How to end a dryspell (get girls & dates FAST)

oh what's up boys so everybody's been through a dry spell at some point I'm going to tell you a story about how I overcame a dry spell I had in the past and if you're wondering what do I mean by dry spell I mean a dry spell of we all want it but not all of us can get it so I definitely couldn't get it a couple of years ago I remember coming back from doing a pretty badass job I was a forest firefighter for the government dude I flew around the country put out fire in the bush pissed on trees humped Bears you know did all the crazy outdoor wild man stuff I was living the life for a bit I had nice long flow and I was a bit of a weirdo other people at work didn't really like me cuz I just talked about random that they didn't really care about but anyways I came back home and I just spent months living in the bush so I was pretty socially right I hadn't talked to my friends in months I didn't really stay in contact with a lot of them because I was just constantly going without internet and and uh I came back and the first thing I wanted to do was like any logical man get some oh God like when you're in the bush for months of a time with no puss dude it's tough there's a couple different things I did in order to get out of the dry spell and I'm going to share them with you in this video because whatever situation you find yourself in maybe you didn't just go and hang out in the bush for a couple months but maybe it's been a while since you've been with a girl I'm going to teach you the fastest way to get access to girls and hopefully get into a fulfilling relationship but at the very least just break that dry spell bro get some or as my co-workers used to say get your dick wet anyways let's begin so the very first thing that you need to do is rush into things in one way but not the other here's what I mean by that most guys when they're desperate for they just do like the most stupid stuff ever they give way too much attention they're willing to like buy for girls do their homework they like fail all tests as soon as a girl shows interest in them they make themselves available every single day of week basically they show desperation to the girls what I want you to do is have the same desperation but don't show it to the girls just keep it to yourself okay and here's what I mean by this come up with some kind of agreements to yourself like I will approach girls every single day like let's say you run into a girl right you meet her at a coffee shop you guys are sitting next to each other she's on a computer oh what are you working on oh cool oh that's awesome I have a friend that does that and she's like oh what about you and you're like ah blah blah blah and then you guys you know hang out for a couple minutes and then you're like actually I got to get going but uh here take my number and we can grab coffee sometime she's like yeah sure and then you go home and you just imagine you and her together and her big boobs on your face and you just and you have one of those dreams right we've all been there I do this still but anyways that is what most guys man what am I talking about I totally lost my trail thought what the titties come no oh okay anyways anyways okay sorry remember what I was going to say now so that's what you would like to do meet a girl like that right so let's say you go on a date with her now and she's like oh like so you come to this coffee shop often and you're like no actually I just spent the last 5 months jerking off on the foreheads of squirrels in the forest and I came back and I had a massive dry spell my cock's been dry for months so what I said was I'm going to spend 4 hours a day cold approaching girls in public settings like grocery stores and coffee shops and parks and make it look like it was accidentally we bumped into each other until finally I meet a girl that will say yes to me and then we go out on a date and hopefully I pay for ice cream and she sucks my in the backseat of my mom's car she's going to look at you and be like what the dude you don't tell her that you don't tell her that you're desperate you don't tell her that you're doing an hour of cold approaches a day you don't tell her any of that stuff however you take that desperation and tell it to yourself you go okay I want to get girls so I'm going to make sure I spend one hour per day putting myself in an environment where there are girls okay don't tell them or let them know you're desperate just be desperate to yourself all right now if you do this long enough one thing you're going to pick up is you're going to learn where the girls are where to go in your city what time of day to go I used to go to this bookstore on week nights and there'd be a couple girls there nothing crazy but on weekends it was like a circus bro everybody in the area was coming there to read books get coffee with a friend go there work on her assignments or whatever like there was just constantly girls there so I'm like okay Saturdays 10:00 a.m. till like 12:00 p.m. I know where to go okay same with downtown which brunch areas are all the girls going to meet with their other girlfriends to get brunch at what parks do they have like yoga class where are the festivals at where are like the uh you know just areas where there's lots of girls so in order to find out where they are you have to spend a little bit of time finding them you have to spend some time each week going out of your way to find out where they are once you know that they're there then you start approaching them now you might be wondering oh well what do I say to them I get it it's tough so before you do that go and talk to guys every single guy skips this step they're like oh there's a girl I want to go talk to her but I just getting my own head and I'm nervous and I don't want to say anything to her and then I'm like did you approach a guy first and they're always like oh no why would I do that and I was like because if you talk to a couple guys you get loose you get warmed up you're more used to a approaching strangers and starting conversations with them then when you talk to a girl it's so much easier but guys don't think that way okay so that's the second step talk to some guys so you got that so far go around find out where the girls are actually put effort into it okay don't expect to just walk into a supermarket and every aisle there's a baddie okay if you go to certain stores there are like those organic stores the goodness mes and you know uh what's the one in the states where they they just have healthy all the time I forget what it's called but there are good spots where you can find girls in grocery stores but again what you guys usually do is you spend like one hour on a Thursday afternoon where it's raining outside and you drive around in your car and you pull over on the side of the road next to a park and there's nobody there and you're like oh well I guess it's back to dating apps for me like you Knuckleheads you're not putting in enough effort scouting to find out where girls are that's the most obvious one okay and if you really want a game the system go to a bar or a nightclub because there are literally dozens of girls there because that's what attractive girls do they want to be seen by others so they go to bars and nightclubs go there on weekends go to the patios where they open up early well I don't have anybody to go with good go there and make friends with other guys that are there go and meet a girl there by yourself put yourself in that situation and see how you can handle it most guys are afraid to do that that's why they never go out you don't even have to drink you just have to be able to talk to people drink helps but again this is just ending this dry spell as fast as possible okay cuz now you're in an environment where there's also girls that are looking for potentially hookups one night stands right one night stand implies you guys never knew each other and you might not ever know each other afterwards and if you're looking for something more serious you're probably going to want my advice earlier about going to all these different locations so you can kind of be around other girls but to end this dry spell you want to be within proximity of girls that's the most important thing next thing you want to do is talk to a bunch of guys to warm yourself up that way you're used to talking to guys and it's not such a big deal to go and approach girls because it's just like approaching a guy except it's got boobs and a and a cute face okay next thing you need to do is do a lot of approaches and I don't mean ask every girl for their number but make the approach start the conversation and based on the vibe then you can ask for the number what most guys do is they try to go for the number every single time there will be a girl that I'm talking to that I clearly know is just waiting for the conversation to end because she doesn't want to talk to me or she's waiting to tell me that she has a boyfriend and I'm just like okay well I'll see you around or I'm like yo we could be friends or I just leave you know but what you guys don't do is you don't know the difference between a girl that's interested and not interested so because of that you approach every single girl right and you keep shooting your shot thinking it's going to be like a denmo video like oh I don't know you but I want to you're just thinking that like that one secret cool line that doctors hate is going to work every single time it doesn't because of that you're not learning you're just spamming lines okay what you need to do is talk to enough girls where you're having basic conversations and when a girl starts to show you signs she's interested in you like she's fixing your hair making eye contact she's asking you questions she's stopping whatever she's doing and giving her full body Direction facing you now she's actually interested now you can tell oh she actually would like me to potentially ask for her number this is when you know the difference between her just being friendly and her actually being attracted to you and that is when you start to talk about a date and here's the thing most guys they instantly go okay well uh let's Let me give can I have your Instagram give me your number no no no why would she give you her number before you guys have established what you're going to do together that doesn't make any sense what do you want to just text me that bro what you need to do is talk about activities you guys can do together so like oh so what do you usually do on weekends oh that's cool actually I was thinking about going there this week too yeah how about this how about we go do that how about we go bowling how about we go get sushi whatever it is doesn't matter if she's into doing that with you then she'll be like yeah okay that sounds good take my number or you could be like okay cool here take my number right but first you need to get her to imagine herself with you doing the thing together then that is a date that you're agreeing to then the number makes sense okay now the reason that I'm preaching this to you and it might seem basic you're probably watching this video like oh demo you've already said the same a million times before yeah it's because it works okay you just need to be able to execute this fast okay let's think about it logistically 30 days all right if you spend one hour a day over the next 30 days cold approaching looking for areas where there's girls going up and talking to strangers guys and girls and then eventually having good interactions with girls where you can tell that they're interested in you based on the way they respond to you starting a conversation with them them and the things you talk about then you suggest an activity for a date if they have a boyfriend they say well I'd love to but I have a boyfriend or they say they're not interested but the ones that don't they're like yeah sure I'd do that you exchange numbers with them and then you guys go on a date together and then you have a rotation of two to three girls that you're going on dates with and then the one that you really like that you could see yourself spending more time with you choose her and you tell the others hey I don't want to see you anymore or you know you leave it open you just ghost her or whatever now within literally 3 to four weeks you have a girlfriend and now you don't have to go on a dry spell because you can consistently get some poon a couple days a week every single guy watching this video right now or girl that's in a relationship they are at this point too they're like okay I wanted to have sex regularly with somebody I like so I put myself out there sometimes it takes a couple months but eventually you get into a relationship now you're with that girl that you like and you have sex a couple times a week so no more dry spell you got punon coming in steady but guess what guys would rather like half ass it get dating apps fail jerk off play video games not go out of their house more than like one hour per week and they'll rather do that for like six months to a year before finally accidentally stumbling into a girl and getting a date set up then just getting it over with as fast as possible 1 hour per day for 30 days dude I'm literally challenging you right now 1 hour per day of cold approach for the next 30 days I'm telling you you'll have a day date within 5 or 6 days okay but most of you guys don't want to do that which is why when I offer my product socializer school that teaches you how to attract and get girls within 60 to 90 days get a fulfilling relationship also we just added a course on how to build a Social Circle how to start a YouTube channel I'm continuously adding a lot of value for you guys so you should definitely join socializer school we got more than just girl in there it's like an amazing course and we also have weekly q&as and you can talk to me and you know bunch of cool stuff in there guys would rather throw their money at that and then have me tell them the same thing on a weekly Q&A than if they just were like hey why don't I just leave my house an hour a day I swear half you guys you just want to have me in your corner as if like you're in the boxing ring and I'm there like oh throw the left hook yep yep keep your hand up you know you guys want me there in the corner fighting with you I get it it feels good but like you don't actually have to join the course to do all of this it's just a matter of if you spend money on something you're like okay now that I spend money on it I have to watch the course modules I have to show up to the q&as and I have to get my money's worth so if you join my program or you buy my product and then you don't leave your house and you don't get any girls you're going to be angry at yourself you're going to be like I wasted my money and that is exactly what it takes for guys to actually go and approach girls sometimes you just have to throw money at a program you have to give money to a guy and be like all right now I paid for it I actually have to do it and that's the way I set up the program there's challenges there's homework it's like school there's tests there's like you know assignments and stuff like that and there's like a system that you follow and then once you practice it learn it and you can replicate this with guys and girls you can build Social Circles you can get a girlfriend and you can solve your dry spell so now that you have the proven time you've done this in the past like okay I followed denmos system I got a new group of friends I got a girl that I can have sex with maybe you got a couple girls you can have sex with next time you encounter yourself in a situation where you're in a new city you get out of a relationship or something happens that causes you to have a dry spell you're like oh I know what to do now and then you can send me an email being like thanks denmo you solved my dry spell once again and once you have sex you can worry about all the important things in life like finding a fulfilling job starting a business getting really good at some kind of hobby of yours like kickboxing or guitar or piano or whatever there's a million different things you could be doing besides girls but until you find something that allows you to get that primitive caveman desire of busting a nut into an attrative woman that you're really attracted to you're going to be distracted from doing all that cool stuff how you going to save the rainforest how you going to save the baby whales how are you going to you know retire your parents if you can't have sex you know what I mean so again I get it it sucks being a dude you want a nut all the time I don't know about you maybe you're unhealthy I know there's every every once in a while there's a guy in the comments that lets everybody know how infertile he is by saying like oh I don't even care about women it's like wow bro you should go to a doctor and get your body checked out because clearly something's wrong okay maybe you're attracted to trees or something but I'm sick and tired of these guys that are like pretending they don't have sex drive the only reason any of us even exist the only reason there's houses roads businesses like the only reason any kind of structure or civilization exists at all is because as humans we want to reproduce and we channel that sex drive into other things all right this book I read the reason this guy wrote it is so he could get money so he could get the reason you have friends is so that you know that other people like you and they give you the confidence and you're like you know what I would also like a friend that only I get to have sex with that's also an attractive girl with a cute face and a big booty right why do we do anything sex everything in life is about sex until you get sex then it's about life and I'll end it here I remember one time there was this girl I was seeing she fit all the boxes she was gorgeous she had you know uh really interesting hobbies that I was like you know very interested as well she liked the same type of music as me she had this job she was like doing something involving like sick kids you know like just all the all the boxes checked right and I was like so into this girl and every Friday when I finished work I was like oh man I can't wait to go over and bang this chick you know I'd go over to her house we'd order pizza she'd have like the best snacks and we' you know put on Netflix and we just have marathons of sex right anyways I would be hooking up with her and I remember one day because this happened a couple times in a row I saw her I was like wait a second there's a pattern here I remember the one time I went over to visit her and I came right and then afterwards I'm just like I feel like playing guitar and she was like what and I was like yeah I feel like playing guitar I think I'm going to go we're both like naked here I'm just like oh like I just I just dropped one right and we're like naked on the couch you know her mom lives upstairs so like we're in the basement so like she knows what we're doing down there but um she's like okay well you know do you have a guitar I was like yeah I think I'm going to go home right now and play guitar and she's like you're going to go home what why I was like I want to play guitar and she's like oh like well yeah go get your guitar and bring it back I'm like no I just want to go home and play guitar and she was like okay yeah and I was all right and I left and I remember driving home and I'm like I can't believe I drove all the way out here and I was thinking about this girl all week just to get some and it's like as soon as I came I'm like wait a second what do I actually like doing I like writing songs I like playing guitar and I like being by myself at home so I'm going to go home and do that and it took me that happening over and over again for me to realize that and now I think that there's a healthy balance like you know I love sparring I love kickboxing but like I don't Spar eight hours a day I do it a couple times a week and I go light I'm not trying to get brain damage right and same thing with sex like I have sex now a couple times a week sometimes if I want to a couple times a day but it's like you know I don't need to anymore there's a balance in life and I think that far too many men find themselves in a position where they don't have balance and because of that they crave sex so much that they end up avoiding it you know all these guys online that talk about how they don't want to have sex it's because they can't get sex so they have to basically decide that they don't want it anymore right that's one of the laws of power grow contempt for what you cannot get you know what I mean all the people that say oh like money doesn't matter yeah they're poor of course they say that you know all oh modern women are the worst yeah dude if you were banging baddies then you wouldn't think modern women were the worst you'd be like oh modern women are actually like some of them are annoying but like not my girl my girl is cool why because you approach the right girl and you guys are cool and she's like again you don't have to date these bad girls there's great girls out there and you don't have to be on a dry spell you can get some poon dude it might take a little bit of work might take a lot of work for a couple of weeks but it's like how about this bro 1 hour per day for 30 days or one hour per week for 30 weeks I know what I would do I would rather do 30 days You' get way quicker results okay think about it this way let's say you were training to fight somebody okay and they trained one hour per day for 30 days you trained one hour per week for you know 4 weeks they would whoop your ass why because they were able to do 30 hours in the same time you could only do four hours it's the same thing with dating so if you want to end a dry spell instead of like why do dry spells even exist because you go a long period of time the fact you're on a dry spell probably tells me you only approach girls one hour a week if that but if you approach girls one hour a day you'll either go crazy and just completely drop off the face of the Earth or by about the seventh or day you'll get some leads you'll be like you know what I got girls now problem solved and then you don't have to approach girls anymore cuz you got your puss automated baby okay so that's how you end a dry spell now if you want to join my program that essentially helps you get girls build Social Circles start a YouTube channel like all the dopest stuff trust me really good program you can join socializer School link is in the description below but in the meantime let me know about that time that I saved you from that burning fire and about that other time where I removed that bullet from your urethra and that other time that I went and spoke a bunch of Japanese to an ancient master and because of that he allowed you to get free ownership of land on an island in Japan okay because I want you guys to be grateful for all the things I do for you so please tell me down below what I did for you recently and uh suck my see you next time

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Published: Tue Apr 02 2024