- Where's uh, Nika? Nicka? Nika? Nika? Okay, Nika. - Hi, Steve. So, I have this male friend
that's been pursuing me for quite some time now, but that recently changed due to the fact that I invited him out
with a friend of mine, a girlfriend, and they ended up having sex. Now, he's still trying to pursue me, but I just can't get over
the fact that that happened. So, how do I break it to him
without losing the friendship? - Didn't you say y'all
were friends before? - [Nika] Yes. - And he was acting like your friend but he was pursuing you? - [Nika] Yes. - And you kept telling him no? - [Nika] Yes. - So, what you need to break to him now? (audience laughs) - Well, he's still... - I mean, he's been
gettin' no this whole time, so now y'all go out with your girlfriend, he end up sleeping with your girlfriend. - Right. - But now, he's back to pursuing you. - [Nika] Right. - I mean, he was pursuing
you the whole time. - [Nika] Yeah. - Now really can't get mad about, How old is he? - 30. - But you do like the guy though now? - Kind of. - Naw, naw, see there's no
such thing as kind of like. See, what you did was you played your game way past the 90 days. Didn't I tell you about this? - [Nika] Yes, you did. - Now you played your game way past 90. Y'all probably been
friends for how many years? Just let me guess. - Seven. - [Steve] Huh? - Seven. - Seven? - [Nika] Yes. This man been pushing up
on you for seven years? That ain't the 90 day rule, you crazy. (audience laughter and applause) Here's what you gotta do. Here's the only way to fix this. You have to put it out your
mind that that happened with him and the girl. Y'all wasn't in a relationship. He been asking you for seven years, now I think that's a long time to keep asking somebody for something and they keep saying no and then you go and do something else. So, really can't get mad at the man. - [Nika] Right. - He did what most men
in here would have done. So I would say, if I were you, I'd give him a shot, but
you gotta block that out. You can not bring it up. Now are you gon be able to do that? Probably not. [Nika] No. - So leave the man alone,
leave the man alone, let him go and have somebody else. Just leave him alone cause you gon bring it up too many times. So what about her? We friends, you gon sleep with her? So when you gon sleep with my next friend? Naw, you gon, mmhh mmhh. Just let it go. - [Nika] You're right, Steve. - Now thank you, darlin. Aliya, where's Aliya? - Hey, Steve. So, recently I turned 24, and I've come to the realization that I haven't been on a real date before. And, as in real date I
mean being picked up, being courted, and I've noticed in my generation men my age kind of just
like to hang out and chill. They don't really like to schedule a time where we get together and
actually go out to eat. And, recently I started liking this guy, and I know he likes me back but he hasn't asked me out on a date. So, how do I approach that conversation without sounding pushy
or scaring him away? - Well, ladies, look,
it's not being pushy. Here's the deal. Young guys now do it the way they do it because you allow them to do it this way. (audience applause) - It's really that simple. I'm not knocking, I'm not
knocking millennials at all, all my kids are millennials, cause you're really the
brightest group of people that have come along in a long time. You all are absolutely brilliant. [Aliya] Thank you. - You just gotta, it's a
couple of things you all miss cause you're so advanced in technology. And dating is still boy meets girl. That don't change, you gotta
look in somebody's eyes and you gotta feel something. You can't text that.
