- Hey, Steve! - Hey. - So, as you can tell, I'm into fashion, I like to be clean, however, my roommate, who's also my best friend,
started dating this girl who is into Au Naturel, meaning she's not into brushing her teeth... - What?! - She's not into
deodorant, she's into like, herbal rocks and so now, my best friend, he has jumped on the band wagon. It's a shame, it's a shame. It's a shame. He's a muscular fella, he'll go right down to Planet Fitness, work
out, they got showers there. - Yeah, yeah they do. - He'll come home and
try to sit on my couch. I gotta run and put a blanket
down so he doesn't sit there. But, also, also, I'm from Pittsburgh, I got the windows open, it's
cold, I'm trying to give subtle hints that it's stinky in here. - [Steve] Yeah. - But I don't want to
hurt his feelings or hers, so I'm like, in a dilemma, and
I don't know how to approach this situation, I can't
live with it much longer. - No you can't, um, see, I don't know. I thought you was gonna
say they all natural, like they eatin' plant-based or somethin'. I'm cool with dat. Now, I think you're just
gonna, if you're his friend, you gonna have to be honest with him. And I think you just gonna
have to walk up to him... I don't know who think
you don't need toothpaste. (audience laughter) - You gotta, you gotta say somethin', man. - I know, maybe I'll just them a nice gift basket with some hygiene products. Happy Thanksgiving! - Yeah, I think you should. I think, you know what? The gift basket is actually a good idea. A gift basket with all the basics in it. (audience applause) And get two of everything, tell him to give it to the funky
lil' girl friend, too. Alright, where's Brandy? Hi, Brandy. - So, I'm single, I've never been married, I have no children, but
I've gotten to the point where I'm comfortable being single. Like, I take trips by myself,
I go to the movies by myself, I like enjoying spending time
with me, but on the flip side of that, it's like I
don't put forth the energy or the effort into dating,
especially, like online dating. When I do date, maybe one date,
never really a second date. Either I lose interest,
or I don't hear anything, you know, I don't hear back, so, I've also been told that
I'm an alpha female. So I had this older man tell
me that my presence says 'I'm not playing any games and
a man doesn't feel needed.' So, I just wanna know what do I need to do to soften my exterior to
become more approachable? - Well, I mean, let's just
go over what you said. You don't have a man, you're single, you don't have any children. You've gotten comfortable with being single, so you like that. So, you portray 'I'm good.' Once you portray 'I'm good'
to a man, he can not be the knight in shining
armor, 'cause you good. I mean, there's nothin' wrong
with it, if that's the way you wanna go about it,
but I'm just tellin' you how men are, men like to feel
like they can be the hero. Now, if you take away
the hero role from us, then what you want us to be? 'Cause I wanna be somebody's hero. Now, I don't wanna save
you and all like that, but I wanna be there, you
know, make your life better and then hopefully you make mine better. So I think what you need to do is, you need to change your frequency. If you want more people
to shake your hand, you have to extend your
hand to more people. (audience applause) If you want more people to love you, you gotta love more people. It's just your frequency,
it's a real simple adjustment. You'll get what you exude. And that's all you should do,
just change your frequency. You're an attractive girl, see right there, first time you done smiled. It's a smile! It costs you nothing to smile! You're a lot more
attractive when you smile! Kirk Franklin got a song out, say 'You look so much better when you smile.' That's the truth! Alright? Hey, you made it to the end of this video, I got a lot more that you're gonna enjoy, so just click to watch the next one. And make sure you subscribe to
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