HOW TO *ACTUALLY* MAKE A GUY LIKE YOU!

hey guys what's up it's Josh so for today's video I wanted to talk to you guys that are watching this that have a crush on somebody and you're wondering how can you actually get that person to like you back there's a lot of you guys watching these videos I know that have a huge crush on somebody one of the hardest things to do is actually to get that other person to recognize you and notice you and then ultimately to like like you back and want to go on a date with you I feel like I get a lot of different questions and this is definitely one of the ones that like when I'm going through my messages I always see people asking like how do I actually get the guy that I really like to notice me and to like me back and so in today's video I thought I'd just talk to you guys about some of the different things that you can actually do that will make him like you and make him feel like he wants to like go on a date with you so so yeah I hope you guys enjoyed today's video if you do make sure that you give it a thumbs up also I was gonna wear a hat today because I didn't really like how my hair looks but Rick decided to chew the entire brim of my hat so that's great now if you're new to my channel and you're wondering like why my voice sounds like this that's because I am sick right now but if you are new and you're not subscribed make sure to hit that subscribe button also put a little notification bell on so that anytime I upload which I upload every single Saturday you guys will get a message and then you can watch the video so yeah hope you guys are having an awesome day I hope you guys enjoyed today's video and here are some different things you can do to actually get that person that you like to like you back alright so the first piece of advice that I want to give you guys on this is to put yourself out there I feel like a lot of the time when we like somebody or we have a huge crush on someone but they don't really know it yet one thing for some reason that we tend to do is we don't like to open up until that person opens up so I think that one thing you can do in order to kind of speed up the process of getting them to like you back into actually say it is for you to actually go out of your way to do something like set up a date or ask them to hang out or just like talk to them and kind of give them that vibe that you like them if you do wait around for a really long time it might start to feel and might get really annoying because maybe they aren't saying anything or you've been waiting forever and you're just wondering when it's gonna happen so I think that if you do want that person to like you back and you want them say it or tell you then I would say like just go out of your way set something up and go and hang out with them and make them get that message that you actually like them and then once they get that I feel like in return they're gonna give you some of those like feelings and words that you want to hear back so that's one thing you can do I feel like that's one of like the basic things that will work over time but it's just to get out of your shell a little bit and walk up to them and ask them to go on a date or do something like that and I think that in return like eventually they will say something or do something to show you that they do like you alright so the next thing that you can do in order to get that guy that you like to actually tell you that he likes you and I think that sometimes this can be really hard for some of us because we like talking but one thing that we really have to focus on is listening to what that other person says you've been for me like it can be really easy to be talking to somebody and just continue talking about like random things and talking about like different stories of things that have happened to you and for some reason we might forget sometimes to actually let that other person talk and to just listen to the things that they have going on in their life so some of you right now can probably say like I totally relate to that because if you do like talking a lot you can kind of get like caught up in that and you totally forget to let that other person say something what happens is like if you can just like chill out and listen to them for a bit like if you can hear the things that remember what they're saying and then like a couple days down the road like wish them good luck on a test that they like casually brought up I feel like those are little things that guys kind of pick up on and they really appreciate it because it shows that like you're actually listening to what they're saying when you are going to like like somebody one thing that I think you're gonna pay attention to is like do they actually respect you and listen to you and care about the things that you're telling them and I feel like once he does get comfortable and he feels like you are listening to the things that he's saying then he might be more willing to open up and actually tell you that he likes you so that's another one I think listening is a huge part of actually getting to know somebody you want to have that feeling like you they care about what you're saying so that's the second one try to listen to everything that they're saying and talk too much so the next one I think is a pretty good one so like remember and to actually try to do this if you are wanting a guy to feel interested and getting that guy to actually tell you how he feels I think eye contact and I've said this in other videos before is one of those things that you can't really get away from like when you're talking to somebody you can kind of judge like how they're listening to you and how they feel about the conversation and all those different things based on are they looking at you are they holding eye contact with you are they staring at their phone all the time are they looking aware that it doesn't look like they're interested in what you're saying I feel like if you do go on a date with somebody at try to maintain that eye contact so that it shows that you're actually listening and that you're engaging in the conversation if so if you're sitting across the table from a guy that you really like and you're kind of wondering like is he gonna say likes me it does he like me at all like you don't really know I think that if you're able to have conversations with them hold that I contact that eventually he'll kind of see that like okay you're really interested in the conversation maybe he'll bring something up where he just casually says something about he has feelings for you or he says something along the lines of like he wants to see you more and I mean if you're not really looking at him or you're not interested in the conversation you might even miss those little hints that he's giving you so try to keep eye contact I feel like it's really important anytime you're talking to anybody but sometimes I know it can be nerve-racking and like sometimes you don't want to do it but if you are sitting across from somebody and you're on a date with them try not to look away too much alright so moving onto the next one I feel like it this one that can be really hard for some people to do but when you actually think about it I feel like it's one of the ones that's the most effective and something that like actually make somebody feel like they can tell you that they like you back and that's when you're straight up with your feelings and you can actually tell them how you feel about them and then if they have the same feelings in return then they can just like tell you straight up but I feel like sometimes people get caught up in playing that game of like they want to do things to kind of show that person that they like them but they don't necessarily want to just say it out loud and I feel like every once in a while that can be fun to do but over time like you is that when you do like when you can just open up and tell somebody how you're feeling that it definitely works a lot better than trying to like play the texting game or telling somebody how you feel is the best way to actually get them to open up and tell you how they're feeling so if you do kind of have that feeling inside of you that it's been going back and forth for too long maybe you just try to like open up and tell that person like how you feel even though you're kind of like putting yourself on the line at that point and you're just like showing them everything I feel like sometimes that can be good because then you'll actually get a response from them and you'll be able to see how they feel about you all right so last one and one thing that you can try if you do want that person to tell you that they like you is try to find out what they like try to find out what they're passionate about and then being able to ask questions and care about what that person likes is one of those things that gets people in a really good mood and one of those things about like when you see somebody that you really like and they put you in a good mood it basically gets you in that zone of being able to open up and feel comfortable and want to talk to that person about other things that maybe you don't talk to everybody about and when people are comfortable then they are able to open up more so if you do want to find out if somebody does like you find out what they like talk to them about it get in their comfort zone and then kind of like open up and be able to tell them how you feel and if you guys have known each other for a really long time this might be a little bit easier because you already know what that person enjoys but I feel like over time if you can figure those out but it will definitely help you when you're trying to figure out if that person does have those strong feelings back for you so yeah that's the last one that try to find out what they are passionate about and then ask them about alright so those are the different ones that I came up with for today's video I feel like sometimes it can be really hard to try to just like open up and tell somebody how you feel but I feel like sometimes it's even harder to get that other person to see how you're feeling to actually want to respond and tell you how they're feeling I've been getting so many messages recently on Instagram so I've been trying to go through all of those as well and reply to them so if they haven't gotten to yet I'm sorry I'm trying to get through them all it's a lot harder than it sounds okay but there are a lot so I will try to respond to all of them if you guys do want to follow my Instagram as well it's down below also the vlog channel you guys can subscribe to I feel like there's just so many platforms but if you guys already followed me on all of them I love you guys so much and yeah if you're new to my channel I know that a lot of you guys sometimes watch but you're not subscribed click the subscribe button and I will see you guys next Saturday for another video 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Channel: Josh Tryhane

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Id: XyN09z5_lI4

Length: 9min 10sec (550 seconds)

Published: Sun Jan 20 2019