Full Episode- Preston Vs Council:#BlameItOnTheAlcohol

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judge this is the case of blame it on the alcohol Thank You Nick you know I'm always fascinated by couples who are together for years and then after they get married they separate right away that's what happened here and I'm gonna figure out why Court is now in session the honorable judge lynn toler presiding good day ladies and gentlemen I'm here today with Merle Preston and the Kemba counsel the two of you have been together on and off for seven years married for one year you do not have any children together mister counsel is seeking fifteen hundred and fifty dollars from his president for a variety of things we will get to that momentarily but first I'm going to start with you mr. president why don't you tell me a bit about this relationship and why we're here today well I ask God to bring me a husband and he brung me a liar and a cheater after we got married it's been a whole year of hail so everything broke loose the reason why I think he cheated and I'm pretty sure he did and he's not gonna hold up to it it's because one day well three weeks into our marriage well into being in his house he kicks me and my kids out so he throws us cleaning out on the street and we leave and we go to Virginia and I take all my stuff with me and then his mom calls me and she said you you know you should come back down and see if you can work it out I showed up at his apartment he was at work and he left his door unlocked and so I started you know searching around turn around and I look up on the couch and it's five condoms in the couch three condoms that were magnums and two of them was like fruity condoms that you use for oral sex so he he tells I learned so much on [Applause] so I asked him I said so what's this about when he came home I was waiting there for him and I said so what's this about and he's telling me where I used those for Fifi I didn't know what a Fifi was and he told me a Fifi is when you put lotion into a condom and you use it for masturbation I don't know and I was lying you know I didn't I'm I could just google that mr. 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Council respond is that what happened or do you have a different version of those events yes that is what happened with when she came down after we got married she totally tried to control everything like and yeah I left my door unlocked because I was working at the place that I you know live that you know I'm a maintenance technician vibes at the time so I look at my door in like so like when I'm on call I just go right back home so I come in there she didn't leave the condoms there nothing like that no she ripped all of a month and had him right there on my table right and but when she came there you know she tried to control me every time examples of some of the things that she did that were controlling oh she breaks in my email uncontrollably like she goes on Facebook I don't even have my password to my other Facebook but she does and she calls me on Facebook for my other Facebook page then she goes to my Google look down everything in these things that she find that's really really old you know anything she just come up and now I'm like yo you got to do this way you got to do it like that like yo give me some examples you got to do what Oh like like um like count the money again not that we had to rent like we counted it three times one night every right before we paying the rent the next day I got paid so all we needed was like 20 more dollars counted again so with somebody gonna do come in the house and steal 20 or 40 dollars and leave did you get married to this man and lose your mind and decide you had to control the end the only thing that our control was the bills because he out like paying the bill me days later is okay I like to pay bills befalling time long time he liked it he low fee and then we got to be worried about whether we got somewhere to stay we got to be worried about wasn't got electricity or water because I like you don't want to get kicked out I work there oh it doesn't matter I want you to take a moment oh my god open your mind wide like a prairie mm-hmm what you did marry him did you fight did you cry - just hang on to the yes she did now that's one thing you interrupting a judge I know you interrupting your man that never works out try to hang on and manage everything from A to B to C just just step back from what you did and think about it did you no I did not I tried to cater to him and be good to him but him and his ways he didn't want that he still wanting to batch of life he wanted what things he did that indicated that he still wanted a bachelor life he was still drinking all the time he would get drinks like Mary Beth no he was getting drunk to the part of no return she'll be like you would see him he was using his paychecks and - about all these drinks getting backed up on his bills and everything he wanted a bachelor like he didn't care about having a family he didn't care about having us there he didn't want to secure me he didn't want to secure the boys you know I understand what the five inch TV the first day boom TV [Applause] a big TV no no my kid was playing on the boat and he made me stay in birthday it wasn't a UH it was the own purpose and they'd like somebody that BAM I hit I got you I got you mr. Council let me ask you this do you drink a lot yeah I do miss Preston are you working the man to death in the bed when we were first together for a year and a half we had sex all the time does your drinking or whatever else you're doing recreationally impede on your ability to pay bills no but no it doesn't but oh I come home I got a look I gotta come off of work right I didn't go back to work again cuz she wants some sex and that's every day that's every day we get in the argument she won't feed me I come in the house one day it smell like good steak and everything like I'm like man I'm about to eat and like oh I go in the kitchen it's nothing in there I go in the oven is nothing in there I'm like damn wall the fool go she was like oh I made short planning a sandwich meeting there for you so they ate a good meal and left you with a sandwich yeah I had to fix the sandwich because of her she said oh you don't get you and get treated right because you don't get treated right and let me ask you this as gently as possible a wife asking for sex is usually a good thing [Applause] open to whatever you you're in stations not the basic sexy on it got has to go on for you one two-minute period then we take a break [Applause] are you working the man to death in the bed look when we was first together for a year and a half we had sex all the time at st. bracing between I will feed him I'll go cook something up real nice you know it won't wash them like my ain't got none nobody will but you ain't going to win you is alive [Applause] [Laughter] [Music] when you put her out after three weeks what specifically was the thing that made you ask her to leave oh because she was controlling everything right yo she were paying no bills she come there like we're gonna pay this right now we're gonna do this right now and then she just was just I didn't know like y'all she's the sweetest thing in the world but she turned into the devil do you pay bills late so you have to play it like that was gonna kick me out I was the maintenance supervisor yeah but you know the late fee is stupid days yes my boss is mad she'll do it she'll charge me late fee but then it'll be right back on my check like y'all lose and then she was like you better stop before I evict you for real I was like yeah right like that cuz I know she won't gonna do it have you kicked me out I was knowing the one working there everybody else quit so you're gonna kick me out and didn't wanna go at back to work out that you kicked me out you when you broke into all of his electronics mm-hmm did you find that he was doing something inappropriate yes I did what was he's doing and he was asking people could he you know Dave no somebody had here mighty hacked my phone here's today's viewer question how do I turn down a friend request from my boyfriend's mom share your thoughts online and stay tuned for judge Lin's answer what did you find okay so he was text message somebody back and forth not knowing that I had got into his little arm social app so I'm in there and I'm looking and this was recent just won't like later on what was he doing and he was asking people could he you know and I told her before she even broken it she was like why Jordan it cuz I'm telling people this is not me you know I mean this is not me but dear one time I did you know I did like that I was gonna see if she was gonna come for real for real but I gave her the address across the screen I sitting across the street to my homeboy because like y'all me and him will be from that time I see what you're doing like you send a prank you just sent a prank woman why don't you tell me your version of that event okay so when I checked into this email that he was sending to this female right he sends a picture of yourself in the same bedroom I was staying at a he's got a mountain front good know he was sent a picture of himself and in the same bed with a backdrop in everything no he won a new book the address of his mama woods up there his mmm-hmm then they get missing so it's a time frame in between that was missing and then next a text message the next day is can't we do it again know if she learned no again say young money I see him $50 cuz he said I ain't got no money I need to get on the bus and I was like all right so I said I'm 15 months of $50 man this girl said she needed the gas money in order to come and get him he had to use my $50 to go over there because he got missing for two days I called him back to back so $50 gonna ask me for two days get into her house okay nothing that my understanding is that you say that he's abusive yeah and that is a verbally abusive when he's drunk yeah and that you have bought evidence there of yes I would like to hear it then oh my god oh yeah yeah you call it in the city dumb and a lot more in the city don't there's nothing you can come back here for all the TV's gone everything there everything I came with it goes in the city don't you think you home trying to run and rule somebody suddenly I can break my own stuff I brought all those no we bought its again so you broke your own stuff yeah before she can get to do it what am I about to tell you that is huh what am I about to tell you that is that's challenges and that's the stupid tales you gotta pay everybody twice for something you only have warrants yeah what was the final straw what happened a week ago that that brought you here he up and left he just straight left I did not know what was going on he just called me on the phone what are you doing and I was like I'm out here doing you know my work orders so then he got mad because I left him at the house and I went back to my mom house with the kids I'm not bringing my kids to chaos I'm not bringing them to that that drunkenness right so um you can't drink with me no but I don't be acting crazy you'll be acting crazy but you're both drunk he just immediately just the mean crazy verbally abusive John next sometimes silence and inaction are the best answers you have if you have a question submit it online with the hashtag ask judge Lynn divorce court we'll be right back mr. counsel I want you to explain to me why you want one thousand five hundred and fifty dollars and what it is you have in your hand that you believe will support that claim now tell me why what do you want the money for why you think you should get paid all the bills your honor uh-huh she cut all the services old Bob in the house she called the light people nerds there yeah it's pretty old and all next thing I know the whole phone number reset the Android man like this locked it all down like the dog did you take the water be off next I'm watching TV in this in your service please call this number some old stuff are you ready Nick I'm ready for you Muriel says the water will be turned off next week he says so you gonna do me like this after 8:00 all the bills she says and the water will be off tomorrow and then the cable will be off the next day I'm still here so I'm supposed to be homeless in a city know nothing about divorce papers next week I was I was concerned about me having something to drink nerd thing you know my mama told me to do she said she's probably gonna cut it off for real go in the bathroom and run the water in the tub so you when you got to use the bathroom oh did you cut off services that he had already paid for yes I cut off everything wait we jointly paid for a lot of stuff so he can stop lying on everyone joint they dare you was gone I left because of the utility bills anything you want to cell phone bills that she to cell phones that she broke yeah she threw that off the watch to [Applause] show me help me out no I don't have an on table but okay you weren't ready to get married taking on a wife and four kids is a big job I think you two had a good time together great sex y'all get lit up drunk and that you know this is a good situation but you weren't ready to do the married thing you didn't think it through I think it's good that you separate I hope you remain friends no extracurricular sex women do that a lot of no extracurricular sex mister counsel you are a ho you're a fabulous woman and I think you'll both find other people to love there will be no recovery in this matter it is so ordered you admitted it you're a drinker all right we're gonna cut back on alcohol a little bit what yeah I'm gonna cut back she got to stop buying it though schuhe be by more than I'd be back so you gotta stop drinking period thank you very much good luck to you guys [Applause] you [Music] you
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Channel: Divorce Court
Views: 526,970
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Keywords: Divorce Court, divorce, marriage, Lynn Toler, lawyer, television show, reality tv, judge, 3517, Dating, Love, Relationships, Couples, Cheating, infidelity, Comedy, Drama, Court TV, Romance, Bride, Groom, Wedding, Alcohol, Bachelor
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Length: 19min 30sec (1170 seconds)
Published: Tue Sep 10 2019
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