- So, I've been dating someone
for about three months now. He just got out of the
military for doing four years. - [Steve] Okay. - I kind of feel like I'm taking care of him because his situation with the money part isn't going pretty well. He's not motivated to actually work for anyone. I don't know if I'm wrong for not wanting to be with him or what to do, really.
(audience laughs) - Well, I can just tell don't nobody else in here wanna be with him, either. (audience laughs and applauds) - He's a really good guy,
though. He's a really good guy. - I didn't see not one woman in here go, "Oh, well where he at?" (audience laughs) You got a man. He's not working. - Yes. - He's not motivated to work. Do you have to pay if you go out on a date? - Every time I go out on a date, I pay. (audience groans) Yes, but he's a really good guy, and I... (audience groans) It's the personality. I don't know if I should hold onto this relationship. - He's a great guy, he
has a nice personality. I'd be nice to people
that's taking care of me. (audience applauds) Hey, let me explain something to you. That nice attitude and
that wonderful personality, that get old after a while when he ain't bringing in no money. That get real old. Cute men ain't worth a damn when they ain't takin' care of business. (audience applauds) As a matter of fact, you might think this is prejudiced or bigoted, but I'm gonna say it
anyway. Ladies, I strongly suggest that you don't date a pretty man. (audience laughs) Try to find you a man that's at least attractive that you can stand. (audience laughs and applauds) Thank you very much. (audience cheers) Where's Mashaleek? - [Mishalika] Michalika! - What? - Mishalika, don't worry I've
heard every version of it. - Mishalika? Aw, that's pretty. - Yeah. But hey, Steve,
my boyfriend Braxton and I have been together for about a year. We're an interracial couple. I'm Guyanese. He's white. Every time we
go out in public together, people assume we're not together. So, for instance, I have
a cousin that's my age, same complexion, and the
three of us are good friends. And any time we go out people
think I'm with my cousin and not with my boyfriend.
And the other day his family came into town, we were
in New York at the time and we went to go see
the Statue of Liberty. And while we were waiting in line people kept cutting me
off, thinking I wasn't part of their group so
I'd literally have to be like "No, we're
together." What should we do so people know we're together or should we just not care about it? - I wouldn't be so
concerned about what people thought about my relationship as long as the two of you are happy together. (audience claps) You're not in this
relationship to prove a point. You can't worry about the world and what the world think.
Let 'em think how they wanna think and feel how they wanna feel. You know, a pastor told
me, he said the best way to stay married is form
a two handed circle. Two handed circle, you and your wife. Don't let nobody in that circle. (audience claps)
Don't let the kids in the circle. Don't let the in-laws in the circle. Y'all hold hands like this. I think y'all a good looking couple.
