(applause) - Alright, next up where's Andrea? - Hey Steve, so, I had a big
group of friends in college - [Steve] Say that again. - I had a big group of friends
in college and just recently, two of them got married and
I was in the bridal party, and I hooked up with a groomsman
and this is someone that I would've never even thought
of outside of friendship, and so basically after he kinda ghosted, and I haven't heard from him
and I just want to know why he made it seem like he wanted
more than what it really was, and I just want to know why
you would send mixed signals. - You wanna know why he
act like he wanted more? - Yeah! He kinda like,
it was finesse Steve. - [Steve] He finessed you? - Yeah. (laughter) - That's what we do. (laughter) - Nah. - [Steve] Nu-uh-uh. - Okay, well he could've kept it 100. - Did you just say uh-uh? - Okay yeah, but it was like
this was a lil' different and it was like my game is
up there, I got game too, Steve, so it's just kinda like - It's alright baby,
things happen like that. - No, yeah. - Yeah, it happens. But now he
went ghost and you, you mad? - Oh, no! I'm not mad at all. I just wanna know why
like, waste our time? We could've just kept
it 100 and been like, oh this is what I wanna do,
and I'd be like oh okay. You know, instead of we here today, and we're kind like, oh okay. I don't know if that
makes sense to you, but - It don't make no damn sense to me. (laughter) - It's like to me not every
girl is gonna be like, oh you're trying to
finesse me, da da da da, but at the same time, I wanted
the same thing he wanted. I just feel like, all that - Uh-uh, uh-uh, if you wanted
the same thing he wanted, then y'all got the same
thing each other wanted. - Right, right. - What he wanted was to
finesse you, get you caught up in the act, and he been
wanting to do something to you for a long time, and it finally happened. Did he say after this that
this was going to be ongoing, he had thought of you all these years, he's always seen you that way? You know come to think of
it now they getting married, I've been thinking about
wow, how come me and you ain't never went down this route? Did you hear any of that? - It was more - [Steve] Did you hear any of that? (laughter) - It was like I want to
grow up, I wanna slow down, that type of situation, not saying with me but that's what he was saying. - Whoa, whoa, you just
said the magic words. He said he wanted to what? - [Andrea] Slow down. - [Steve] And grow up? - Yeah. - But he didn't mention, who? - No, he never said, I kinda - [Steve] Who didn't he mention? - Me. - Ta-da. - Okay, okay. (applause) - So now your take away darling, is what I've tried to teach my daughters. See if a dude tell you
this is what he want, make him prove it, don't just believe him. All you gotta do is make him prove it. (applause) Now, you'll be okay from it,
everybody makes mistakes, you're fine, keep your level up, you look nice, you take care of yourself. Mr. Right is coming, just
next time you think you got Mr. Right just make him prove it. - Okay. - He'll do it, that's all, thank you.
