them to value your time okay first of all if they have money they value their own time you see you'll have to get this y'all have to get this correctly your mind because a lot of y'all are not understanding you need to have more than one okay because if they if a if a business deal comes up versus going to dinner with you they're not picking you but getting the money okay just seek Thank You Erica do Thanks thanks girl for everything you look beautiful today I appreciate it to to to to Thank You Vera so just just use your brain that's it mm-hmm use your brain have happier yeah what's bad nail polish color food thank you thank you change alligator tail for real you like trying to stay within like feminine colors like pinks peaches reds neutrals cream stuff like that no blue neon green you know yellow none of that James delivers food to me only I know that what about veins what about me who dress appropriately you don't want to show veins don't show things they say hi James my live viewers say hello James probably not even this he's playing another room mm-hmm glitter polish around the holidays is the only only time you can really get away with that because it's festive mm-hmm and not super glittery it's like well if it's like a little glitter it's not really super you know super glittery I think that's okay but um nothing like super-dee-duper glittery unless it's like for Christmastime or something you know what I mean everybody gets festive around Christmas time um yeah yeah but yeah I wanted to keep this one short so that we could keep the information and really listen to it okay so thank you all for tuning in thumbs up the video if y'all are here Oh y'all already some stuff a lot but there's oh my gosh there's a 164 people here Wow um thank you all for watching I didn't realize um so I appreciate y'all like a lot it's getting ready to dunder storm I hear thunder but I appreciate you guys that sometimes I don't look at how many people are actually here but today I do so thank you all make up trying to keep it pretty but don't overdo it you know what I mean some people will overdo it looking like a drag queen don't do that okay but make sure you got enough of it on so that you do look like you have something on your face you know put together thank you um your growth your black tie a white girl she calls herself beige what I don't know what you want her to call herself I don't know what you wanted to call us I don't know mm-hmm anyway all right call her her name exactly anyway you say use drag videos for technique yeah but you don't have to go all the way like drag queens as you learn how to contour learn how to use highlight you wanna do your eyebrows you know learn from whoever you want to look like how about that you learn from someone who looks that you liked um I say learn from the drag because they're very extreme so if you don't understand how to do contour if you see the extreme version you're not gonna go like that crazy you know okay yeah see that's just an angle they're trying to get you know it's more it's easier to understand if you see it done in an extreme way then you can turn it down and watch because a lot of people don't understand the types of brushes they don't understand why do even contour but if you see it done for the for the reason versus just putting it on your face you understand what how powerful it is which is you know to give your shape your face um definition okay so just understand that mm-hmm thank y'all I appreciate it I'm good way to go so y'all have a good day and don't forget to stay dust free [Music]

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Published: Mon Feb 25 2019