FORMER SUBSCRIBER MOM REACTS TO MYKA STAUFFER 'RE-HOMING' HER AUTISTIC ADOPTED SON

hey guys so I'm sure you've definitely heard about my cast offers decision - rehome her kid her child her adoptive son oh my gosh I just had to jump on here and basically give my food for four because I'm so worked up and I've just been it's just been completely flooding my YouTube this is a family that I've been following for so long and my heart went out to her I watched her like during my life and really invested into her she was like up there with my top favorite family and of course I know like a lot of followers followed her because of the adoptive journey and I just why don't you give my two cents from being like a follower and I know that a lot of people who have been sitting down and doing these videos don't know that story but for people who have followed their journey I feel like a lot of people are just as heartbroken and just as shocked I'm shocked I cannot believe what has happened and I understand that you know adopting a child is definitely an emotional investment but what really gets me is that they had another baby guys they had another baby and then they gave this on up for adoption rehomed him and I'm just so frustrated and furious and angry and I can't help but feel worked up and I know no you know what there is no excuse for this this is like so inhumane I'm so against rehoming pets I'm I can't even I can't even imagine rehoming a child if you're adopting a child you're adopting them no matter what condition they come with the fact that he knew it's been stated in previous videos and she ignored the doctor that makes me even more angry she was committed from him to the beginning she should have been committed to him to the end and the fact that they had money as well to know you know what even if you don't have money you still have to give it your all if that your child whether they are biological buffed or adopted you still are committing your life to them I just am so furious right now and it's just absolutely unacceptable I don't care what her excuse is I'm just so angry oh my gosh they have more teens than the average person they have three active channels with hundreds of thousands of subscribers if they couldn't have taken care of this child they could have hired help they could have like hired a nanny hired additional services they have the money to do it and if they don't then they need to sacrifice a lavish lifestyle and downsize because this is no excuse whether your child has autism whether they have another disability you do not give up on your child I know a parenting is so hard but they committed to poor huxley and I know like a lot of people of furious right now and I get it I get it especially when you are mom and you give you all you don't give up your child oh my god I'm just you know what a lot of people have touched base on their perspective and what they're going through but think of the trauma inflicted on this child I have no idea what it's like to be adopted I can't put myself in those shoes because I haven't walked that experience but I do know but it flag to have a separation anxiety and trauma from a parent leaving you and suffered it on my life and imagine just being this poor young child a baby toddler they're so attached to their parents imagine being ripped away from your parents putting this orphanage and given this family getting used to a certain routine children thrive of you routines and children on the spectrum need that additional help to become settled in their environment imagine then everything you've known being ripped away from you and put into another home oh my gosh I just have chills right now I cannot I cannot process this it's just blowing my mind I had lost so much respect for this family I'm just ready to unsubscribe I'm so so sad for poor Huxley it's like that exploited him I know a lot of people have touched base on family bloggers exploiting which I feel like you know that is that fine line between making money off your children and protecting their privacy and of course like you know for myself I implement a little bit of my son into my blogs but I make sure to really respect his rights but they fully made money of this guy's they documented the whole journey is the whole reason why they are as big as what they are and they just gave him up oh my god can we just like take a minute take a step back and think about this they adopted him they made money they got rid of him they've still got so many subscribers I am ready to unsubscribe because that is not okay with all of the stuff in the world that's going on right now they just gave up their child how do they know that the home that he's in is going to take care of his needs I know that they've kept everything private and they want to respect him but this is not how is it how are they respecting him when they've just given up on him imagine how he would feel about himself imagine the doubt and the trauma and the PTSD inflicted on this poor child he would never think he's good enough for anyone he will never think he's worthy he will have to go through so much therapy and they have just gone and sabotage this he was traumatized before but they've just completely traumatized him so much more and I don't care what anyone says like any excuses that they give to this family you do not give up your childhood whether they are biological or adopted when you're adopting you're committing they were a hundred percent sure that they wanted to go through with him they spoke to doctors who said that yes he has emotional needs that you may not be able to meet and they still continue to commit to him they had another baby ride this is what makes me so angry they had another baby and then what six months later he's up for adoption he's up for rehoming who even says rehoming he's not a dog he's not a he's not an animal you don't just read home you're a doctor child he's only just read home any child oh sorry rant over I'm just so so upset and furious and as a mother and as a family member of like like I have family members who have autism it so I get how hard it can be I put my hand out to parents who have children on this spectrum because it is hard but at the end of the day you do not give your child up no matter what the situation is I don't care if you making millions of dollars and that's not fit for your eloquent family you don't give a child up when you've committed to them it's just not okay it's like the worst thing you could possibly do and I I've lost respect to this family and I'm so ready to unsubscribe and it's heartbreaking it's heartbreaking to see what excuses they will come up with next and I'm I'm with everyone else who is angry and upset at this family because to document the whole thing to exploit this child and to make a profit of it I hope the money that they've made is going to go it towards this child and to support his future I hope that they've invested in him to him but who knows they have for our children for other biological children that they committed to but they cannot commit to their adopted child but join a job just don't do it and so so upset and I just had to jump on the bandwagon and express what it's like to follow this family and to you know I'm sure a lot of you are feeling a lot of hate a lot of frustration a lot of sadness a lot of you who have invested yourselves into this family and their adoptive journey and I know a lot of you are looking out to adopt or even foster in Australia it's about fostering but this is just so heartbreaking and I feel like it's a real real wake-up call to a lot of people that you need to follow through with your commitments no matter what I'm a strong strong believer that if you say something if you commit to something you follow through it so I'm gonna end it on that note I'm sorry for the emotional brand I just had to get it out there I had to give you a perspective of bought a former follower thanks and you know a lot of people who are commenting and criticizing and putting videos out here are people who don't know their journey but I have been following their journey for quite some time now and I'm just as upset as someone who has you know just figured out about this like if not more upsetting because I have invested my time into this family and you know it's just the thought of it just I'm so shaken up over this I just I'm in so much disbelief I can not believe that they've just giving up their child I had a new baby and then given up their autistic child because they can't handle it it was like there is no excuse [Music]

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Id: 3u_dUwEpXOU

Length: 11min 38sec (698 seconds)

Published: Tue Jun 02 2020